Ehinjuola: My husband is not the same man I fell in love with.
My husband changed totally after wedding day, in fact, it started on the wedding night and its giving me a lot of concern.
It's not that he is not talking to me or we are fighting, but he is not the cheerful happy person anymore.
After months of trying to get what the problem is, he finally opened up to me and I don't know what my fault is, I think he is overreacting.
My husband works in an insurance company and he is just a junior staff, he earns 150k per month, so he is not doing that bad.
When we wanted to get married, my dad wrote the wedding list and everything he would bring, when he saw them, he fumed that they were too much and they should reduce it but my dad insisted that he won't collect it twice, I also told him if he really loves me, he would provide them, he could get help from his family too, it is called bride price and other things, and it is once.
We had little issue then but he later resolved it.
He brought everything they ask him for
During the wedding, my parents told him to buy a cow, rent a hall and decorate it then they'll take care of other things. He said he didn't have money for a big hall and he would prefer a field ground but my dad insisted that rain could disrupt things and he has many people coming.
That almost cause issues too, I had to support him with 50k to get the hall because I know who my dad is, he won't back out.
I didn't know how he did it, he took the hall and designed it, he bought cow too.
His family brought food and everything went fine and that was it.
I don't know what was keeping him moody until he spoke up.
He said I couldn't fight for him, I was there supporting my parents and watch them extorting him, did I even know he had to collect loan to pay for those things?
I got angry because he used the word 'extorting'.
He was the one that wanted to have my hand in marriage and if he cherish me, he should do all they wanted since he is not paying twice.
After I said this, he stopped talking in the house, he comes home, eat and go to bed.
I tried talking to him but he would listen but not talk, he is cold to himself and prefer his privacy.
Have I said something wrong?
I don't like whats happening. My marriage is too young to be going through all these.
I am tired, I don't know what to do.
LoL. No be you pay bride price but na you dey complain. Enjoy your cold marriage. Make it work.
beautifulsoul12: Good morning everyone. I have to create this account to post this. I can't even sleep at night lately.
I'm so tired and I need help right now. I have been doing this all by myself for so long now, without much complain but now, I need help. Before I got married to my husband, I didn't know he had a seasonal mental health challenge, but not violent.
I met him in the university, he was in medicine, he had dreams, very ambitious, one of the best in his department, Working his way to travel abroad to continue his education. We were just friends, but I liked him. He kept on asking me out, but I declined. I wanted to graduate first. We parted ways in year two. He changed school, so, I knew nothing about him again till years later. Reconnected with him years later after graduation, to my greatest surprise, he didn't graduate, wasted all his resources and couldn't travel out. We still love each other, so we got married. after the birth of my first child, I wanted to leave him, but I couldn't because he was a good man, but with too many changes and I was the only one who truly care and was there for him. Three years ago, he became much better. He got a small job, Started bringing in little for upkeep. I saw change and I was happy. We had our second child last year after 8yrs. Since early this year, the whole thing came up again. Since then, he became jobless again. The financial burden is all on me. Right now, we can't afford to renew our rent. I lost my business capital some times ago in wrong business, since then, it has been so much struggles.
I'm trying hard but it's not enough. I'm thinking of working away, but to where? what about my children? Who will be there for them? What about him? But I'm tired of being in a marriage where I have to struggle for everything, where I can not depend on my man. Pls, help us renew our house rent.
What do I do?
This is sad but the norm. By your admission, the man has been good to you when he is sane but for the mental health challenges he has. It is your responsibility to help him get healing. As with most mental health issues, it is most likely supernatural. You have to pursue supernatural solutions as much as medical solutions to help that man get healed from his disease.
I've been on my own since I was 27, so I'm supposed to live the rest of my life alone When I didn't kill anybody
Yes ohh. Spend the rest of your life alone. Afterall all men are scum including the one you are about to foolishly glue yourself to. You are here to seek validation for what you already plan to do. You are a single mother that is about to invade the home of another woman. Please remain single biko and leave all the scum men alone.
TheUnsure: I need sensible contributions please, no trolls.
I met a man recently who likes me a lot, maybe even love sef. He’s really serious and he wants to marry me but I’m not really feeling the whole thing for a few reasons.
