A married woman has expressed her desire to sleep with other men as she is now bored with her husband.

"Am maried but another preeq don dey hungry me, faithful maried women pis hw una take dy do am abeg, my husbnd no to get my time he no dy too last 4 bed but he's nice."

The boy is her child. She is a single Mom

Some men tend to judge women who are aged without marriage. Some of them are being shamed because they are of some age without husband. I have a brief about some.

Let's be realistic here. Not all of them lived a wayward life in their younger age. Not all of them slept around and samankwe with sugar daddies in their younger age.

Some are victims of men too. Not all of them have multiple body counts. Some are faithful to some of us men who deceived them. All their lives, they knew just us.

You are not ready to marry because you don't have the money. You beg her. Roll yourself on the ground to give you time so that you can make some money and marry her. You swear with everything in you that you'll never leave her. Already, both of you are building your future together.

Men are coming for her. They want to date her. They want to marry her. You are scared of losing her. You don't want her to cheat on you. You want her to be faithful. You assure her that comes rain comes shine, you both must end together. That sinks into her head.

You announced everywhere that she is your woman. Even on social media, the world knows she's your woman. Other men stay clear. She's in serious relationship.

Year in year out, you keep promising. Pleading she wait for you. Time is going.

After some years, when the money is coming, you remember she's old for you. You want younger girls. You want ọnụ ọnụ ụgụ. You cannot marry anyone who is 30 or 33+ but deep down, this person waited for you all this years. This person is 30 and 33+ because of you.

This is argument some men make.

"If you tell girls the truth, they will not agree for you to do?"

Must you do? Must you do everyone around you?

Let me go more blunt and raw, so that the message will sink.

If it's sex you want from a woman, spell it out. There are many ways to do that. Let her know her stand. If she wants, she's an adult. Either yes or no. It's never a crime. Morality, it is wrong. Lawfully, it's right. But it's better you go truthfully and receive no or yes than going with fake love, relationship and marriage only to waste her time, chase other men away and leave her with...

"My mother said that....

You are too old for me...

My pastor said that...

I saw a dream that...

My prophet said that...

Ezenwaanyị mmiri said that...

Dibịa said that...

You didn't consult them when you chase away other suitors and make her see you as the most serious person who want to marry her?

It's not a crime that she's exclusively loyal and faithful to you.

There is this statement that churns my stomach some adults use to make: "not every relationship ends in marriage."

In our world today, people enter relationship for just fun. Avenue to be having sex anytime anyday, after all, we are dating. Once you are tired, they break up, next person. Was it defined this way from the beginning? That's the question.

There are kinds of relationship. Open relationship and exclusive relationship.

You want exclusive relationship. Not open. You want someone to build with you. You come with love and marriage The person zeroed her mind. The person chased other suitors away and remain faithful to you, believing that you both have something going on. After years, you wake up and tell her that all relationship must not end in marriage.

I am still not a fan of using relationship and marriage to get a woman laid. There are girls out there who don't even mind. Just say the truth and stand by it. If it's open relationship, spell it out. No strings attached. Just fun. With that, no headache. You both know what you want — just pleasure.

But, you want her all for yourself. You want her loyalty. Other men shouldn't go close.

Now, after wasting their time, after some of them maintained faithlessness to you, you wake up one day and complain that they are too old. You want younger girls.

This is wrong. This action by some men makes it look like it's a crime to be faithful to them. This is also one of the reasons I don't blame women who don't put their eggs in one basket. Women who try other options and put their options open. I think, I like that. Except a man or woman proves with all reasonable doubt, that they are serious and really want something to work, they don't deserve exclusive relationship. You may frown at this, but that's reality.

A friend was in exclusive relationship with a man. They planned to get married this month. Some months ago, I was sceptical about the whole thing. Like, she didn't give other men chance. A month to wedding, it turned out that the man was scam, a blatant liar and selfish sick fellow. The wedding was cancelled. I didn't even know until after she healed from the shock and told me.

You see, reality keeps hitting harder.

I am also not in support of women rushing to marry early and marry wrongly. Marriage is a serious thing. Today is not yesterday. Marry with intention. Because you want to or ready to, and not because you are of age, anything at all you see with pénis, you enter desperately.

Let's always be truthful to ourselves.

I encourage young ones around me, untill you are serious to get married, you have no business with exclusive relationship and promises of marriage. My mother warned me against that as a teenager. The principle lives in me till date.

