Life is much harder right now. I just got a report from our data collectors who lodged in an LGA provided lodge that their apartment was burgled and the burglars stole electrical fitting (sockets, wire, junction box etc). People are desperate. In 2001 Olu Maintain, in his song "Alo Alo", lamented about the price of fuel, 40 naira per liter. He, in his song, claimed people were suffering. Now the price is 600+ naira per liter. If people were suffering when it was 40 naira per liter then it means people are dying in droves as we speak. I was told that a person resigned his job citing in his resignation letter than his transport fare has taken up almost all of his salary so it doesn't make sense to keep working. If you are living in Ikorodu and working on the Island and you have to budget like 2k for transport to and fro. If you add 1k feeding to that money and do this for 5 days a week, 4 weeks in a month you would have blown 60k by month end. That is someone's salary.

As a Christian I believe in funding the progress of the church through church leaders but these days we need to turn our attention to our neighbors and those who falling behind due to the hardship. Let us be conscious of those around us that are suffering and help them with that seed. What some people need is just food stuff and charcoal to feed themselves and their children.

Our politicians are heartlessly evil. Yet some idiots will troop out to vote for a narcissist that will never feel their pain when the chips are down. We can bypass our politicians and reach out to those who are losing hope.

I wish there was a system to identify and reach those who are struggling so that well meaning Nigerians can reach out to them and render some help.

May GOD make it lighter for us all.

Jewessgratitud3:
A man has planned to run away from his wife and baby after he was seen pricing baby food and diaper and started sweating inside AC after he discovered the prices.

He called his family members right away blaming them for forcing him to marry, that now he's the one facing the heat and none of them is here to help him out.

Now check out the phone the man is using, not up to 4k. Check out his shirt and trousers.. is that the person you think can afford that kind of food? I'm not trying to degrade him. I'm just trying to say, make sure you can comfortably cater for yourself and one more person before going into marriage. This is exactly what the so many men who abandoned their family passed through before deciding to take to their heels.

Marriage is a beautiful thing. let's stop making it look scary and undesirable with our myopic approach. Do it when the time is right not for public commendation or validation cos when you start facing the heat, non of those people cheering you on will come and help you like the man rightly said.

It is this kind of thinking that will keep many many women single forever. More and more men are beginning to realize that women are only useful for making babies and hence if you must marry you must be financially buoyant enough to finance catering for yourself, a woman and a baby. Marriage is not just for populating a society. Marriage is primarily for providing support. If a woman is not willing to be an agent of progress in your life then marrying her will be the greatest, most foolish, mistake you can ever make. Stop marrying curses. Marry blessings. There are many curses walking around with round firm boobs and thick juicy butts with slim waste and nice oval face with full lips.

chxe:
It’s not even a year we handed the country over to a certain tribe and they have turned everything upside down. Very soon everyone would know that the Igbo man is not the problem of this country.

There is no country anywhere remember. As far as the Igbos are concerned there is no Nigeria but there is Ebonyi, Abia, Imo, Enugu and Anambra and I assure you that Igbos are the worst enemies of the Igbos. Na una dey do una sef. Na una dey collect statutory allocation and na the same una dey squander the money.

Racoon:
https://punchng.com/nef-raises-concern-over-state-of-judiciary/

"Recent controversial court judgements pose risk to democracy" - NEF
https://tribuneonlineng.com/recent-controversial-court-judgements-pose-risk-to-democracy-nef/

Imagine these old fools. When the judiciary was used as a weapon to favor them they were as quiet as a cemetery but now that it is the turn of another conman to manipulate the judiciary they are here spouting nonsense. You better calm down and enjoy the market you have bought.

This position is still open. Interested candidates should reach out.

officialwdhtv:
Lady in shambles, after a Chevron-based big boy pretended like he had network problems and refused to pay for their date.