He’s probably a dream come true for some women, rich, caring, generous and there is a possibility of him becoming a king in some years (which I'm not really a fan of, royal families, royal issues). But my issue is that he has a wife already but they don’t have kids (the issue is from the wife) and he wants to marry me as second wife because he does not want to continue waiting after 10 years of marriage. And I know he would give me the world if I have kids with him.
My main problem is attraction, it is not there. He has a small stature and I’m naturally drawn to tall guys. I’m taller than he is and I just can’t get over that. I know I would enjoy the relationship but I feel like I’m always going to be feeling like I settled. Please note, I’m a single mother of 2 in my early 30s and I’m not doing bad financially too. He’s been begging to be intimate and I’ve been responding with a firm No. I’m not interested in starting what I cannot finish. I know if I give in, I would grow to love him because he's actually a nice person but....
I told him No firmly last night that it can't work between us but this man has been relentless, I’m just wondering if I'm not making a mistake...
No insults please, sensible inputs. Thanks
So your main problem is not that he already has a wife and a home. Your main problem is not that you are about to be an accomplice to ruining another woman's happiness. Your main problem is not that you have little to no contribution to the current economic and spiritual standing of that man. Your main problem is not that you are about to enter a trap made of gold...Your main problem is looks. So if this man had good looks you would happily destroy the happiness of another woman.
Women are the worst enemies of women. Women beware of women like you ohhh.
Name Class "Ade" ss1 "Sade" ss2 "Madu" ss1 "Seyi" ss2 "Ola" ss1 "Ade" ss2
And I am told to create a new variable that assigns numbers to each unique name and label the values of that variable so that I still have the previous dataset but this time the new variables replacing "Name" and "Class" are numeric variables with labels and not strings.
Any help please?
label define Class_label 1 "ss1" 2 "ss2" replace Class = "1" if Class == "ss1" replace Class = "2" if Class == "ss2" destring Class, replace label values Class Class_label
label define Name_label 1 "Ade" 2 "Sade" 3 "Madu" 4 "Ola" 5 "Seyi" replace Name = "1" if Name == "Ade" replace Name = "2" if Name == "Sade" replace Name = "3" if Name == "Magu" replace Name = "4" if Name == "Ola" replace Name = "5" if Name == "Seyi" destring Name, replace label values Name Name_label
This solves the problem, if you are yet to fix it. There is a shorter way to automate this particularly when you have a lot of values to label.
Zigzagman: With the current financial difficulties in Nigeria, everyone is struggling to make ends meet. This is affecting the dating pool as now more girls are being lured into hookup out of survival.
The Young men on the podcast discuss the dilemma they face with selecting a good girl from the current shark-infested dating pools filled with hookup girls and single moms
So, nairalanders- over to you. Are you faced with a similar dilemma? Why?
And if you're married, how would you advice the young men to proceed?
Bro, hear the words of the wise. How can you fish in a pond with a hook, link and sinker and expect to catch a shark? If you are always seeing hookers and single mothers then change where you look. There will always be virgins for those who desire them and know where to find them.
jackmrandy: There is a friend of mine whose girlfriend ended their relationship due to irreconcilable differences. The girl refused to listen to any advice and always believed her opinions were superior. The main issue that caused the breakup was related to relocation. The guy wanted his girlfriend to move to the same city so they could work and build their lives together, remaining close to each other. However, the girl was adamant and still expected him to cover her expenses.
Interestingly, the girl's brother is currently living with the guy in the same city and apartment. The brother claims he has nowhere else to go, lost his job, and the only other relative he had in the city hasn't been able to accommodate him since January due to one or two issues. Out of kindness, the guy allowed the brother to stay with him while he searched for work. Now, since the girl has ended the relationship, it has been over 7 days, and she hasn't attempted to reach out to resolve the situation. This has left the guy feeling suspicious, wondering if the whole situation was a setup from the beginning.
The question now is whether it's a good idea for the guy to end ties with the brother by asking him to move out of his house, especially since the girl has made it clear she's not interested in relocating to be with him and that he should move on with his life.
For those who have experienced similar situations, how did you handle it? Any advice or personal experiences would be greatly appreciated.
