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inze:
@ Frankies

Well we understand your plight, but the fact still remains that some girl prefer not to play the game of being hard to get, for some reason of loosing the person they feel deep for to another girl, seconding, the girl may be kind of bored as in having few company (electronic) and needs one to keep her company especially at night. We all know that girl like to be pampered and made to feel warm and cared for and we shouldn't take that for granted since it cost us little or nothing, lets see it this way, what would it cost to keep her company from 12.30 pm till 4.30 am, only 100naira recharge (4 we naijerians).

For me, i would advice you condemn her as being cheap, she might be your other half, you never can tell and she might be cheap as you claim, but you only need time and wisdom to figure that out.


Less i forget, you never told us your intension, truely she might might to have you as a friend. (no strings)

Good Luck anyway.

manulove:
Of course,
If she's interessted in you
Seriously, your parents don't like the idea and so what? u're old enough to make your own decisions rigth?
And listen man, this is YOUR life we're talking about!! They don't like the idea because shes only a house help now. But once you marry her she wont be anymore ,

As long as u both get along well and she knows how to behave in "your world" . They shouldnt be any prob! Only u know what u really feel for her and if that feeling can take the both of through the test of marriage,
because marriage is a big test and u wouldnt want to be ashamed of your wife all your life,

so consider those and take your decision. the fact that is pleases your mum or not is not really the question here. it is your marriage and not hers,


excellent post.

icingbaby:
why will I want to date inside the family I already dated, if I do that that mean I don't have respect for my self and for him, that is just wrong leave that family alone.

dezobo:
hi efuah,
has it happened to u? well am so sorry about that. any way, there's no need to quit church because it aint church that cheated on u. just take heart and move on with your life.
washington

[/quote][quote author=jidody link=topic=50782.msg1072994#msg1072994 date=1177664955]It is okay to employ her so long as you can keep romance out of the work environment. That will demand a lot of discipline from the 2 of you. I know a married couple that run a flourishing IT firm, what amazed me with their professional conduct was that it took me a long time to know they were actually a couple.