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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 4:29pm On May 21, 2021 |
richmond500:And all the workers left her, that means something is wrong with her, by the way I read this same story 7years ago. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Kingsolar: 4:30pm On May 21, 2021 |
BonPatrick:Social media na real madness for some people now las las. When he was working n bringing the money u no talk that one, he opened Ur restaurant for u n that's still him in the business or have u returned the money he used in opening the business to him? Telling him to wash plate can't n shouldn't be seen as a bad thing if I were the one cos after all Ur supporting the house but where the problem might be should have being the manner u spoke to him, how have being Ur relationship with him since he lost his job, how encouraging have u being to him, and las las u said he just entered the restaurant n that's means he hasn't even sat down before u commanded him or whatsoever not minding where he was coming from n how was the place he went to n what he went there for. Coming on social media to shame ursef |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Princedapace(m): 4:30pm On May 21, 2021 |
BruncleZuma: hahahahahahahahaha... I know sey na ur type that will say even if a lady slaps u, u walk away. hahahaahahahahaha |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by maasoap(m): 4:30pm On May 21, 2021 |
Hardgun: richmond500: Jeon: Franzinni: Those who are for and those who are against have points but to me, it is complicated to just take a side. The woman is already stressed, one woman doing the jobs of like three to five people at a time everyday! She may even collapse one day as a result of exhaustion. The husband could easily lend a hand even without being told. They could even manage the restaurant together for the time being. And for the woman, her approach was bad. Her husband wasn't used to doing that, they didn't discuss it before. He was just coming in and she told him like that in front of the customers, haba! This is Nigeria, it is not the men's culture, we are to learn it. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 4:31pm On May 21, 2021 |
BonPatrick:Op this your story is 7years old |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Masterito(m): 4:31pm On May 21, 2021 |
You said it all. MALIGNANTGuest: |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by edoairways: 4:32pm On May 21, 2021 |
Emotionss:That is not what the writer said. That man is just arrogant and rude. If he was settle scores, you don't do that in the presence of your customers. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Giantfarmer(m): 4:32pm On May 21, 2021 |
I have stop commenting on incomplete and one sided stories like this, because it makes no sense to hear one side and judge.we all have to hear the other side of the story before we make good judgement..... this I have learnt, people always wants to be right or paint themselves angels and the other devil's....... |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Masterito(m): 4:32pm On May 21, 2021 |
She definitely said in a bad manner. Many lose respect for their husbands once they begin to earn more. UDUJ: |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by effort1: 4:33pm On May 21, 2021 |
BruncleZuma: The weapon of a woman is her tongue. If she uses it unguardedly against the man, then it is justified if the man uses his weapon, (his fist) against the woman. They have only used their weapons against each other. And if women want equality, all these rubbish about weak men must stop. If you want equality, then you will get everything that goes with it, including blows for annoying the man. If his fellow man does that to him, he'll fight him in the same manner. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by CalmElder(m): 4:34pm On May 21, 2021 |
Endrape2[b][/b] Nigeria men especially Igbo men are disgusting I swear, who told them a man should not do domestic chores . To be fair, Igbo men have A1 in assisting their wives in running their businesses. They lead in that regard. They don't just accommodate disrespect, simple. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by wirinet(m): 4:34pm On May 21, 2021 |
Coldie: Read this quote from the OP once again. so as soon as my husband walked in, I asked him to help me rush to wash a few plates while I serve, and he looked at me in some strange way, I repeated myself and he slapped me in public, and walked out. The man just walked in and the woman without even greeting him asked her husband to rush to wash plates. Obviously, she wasn't whispering into his ears. And she had the audacity to repeat it. I hope when you get married, you will not try such rubbish on your husband. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Franzinni: 4:34pm On May 21, 2021 |
maasoap:pride on both sides was the reason for the breakdown ... That is what I mean. Him losing his money made his ego vulnerable and she taking lead made hers grow.. so naturally something has to give. Remember he set the business up for her so he will feel slighted but a wise man will support his wife regardless then later have the discussion with her. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by donprinyo(m): 4:34pm On May 21, 2021 |
U deserve worse. Chicken brain |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Jayslyder: 4:35pm On May 21, 2021 |
There is nothing wrong with asking ur spouse to help out..but for him to have reacted that way,it's probably the manner at which u asked him..if otherwise he's just foolishly mad |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by grammarian247(m): 4:35pm On May 21, 2021 |