#wetindeyhappentv

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid0mUvsSAHuWG2PdfsKouiJdUGZETBT55cyuZRUZ36FsM39e63QcYL4o1Mv5ZaNmQsl&id=100075815328460&mibextid=Nif5oz

Very stupid lady. You didn't feel comfortable going to a guy's house and you didn't refund the Uber money he sent you. What a stupid girl. I pity the stupid man that will marry you in this condition that you are in.

guobe:
The genz baddest girls are now many in our society and this is one of them.
Their oga kpatakpata of genz wore one some days ago exposing everything and indecently dressed and alot of people on X formerly twitter were even in her support.
We are now in the era of sodum and gomora where anything goes.

Poverty, parental absence due to the fight against poverty and harmful influence in the absence of parenting over at least two generations will generate a society full of ladies like the one in the picture. Poverty is at the root of it all. Poverty has resulted in more and more parents, fathers and mothers, working all day. Children no longer get parental guidance from an early age and instead they are trained by tiktok, instagram, twitter, facebook and youtube influencers who are under no moral obligation to produce wholesome content. If this happens across two generations then your society is toast. Tell me what this lady on bike has to offer her future kids?

ladybak47:
I am urging the government officials to legalize homosexuality and help curb this predicament of ungenuinely conforming to this useless heterosexual orientation.

Failure to do so will turn us into monsters.and we will wreck any straight man or straight woman to pieces or even kill them

Warning!
Warning!!
Warning!!!

Come carry your werey go US, Canada or Europe...they will receive you with open arms. If you must stay in naija then practice your crap in secret or go for deliverance. As for the 3rd alternative na your body go tell you ohh.

Gwin007:
Good day nairalanders.. please I need advice on what to do.. am married with three kids, 5, 3 , and a year old.. I own a bussines.. but for now my bussines is down, the has been very good and lucrative.. but due to lack of capital to invest more on it. It was now shaking.. but the thing now is that.. I have the capital to invest on the bussines.. but now am saying should relocate abroad with the money and leave my 3kids and wife back home or invest on the bussines.. cus am traveling with a tourist visa and it’s a Europe country and I don’t how long it will take to get my papers over there please Nairaland I really need ur opinion not make future mistakes

Thanks

My guy do you read international news? Don't just move like that oh. You have to calculate your net benefits before making a decision. I don't know what you intend to do abroad but if you don't already have a business abroad or a ready job waiting for you I will not advise that you abandon small progress made at home for starting from scratch in Europe. Also how sure are you that your wife will manage the business as you would or even better? Do your calculations here. Don't plan with what you hope to achieve rather plan with what you can achieve given your resources now and the hope on GOD.

Depending the area of residence of the candidate he or she may not spend a lot on transport and commission can raise the monthly pay beyond 20k. The cost of doing business is high. Pushing wages any higher would basically mean no business at all. The person wey dey recruit no be Dangote or Otedola, na dem fit pay POS operator 200k per month.

POS Operator needed

Minimum requirements:
*SSCE certificate
*Must be resident in the Agric, Asolo, Agbede or Isawo areas
*Must be female and no more than 28 years old
*Must have NIN
*Must have a guarantor that has NIN
*Salary 15k plus commission

For more information send a WhatsApp chat to: (08) 0302 1 417 9 (WhatsApp chat only)

TheBTCinvestor:
This is Kobojunkie fate in few years time

Alooone:
Hello

Am a 32year old lady with 3kids...and my problem is that my husband doesn't like coming close to me.

This year September will make it 1 year since we came back to the house after about 4years of separation.

I have some health challenges I.e I have been diagnosed with Schizophrenia/ Bi-polar disorder so my challenges are peculiar...

He doesn't come close to me, he feels my illness is more spiritual and transferable...anything I make the move to initiate sex first I am met with violence.

Sometimes he makes comments like "leave me alone"..." How are u that what is doing you is not communicable", "how sure am I, that those that are doing you are not after me" etc.

