₦airaland Forum

Alvin212:
Those of us who prefer them young and untouched,

Is it possible for a 19-year-old girl to already be making money in Nigeria.




I no go fit marry a girl above 21 years

my brother, if my sprit tells me you've given yourself to another man and you're above 21, No matter how beautiful you are, I can't get myself to love you oh. and I do understand it comes with responsibilities sha. and that is why am working now. building wealth little by little so when am ready, finances will not be an issue

bigpicture001:
You talk like half experience but half old skl person...

You married a woman cuz of pride you can't ask her for help on something you want to achieve so they can hail you as a good man....nonsense! And if u continue that way stroke will kill u by 34years old...

You wife shod b ur best friend,you guys shod want each others progress..anything short of that... Ur suffering and slaving in disguise of marriage

Assuming your responsibility as a man is what is slavery for you right?

Well it's not for me, I love to take care of those I love to the best of my ability. And I would not laud that over my wife because I understand that her role in the family is equally important. Please tell me how this is suffering.

And sorry, I won't be dying from too much responsibility anytime soon cause am not even 22 and I make close to 500k monthly.

Even at that, women are not my priority because I know where am headed. I know the kind of life I want, and am creating it myself, My woman will help me raise children to continue my legacy. Not share bills.

2buffagain:
Nigerians in general tend to believe in autocracies and theocracies...not democracies.

This bleeds into everything they do.

And where has a form of democracy been proven to work in a family unit. The nation's adopting this new system of running a family generally record higher divorce rate. So maybe we should stick to what works and not what is shouted on social media.

RisenPhoenix:
Men who think that way are only echoing the feminist narrative without knowing it. They are emasculating themselves while thinking that they still retain respect. It comes from misunderstanding what masculinity is all about. Any woman who marries a man must learn to live within his capability. A simp is afraid to refuse his wife's demands for a 'better' standard of living; so he takes money from her to finance that lifestyle; losing his status in the process.

My brother you are literally taking the words right from my mouth.
If you are a man that makes less than 100k, get a woman that is very comfortable with your ability to provide in that capacity. If you earn more, get a woman that is fine with your capacity. Stop depending on a woman to create your reality. Oh ye woke men. That way you eliminate 70% of potential issues that might spring up later

RisenPhoenix:
I do home chores once in a while; but because I want to, not because I am forced to by my dependence on my wife's financial support. There is a difference. Also, I prefer to free my wife to concentrate fully on the kids'upbringing., so I pay a househelp to do the chores. I feel that the added attention that I and my kids get from a rested wife is very much worth it.

You think exactly like me.

RisenPhoenix:
No.

A simp is one who is subservient to women, does not understand their manipulations and puts them on a pedestal. One way of doing this is by giving in to the feminist idea of role blurring, which is what your method leads to. If she has to contribute financially, then her work is as important as yours, so you have no moral right to consider yourself as the head of the family, nor can you shirk equally being responsible for roles that are traditionally hers like child nurture and housework; this is straight out of feminism 101.

Having a financially contributing wife automatically disqualifies you from any respect in marriage. Only pimps and players make money off women and they can only sustain it for a short while, and tend to use fear and addictions more often than game; also it only works on damaged women. An alpha male does not shirk responsibility; ever. He also has too much pride in his abilities to sponge off a mere female. Do you think alphas like Donald Trump, Aliko Dangote or Ned Nwoko for example squabble over who pays the home expenses with their wives?

Bros abeg you deserve cold beer. I honestly don't understand men who have this stupid mentality.

Sharing bills with a woman?

Why the f*ck are you a man then.

If you want a certain lifestyle for your family, work your ass of till you achieve it, you won't die during the process.youll become a better man.

Men create their own reality and women live in it.

MrBrownJay1:
pls enlighten me then because majority of EMPLOYED WOMEN go to work in the morning and come back home at night....so what type of working women (that dont spend too much time outside the home) are you talking about?! what specific job are you talking about?

It disgusts me when men try to make it seem like if a woman doesn't contribute financially, then she's good as useless.

I am really concerned about the loss of sense of responsibility from men nowadays. When did it become a taboo for you to make the money yourself and let your wife run the homefront. The Asians have been doing this for years and they're not complaining, hence why the family unit is strong and their children turn out as responsible adults and contribute meaningfully to their family and society at large.

You guys make it seem like marriage is some kind of business venture.if not for anything, be a man for your children, they need a parent to look after them at least in their tender years.

Have you not seen homes were both husband and wife are financially well to do but the children are nothing to write home about.

A woman can support at times financially but you going into a relationship looking for a woman who you'll share bills with just shows the quality of a man that you are.

Ibechris2:
When I met my wife I was still squatting. In fact I had nothing to my name except the clothes I wear daily and some books.

My father was obviously poor...but what kept us going was honesty and she loved me.

After about 5years,the story changed and changed for the better. I live in a comfortable apartment and I am so proud of my wife who i cherished for believing in me. And many other things i may not like to mention here.


