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FamilyRe: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by effort1: 7:15pm On May 21, 2021
BruncleZuma:
There's no justification for physical assault, my hand don dey cramp from typing this matter repeatedly no matter what.
So, are you saying there is justification for verbal abuse?
FamilyRe: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by effort1: 7:11pm On May 21, 2021
BruncleZuma:
The bros already carry baggage of low self-esteem, even good morning fit cause slap.
Maybe his low self esteem was caused by consistent verbal abuse.

When men hit women over verbal abuse, the physical hitting is just an action in response to a reaction.

Unfortunately, people are so myopic that they focus only on the reaction without giving a thought to the action that prompted it.

If you don't want physical abuse, don't give verbal abuse.
FamilyRe: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by effort1: 7:05pm On May 21, 2021
BruncleZuma:
There's no room for any form of assault physical, verbal or otherwise from any of the parties. Any man that finds it difficult to control the urge to physically lash out should not get married. The fact that you'd want to equate a 'dressing down' to a slap is worrisome; at the end of the day he can have a conversation with his wife on private and clear the air.
The so-called dressing down can cause more bruise than physical attack.

Verbal abuse can cause a permanent damage to the confidence of the victim.

It damages self-esteem and can lead to life-long mental health problems.

There is a support system for physical abuse, but there is none for verbal abuse. So, the victim is left to cope on his own. He can even end up committing suicide.

Verbal abuse is psychological. It's pain goes deeper than one can imagine.

If you don't want physical abuse, don't give people verbal abuse
FamilyRe: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by effort1: 6:31pm On May 21, 2021
BruncleZuma:
I can't not in good conscience allow the justification for violence or assault on a woman because an individual's ego was bruised. That's part of being a man, the ability to not let petty words get to you.
But your conscience agrees with verbal abuse and assulr against a man by a woman?

One thing about your absurd conscience is that it is biased, unfair, unjust and wicked.
FamilyRe: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by effort1: 4:50pm On May 21, 2021
BruncleZuma:
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grin grin grin grin
You need the sort of help that I can not provide you sir
If you don't want to be abused with the fist, don't abuse with your tongue.
FamilyRe: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by effort1: 4:48pm On May 21, 2021
BruncleZuma:
There can be no justification for that.
But there is justification for a woman using her tongue to abuse and belittle the man, right?

It is what you give to the world that the world gives back to you.

If you give abuse, you will get abuse back in full measure.

Please enjoy your desired equality
FamilyRe: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by effort1: 4:33pm On May 21, 2021
BruncleZuma:
I don't think we both agree on what constitutes abuse in this situation.

https://www.nairaland.com/6564069/husband-slapped-me-asking-him/12#101924450
The weapon of a woman is her tongue. If she uses it unguardedly against the man, then it is justified if the man uses his weapon, (his fist) against the woman.

They have only used their weapons against each other.

And if women want equality, all these rubbish about weak men must stop. If you want equality, then you will get everything that goes with it, including blows for annoying the man. If his fellow man does that to him, he'll fight him in the same manner.
FamilyRe: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by effort1: 4:25pm On May 21, 2021
BruncleZuma:
Hahahahaha anus ke; only weak men beat women QED and you sound just like one.
And Only strong women abuse men, right?

If you abuse a man and he beats you up, he has just paid you back in your own coins... that's all
FamilyRe: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by effort1: 4:23pm On May 21, 2021
BruncleZuma:
You don't have a husband, no real man assaults a woman over such issues.
You forgot that she wouldn't have a job today if the man didn't open the restaurant for her.

I guess you are one of those no-good feminists that think with their anus
FamilyRe: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by effort1: 4:18pm On May 21, 2021
Cinema4d:
He does not have a job?
Didn't you read the post? Or you hid your brain in your anus while reading it?
CelebritiesRe: Ada Ameh Slams Naira Marley Over His Sexual Fantasy (Video) by effort1: 1:22pm On May 21, 2021
pyyxxaro:
He shud be castrated immediately



This kin pikin fit de spy e mama when she de bath kiss
He isn't thinking of raping them. He is talking about consentual sexx.
CelebritiesRe: Ada Ameh Slams Naira Marley Over His Sexual Fantasy (Video) by effort1: 1:20pm On May 21, 2021
majamajic:
The boy is foolish
Have you ever called prostitutes foolish before? If not, you are a hypocrite
CelebritiesRe: Sex With Mother & Daughter: Naira Marley Responds After He Was Criticised by effort1: 1:17pm On May 21, 2021
Romanoff:
The reason you have issues with my comments is cause you reason like the pervert who couldn't keep his pervasion to himself.

Good luck having your wife and daughter shared with a man like Marley and your likes.

I won't dignify you with any other response.
Your conclusion doesn't surprise me. After all, you are a mentally dumb and you have a reputation to protect; reputation of an idiot
CelebritiesRe: Sex With Mother & Daughter: Naira Marley Responds After He Was Criticised by effort1: 12:24pm On May 21, 2021
Romanoff:
You're entitled to how you reason and I'm entitled to mine but what I won't stand for is insults.