In the course of this 10years of marriage... I have had to endure up to 2years of no sexual contact and is telling on me....my psychotherapist says I need sex to calm my subconscious... Sometimes when I want to sleep or in the night...I see strange men or women that want to sleep with me plus other strange things etc.

I need help please

File Photo: For Illustration

Your husband has real fears. You need to seek lasting solution to your condition. If indeed you have dreams of people wanting to sleep with you it is possible those entities are responsible for the lack of affection that your husband has towards you and may be responsible for the condition you have. While consulting your psychotherapist you should also seek spiritual solutions. Sanitize your home spiritually. Install free-to-air decoders or check out live Youtube broadcasts that allow you watch and participate in deliverance sessions conducted in SCOAN, Champions Royal Assembly, Christ MercyLand Deliverance Ministeries, Mountain of Fire and Miracles Ministeries etc. Join NSPPD early morning prayers on Facebook, Youtube or Instagram if you can. Pray deliverance prayers before you sleep.

By GOD's grace you will win and I pray your husband comes around and provides assistance. It is not fair that you spend so long a time without intercourse.

hanson27:


Have never for once thought of doing crime cause I was brought up in a Christian home.......I'll rather do menial jobs, but the jobs aren't just available atm. Still looking up to God as am not relenting on my job search. Thanks

You know such jobs will not just show up and they may never be advertised. You need to actually meet with people, tell them your predicament and ask them that you need to earn a living. You might be surprised what you may encounter. It may even be an opportunity to hammer big time.

Catapault:


Does it even occur to you that the only reason YOU are not a muslim today is by accident of birth?

If you had been born in Saudi Arabia or Iran, or Gaza, you would be a hardcore muslim today. 100%.

So just shut up.

You can be a muslim and not be insane. The Quran has verses that can be interpreted to mean that it condones violence and the same goes for the Bible but the Jews and the Christians have interpreted their scriptures to allow for tolerance, mercy and non-violent means of resolution. Some Muslims also do the same and they do not interpret the violent provisions of their scriptures to condone violence...but there is a group of Muslims who are aiming at global domination and they pursue their ambitions using violence. It is this group of Muslims that are outright lunatics. The green prince, Mossab Hassan, the son of a Hamas leader, saw the brutality of his father's ways and rejected it. Is he not someone raised in a hardcore Muslim home and raised to be a terrorist? Let's drop this BS of the "accident of birth" and realize that a grown person can make choices. A grown person can decide to do evil or not irrespective of their ideological and religious backgrounds.

hanson27:
Good day Nairalanders, As times are definitely not nice at the moment, things are really hard, life happens and we may find ourselves at the point where we have to get help from others. Pls am humbly seeking for a job as things have really gone from bad to worse. Am based in Akwa ibom state with option to travel provided there's accommodation. I can work as a Housekeeper, kitchen assistant, Cleaner, janitor.....I also have experience in the hospitality industry as have worked as a Waiter, Barman and front desk offices in hotels. I'll greatly appreciate any job offer thank you.

My brother there is the hard way and there is the high way. The high way is to do crime, simple and short, but it will always lead to disaster. The hard way is to humble yourself, be bold, start small, commit to a minimalist lifestyle and look up to GOD. There will always be the house of some rich person that needs cleaning. There will always be working class folks that need to do laundry. There will always be tutorial centers that need to do advertisement like pasting posters and distributing fliers. There are people doing house construction who need people to monitor their project. Walk into eateries and ask to help with doing dishes and cooking. Keep going until you find something doing. Spend only on the necessaries. Keep your eyes open to learn, seize opportunities when they show up and above all draw nigh to GOD in prayers and do unto others what you expect GOD to do unto you.

OLAADEGBU:
I Quit My Job To Submit To My Husband

'I want to keep biblical femininity alive.'