1. Cut ties with that lady immediately. 2. Secure all the valuables in your house and keep your finances to yourself. 3. Ensure that your people are aware that that lady's brother is living with you. 4. Fake an impending travel at a specified date in the future and let the guy staying with you know you will be locking the place up when you move so he needs to sort himself out before that date. 5. Never make the mistake of bring strangers into your house just because you are dating a relative. You may end up bringing a killer, kidnapper, ritualist, fugitive, rapist or criminal into your house. 6. Never date a lady that is not willing to work with you to build a future with you. 7. Stop being foolish. Only a fool waters the garden of another man while his own garden is languishing in neglect. Your wife is somewhere waiting for you. Don't spend your hard earned money on another man's wife. Save all that money for the woman that is worth it.
Start at age 1 by monitoring the child constantly and ensuring pedos and weirdos don't have access to him or her. That's part of a successful sex education.
At age 5 your child should know about his or her body parts by name and should know the rules regarding touching.
At age 8 your child should not his or her body parts by name and by function. This knowledge may be superficial but it is a good introduction. Also start introducing the child to the consequences of inappropriate sexual access and communication.
At age 12 your child should know about intercourse, menstruation, orgasm, virginity, STDs, HIV AIDs, HPV, pornography, sexual immorality, sexual behavior and the supernatural implications of sex. He or she should know the benefit and consequence of these issues. At this age it would be better to have them see a live birth, see HIV/AIDs patients, see HPV patients etc. From this age onwards, girl children should have her virginity checked regularly.
At age 15, deepen their knowledge of what was taught at age 12. With emphasis on the benefits and consequences. At this age emphasis should be laid on spirituality, purpose and purity.
From the age of 15 and above you as a parent need to intensify intercession for your children for there is little you can coax or force them to do.
So you can vet ritualist? That you have someone's ID card and done background checks does not stop a criminal from colluding with the driver. The only time background checks will work is if someone can report a crime but if the victims are switched off by an armed robber or ritualist how will your organization know that a driver and some passengers haven't organized a criminal ring to commit armed robbery or kidnapping for ritual purposes. This is Nigeria ohh. Materialistic society. High exchange rates. High prices. No jobs. All this equals crime and Driveinhud may just be the right tool for a criminal syndicate.
Imagine the level of stupidity here! Make it a habit to leave your home? The irony of this write up is you are quick to point out the reaction of the man as emotional abuse, so what do you call the actions of the woman? So a woman can be perpetually toxic and verbally abusive, just keep leaving to keep your sanity. What happens when her toxicity reaches unbearable levels in the middle of the night? You drive out and go have an accident, or sleep outside your home?
Stupidity is not the cure for toxicity, no one deserves to be with an abusive partner. One thing people fail to understand is that abuse whether physical or mental is not gender based. Today in the news, we have more women stabbing their spouses to death. Marriage is to be enjoyed and not endured, telling a particular partner to endure the toxicity of another partner by always walking away is emotional blackmail and manipulations. This is the reason for courting, so one knows what he/she is signing up for. Even though we know alot of species can be pretentious, there is always ground for separation(not divorce), unless it becomes truly unavoidable. Just like women should stay away from abusive men, so also should the men.
You are the on contradicting yourself here. If a man is living with a toxic woman he has three options. Stay at home and beat the shit of the wife. Stay at home and endure shit from your wife without reacting emotionally or physically. Get out of the house. Now which of these three options is feasible and legal? The first option is feasible but not legal. The second option is not feasible but it is legal. The third option is feasible and legal. Leaving the home could be eventually become leaving the marriage completely it is entirely up to the man but my point is that silent treatment or emotional tactics could easily be labeled emotional abuse by the woman and used against him in court. So a wiser strategy is to leave the toxic environment.
Charpell: Introduction: Driveinhud is an innovative carpooling solution that connects commuters and empowers them to share rides, save money, reduce traffic congestion, and build a vibrant community. Our mission is to transform the way people travel by promoting sustainable transportation options and fostering social connections. In this article, we'll provide a comprehensive overview of our company and app, along with answers to common questions that will help you understand the benefits and functionality of driveinhud app.
How it works If you're a car owner, you can create a trip on the app and share your ride with others going the same direction with you. If you don't have a car, you simply join a trip going your direction. You can also create trips if you don't have a car - you just create a trip, get people to join your trip and you book either bolt or uber and split the cost among yourselves. This would help you save your money by sharing the cost of transportation with others especially in this economy.
Na so. Do these guys add SWOT analysis to their business strategy? Ride sharing in Lagos? Na so person go enter ride wey get kidnappers waiting for one chance or ritual victim.