If u believe in that ur guy,u can change his life and make him to be more ambitious and yearn for growth and prosperity. U might be the power that he needs to become what God wants him to be.
Do not lose sleep.

I don't get why people give relationship advice based on their own romantic experience. its always a recipe for disaster, this lady is not your wife and you are not the man in question, people are very different, your wife would probably still be fine with you if you were still in that position financially but this lady clearly would not be. you might be hardworking and ambitious but the man in question might not be(I understand that context is missing). so give your advice based on the illustrated scenario. your lived experience is not the golden rule.

and sorry, you cannot make a man more ambitious. its either its in him or not.

Nairalandmonika:
But a woman will value money over anything a man has

you're oversimplifying things. it's not necessarily the money but what comes with the money.

A man that is secularly successful(comfortable to a good extent) brings stability and security to a relationship, He will
most likely be intelligent and will exude a genuine type of confidence and that will automatically draw women to him.
under his protection and guidance, his woman is able to remain soft, feminine, submissive and bask in being the best
version of herself.

this is not gold-digging, if a woman truly loves you for more than your money, you'll know, it's not rocket science, you don't
need to pretend to be broke to figure it out. it will be

a woman would respect and feel safer with a man who has proven to be successful
in the world despite its many hurdles.

This is how its been and that is how it will always be.

you might argue that times have changed and a woman can make just as much money as
the man. that is true, times change, but people do not really change. Men will always behave according
to their innate biology and so will women.

the dynamics might not seem fair given the time and age we live in but do you really want to keep fighting reality
or try and understand how life works and use the knowledge to live your best life?

I understand its not easy bros. but just try and work on yourself, study, try starting a career in something,
build the career by setting goals and achieving them. become a good and better person. I swear you'll not
need to even impress any woman with the money. they will come to you like iron filings to a magnet,
when all is done, find a deserving(not a woman with a history of whoredom ), young, beautiful
and feminine woman to raise a family with. that is the recipe to true happiness.

Thanks and have a good day

Petyprincess:
I offer him my support,time,emotions,heart nd many stuff i cant list here nd he does the same! Nobody is scamming no one!

Poverty has really rewired the mentality of many Nigerians. A masculine man will always value loyalty, commitment, femininity, youth and beauty over money from a woman.

Stop trying to explain yourself to anyone. you're doing nothing wrong dear.

This is coming from a man

thebosstrevor:
but this stuff works both ways..men have been with women who they choose and she never demanded anything from him

and their also guys out there who a woman have chosen and ended up been scammed by the woman

so it is a 50/50 game

there are also guys that pursue after a woman, got her and she is crazy over him

I am with you on this. If a woman chooses without letting the man choose her. She's setting herself for failure. If the man choose without letting the woman choose him. Same possible outcome.

There must be interest on both ends. Else it would be a disaster for the heavily invested counterpart.

ubunja:
agreed. When a girl chooses a guy she makes things easy for him. No endless hoops and all. Everything is effortless for Chosen Men.

And what happens to the woman who might ultimately gets the short end of the stick.

I understand you are trying to help men become more dominant in relationship and avoid heartbreak. But for a healthy relationship where both parties benefit. The dynamics have to be a little tilted to stay within the balance point for things to work perfectly. However , the man should be respected and admired(not necessarily loved more) more in that relationship.

I have also noticed that you just take a lot of these redpill advice on the internet and try to apply it to our traditional setting here forgetting that we are still very conservative(most women in Nigeria are still looking and will stick to the man who provides the most security).

Redpill nuggets are generally good knowledge for men but you fail to reconcile it with where we are as a society locally speaking.

Smalldick123:
Good.
but truth be told. i prefer eating 1/10 of that money for 5years abroad and be jailed for life than living in a shithole like this corntree

MUMU.

the excitement from material pleasures is fleeting. it's only felt at that moment. You'd lead a miserable life if you don't change this your naive mindset

Hello people.

I am thinking of getting a Toyota Camry, 2010/11(muscle)

Just not sure whether to purchase via a dealership locally or buy directly from one of these auctions and ship myself. I have never done this before. This will be my first car as well.

I've heard rumours that most of these dealership mostly buy salvaged cars then Behind it up when it arrives. So am a little worried. And since I haven't shipped large items from overseas before. I am kinda sceptical with regards to the second option as well.

Grupo:
There is nothing wrong in looking at breasts though. I looked at it and I'm not your typical average Nigerian youth.

Oh yes, don't forget that looking at breasts can prolong a man's life, according to research.

And where did you get that stat from.

Nairalanders will not kill somebody one day Sha

oluremmy234:
Away goal rule bawo......not sure you know how the rule works

As in eh. I still don't get why people find it hard to understand the away rule

eki2000:
x5 and x6 are Chinese version of the phone, while 5.1 plus and 6.1 plus are global version with Android one, also the camera of it is sharper than x5 and x6. you will Neva get Android update on x5 and x6.

