₦airaland Forum

Mercychen:
The truth is, most times the guy ( groom) is not always that handsome or facially fine. They prolly would have tried to woo the beautiful ones but the pretty girls, being naturally selective would reject them. This is something I can relate with so I know.

These men after rejection, go after the average "looking" girls who on the hand wouldn't mind as they too face rejection and have very slim chances of getting a man and would jump at anybody that comes to them for marriage.


The thing with beautiful Ladies like us is, we believe the men will keep coming, so no need to rush as the best is yet to come.

I know of anout 10 guys who came for me, they all ended up with average looking ladies. This is not to say it's right to live with such attitude or mindset but it is what it is.

So, it's not totally a case of rejection that keeps the beautiful ones from getting married.

when u want ur man to do vasectomy,not only ten will come ND go.u go tire for bus stop

ignis:
At 35, I never still get bachelor's degree.

o boy

Kayzcarter:
my broda you no lie at all
Imagine mouth dicking her and sperm oozing out of her nose

u sure say u go make heaven like this?how can sperm ooze out of her nose? >:

Joebayo217:
Man c have d easiest opponents to face

I just don't know how dey do it.dey always have easy opponents most of d time.

lexy2014:
Mr Economist, I sent u some basic economics questions like 2hours ago. With all your knowledge, am surprised that uptill now u haven't been able to answer even one of d the questions? Do u want me to spoon-feed u? If u want my spoon-feeding, pls let me no. I will gladly do the best I can to spoon-feed u. Waiting for your response

u think I stay by my phone waiting for ur response?nah,I got things to do.let me clear a misconception,I said assuming I don't know d answers to ur questions,I cud easily google Dem and send to u.so d question of I know or not does not arise.i choose not to answer not coz I can't but coz I won't.i are too small to lead me on an argument.takia.wony reply u again.have urself a productive day like I am doing rite now.

lexy2014:
U still haven't answered the simple questions:

1. what is d meaning of a budget?

2. What is d difference between national budget and salary?

3. if u say that "govt pays salaries from revenue generated", is "revenue generated" an item that is handled outside the budget?

4. pls what is recurrent expenditure? what makes up recurrent expenditure? does it appear in a budget or is it an item picked up from d desk of the minister of finance?

5. how is loan captured in a budget?

guess what?I am an economist.u might not believe my qualification in it.so believe me I know what am talking about.lets assume I don't know,I can Google and give u d answers u so much desire.but no,it's not d answers u want,u want to win an argument instaed of learning from it.so please,I can't go through d troubles anymore.i might reply u one more time if it's necessary,after dat,it's good bye.

Toks2008:
You guys are just too sentimental for my liking.

You see this lady ehn, i have learned never to discard whatever she says even if it sounds foolish. I am not saying she is right or wrong neither am i insinuating that what happened to the poor boy regardless of whether he consented or not is justified but we must understand that ''mad'' people in many instances are usually right about what they see or say. So whilst some people tag her mad, her past findings have proved to be true in most cases.

U know we are a ppl governed more by emotions rather than reasoning.we never want to look at d other side of the issue.hard as it is to say what she said,it might just turn out to be true.but d band wagon theory and wanting to sound socially correct will not let us look at d other side of the story.she might just b right,but holier than though will not let u say it.

lexy2014:
pls what is d meaning of a budget? What is d difference between national budget and salary? if u say that "govt pays salaries from revenue generated", is "revenue generated" an item that is handled outside the budget? pls what is recurrent expenditure? what makes up recurrent expenditure? does it appear in a budget or is it an item picked up from d desk of the minister of finance? how is loan captured in a budget?

so national budget and salary are one and d same.recurrent expenditure is dsame as salary?there is no capital expenditure in the budget?budget is totally financed by loan?chairman,salary is a subset of the budget.budget comprises of a whole lot of things.so if d govt borrows to finance PART of a budget,it doesn't mean it is borrowing solely to pay salaries.most times u borrow to finance capital projects.dats a free tutorial on ECN 101.

Tinubuadvocate:
Akande is a good Muslim? That old man don't have a particular religion I worked with him for good 6 years.. Buhari always disappointed stop reading from paper just say what you know and move.

So even if he was a Buddhist,u expect Buhari to say it there and then?make una dey learn.if Dem put u for dat podium now,is dat what u will say?

iwaeda:
Lol. How do all these memo leaks? It shows how bad the civil service is. Police, FMC both having same issue and you are still denying the obvious

do u not know dat an agency can exhaust it's year budget bfr d end of that year?

prigoz:
If you are not in civil service, you better shot your mouth, it was only in November that we received our salaries on 30th, but previous months, it b/w 7 or 8th of next month. So you should hide your face in shame, anybody that says the truth in Nigeria is tagged PDP. Instead of you to tackle the massage, you are tackling the messenger

I am a civil servant and my salary comes most times on 28th depending on the day of d week dat 28 falls on.altjough my last two salaries came on the 1st

lexy2014:
How does d question u asked negate d following post that u responded to?:

but buhari has been borrowing money to finance the budget. whats d difference? is it until they tell u that they used loan for salary that u will no that they used it for salaries?