BonPatrick: In my opinion, there is nothing wrong in asking one's husband to do the dishes, nothing. It is also not acceptable to raise a finger on one's wife no matter the level of provocation. Those said, most women do not know how to talk. I am very sure the tone was harsh, I am also very sure your choice of words would be something around, 'you are there looking at me, is it that you can't see those unwashed plates there'? There is no way you will walk to where he is seated and go like 'Please, my love, would help me with some of this plates so I can quickly take the demands of these clients, Biko, nna'. It is only a mad man who would slap you after this well-chosen words, any man will wash the whole plates in the world if you went about it this way. For a man in his state, and indeed whenever you talk to any man, it is always a course of wisdom to speak respectfully, but you women won't hear. Whether a marriage fails or succeeds depends largely on the wife. Women who know how to use words carefully keep their homes, but you see those ones who put their mouth in motion before they put their brain in gear, they fan the embers of quarrel and strife! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Emotionss: 4:37pm On May 21, 2021 |
[color=#006600][/color] BruncleZuma: The man don't need or expect any understanding from outsiders he needs it from his wife.... Imagine After losing ALL your life savings to scam, after failing to secure any job, in your depressed state you decide to visit your wife business after picking the children from school. Entering the restaurant with the kids and the next thing you heard from your wife with full Authority and without regard to your dignity na= baba Emeka oya go and wash those plates at the sink quickly customers are waiting.... 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Burgerlomo: 4:37pm On May 21, 2021 |
Your husband supposed to be running the restaurant with you before he gets another job, I strongly believe he's from my tribe because we get too much unnecessary ego. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Masterito(m): 4:37pm On May 21, 2021 |
You are sick. You mean welcoming your husband who visited your shop by telling him to wash plates in public is right? You are not ok. Stop all this feminism shit. The husband even open this business for her. He deserves some respect. If the man was working would the wife still talk to him in such manner? Comment like yours encourages domestic violence. MOVIC6: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by chieme123(m): 4:38pm On May 21, 2021 |
Women will not kill us. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Hassanmaye(m): 4:38pm On May 21, 2021 |
Hotshisha:The best advice ever sir you understand women, lost your job and see how vagina people will treat you |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by romunu(m): 4:39pm On May 21, 2021 |
How you told matters a lot,did you lick inside his ears before telling him to goan wash the plate? |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by GreatMiki1: 4:39pm On May 21, 2021 |
As a woman telling your husband to assist you in the dish washing.Thou is not a bad Idea. As long that is the only source of income for the family the husband can assist. When you use force or aa command on a man to do something. He will get angry. Approach him in the right way by calling him to one corner were no one is seeing you then you can plead 'honey' please can you assist me with the dish while I serve. He will do it As long the woman is the only one doing everything in the restaurant. The man can help in his own little way by assisting her because that's their only sources of survival. Even if is the man that gave the wife to start up the business that will not stop him from rendering help or assisting her in the running the place. The both can put heads together and run the place successfully. The man should put pride aside and assist her wife in running the place and they will all benefit from it.its all for the good of the family. Thank you |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Masterito(m): 4:39pm On May 21, 2021 |
You are sick. Welcoming your husband by telling to wash plates is wrong. If you are lady, you won't last on marriage with this mindset. Jobia: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Rikkely: 4:41pm On May 21, 2021 |
[quote author=felix10 post=101921756]I feel for the lady. The man joblessness is not an excuse not to assist the wife in such manner. What stopped the man working with the wife for the expansion of the business, Listen to yourself again, what stopped the woman from discussing the issue with the husband at home first? I'm sure you are not married and do not understand anything about marriage you will definitely understand by force when you marry let's see if you can endure women antics even if you are rich talk less of been jobless 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Emotionss: 4:42pm On May 21, 2021 |
[color=#006600][/color] edoairways: Knowing how insulting and rude woman becomes the moment they become the sole provider in a family, I can assure you that Madam is not telling us the full story. If the man should tell his own side of the story you will be shocke at the level of insults and embarrassment he receives every day from his wife because of his inability to provide for the family at the moment. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Kamalex2: 4:42pm On May 21, 2021 |
Please i need paracetamol |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by adanny01(m): 4:43pm On May 21, 2021 |
BonPatrick: If that woman waits for someone to tell her what she did wrong, I would advise the husband not to come home even after he finds a job. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Hassanmaye(m): 4:43pm On May 21, 2021 |
Elporo:Wow |
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