omonnakoda:
He communicated.
She won't do it again

Elporo:


And so you turn into a humble servant because your scared, you might break an arm or leg, when you fall.

Look prosperity and success have nothing to do humility, empathy, sobriety, meekness. These are all virtues the rich and powerful display after the fact like burning down a village and confiscating their gold mines and beautiful women.

Earth itself was created through a destructive process. Even the Bible or Quran , do you know how many nations where plundered and looted on thier behalf.

That man will start from washing dishes, then attending to the woman's boyfriend's.. which she will have once she finds he is beneath her. At the moment the only thing keeping him atop is his pride.

You can't afford to be nice when your struggling to expand or rise from the ashes. You must be ruthless, cunning and opportunistic.. once you get to the top, then you can mimic those silly virtues.

CashVessel:
Because na you dey allocate husband to people. Na dis talk you dey use dey deceive all those single ladies wey market don close for their head..

BruncleZuma:
Omo, I weak despite the clowning I don't tolerate nor do I condone such behaviour; whoever claim to be my friend/relative wen spew such shít nah permanent disowning. I just dread the future with these kind fellows.

MOVIC6:
As the guy no even feel so bad how the woman is trying rather he dimmed it fit to disgrace your lawful wedded wife jus because she asked for help, chai aru mere ndi africa, without asking, I will ask her to take it easy and so the dishes, if e bad too much, I bring my person from village to help and not slapping

richmond500:
So in summary, U tell ur husband to go wash plates so u can serve ur customers?

like him go sit down carry sponge wash plate for u for restaurant weh him open for u?
Is that really what I read or I missed some part?

MOVIC6:
As the guy no even feel so bad how the woman is trying rather he dimmed it fit to disgrace your lawful wedded wife jus because she asked for help, chai aru mere ndi africa, without asking, I will ask her to take it easy and so the dishes, if e bad too much, I bring my person from village to help and not slapping

BruncleZuma:


I can't not in good conscience allow the justification for violence or assault on a woman because an individual's ego was bruised. That's part of being a man, the ability to not let petty words get to you.

AFONAMARO:


You guys should stop carrying ego and pride on your head like gala for sanity sake. Didn't you read where she stated that her husband is jobless, does nothing, and that she is the only one at the shop that feeds the family including the husband? I bet the man actually came to eat before the wife asked for his assistance which isn't a daily occurrence.

The man is wicked for allowing his wife do the dishes, serve, go to market as well as cook for public to raise money to feed same man, pay rent, pay the kids fees and run the home.
What exactly is marriage all about if not togetherness, understanding, sacrifice and genuine love?

I bath my kids, take them to school, do homework with them and run my home (finance) 100%. And my manhood did not disappear.

Marriage is not a slave camp for women. Rather, it's a union championed by 2 consenting adults to assist and be there for each other.

I pity women that marry egocentric men like you

Gbest90:


Na Wa o. This kind comment dey cos headache.

Make una dey try use pidgin na. No be by force to speak English.

Commotfornigeri:
Personally, If my wife had a restaurant, I would wash plates for her to cut down operational costs.

When my wife was baking back in nigeria, I used to help fry pof pof and a bunch of other stuff. It wasn't everyday though.

In my wife's case, there's a way she usually asked that made me want to do more. Starts with a very calm voice, draws close and asks. She often winks and promises me a treat at night or later on... This gets me every time.

In this case, a lot of things may have gone wrong.

How did she ask, the tone of her voice, how many people were there, how loud was she.

The fact he slapped her in public means that she asked him publicly.

That would be very wrong.

Manner of approach is very important.

DaCharis2016:
What's totally bad? Considering the pressure on her she mentioned. I think her asking for her husband's help was justified.

effort1:


But your conscience agrees with verbal abuse and assulr against a man by a woman?

One thing about your absurd conscience is that it is biased, unfair, unjust and wicked.