Full Story

Only do this if your man is a husband indeed. If you married a beast, submission can become oppression...and leaving your job does not necessarily signify submission rather following your husband's lead and loyalty to him are the hallmarks of submission.

lovelilyn:
"Never you blame or curse me for what DNA test brought out. My husband can't perform at all, and I disclosed this secret by meeting other men outside for us to have children " - Tella Oluwatoyin Olarewaju reveals

Oluwatoyin Olarewaju Tella aka Mummy G.O, whose DNA test revealed out that her husband was not the biological father of all her four children, has revealed the secret behind this.

According to her, while addressing the group of Journalists at Ikire, in Osun State, she stated that she married her husband since 2007, and later discovered that he can't perform on the bed.

She spoke further that, she doesn't want this secret to leak to their church members and the general public that's the reason why she stepped outside to meet other men for sexual intercourse.

She also stated that the family should tell him to look for another woman and sleep with her to confirm what she said. "Let him or his family get him another woman and sleep with her, and confirm what I said", she said.

What a stupid woman giving a stupid excuse for a stupid act. If you are sure your husband is infertile why not confront him and/or leave the marriage rather you did the stupid act of getting pregnant for another man, who will definitely not want to take responsibility for the children and pinning it on another man. Now that you have been outed who will take care of the children? Some women should be given a Nobel Prize for Stupidity Sciences.

stopthecycle:
So my elder brother just got married to the Love of his Life. I got to know his wife's family about two months before they got married. The lady has a younger sister who is super attractive, intelligent and nice. We've been talking for a long time and got close and we really like each other.

But I feel we are doing something wrong. Is it okay to date my Sister in law? Some people keep telling g me it's a taboo. I need advice...

It's not a taboo. You are not related to the lady by up to 4 generations.

duduade:
May our daughters not turn into one of these shameless evil daughters

Amen...

May our parents be there to teach, guide, be truthful, intercede and offer sacrifice for the sake their children because if they fail their children will most like turn out like this. This lady up here is mostly like the failure of parents and/or guardians.

Truths9ja:
“The Biggest Mistake a Lady can make in life is to Marry a Poor Man” - Nigerian Lady reveals!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pr0LVVJ0SZs?si=XkUrxA6lETOJbrtr


https://www.instagram.com/reel/CzLeEvRINR8/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading

This is why I don't pity them when they marry a rich beast today, who yesterday was a broke fool, that bashes her teeth in and reconfigures her face with severe beating.

XerXers:

Cowardly people and their useless propaganda. After making mouth about invading Niger this nonesense propaganda is all you have after several months. Is Nigeria economy not in worst tatters?
Cowardly people from the waste region. You couldn't discredit the coup with anti igbo rhetoroics like you in the zoo. Shame on Ebola the coward. Shame on the tribe ruining Nigeria with propaganda and tribalism. Niger is waiting for 10million Agbado soldiers but all you are coming up with is this rubbish. I spit on the waste side people

Your rebuttal is sheer nonsense. That Nigeria is in tatters is not a response to why Niger is in tatters. Are you sure all that the OP stated is truly propaganda and that there is no iota of truth in it? Niger has always been at the bottom economically but this military coup will only make matters worse. Africans always think that violence is best answer to oppression but they always leave out the place of strategy. These coupists did not think through their plan to take over. Okay, you have taken over and the sanctions have followed what is your response? Nothing? Soon enough economic activity in the country will ground to a halt as most investors will take their money elsewhere and there will be no tax revenue to run the government.

I have a strong feeling that the soldiers to conducted the coup did not do so for benevolent reasons rather they did it because they were left out of the game and would like to have their cut but their plan was truly stupid. First they sat down watched their country become hopelessly yoked to US and France and their allies in West Africa and then they want to fight these same people they are dependent on.

