₦airaland Forum

If you come to my house as my friend and I ask you to help me, so you won't do it?

ImaIma1:
He invited her to his house. He should entertain her if that means buying food. If i invite a guy to my house, i could cook for him or buy him food not ask him to buy his food when he is coming or enter the kitchen to cook.

Pls thread carefully in Niger Delta they are use to the water more than you guys.

Rip

Why did she eat the food that was bought for her? Why did she follow him to his house on a first date? Whats wrong about her helping him to cook? Relationship is a give and take thing. You don't only receive.

ImaIma1:
Even if i am a renowned chef and cooking is my first love and hubby, why would i cook? I should cook to increase my chances of being the wife of a man that wants me to cook for him and his friends on the first date. What kind of husband will that be? Abeg even if a lady is 40yrs old, marriage should not be a goal that leads her to desperation for husband.

No coment na. Afonja vs Afonja

Wasting of time and resources.

Happy born day oga.

I am a servant/child of God and not a servant of man. Good day

bamidelee:
and that's why you would continue to be their servant

I am not deceiving myself. I know what I am saying as a Christian sir. It did not stop him and will never stop him and all the pastors that are genuinely doing the work of God.

God bless you.

bamidelee:
which God
you're deceiving yourself

Madam sorry. But learn to control your mouth too.

It didn't stop pastor Adeboye from doing the work of God.

Fowl wey no dey hear word dey end for pot of soup.

You have told him the repercussion if he is still bent on doing it, his blood will not be on your head.
You have done what a good friend should do.

So chill. We will soon see his face on nairaland.

Oga how does he deserve to die in such a way?

Say unto others what you will like them to say unto you. (my own version)

NwamaziNwaAro:

So sad, RIP


Abeg, na dem dem

He deserved it jor

Mercy pls can you allow us hear from your man? Even though he doesn't have the right to lay a finger on you no matter what. He deserves a fair hearing.

I know the genesis of all this is that he slept with another lady.

Hmmm. Well If you enjoy cooking you will not be saying this. It doesn't mean the guy wanted to use you. You probably don't know if he wanted a wife and saw you as a potential one. You missed out.

Maybe if it was sex you will have gladly given to him.

That is why I said we should all learn to live in peace. There is no marriage that is 100 % healthy. One person has to be a fool in quote in order to suceed. That does not mean you are a fool but you are being wise for the sakeof your children if you really value them.

I once ask this question you asked and vowed that I will never tolerate it. But with my lovely kids I have learnt to keep quiet when the tension is high to avoid any form of abuse. Not because I can't fight back but what will become of my children if they see me do that and learn to do the same in future.
That's what this lady is exhibiting.

ojun50:
even wen d marriage is an abusive one?

The way you dress your bed so you lie on it. That is why I don't advocate for divorce especially when children are involve. Cos they will tend to believe everything the are told by the person they stay with. And since I don't advocate for divorce doesn't mean you have to abuse your spouse.
Learn to live in peace for the sake of your children.

ojun50:
Nd dis one na person daughter fa

Madam go meet horse you go enjoy that one well well

This is the only nothern governor that I respect. Even when he is in the opposition ,his people still loves him. Ride on sir.

Na wah o! All of them looks older in prison

Presidential campaign things.

Anyway, you've done noble.

All of them are always sick in the prison or when they are facing trials.

Oga Bisi. I will take care of my parent. They deserve it. Maybe your own neglected you and that is why you are like that.

Mine will enjoy me come rain come shine.

Menh!!!!! It is not yet over untill it is all over.
Congratulobia!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh my God. Four able men. Rest in peace.

You have 15million and you cannot make good use of it. Sorry!!! help will soon come your way

Pls run away from that quiet guy. He will deal with you after quietly planning you for decades.
The lousy one in quote will call you to order immediately you offend him.

After this please I will say hide your marriage from social media and Nigerian bloggers so that they won't make you feel you are still acting the wedding party.

Must the op use dwarf? They have msde thdir choice abeg free him.

In Fela's words YOU BE THIEF I NO BE THIEF

Between Nigerian Army and Shekaru ; YOU WERE INJURED I WAS NOT INJURED. YOU ARE DEAD I AM NOT DEAD.

Now this cat with nine lives has been killed and injured so many times.

Don't know what to say again

Mr man, you don't even know the meaning of your name. Your name is peace and you go around causing trouble. Young men like you are inventing one thing or the other that will lead to the growth of your society and you are here fighting with a fellow man like you because of a girl you even use your mouth to end the relationship with.
Now your nose is damage. Which girl will accept you now with scattered nose and broken head.

What will become of their children if they have one?

I feel your pain but how would you marry a man that has already been married twice and the women left him without asking questions?
Maybe he was doing the same to them.

Women pls look before you leap.