Fineman2: I am a 30year old lady. My husband and I got married in 2021 and I traveled to the UK earlier this year to give birth to our first child. My husband could not join me due to his work and businesses but he has been with me through the journey through communication and it never felt like he was not over there with me.
I decided to make my come back a surprise by arriving a week earlier than I told him. When I got back, he was not home. All clothes and traces of me were gone in our room and home. I later found out that my items were locked in one of the other rooms. In our matrimonial room, I met some ladies clothes and underwears. I am a plus sized lady while the items I met belong to a slim lady. When he got back that day, I confronted him and questioned what was going on.
He said that he wanted to renovate our room and that he mistakenly bought the wrong size of clothes and underwears for me. In my continuous attempt to make sense of the situation as his own clothes were still in the other side of the wardrobe and only his pictures are all over the house, he started shouting, called me all sorts of name and stomped off.
He has since turned everything on me. His friends, brothers and mother are in support of him. They asked that I apologize for asking him such questions. Another thing one of his brothers said was that he is entitled to 4 women.
I felt my world shatter infront of me. This is the man that I have sacrificed so much for so that our marriage can work. I have cried to the extent that I feel sick. Do I apologize for peace to reign? How many times will I have to apologize for what I didn’t do wrong? Should I still stand on my grounds to find out whose items I met in our home? I do not know what to do. Please advise me
You married your cross ma. So jejely and quietly carry your cross with prayers and fasting.
Invite me for wetin? How can I trade honey for water? If no be the grace of GOD I for get 100 girlfriends. I like woman ohh. Beans and rice is okay. Bread and butter is fine. But beans and beans, how? Butter and butter, how?
minniepoe: i just wonder at times why at times people cheat on their partners. what makes a woman go outside her home to source for love/sex outside and what makes a man do the same.
could you please educate me?
According to the olosho in Proverbs 9:17 "stolen waters are sweet and bread eaten in secret is pleasant". In other words, people cheat because it is sweet. Cheating is sweet. Cheating is so sweet. Banging another man's wife is ridiculously sweet. The thought of having your shaft deep in a woman while her husband is paying school fees, paying child support (for children that may not be his), paid bride price, enduring the woman's stupidity, paying rent, paying bills, buying gifts etc is so insanely sweet that most men finish inside such women without care of the consequences. Evil is sweet. That is why evil is good and good is evil. The flesh lusts against the spirit and the spirit against the flesh (Galatians 5:17).
Gay right ko, gay left ni. Practice your crap in your house. Don't shove it down people's throats as you are currently doing in the liberal US cities and in EU.
You're contradicting yourself still. Your leaving the house or staying away from your spouse is a tactic meant to ultimately subject them to emotional manipulation — which again buttresses the OP's second point on emotionally unavailability.
I support the OP's views on the subject matter but I also feel it should apply to insecure, emasculate men who tend to make life unnecessarily difficult for their innocent spouses. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.
Wrong. You cannot interpret any action towards mitigating abuse as emotional manipulation. If the man had chosen to go for therapy you would also refer to that as emotional manipulation. If the man had decided to appease the woman to make her cease her toxicity you would also refer to that as emotional manipulation. You are actually the manipulative person here. A man who chooses to leave the scene of a quarrel for the sake of calming tensions is not being manipulative rather you would rather that the man stay and keep being subjected to toxic outbursts from a clearly deranged maniac of a wife is the narcissist with truly malevolent intentions. You will not refer to the man as being manipulative if the quarrel was between him and his brother and you would also not refer to a woman as being manipulative if the quarrel was between the wife and her sister because in both cases the action of leaving the scene of the quarrel is aimed at dousing tensions and yes what is good for the goose is good for the gander. Only a stupid woman stays in a house with a man that is threatening to take her life and unfortunately there are so many stupid women these days who lack commonsense. Like the bunch of idiotic women who throng Davido getting pregnant for him like rabbits. As stupid as they are they are all trying to make a husband out of a playboy.
Pukkalolo: In recent times, domestic violence is being frowned upon.
Of course, that's a good thing because it's practically wrong to hit a woman. I'm totally against it.
But here's the down side of this: Women do not have any FEAR anymore. The average woman now challenge her Man and go into a fierce verbal battle with him because she knows the society will back her if he hits her.
