Wahala dey o... this is no longer a joking matter. The country is at the brink of bankruptcy unfortunately the leaders care less, rather they continue embezzling and looting with reckless abandon.
lailo: Sabi students know wetin to do. Kidnap 3 lecturers....... Cut their heads and stake it at campus front gate........ Only the university will close the school for 8 weeks for nomalcy to return....... Use the 8 weeks to prepare for your exam and life goes on
If DSS track you now, you go say na devil handwork.
kingreign: Baba, staying without money to cater for one’s needs for long time can cause depressions and suicidal thoughts/actions.
Oga, depression is a medical condition. Being sad or feeling stressed because of lack of money does not equate depression. There are criteria to be met before a diagnosis of depression is made. That is the whole point I am trying to make.
kingreign: Not every problem needs psychiatric evaluation. If a person is broke, he will feel depressed. The cure for being broke is to offer him a means of income or money. If a person is hungry, you offer means of feeding to him or give him food. It is very simple and doesn’t need any prayer or psychiatrist assistance.
The term "depression" is a medial condition that must satisfy the DSM V criteria before diagnosis is made. So being sad or acutely stressed by events does not equate depression. I know the word has been thrown around to cover when someone is sad but medically it has a defined criteria
Mrsoft3: as good as this sound and can help a little, it is not the best thing to do. i have heard of depressed people being looked after and the few minutes they could get alone they committed suicide.
explorer a depressed person is one who has lost touch with GOD, they are truly vulnurable in that state. my best treatment is for you to create an atmosphere for the person to be closer to GOd. you can send short msg for them to listen to r if you are with them play it intentionally and pray the holy spirit helps to salvage the situation. your faith can help another persons dieing faith. depression is real, it is deadly a fatal.
Explorers: Have a friend who's kind of depressed and seriously needs help.
Who can he talk to, a psychologist or ?
Talk to a doctor. Depression is a medical (psychiatric) condition that needs to be treated. While there are different means in treating it, it would also make sense for it to be rightly diagnosed before we conclude it is depression and not any other medical condition or grief.
While you are with your friend, I encourage you take him/her to see a doctor ASAP.
They are coming very fast, sniffing to hunt this thread down..
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Chai again.
You are not different from them as you are the first to comment but your thoughts are already geared towards tribal war. I put it to you that "you are an accomplice and an instigator". We can do better as individuals and as a people.
SeaTrade: So I was at a restaurant having my usual breakfast. Then few moments later, my girl called since she knows my itinery and asked if she could join. I obliged (greatest undoing!).
Like 40mins after, she came and couldn't sit beside me cos there was a partner of mine right next to me, so she sat far.
Then there was this girl that was like 10ft away from us on another table, all alone having her own breakfast. I don't know her, have never seen her before and I noticed she has been stealing glances at me and then look away when I made eye contact.
Even my partner had to whisper to my ears that someone was checking me out and all (I was well dressed and all, besides man na still fine man ooo ).
Then after a while, my chick left to get something upstairs while I had to settle the bill at the counter for our breakfast.
Omo as I dey counter dey want pay, this girl came to the same teller I was trying to pay to and asked me if there was an attendant there(cos the attendant left to confirm some prices). I said yes and she stood right next to me waiting for my attendant to return so she can pay at the same point whereas there were other attendants that were empty!
I knew okay, this was it! This girl likes the man infront of her. Time past and my attendant hadn't returned and she tried to spark up small talk, I responded briefly because my chick fit turn up at any minute. Guy I lock up!
The attendant came and I cleared my bill and told her bye. I was pained. This girl fine die and classy, chai!!
I no collect number, I no book rendezvous, nothing!
You know why? I instantly did my cost analyses in my head and figured it wasn't worth it to spook my girl of my philandering ways and lose the stability I enjoy from her over this girl I don't know.
The thing pain me ehn!chai. But nigga gats maintain.
I've never had this type before, the girl too clean, sleek, soft spoken, pretty and classy and young too (max 22).
But I let all this go because I no like risk and shalaye.
And the girl slim, all this kind girls weh you fit hang for wall...
I really lost today honestly. Don't get me wrong, I'm a player, but sometimes we just can't lose what we have for uncertainty so I control myself. Chai!!!
But one thing pleased me, it was great to know I'm still attractive. Haven't had a youngling drool over me in a while.
Tbh I thought I've lost it and is all on sugar daddy mode now.
And no, this girl ain't no hooker, she came in her own chauffeur driven Honda cos I saw her at the lot as I left (could be an uber too, I wouldn't know).
At the end of the day, you are undoing yourself with the lifestyle you think is fun.... but who am I? Your life, your choice!
The initiative is good but not sustainable. Even in the developed countries, you pay for fare, though at a subsidized rate, and thus is not for taxi but bus and train.
The initiative is likened to the school feeding program the FG is currently spending on. Not sustainable