I can't spoon feed u.if u don't know d difference between a national budget and salary,den u shudnt b here.if you also don't know dat d govt. pays salaries from revenue generated,den again u shudnt b here.if u also don't know dat December salary has already been budgeted for,den u are on ur own.how can a sane person say dat borrowing to finance a budget is dsame as borrowing to pay salaries?ur level of thinking is below d bar.

CaptainAyub:
Oga,na head of civil service of the federation de pay salaries abi na ministry of finance?
FYI,Sampson Adegoke is d head of finance in Fed Med Centre Keffi Nasarawa state,close to Abj,you can do your independent research,so the info isn't completely false.
This has been happening in several ministeries at every end of the year for about 5yrs now,and if they're too broke Federal hospitals,they're probably too broke to pay plenty others.

na ur type dey describe thins in context of massacre

lexy2014:
but buhari has been borrowing money to finance the budget. whats d difference? is it until they tell u that they used loan for salary that u will no that they used it for salaries?

which govt has never borrowed to finance a budget?

55truth:
Should I quit this job and return home?

So I have been unemployed for a while until late last month that a friend gave me link to his place of work and I got the job. The pay is not good but I had to take it cos I was wasting away without any income.

Now I joined him in the city but he didn't tell me in his one room apartment, he has 3 other guys living in. I now make the 5th guy in one room. All of them have a girlfriend that still come to sleep in the same room. I'm sure you can imagine what it means living in such a condition. I'm just 2 weeks into the work but I have already felt so tired and fade that I'm thinking of quitting the job and go back to the village which is neither a better option. Some days, I sleep in the open in the compound because no space for me inside, absorbing all in the cold into my system which is very unhealthy, plus uncertain security situation. Also, according to the company's policy, I won't get paid through out the probationary period which is 3 months. How do I handle this?

I need advice please.

y don't u just rent a single room,be it face me I slap u.it will make things easier for u.u can gather food from d village and manage urself for d time being.i know how u feel,some of us don't do well when we have no certain accomodations to return to after d days hustle.just get a room for urself,if na me,I for don sick.

extol1:
is it kidnappers or innocent citizens

ur family members.

diose:
Really,is bokoharam not also faceless do you know who is member and not

una too dull aswear.person like u now go dey feel like say him too fit talk.what it means is;do dey have an organised leadership?do dey have an ideology,so dey seek to sway ppl towards dis ideology?dis are what makes a group recognisable.bandits don't have organised leadership.dey are not one.u have pockets of them scatterd all around.dey don't have an ideology.dey are not swaying anybody to their side.dey kidnapp u irrespective of ur ethnicity or religion,dey don't want to put dere ideas in ur head.once u pay Dem,dey release u and go.bokoharam and ipob are alike in d sense dat,dey have an organised leadership,dey have an ideology,dey preach to people to join dere campaign etc.sit down and think,everything is not about rice and beans.i know u will insult me coz dats d only thing ppl like u are capable of but I cudnt resist educating u.thank u.

Maxymilliano:
They are faceless but who are the beneficiaries of government rehabilitation and reintegration programs that saw thousands of Islamic terrorists enjoying government amnesty after sending millions of Nigerians to their early graves or they are ghost ?

amnesty did not start today.niger delta militants are enjoying it.i do not support evil,but if ipob shud surrender tday,dey will enjoy amnesty too.its not rocket science.

seunmsg:
First it was Gumi and now Buba Galadima. What’s the relationship between Atiku’s political lackeys and terrorist bandits? Why are they always defending those blood sucking demons? Are the bandits Atiku’s boys? The connection needs to be investigated.

how do u guys reason?so u f anyone speaks about bandits dat person shud be arrested?was it not someone dat stood surety for Nnamdi Kanu?was he not bailed by someone?y did d government not arrest dis people.how do u guys reason.do u have any evidence tieng Gumi to bandits?do u not have journalists and others dat know bokoharamists.amnesty international dat HS been brokering agreements for release of captives over d years shud be arrested too.make una dey think.this situation is overwhelming,it will overwhelm anybody so long as we don't call a spade by its name.dats what Buba Galadima said,once u make an issue a tribal or regional issue,d north pulls back coz their interest is not factored in.

AsapTeddy:
Aboki level of thinking just dey different.

Dumb set of people.

u can never ever b as bright and intelligent as Buba Galadima.he has spoken objectively,if u like accept,if u like don't.but everything he said is spot on.ur comment supports his assertion.u see nothing reasonable in an aboki,yet,u expect d aboki to trust and support u to achieve ur aim.dats d gragra we are talking about.

Godons1:
AfghanEASTERN is always in the news for the wrong reasons. It's usually one week one problem

even if u pay me,I won't live dere.every crime known to human lives dere.have u wondered y dey prefer to live in other ppls land and go to ders once in a year?the ones here will return from dere Christmas jamboree and be saying home sweet home in gwagz.can u imagine.

efighter:
We can all see now that Paul Adefarasin is just after money. I real clergy will support the Masses once the Masses have not done anything contrary to the 10 Commandments. Paul Adefarasin has just proven to be another fraudster at the pulpit

what do u know?d last ppl dat wore shirts with Buhari must go inscription or whatever to a church service were arrested and not even d pastor said anything.u want to use ur lack of home training to put someone in trouble abi?continue

[quote author=xscoffy post=108239801]Read to understand bro. Don't rush to comment.