The other day I saw a couple in a serious conflict. The husband who was very angry was like, "Woman, you better watch your tongue...you are getting on my nerves."
The wife responded harshly in a confrontational manner, "What are you going to do? Oh, you want to hit me? Hit me, and I'll tell the world you are a woman beater. Hit me, I dare you to hit me."
I felt a bit pity for this man because he seemed emasculated. That woman seem to be actually getting on his nerves.
In the olden days, the woman will never challenge her Man and go into a fierce verbal battle with him because she knows he will immedately discipline or instill fear by physically hitting her.
In the olden days, there was no law against domestic violence, so our forefathers keep their women in check by physically hitting them...this why their women will never talk back at them.
In recent times, men aren't allowed to discipline or instill fear in a woman by physically hitting her like in olden days... because they'll be shamed for it and they might be at risk of facing charges.
So never physically hit a woman.
Now, what's the solution?
When your woman seriously offend you, the best way to hit her is through her emotions. Women are highly emotional creatures. So never waste your time hitting her physically, just give her emotional hits... and the job will be get done.
There two ways you do that:
#1 Hit her verbally.
Remember, women say things to hit your ego, so you must also learn to say things to hit their ego so that the ground will be leveled. Now, I don't mean arguing with her. Again, I don't mean angrily straight up insulting her by saying things like, "you are useless woman," or "you are fool." Or anything like that.
That won't work. Instead verbally hit her a way that throw her off balance a little bit. The way to do it is to just be blunt with her.
Tell her the truth. Remember, the truth hurt. Women love lies because lies massage her ego and make her feel good about herself. But the truth hit ego and get her to start questioning her values has a woman.
For example, Tell her..."You are lucky you have those boobs, otherwise no man will want to associate with your kind person."
OR. "If it weren't for your ass, men would just ignore you because you got a very poor attitude."
I can give more and more examples. But I believe you get the point. Make sure you say that in a very cool, calm and collected manner. That way she knows you are not being emotional...you are simply logically passing a vital information to her about her behaviour. This will hit her emotions. This is more effective than physically hitting her.
#2 Hit her with emotional unavailability.
Emotional unavailability is a brutal way to hit a woman.
Here's why...
Remember, Relationship isn't so much of a physical experience, but more of an emotional experience. That's why many couples can still maintain a long distance relationship for months or years. This is because, even though there's physical experience lacking, the emotional experience is still fire blazing. They still feel emotionally connected.
That's also why many couples can be living few blocks away from each other or living under the same roof but still feel disconnected.
This is because, even though there's physical experience, the emotional experience is poor.
Hitting her with your emotional unavailability means still being physically present with her but not giving her that special care and attention you'd normal give to her. And not allowing her have access to your resources anymore. And not meddling in her business...
You'll give her the emotional unavailability unless she change or improve on her behaviour towards you.
In summary, never hit her physically...hit her emotionally.
Na so. Hit her verbally and emotionally abi. Have you not heard of emotional abuse? It is now a reason for divorce. Some ladies now present emotional abuse as grounds for divorce and separation. If your wife is becoming a fool stay away from her. Leave the house and protect your sanity. No matter how strong you think you are emotionally and verbally bad women or women in their bad mood are capable of bringing out the beast in you. So instead of staying around a woman when her toxicity reaches fatal levels, just leave her and go and chill some place else where you can regain your sanity and act rationally. Make it habit to leave when she is toxic and you will escape the accusation of domestic violence and emotional abuse.
Dikastan: They should release Nnamdi Kanu because Federal government is also feeling the heat even though they pretended they aren't
Which heat? Is the federal government living in the east? Which heat? Is the president living in the east? Infact the federal government will never release Nnamdi Kanu so that these Ipodiots can use this sit at home madness to destroy the east economically, politically and socially to the point that the east isn't a threat anymore. Maybe then they will release Nnamdi Kanu.
Nice. So this is how we fight for freedom. Martin Luther and Malcolm X should have adopted this strategy. Cut your nose to spite your face. Excellent strategy. At this rate the Nigerian government would resist the freedom of Biafra so that they can keep enforcing the "shit at home" order until the entire east is full of shit and all the people that matter move out of the east permanently.
Amidst the pregnancy allegations from two prospective baby mamas, another lady calls out the Afrobeat singer, Davido for impregnating her and failing to pay her off.