Quality20:
so u mean teenage marriage is abuse? Hope u are aware that most young girls down south are so sexually active exploited and having sex with many men at the same time with some becoming baby mamas in the process, I wonder if they even know the men who impregnated them

That many teenagers are being sexually abused on a large scale does not make it a good thing that should be promoted and incorporated into culture. The earlier a girl becomes sexualized the higher the risk of her developing health complications, developing a broken heart and mind and becoming a poor candidate for a long term relationship. This is the case also in the north where teenage girls get married. They become VVF sufferers that are abandoned in hospitals or develop other health complications. Due to these girls not fully prepared for the responsibilities of marriage and motherhood they easily develop mental health challenges and may seek succor from hard drugs and this is evident in the north as well particularly states like Kano. Also, when these girls are worn out and spent, their husbands get another wife and they become relegated to the background. This could dramatically raise the libido of these ladies and result in them engaging in dangerous acts.

Sexually intercourse with minors is a crime for a very good reason. It destroys both boys and girls. It puts on them the unnecessary burdens that they are not prepared to bear and it makes them victims of themselves.

So whether it is happening in the north or south is irrelevant. The relevant conclusion is that intercourse with teens younger than 18 is wrong, it is criminal, it is evil, it is wicked and it is a society-killer. As for me the age limit should be raised to 20. That is when you start becoming an adult.

Anny69:
You already think every woman is like the females you have around you.

Aunty calm down na. Small play wey I dey play you wan dey enter me. I don't roll with oloshos and public toilets. Me and my sons will forever be dedicated to pious virgins and pious virgins only.

But you know deep down you will still jump into a man's jeep at the slightest provocation...you know...

Ebysblog:

Please and please married women should keep up with good looks. Keep looking hot! Don't feel too used to your husband and appear unattractive abeeeeeg

Ahhhhh see beauty na. Please this link is for everyone to see:

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cy3A61aN4j2/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Don't fool yourself ohhh. Cheating is the eyes of the cheat. No matter how beautiful you are if your husband has been sleeping around before you marry him he will keep sleeping around. If you like do BBL, do boobs, do lips, do all kinds of crap, he will still cheat with an ugly fool. Infact he go dey do mumu mumu for one dirty babe wey community dey manage.

So don't deceive yourself.

siofra:
Men should be classified as wild/dangerous animals because what is this

This poor, little girl brutally slaughtered and wrapped in cellophane bags like it is normal?

Nigerian men please change! Stop doing Yahoo and other atrocities, don't let anyone intimidate you with wealth. Have dignity and integrity. And ladies these are things to look for in a man. Please, character first before money.

One thing I'll never let anyone do is oppress me with money because I have my own path to walk in this life. I don't even like to worry about it, even when I don't have (and this happens a lot). Because money is nothing. It's important but you should never be desperate for it. Be patient and work for it the right way.

I was just like this girl in my 300 level, same body size and everything. I was even dating a guy I've been dating since my year one and I trusted him too just like her.

This could happen to anyone. Please be careful out there. This world is too evil😭 MEN ARE DESPERATELY EVIL

It will keep happening until we stop worshipping the god of money. For most ladies the one and only criterion for choosing a man is MONEY. If you like be as holy as the Lord if you are broke no lady will give you the slightest chance. Socially we respect the rich and not the wise. If a rich man talks rubbish most people will shout "word word" but if a broke wise man talks nobody listens. If you need to do some processing in the civil service of any state you can get it done under 1 hour if you dispense enough cash but if you try the official process it may take you 5 years to process. Walk to any NIS office with enough cash you will register, do biometrics and data capture and get your passport in 2 days but if you want to follow the official process you go need budget 1 year if you no careful. Even in church. Drive a Bentley to church and come out with your TM Lewis four piece suit and your IPAD Bible the ushers will likely take you to the front row and take your home address for follow-up but if an angel disguises as a poor man and walks to church in bathroom slippers ushers will direct him to the back. With enough money you can break every law in the book and get away with it. With enough money you can bang all the females in a family and get them all pregnant and nothing will happen.

Money is the god of this world and it governs the society, institutions and its people. Until we are free from the bondage of MONEY all these atrocities will never stop rather it will get worse.