Like I said earlier. I have a good job n two jobs for that matter. So allow me handle the shit. My choice remains my choice. Shalom[/quot]your choice.my opinion.

xscoffy:
The kinda money spent on marriage rites now reach for person to be selective. Most of una no get anything to offer a man apart from opening and closing of leg.

Bride price ain't a kids snacks that u gats spend this min and start regretting paying it d next min. For me I get choice. I have a good job and therefore won't try marrying someone who ain't working to avoid my name changing from "sweetie" to "papa emeka" in d future. Everyone got the right to choose


I have been searching for almost a year now. It's better I remain searching until I get what I want. D country is too harsh now to marry someone who ain't contributing #1 to the marriage. Forget beauty and the rest. My only quality I need in a woman is she working and prayerful type. That's all. Every other thing CA be handled.

One of the reason I always insist on marrying someone working is this....... Most ladies tend to bring calamity to u when they are idle. They keep messing up n quarelling with some of their fellow house wives. I can never stand to see this in my home. Some of the rubbish I see now. Most of this house wives are useless. They got nothing to offer than do school runs, cook and open legs in d nyt while constituting nuisance for u in d yard. It's always good to have something doing in life no matter how lil.

Everything about a housewife is spritual.. she sees even your neighbor with good intentions as one of her spritual enemy. This is one thing I keep avoiding in my life.


If u like resemble monkey, just get a good paying job like in medical, banking, government or oil sector, forget the rest..... I will propose to u.


I and my future wife deserve to be living financially well. I don't believe in the management theorem cos of the economy.

bros,man up and take charge of your family,financially and otherwise.stop looking for a woman to contribute to ur family upkeep.dey don't call u head of d family for nothing.if she contribute,fine.if she doesn't,no b by force.after all d kids will bear ur name and are yours,so is d family stop looking into a woman's purse.

LifestyleTonite:
@bold
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At the end of the day, who enjoys the benefit of the business and personality? Is it not woman? But you want to sound smart let you don't give a damn, but in the corner you are simping for women .

If you are not living because of a woman then you ought to be in the forest.

so ur sole purpose in life is to satisfy a woman?

Asgard73:
Guess he’s a dealer and already known before his unfortunate dead.. I believe also that they youth have warned him several times .. but the drug don block his ears and he feels superhuman .. and maybe again the effect of the drugs on the community is becoming serious..

If that’s what it takes to return that drugs back to Lagos state.. is very welcome ..

No to jungle Justice.. but some are welcomed .

Igbos must fight this ICE and resist with every means possible..

Mkpurummiri must be returned back to Lagos ..

u blame everybody but urself for ur misfortune.was d drug thrown from Lagos to d east?if no,den it was brought.so d question now is who brought it?charity begins at home,dis ones want to start dere development locally.dey are tired of developing other ppls land.

nellyelitz:
You're the one that doesn't want more than one child, so why do u want to have him steriled instead doing that on ur womb. Anyway, u're a good fiction writer though.

no wonder she has been single.who go marry weirdo.

Mercychen:
Exactly!
God bless you.



You know with the female family planning comes a lot of risk and issues of mismatch or even failure which leads to unwanted pregnancies. While the male type is safer and with less risks.

so he shud now come and make himself sterile.suppose anything happens to d one Child u have.have u ever thought of that?u shud try to reason before u come up with ridiculous ideas.no mentally sound Nigerian will agree to ur bullshit.

Dreadshy:
What is sauce for the goose is also good for the gander... tie up your tubes if you dont want more kids, simple. Trouble will end, relationship restored

no,make she remove d womb na him sure pass.she dey craze

oladipuposadeeq:
but wait with all these attributes, you still left him. What did he do, he been cheat because I know say he no go pass that one. Even you self go get your own flaws we all have our flaws but you still talking about him shows you haven't gotten over him

u know whether na him leave her?may b she offend am.at times,we sef dey leave dem.as dis one sound so,e b like say na d guy leave her.i Stand to be corrected though

11
Explanation
5 sons + 3 sisters (3 sisters are same sisters to all the 5 sons) + 1x3(3 sisters have one baby each)
= 5 + 3 + 3 = 11

where did u now put d couple?

Ade3131:
I'm on my way to work abeg. I no dey on 30k monthly payroll of the BMC, so I've got work to report to... All the best to you and your killer squad government. Tyrants in power.

8 years happens like a flash, your people will soon be called ex this or that and another tyrant can come in and torment us all. Ire ooo

oh,am on my way to work as well almost at d city gate as I type this,I can see the mko stadium too,so don't brag about work here.dont think u can force any bullshit down our throats coz we use our brain to think and make judgements.we don't allow others do the thinking for us.enjoy.