Hotshisha:




That's not the full story

Once a man losses his source of income women become rude , unappreciative and wicked

Even if you ask Buhari to wash plates with proper manners he would gladly do that but ungrateful Nigerian women are something else


Thank you for this comment


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BonPatrick:
A mother of two who pleaded anonymity has taken to social media to ask members of the public whether it was wrong to ask her husband to do the dishes.
According to her, her husband lost his business to scam and she has been the one catering for the family with the little she earns from her restaurant business.
She said: “Truly, My husband was the one who opened the restaurant for me, I cook very well and I still do my cooking by myself as I only direct my staffs on what to do.My husband lost his business to scam and since then it’s been me carrying the responsibilities, most of my staffs left because I could not pay them and at some point, all of them left and I had to do everything by myself.

“My husband is doing nothing yet, he just sits at home and maybe go pick the kids from school and all, so yesterday I had lots of customers in the shop, I was doing everything by myself, so as soon as my husband walked in, I asked him to help me rush to wash a few plates while I serve, and he looked at me in some strange way, I repeated myself and he slapped me in public, and walked out.

“I ignored the embarrassment and even most of my customers left, when I got home I noticed that he moved his things, I called his phone and he said he is in his friends place till he gets a job he will come home, that I should take care of the kids.

“He cut the call I tried to call and the next he blocked me.

“What did I do wrong, who is supposed to be upset? I just need to clear my conscience.”

Hotshisha:



That's not the full story

Once a man losses his source of income women become rude , unappreciative and wicked

Even if you ask Buhari to wash plates with proper manners he would gladly do that but ungrateful Nigerian women are something else


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Margy:
The man is stupid!

I have seen husband and wife running a business together..and guess what ..it's booming.

Just in front of my yard.. a woman owns a retail shop..the husband stocked it up..the next thing I saw was the husband helping in the sales in the shop..the shop is growing

Another man helps his wife in the restaurant..she does the cooking and the man takes orders, serves the customers and helps out.where necessary...customers keep flowing san-san into the restaurant..

There's a program called restaurant impossible aired on food network.. I see a lot of husband and wife and children running their restaurants.

All I can say is that this man will die a wretched poor man..proud grasshopper with no shi-shi.. yeyee dey smell

BruncleZuma:
My guy, e get so many ways to defuse the situation with talk wen no go even raise eyebrows. The answers here fit make person shudder.

Richy4:
E be like say I don old for this Nairalandooo.... I can bet that have read this about 5yrs ago ..... or less..Just the way this on happened...

Jobia:
I like to
insult my mother. Dey your dey

Coldie:

No where in the story does it say she told him in public to wash the plates but immediately you have branded her.

Nowhere in the story does it say the husband has any form of income but immediately you have decided that the husband is the provider.

The woman telling him that for her to say it again she had nothing in mind, as this is a man they are both struggling together, her business that went down from a business with staffs to one without staff is because the money that's supposed to be used to pay staff is being used to provide for the family.

All these things na only for Nigeria e dae happen, where asking your husband for a request instead of him declining leads to a slap in public.

Na she good to receive slap for public infront of all her customers cause she be robot with no feelings?

Tomorrow another man who saw a man he doesn't know is her husband would try his own slap on her and nobody would know u are the genesis

Coldie:

No where in the story does it say she told him in public to wash the plates but immediately you have branded her.

Nowhere in the story does it say the husband has any form of income but immediately you have decided that the husband is the provider.

The woman telling him that for her to say it again she had nothing in mind, as this is a man they are both struggling together, her business that went down from a business with staffs to one without staff is because the money that's supposed to be used to pay staff is being used to provide for the family.

All these things na only for Nigeria e dae happen, where asking your husband for a request instead of him declining leads to a slap in public.

Na she good to receive slap for public infront of all her customers cause she be robot with no feelings?

Tomorrow another man who saw a man he doesn't know is her husband would try his own slap on her and nobody would know u are the genesis

MOVIC6:
I won’t insult you but you and people like you need psychological recycling, imagine at the heat of sales, no boy or maid to aid and you enter and see you wife struggling, you will jus walk out, if she wants she can die, brother may God give you the brain to be reasonable

BruncleZuma:


Baba that nah financial support; you've also got psychological and physical support, which you've not provided.

But seriously, assaulting your wife or any woman over something you can talk over nah beta male behaviour.

Imagine say 1200$ make man slap em wife; laughs in death and destruction.

RPG2020:

Wait bros make i call your girlfriend first make she confirmed the kind man wey you be

Nor come dey form ice cream guy for nairaland