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Jokes Etc › Re: Okada Riders by efuah(f): 3:38pm On Sep 27, 2007
lol cheesy
Romance › Re: Can U Be In Love With 2 Guys/ladies At The Same Time. by efuah(f): 3:06pm On Sep 27, 2007
saucekid, how r u little bro? abi u wan kill me with lafter?

@topic, BIG NO!
Romance › Re: Men Are Hard To Please! by efuah(f): 3:01pm On Sep 27, 2007
clap clap clap  cheesy more grease to my elbow or wink

zignor, leave the mad where he belong please, i have no fight with him dear. he can continue dreaming
Romance › Re: Men Are Hard To Please! by efuah(f): 2:44pm On Sep 27, 2007
sylvao, that's good of u, thx for listening to me kiss

liftedone, darling pls dnt join the fight i beg of u, did she offend u in anyway? am apologising on her behalf wink
Romance › Re: Men Are Hard To Please! by efuah(f): 2:32pm On Sep 27, 2007
Joey82, i pray to be able to stop them fighting, and u, dnt encourage them pls wink

cute angel, welcome dear kiss. but if u think he needs the attention, then give him pls cheesy
Romance › Re: Men Are Hard To Please! by efuah(f): 2:17pm On Sep 27, 2007
cute angel and sylvao, pls stop fighting here will u?
u are a lady i admire so much, stop exchanging such words with him dear

n u sylvao, will u stop being naughty darl cheesy
Health › Re: Doctor in the House: Free Medical Advice Available by efuah(f): 12:44pm On Sep 27, 2007
where's the doc undecided pls when u resume office try and anwer me wink

1. What causes menstrual pains? (perhaps somebody might have asked b4) but i need to kno

2. What causes double period in one month?

waiting,
Family › Re: Pets As Part Of The Family? by efuah(f): 12:18pm On Sep 27, 2007
yeah, our pets are part of our family, we have a dog(Risky) and a cat(peace).
i almost cried when i mistakenly hit Risky with a car n he was wounded, he cldn't go anywhere,
i missed seeing him welcome me anytime i close from work. we have a nice place for them to sleep.
we treat them as ourselves, they are very disciplined and make home lively even whn there's
nobody. i get very pissed when they are not fed well.

for me, our pet is a member of my family smiley
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I'm Back . . .zignor! by efuah(f): 11:59am On Sep 27, 2007
zignor i ope u brought smthng from the moon for me too wink
how far now? n ur babe, easy i mean wink
Events › Re: Nairaland Party! by efuah(f): 11:56am On Sep 27, 2007
is it realy 4real? undecided
Romance › Re: Body Language Speaks Louder Than Words by efuah(op): 11:46am On Sep 27, 2007
awwwww so nobody appreciated this piece of note cry
well i tot it was good for sharing wink

thanks joey82
Romance › Re: Men Are Hard To Please! by efuah(f): 11:38am On Sep 27, 2007
cute angel you are right but it apples to both gender, some women are also hard to please
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Benin City- Hottest Nairalander's by efuah(f): 11:24am On Sep 26, 2007
acid plz dnt use " ur are fuckin welcome" or i won't come at all grin
use another word na grin
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Benin City- Hottest Nairalander's by efuah(f): 11:14am On Sep 26, 2007
so u r still on this thread?
well i just got to kno that am from benin too grin tongue
Romance › Body Language Speaks Louder Than Words by efuah(op): 11:07am On Sep 26, 2007
Has it ever occurred to you how much you are saying to people even when you are not speaking? Unless you are a master of disguise, you are constantly sending messages about your true thoughts and feelings whether you are using words or not.

Studies show that your words account for only 7% of the messages you convey.  The remaining 93% is non-verbal.  55% of communication is based on what people see and 38% is transmitted through tone of voice.  So think about it.  In the business setting, people can see what you're not saying.  If your body language does not match your words, you're wasting your time.

Eye contact is the most obvious way u communicates.  When you're looking at the other person, u show interest. When u fail to make eye contact, u give the impression that the other person is of no importance. Maintain eye contact about 60% of the time in order to look interested, but not aggressive.

Facial expression is another form of non-verbal communication. A smile sends a positive message and is appropriate. Smiling adds warmth and an aura of confidence. Others will be more receptive if u remember to check your expression.

Your mouth give clues too, and not just when u are speaking. Mouth movements, such as pursing your lips or twisting them to one side, can indicate that you're thinking about what u hear or that you're holding something back.

How receptive you're is suggested by where u place your arms. Arms crossed or folded over your chest say that u have shut other people out n have no interest in them or wht they r saying. This position can also say “I don’t agree with u.”  u might be cold, but unless u shiver at the same time, the person in front of u may get the wrong message.

However, using your arms can help or hurt your image as well. Waving them about may show enthusiasm to some, but others see this gesture as one of uncertainty and immaturity. Posture is also very important, if u want to be seen as alert or enthusiastic. When u slump in your chair or lean on the wall, u look tired, no one wants to do business with someone who has no energy.

Control your hands by paying attention to where they are. In the business world, particularly when u deal with people from other cultures, your hands need to be seen. That would mean u should keep them out of your pockets and u should resist the urge to put them under the table or behind your back. Having your hands anywhere above your neck, fidgeting with your hair or rubbing your face is unprofessional.

Legs talk too; a lot of movement indicates nervousness. How and where u cross them tell others how u feel. The preferred positions for the polished professionals are feet flat on the floor or legs crossed at the ankle; the least professional and most offensive position is resting one leg or ankle on top of your other knee. Some people call it ht “Figure Four” it can make u look arrogant.