This comes amidst the backlash trailing the singer for impregnating two women; one U.S. model, Anita Brown and a French lady, Ivanna Bay. A lady identified as Chisom on TikTok alleges that she once had an intimate relationship with Davido which led to a pregnancy.
According to Chisom, the singer advised her to abort the baby with the promise of paying her N3M to keep her mouth shot. However, she alleged that O.B.O refused to pay the amount after terminating the baby.
In a now-deleted video, she shared chats she had with the 'Unavailable' singer and how he threatened her not to make the issue public.
"I was a victim of Davido too, I was once pregnant for Davido, He told me to aborrt it and promised to give me N10Million, I agreed and aborted the Baby but Davido never fulfilled his promises, he didn't Give me my N10Million," she said in part.
She further shared a photo of Davido in her bed, a video of herself while at backstage with the singer, and an alleged chat they had where he promised to pay her for aborting the baby.
Stupid women love and gravitate towards irresponsible men.
labake1: Omo! we never finish Banky W saga, Davido own dey happen.
I never wanted to say anything about it but I feel for Chioma. With the fact that she lost her son, she is losing everywhere. Other baby mamas are not saying anything because they already have a tie with Davido (las las, the 30GB go reach their side). I just hope she gets pregnant and give birth soon so that she will have something. I still support Hakim's ex wife for demanding such amount of money and properties from him because you can't cheat on me and go free. I must be compensated
As a woman, once you accept that men are naturally promiscuous, you will have peace of mind.
My advice for women is that before you get married, have a life. With this, you won't be bothered if your man is acting disgraceful.
Men, what do you want? Men, is true that you have a community diiçk?
You ladies are funny and many attimes very stupid. You see a man that has no inhibitions, no boundaries, no scruples, no limits to licentiousness and no sense of responsibility and somehow you ladies think because he has money he will make a good husband. Baby mamas deserve what they got.
Villa12: I disagree at bolded. You make it sound like it's normal to engage in sex once she's 18. People still get married a virgin you know? Your daughter can be one. Why can't you teach her the importance of Body Autonomy and being celibacy? Why can't you teach her the danger of having random sex as you claimed? Even though i understand most youths now engage in series of sex, there are exceptional. People still keep themselves till marriage. My sister was one of them. She was married a virgin at 24.
Great to know that ladies get married as virgins. My response was in two parts and it depended on how we define 'boyfriend' and 'dating'. For some people dating means hanging out and having sex with one's boyfriend and for those people random sex can start at 18. Quite frankly that is how these terms are being used these days. As for me sex must only happen among married couples and hence 'dating' and 'boyfriend' are not in my vocabulary rather I reckon with the more moral replacements, 'courtship' and 'husband'. A lady should never set out to have a boyfriend rather she should set out to have a husband. Also a man should never set out to have a girlfriend rather he should set out to find a wife. Instead of dating, hanging out and hooking up, folks should engage in courtship - a period of questioning, agreement, planning and preparing for married life.
VinnyBaba: There is no Gainsaying that Young Pple (Teens) need Love and Affection from the Opposite Sex as they grow Older. 🙂
For Girls, this is a MUST. They Need Attention, Flattery and Romantic Disturbances From Guys, the Lack of it which Makes them Feel InComplete as a FEMALE.
So as a Parent, WHAT AGE WILL YOU ALLOW UR DAUGHTER TO START DATING? I.E. HAVING A BOYFRIEND. 🤔
MINE IS 20years.
Drop ur Comments.
Define "dating" and "boyfriend". Are you asking for the age when you daughter can start having random sex? If that is the question I think you should already have the answer. Your daughter can start having random sex from 18 years of age. However if you mean at what age do you start preparing your daughter for marriage, then you should by now have known that such training should start from day 1. By observing both you and your husband, she has already started learning what it means to be a wife and what it means to have a husband. At age 13 she should start getting comfortable with serving her household, following in your footsteps - if indeed that is what you do. At age 19 she should have answered the purpose, destiny and GOD questions and understood the concept and relevance of a "good fit". At age 20, let her live her life and make her own decisions.
If you excel as a parent, your daughter will not need your direct intervention in her conjugal life at age 20.
Romance / Re: New Marriage About To Crash. by efficiencie(m): 3:02pm On Aug 09, 2023 
When I didn't kill anybody 