Quality20:
I'm still wondering and can't understand this at all as a typical northerner. Do they need to gather so much sexual experience with various men before marriage to the lucky man or is it money they are gathering? Or is a lady with much sexual experience and body counts much preferred for marriage?

One, southerns frown at child abuse so they don't deem it fit to marry a lady younger than 18.

Two, if ladies aren't expected to do anything sexually until they are 18 they are encouraged to do other things like going to school, learning a skill etc.

Three, unlike the north where a man can marry and yet hit the streets asking for alms, no southerner in-law or intended bride will take that shit.

Four, martial ceremonies have become a source of income for many in-laws in the south and the economic situation hasn't been friendly enough to empower men to scale martial financial hurdles.

BlackhatMentor:


Stop being a dunce.


Of course those people are giving money and goodies to the pastor in a bid to make heaven why the pastor enjoys the funds given to Jesus here on earth.


The pastor enjoys the funds without Mercy.


They claim they have faith and believe in Jesus 100% but can never step out without a bullet proof car and heavy bodyguard

Men I thought you shone a spotlight on your stupidity. E be like sey you carry halogen light ontop your stupidity.

How many business people care about heaven. Lol. How many entrepreneurs give a hoot about heaven. These are serious people who have one issue or the other and we're able to find a solution in the church and this motivated them to donate to such ministries.

You actually think the wealthy people who donate to churches are as stupid as you are.



It takes a generous dose of stupidity to believe that rich, wealthy and powerful can be so stupid as to commit their hard made wealth to the hands of a conman consistently for a long time for no real reward that can be quantified in monetary terms.

SultanOfPuna:
O boy Religion is very sweet oo
Now I understand how these pastors enjoying

My aunt has been sending my mom $120 every end of month to help her sow monthly seed in adoration ministry
My mum travelled to UK
So my aunty sent the money to me to pay for both of them. $120 and $80

Jesus did not ask his followers for SHISHI
Instead Jesus feed them
Not a single time did Jesus ask his followers to pay tithe or sow seed..

So me personally I am a follower of Jesus
Not the follower of Old testament laws
Not a follower of the old laws of Moses
Which Jesus clearly abolished..

It's that time of the month again
I'm about to chop another $120

Since people refuse to read bible, let me enjoy and scam them well well Jare....

Until someone tells me where Jesus told us to pay tithe to church. I will stop

Till then, stay healthy My Stupid sheeples
This church business is easy money!!!!

I think you are the stupid person here who takes information at face value and does not do his or her research. Now let me shed some light on your stupidity. Mega churches are not built on your N20, N50 or N100 naira offerings they are built with millions, if not billions, of naira in donations from successful professionals in their respective fields. Take the Glory Dome as an example. You cannot fund the weekly electricity bills of such an edifice with N50, N100, N500 etc offering money. Now that fuel price has gone up this stark reality is all the more obvious. This means the donations that keep mega churches going are coming from big spenders.

The next obvious question is; if church finance is driven by big spenders and these big spenders are intelligent and successful people in their respective endeavors, how come they can be so easily bamboozled by church leaders consistently for a very long time? Any attempt to answer this question will put a spotlight on your stupidity immediately. If church leaders of mega churches are fake, false and ineffectual intelligent minds will not keep pumping funds into that church continuously for a very long time because you cannot deceive a successful business person consistently for a long time. Those that can be deceived are the poor and the gullible and these folks cannot contribute enough money to buy and maintain a tokunbo car let alone build such an edifice like the Glory Dome.

Odewaleadesoye:
What lesson can you learn from Alhaji Atiku Abubakar, Peter Obi and President Bola Ahmed Tinubu?

..that there are somethings that when they enter a place they will never come out until they are satisfied...e.g Tinubu Fellow Nigerians nothing wey una wan do. Tinubu go rule una for 8 years.

Enemiesmasquera:
Nigeria is gone

Gone where? Where Nigeria go? Dude we nor go anywhere oh. Na liadis we don dey dey for decades now.