You are wrong, I use the x6 and I have upgraded from Android 8.1 to 9.0.

I have a friend who bought the global version, and there is no difference whatsoever.

Please check your facts before posting.

ZibahGuy:
I'm a university graduate who studied Biochemistry in the university.. I realised almost all opportunities I got required IT skill so importantly.. But I'm zero when it comes to IT....
Please help a brother

How exactly do you need help..

Jiang:
I know want boundaries woh, I will probably always listen to my parents as long as am alive especially if they make sense, I see some people ignore advice from thier pops while forming independent & ended up screwing up. So me and popsy gona be real bros woh, Having ur parents with you Na privilege, so I go cherish am well well

U get sense abeg..

deepwater:
lol

Yet another actress my TELEVISION SET has refused to show

Going to Alaba to buy new TV, how can every other people television be showing actresses and actors and my wont show 'IT'? Its only on nairaland i see 'IT'



So u mean after subing full bouquet i will now coman be watching channel 151,152,153,Rok and Rok?

By the way i dont use DSTV i use antenna, sonnet to be precise. You know that one that will be turning the pole outside and asking your sister (who is inside the house ) that question ----- IS IT SHOWING?

lol, funny as f**k .

Validated:
if my mother was a member of this church, and still goes tothe same church next Sunday, I will disown her... FAKE prophet

Your mother that gave birth to you, prays for you every day is who you'll disown because of some preacher of lawlessness.

please be rational before posting things next time. there are things you should not say ever at all..

DanielTheGeek:
What are you trying to prove, you are just going to drag yourself into the whole mess. It's better to invest in a project or something more meaningful.

Not trying to prove anything bro.buy it annoys me when people brag with nothing to show for it.and who told you I don't have projects m working on....
But I guess the whole saga should just die down..
Peace....
Choose your words nicely next time bro.
All the best..

young02:
solution in Python(2)
<code>
def counter(word):
numberList = [] # empty list for numbers
alphaList = [] # empty list for alphabets

#sorting num and alpha from word into resp. list
for ch in word:
if ch.isdigit():
numberList.append(ch)
elif ch.isalpha():
alphaList.append(ch.lower()) #converting to lower case since matching is case-INsensitive

#counting and print only num/alpha occurring more than once
for x in numberList:
count = numberList.count(x)
if count >1:
print "{} --> {} ".format(x,count)
while numberList.count(x) > 1 : #weeding tested num
numberList.remove(x)

for i in alphaList:
count = alphaList.count(i)and
if count > 1:
print" {} --> {}".format(i, count)
while alphaList.count(i) > 1: #weeding tested alpha
alphaList.remove(i)
</code>

call function with your string as argument e.g
counter("pEpper62532622")
That's all... can download attachment or visit link below if code is not well formatted...

https://gist.github.com/nny326/93d34e5d63b023d17aa5fa4534a9fb4a#file-duplicatecounter-py

Bro this might work but it's quite inefficient.why looping thrice...

I usually do not comment on nairaland cus unlike most nairalanders I do not have a large vocabulary of foul words... well after going through the 37 pages of this thread,I must say I was highly disappointed.I have not had an opportunity to attend hackathons but I follow most of them online and there you see guys coding for 24-48 hours and build great stuffs yet they are still humble,never mention how good they are but how they can improve and do better as a team.

But here all av read about is bragging rights on top nothing,the guy who claims to have done so great in open-source project happens to steal most part of the code.

the op who claim to be the greatest programmer on earth or OK in Nigeria and the guy who claims to be coding during the era of cassette tapes(I think he mentioned since 1998) could not even help or find a way to help someone who said he has issues with a php MVC project.

I just tire for una naija self-acclaimed-programmers..

@op,from what av read all this while you appear to be foul-mouthed so you can insult me all you like but you have not proven any thing as far as am concerned.so since you've been itching for algorithmic challenges.. I hereby give you a chance to prove yourself... you and i bring up coding challenges and we both solve them within a stipulated time-frame, provably 30 to 45 minutes.

disclaimer: I am not a guru so do not think you'll be competing with a geek.I just want you to stop talking and write code.prove yourself bro..

benfluleck:
Andela bootcamp XXV email has arrived

kind of weird they sent out IV's on a Sunday

keypad1:
To fvck this rita dominic dey hungry. Old toto is always an experienced to.

Placing my hands on nyash and banging her from behind hitting and g spot will be so nice.

Since she is old her klitoris will be well matured and formed affording my tongue to suck and lick it well.

I will be able to put 4 of my fingers inside her toto and finger her g spot well. Playing with her labia and vulva.

Her huge lips is well formed to suck my deeeek like a chocolate bar.

My preek will do the rest work as i spread her legs and fvck her as she moans scream shed tears for me to fvck her harder harder harder.

haaah,I tire for your matter.