Define the kind of relationship you want from people. Stop being agada gbachiri ụzọ. You don't want to be serious. You also don't want another man who is serious to have her. You just want her to be there as your object of pleasure. When you are tired, you discard her and look for someone else, because you are the man and you fear no repercussion.

This is bad.

Dear Ladies, before you show any exclusive interest, relationship with any man, I advise you to check very well. If you are ready to marry and a few years pass by, this guy show no serious interest about where the relationship is heading. He only calls when he is hórny. Of course he blesses your account steady but there's nothing else serious, I am advising you as a brother, reconsider your priority.

Time is going. If it's fun you want to have, the decision is yours.

Stop wasting years waiting for a man who is not serious. Anyone who isn't serious shouldn't even enter exclusive relationship with marriage in view.

With this advice, no man will hurt woman, no woman will feel hurt, used and dumped. If both agree on selima nkuli nkuli with no strings attached, nobody will feel used in the end.

Define whatever you want. When it's taking longer than usual, and nothing serious, catapult and find your way. That's, if you want something serious. But if it's just fun, carry go. It's your choice.

Just know that some of these men will come with marriage just to have you, it doesn't matter how long it takes. Once they are tired, they will disappear. Learn to accept the truth and stop feeding on fantasies.

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1- CONFIRM IF HE HAS A JOB .

I'm an entertainer. I'm a graduate or I'm a hustler is not a job unless it is a brand with the potential of remitting steady income. Don't depend on luck, hopes and dreams.

2- CONFIRM HE HAS A PLACE.

Squatting with several friends in a mini apartment with no visible efforts to expand is usually a redflag.

Don't get me wrong but an adult should have his own space. A man cannot plan future surrounded by the in and outs of strangers. Privacy is not optional. A single room apartment is better than a flat filled with squatters.

3- CONFIRM HE HAS A DEFINED LIFESTYLE.

What is his drive? His passion, what kind of life does he live? And how does it blend into your own life? Is he a private person or a loud person? Is he social or principled? Is his lifestyle driven by moral doctrines or secular doctrines? You need to know if who he is can fit into who you are.

4- CONFIRM HE IS HIS OWN MAN.

Not every male figure is a man. Many are mere representation of male dominance but deep down theyare weak in mind and character. You want a man who can own up and make tough choices otherwise, You will always be caught up between his mistakes and poor choices. A tough man is predictable but a weak man is a ticking bomb.

5- CONFIRM HIS INTENTIONS /EXPECTATIONS .

Although, intentions can be tricky but with careful observation, you could gain access to unlocking possible outcomes. Look beyond words or kind gestures and check his basic character. His replies and responses. Is he sensitive or just another jerk.

Check for his expectations too. What does he want truly. Are you his type? Even if he says you are, Do you feel you are? Don't ignore your instincts as a woman, They are usually right.

What does he expect of you? Does he want to suppress your dreams or explore them? Is he comfortable with your activities? Can you cope? Can you cut down to his expectations without loosing yourself? Can you? Think again.

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These days we find ourselves getting tired of each other too quickly.

After a few meets and some rounds of sex our feelings and excitement slowly dwindles, Until we become familiar strangers.

Not because the other person is inadequate or unwilling to make it work but because we expose ourselves to way too many options.

We create contingencies and Fail safes because we don't believe in each other enough to give our 100%.

It is almost as if we start a relationship with a predetermined motive to end it and the moment we sense a bump, we quickly jump off the ship.

I have an amazing girlfriend but I am sweet in every other girl's Dm doing what exactly? Searching for what?

She has an amazing boyfriend but still hands her phone number to other boys knowing fully what they all want from her.

Don't get me wrong. Making new friends is cool. Keyword Friend but how many of these people want to be just friends?

The danger with exposing yourself to options or giving people listening ears and access to you is that,

You subconsciously begin to feel too important and too impatient to work things out with your partner because you have options.

And these third parties may end up convincing or confusing you into believing You deserve better than your partner is offering.

Now the question is not whether you deserve better, Ofcos you do, But can these so called third parties give you better?

They can be better for the first weeks or even a month but can they treat you better through the years?

REMEMBER : Love is not about getting someone better, It is about getting someone who makes you better and about making someone better than they were.

So if you have a good thing going, Don't gamble it or mess it up because someone promised you better.