The distance u keep from others is crucial if u want to establish good rapport. Standing too close or “in someone’s face” will mark u as pushy. Positioning yourself too far away will make u seem standoffish. Neither is what u want so find the happy medium. Most important, do what make the other person feel comfortable, if the person with whom you're speaking keeps backing away from u, stop. Either that person needs space or u need a breath mint. lol

You may not be aware of what u are saying with your body, but other will get the message.

BE WARE.
CHEERS kiss kiss kiss
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Efuah Am Back For You by efuah(f): 11:04am On Sep 26, 2007
darling or whatever u call yourself, please leave me alone!! angry
why are u still dreaming huh?? are u mad or smthng? cnt u see NO whn u see one?
leave me alone please angry
GO TO HELL FOR ALL I CARE!! hung yourself n die, see if i will waste a night's sleep
over your nuisance!! ofunu!!
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Benin City- Hottest Nairalander's by efuah(f): 12:10pm On Sep 22, 2007
acidrop:
its a church where all d hottest Nairaland users are found
really? then i no fit attend cry
Romance › Re: Pls Help: I'm In Love With Two Women by efuah(f): 10:09am On Sep 22, 2007
@chaloo, u're right
Romance › Re: Urgent Attn:answer This by efuah(f): 10:07am On Sep 22, 2007
heartless how? a guy kill your mother n allow him live a free life in the name of love?
hell NO! it's likely he will end up killing u too angry mothers are priceless gift u will never get
in your whole life, once u lose it, u've lost it forever cry
Romance › Re: Urgent Attn:answer This by efuah(f): 9:10am On Sep 22, 2007
hand him over to the police angry
Romance › Re: Pls Help: I'm In Love With Two Women by efuah(f): 9:03am On Sep 22, 2007
olanajim:
In case you are still confuse, please don't hesistate to lose your mind once and for all. The best lady stays. If none of them stay, then you must return to bride market.
hahahahahaha, i cnt laff abeg cheesy

@poster
u dnt love both of them. IT'S A LIE!! search ur heart, soul and mind well well, u will finally find the one u truly love.
by the way, why do u double date huh? angry
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Met Any Nairaland Members? by efuah(f): 5:45pm On Sep 21, 2007
none
Career › Re: Sleep With My Boss Or My Resignation? by efuah(f): 4:15pm On Sep 21, 2007
okei:
For your information, office romance is not the best because you will loose your dignity and respect.
exactly kiss
Romance › Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by efuah(f): 2:56pm On Sep 21, 2007
CLAP CLAP CLAP

good peice kiss this is for ladies all over the world no "nigeria" alone.
we all need it! i hope we read well and apply to our lives too.
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Benin City- Hottest Nairalander's by efuah(f): 10:54am On Sep 20, 2007
@acid, so u mean ur church has no name yet shocked
so where am i coming for ur wedding na? undecided
hw u dey sis? kiss
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: : Older Women Only! by efuah(f): 8:58am On Sep 20, 2007
@siena, big bro am fine o, i ope u r doing gr8 urself kiss

@iice, hmmm, i will kill u but u will surely not die wink

@easybaby, hw u doing sis? stop peeping cos av stopped cheesy
Career › Re: Sleep With My Boss Or My Resignation? by efuah(f): 8:53am On Sep 20, 2007
i will resign, am at the moment going thru same problem here, but because of my position n nature of work, he cnt sack me. but if i must sleep with my boss cos of employement, promotion or sort of, then i have no other option that to quit because, prosperity, favour, blessings all comes from God. it is the council of Jehovah that holds so if the job or the position is rightfully mine, it shall surely be mine. if the Lord is not with thou, he who labour, labours in vain.
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: : Older Women Only! by efuah(f): 6:49pm On Sep 19, 2007
grin am 72, cnt walk properly but wants to meet u too, so how do we meet? undecided grin
jst kidding, lol, dnt worry they will come soon

iice where art thou? grin
Education › Re: Bad Things You Did In Secondary School? by efuah(f): 6:44pm On Sep 19, 2007
some of u are bad o shocked i've enjoyed reading anyway wink

i was a good girl o, i did nothing really bad grin

errrrrm, i was a goog maths student so my maths teacher liked me, anytime there's a general labour work,
i sneak to her office n pretend like am seriously learning, and she always protected me.
i attended a single sex school (Girls School), some of my seniors were so arrogant for my liking, i was 14yrs
in SS1 n some of them teased me that am a baby because i was smallish, they teasingly ask; where's your feeding
bottle? i hated that. so anytime they send me to fetch water, i spit into it (awww disgusting) cheesy grin
hmmm lipsrsealed i know av been forgiven because they frustrated me tongue
Nairaland General › Re: Why Large Percentage Of Nairaland User Have No Pic On Their Profile by efuah(f): 12:24pm On Sep 19, 2007
iice dear, how u dey? today no goggles, i can read well grin
but i guess i need uhmmmm, ermmm, ohhhh, remind me pls grin
Romance › Re: When They Say No, They Actually Mean Yes by efuah(f): 12:08pm On Sep 19, 2007
some girls Sir angry cos for me, my NO is NO!!
Romance › Re: Jealousy by efuah(op): 11:59am On Sep 19, 2007
Lateefah, good kiss u kno it wink
they won't accept the fact but even God knows they are cheesy

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