If you insult me again, I'll bring a gun to a fist fight.

Please choose your next words carefully.

Thank you.
You are more deserving of being shut dead at diets sight before you spread your myopic thoughtless reasoning to a hapless world.
CelebritiesRe: Sex With Mother & Daughter: Naira Marley Responds After He Was Criticised by effort1: 12:14pm On May 21, 2021
Romanoff:
No. We reason differently and that's what sets us far apart.

Bye.
Then your reasoning is myopic and dumb.
CelebritiesRe: Sex With Mother & Daughter: Naira Marley Responds After He Was Criticised by effort1: 12:08pm On May 21, 2021
Romanoff:
He has a right to three-some till another man exercises that right on Naira Marley's Wife and daughter.

This is how our generation has become sexually perverted and it will get worse.
Oga, sexual perversion had been here before today, even in ancient time.

King Solomon married how many wives and possessed how many concubines again?

Was King David different?

Even Mohamed fvcked a 9-year old girl.

All the people I mentioned above, are they in this generation?

Many of you just open your mouth wide to talk trash without proper reasoning.
PoliticsRe: Nigerians To Pay N234 Billion Taxes Monthly With Petrol At N385 Per Litre by effort1: 11:35am On May 21, 2021
hybrid77:
I'm so happy that Nigerians (not APC or PDP SUPPORTERS grin) will pay almost 400 naira per litre..

So the wailers and zombies, who spend all their time fighting for their Candidates here on nairaland, will end up paying as much as N4000 for 10 litres of petrol..

You see eh, when tribalism and stupidity engulfs your soul, you will never understand that karma exist

Now, the Fulanis, hausa, yorubas, and igbos will suffer unnecessarily because some zombies and wailers supported incompetence of unimaginable proportions.

Lets keep fighting ourselves while your president, governor enjoy themselves with your loot
Yeah mannabbgrills the Pretender will pay, Helinues will pay, sirjamo will pay, arewa1stson will pay, pissfulprotester will pay, simplyleo will pay, Vaughanlanrewaj will pay. Madridguy will pay, ngenukwenu will pay. The thing is really sweet grin

So, what's now the benefit of being a Buahri ass licker if you will still undergo all the sufferings that Buhari causes just like every one else? cheesy

Even their 30k stipend would have finished before the month reaches half. tongue

Shame shame shame!!!
CareerRe: Suggest A Sustainable Handwork For A Jambite by effort1: 11:15am On May 21, 2021
NLPoliceWoman:
Off topic
You are just jumping around like a child with zero sense grin

What a shame
PoliticsRe: Why Abidemi Rufai Should Not Be Granted Bail – U.S. Govt. by effort1: 10:33am On May 21, 2021
post=101912680:
If this guy is found guilty as charged, he is done for life.

Guys, Say no to fraud, it kills you before your time and bring shame and reproach to your family.

#TeamLegitForLife
Your opinion does not count to anybody.
CrimeRe: JSS3 Student And His Mother Killed In Benue By Suspected Fulani Herdsmen (Pix) by effort1: 9:38am On May 21, 2021
[quote author=NLPoliceWoman post=101910714][/quote]You go report tire.


Shameless, jobless attention seeker
CareerRe: Suggest A Sustainable Handwork For A Jambite by effort1: 9:23am On May 21, 2021
Mannabbgrills, the desperate Attention Seeker will soon comment here.
CrimeRe: JSS3 Student And His Mother Killed In Benue By Suspected Fulani Herdsmen (Pix) by effort1: 9:14am On May 21, 2021
Mannabbgrills, the desperate Attention Seeker will avoid this thread.
PoliticsRe: Shekau Is Seriously Injured, After Failing To Kill Himself by effort1: 8:44am On May 21, 2021
NLPoliceWoman:
2. Don't abuse, bully, deliberately insult/provoke, fight, or wish harm to Nairaland members
Shut up. Find something meaningful to do with your life.
PoliticsRe: We Wish You Well - PDP Bids Ayade Farewell by effort1: 7:43am On May 21, 2021
Sirjamo:
Say another prayer, this one don expire
Say amen.

God will run your life and the lives of your children the way APC runs Nigeria.

Or are you afraid, Mr hypocrite?
CrimeRe: Bandits Burn Assemblies Of God In Kaduna, Kill 8 Worshipers by effort1: 7:29am On May 21, 2021
lexy2014:
Won't u use NLpolicewoman to report urself for breach of nairaland rules?
So,, you too know mannabbgrills is the same person as NLpolicewoman? He is also using Eriggs.
PoliticsRe: We Wish You Well - PDP Bids Ayade Farewell by effort1: 6:32am On May 21, 2021
Sirjamo:
Dem get choice before?

By 2023, only Reno Omockri and Racoon will remain in the Poverty Development Party.
May God run your life and destiny the same way APC is running Nigeria. Amen
PoliticsRe: Enugu Rally: Ugwuanyi, CAN Pray For Nigeria’s Peace, Security by effort1: 6:30am On May 21, 2021
post=101904964:
Peace is all we want in our nation.
How can your double standard lifestyle add peace to Nigeria

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