You have to manually shut people out because giving them a listening ear is like giving them an opportunity to convince you,

The question is if we are not interested in them, why listen to what they have to say?

Lasting Relationship come with a price, You must give up some part of your decision making power and freedom,

And make sacrifices to let go alot of things just so this one thing can work.

Alot of relationships fall out because we all want to keep our old lives and still create a new life. It doesn't work that way.

If your relationship is not a priority, It is an option and options are always replaced.

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So, I met this great guy online. After 2 weeks, we met in person and everything was perfect.

It's almost 2 months since we have been together.

He asked me out while we were together and I gladly said yes. (I have met a lot of players�). So while we were together, a discussion popped up and he said he can't discuss anything related to marriage until after 6 months. I pretended not to hear.


I don't know his financial capacity but I know he is doing okay. He controls the family business. They sell trucks, trailers and all. He is also a landlord in one of his father's houses at Festac. We stayed at a hotel. 25k per night. He paid for 2 night and I paid for one night. But during these times, we went to his house.

He said he didn't want me to come to see his place because it's the first time. And he said the house is very hot too.


Our communication is great but he doesn't look like he wants marriage soon. He has said things like marriage is hard work. He has also said in 10 years time, people will hardly be getting married.

Then one night, we were talking and he said I "see my wife as my responsibility"
I will take care of her and of cos, I am okay but I will still be very very rich, so I can't bring in any woman to suffer now" .. That's what I am sure I heard but I was scared to ask him to explain further or repeat himself.

He is actually okay, he has two cars but importantly, he has sense and he is very hard-working. But he is very principled and we have actually had several instances where he doesn't pick my calls at night. It happens often but I am starting to trust him, because sometimes I call by 5am and he picks and says he slept off. Sometimes we would be chatting on WhatsApp and after I call him 20 minutes later, he won't respond. He is not married!

So, I currently earn 450k monthly and I have been able to save something meaningful, so I can start a good business before getting married or after. I haven't stated because I don't know which one yet. I started a restaurant business when I was 23 but it failed.

If I ask him and he says 1 year, of course, I can wait. I will be 26 years next year April.

We will seeing for the 2nd time next week. I plan to ask him when he sees himself getting married but I am scared and the way he carries himself makes me reluctant to ask such.

About two weeks ago, I wanted to even surprise him with gifts. I asked for his account number and office/home address. (He picked me up the last time I traveled to see him, so I don't know the address". Well, he didn't give me these details. He said when it's time I will have them.


Two days ago, he said a friend's younger brother is getting married. He laughed and said people just dey marry. He has once asked me "You dey find husband?" jokingly-

I would like to settle before 27. Is it bad that I am thinking this way? If he says he is looking to get married in 2-3 years, i think it's a bit far. 2023 is still fine. But the problem is he doesn't really sound like marriage is on his mind. He will be 32 next year April too.

We vibe a lot. But he says I love you sparingly. Sometimes I say it and he doesn't respond, he will say tomorrow I will tell u or no, I told u yesterday.

But we are really really cool. I like him a lot and he likes me but I think I like him more. He gives me attention, I don't have to ask.

If I was 23, I won't have a problem waiting 3-4 years. But since I am ready mentally, financially, I am looking for someone who wants it within 6 months to 1 year. I can still try to do 2 years if I get someone great.

I said something about simps..pls act as instructed.
Most girls are selfish and only after what they will leech from you without nay plan to give anything in return except jenjina as usual.

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I disagree with you. Not all the girls are the same. . . We have real girls, fake girls and immature girls. I think you mingle with the immature onces

I find it very difficult to give girls money especially the ones I am in a relationship with. I think the reason behind this is, I used to spend on girls to much in my days on campus but since I got comfortable and also swallowed Ubunja redpills, I easily see through the games of girls and how thier only use is sex and to collect money from men. The only difference between an average Nigerian girl and a prostitute, is the name you call the money you give to them after sex......
guys, drop your thoughts.


Simps pls go far

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I find it very difficult to give girls money especially the ones I am in a relationship with. I think the reason behind this is, I used to spend on girls to much in my days on campus but since I got comfortable and also swallowed Ubunja redpills, I easily see through the games of girls and how thier only use is sex and to collect money from men. The only difference between an average Nigerian girl and a prostitute, is the name you call the money you give to them after sex......
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