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Romance / Twitter Now Has Online Dating Facility by Elitecool: 5:16pm On Jul 07, 2022
Hi everyone!
Pls, what's all about these random dating request messages that can, at anytime, pop-up on one's phone.
I started to notice this for over a month now.
What's its genuineness?
Is the idea from Twitter?

If truly it's from twitter, do you see any morals about it?
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Gave My Baby Girl To Another Man, Help!!! by Elitecool: 6:11pm On Dec 08, 2021
I'm sorry to say you'd played a dangerous game. You should've known and maintained your stance from when she said the pregnancy is not yours.
It'd be deadly to continue having relationship with such a monster.

Why the need for DNA test?
Anyway, get prepared for a million naira for that. If result favours you, collect your child and never have something to do with that prostitute again and again.
Romance / Re: A Girl Spent The Night At His Place And I'm Feeling So Bad About It. by Elitecool: 8:42pm On Aug 26, 2020
Vikalinda:

Which one is predestined man, no one is predestined for anyone stop applying unscriptural teaching to another person.
It can only not exist owing to the faith you carry which is supposed not to be in proximity with mine.
Romance / Re: A Girl Spent The Night At His Place And I'm Feeling So Bad About It. by Elitecool: 3:27am On Aug 26, 2020
Zzor:
ignore him and pretend he doesn't exist,dont fall for such simple trick to get you jealous,hes a player.Never show a guy you like him no matter how deep you have fallen,he will never respect you if you do that,he may accept you if you make any move but will never value you,you will become his sex thing,they value ladies they suffered to have,thats how they are weird,dont follow any advise coming from a guy here,they just want you to fall cheap for their fellow.I repeat,never ever make or show him signs that you have fallen in love with him,if he comes fine, but if he doesn't,my dear bury that feelings quickly and get busy.
I believe you would do worse if you were the one.
Because you sound like someone that's experienced in such circumstances.
"ignore him and pretend he doesn't exist,"
Why that!?
LOVE HATES PRIDE
What if he's her predestined man.

Matters like that need some senses not just attitude & aggressiveness.

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Health / Re: 252 New COVID-19 Cases, 707 Discharged And 3 Deaths On August 25 - (5216 Tested) by Elitecool: 2:52am On Aug 26, 2020
References:






Hardly would you think they don't pad the figures all time; Especially when students clamours for schools reopening heighten, the confirmed cases surge.
shocked shocked
Education / Re: Strike: ASUU Chairman Asks Nigerian Students For Their Cooperation by Elitecool: 7:54pm On Aug 24, 2020
sinkhole:
of their own premium?
A Professorship is the highest level you reach in a University, a typical Nigerian Professor does not collect #450k a month.
The last time lecturers' salaries was reviewed was in 2009: how many times has House Members salaries being reviewed?
ASUU is asking for conducive lecture halls, well equipped laboratories, good hostels for student, etc and insisting that all these should be provided without excluding our parents in the villages who couldn't afford the exorbitant fee of private schools.
Upon all the above and more you still claim that ASUU is only after personal interest?

Yes I really meant "of their own premium"
I never uttered a word about their salaries but their annoying, toothless decry - where're you when 2013 hoot was met with no implementation but fake promises from the govt. I was in school then. A morale-killing 6month- strike, to many students like me was more than frustrating.

The words I chose that triggered your reply was as a result of my experience in the university.

The year I entered university was the year the school council committee rolled out the idea of development levy of 30k, which each fresher must pay, since then, it's been maintained.
The said fee was mentioned to be meant for the school development but one can hardly see any development.

If truly ASUU means good for students and stands for the best interest of students they would have devised another method to make their clamours heard instead of making things turn from bad to worst.
See, the fights look unwinnable for ASUU on behalf of the students public. After all, the so called ASUU members make their ways to abroad to study. That's hypocrisy.
Education / Re: Strike: ASUU Chairman Asks Nigerian Students For Their Cooperation by Elitecool: 3:43pm On Aug 24, 2020
I think it's more of their own premium than schools Standards.
Only trying to act under the pretence of "students interest"
Romance / Re: I Have A Girl I Can Marry But These sensitive factors Stand Between Our Marriage by Elitecool: 3:00pm On Aug 23, 2020
Ishilove:

Kwara.

You're asking her to convert but you are not willing to convert.

You better save yourself and the girl the imminent drama and go your separate ways.
You may not have gone through the post clinically. Besides, I've seldomly seen where a man converts to his wife's religion.
Kwara isn't the only Yoruba-speaking state of the region, mate.
Romance / Re: I Have A Girl I Can Marry But These sensitive factors Stand Between Our Marriage by Elitecool: 1:51pm On Aug 23, 2020
frozen70:


Her parents positions in the church will be solved after you must agree to wed her in her church, though that's the normal thing

Your mum need to be convinced that she is the only one who can make life worth living

You are the man actor in this, if you live her go for her,, there are no perfect woman and no perfect man, it all depends on God and luck of one's choice of partner
You mean I should pretend being a Christian or choose to openly convert.
Romance / Re: I Have A Girl I Can Marry But These sensitive factors Stand Between Our Marriage by Elitecool: 3:53am On Aug 23, 2020
Kobicove:


After writing this epistle you still did not tell UA the sensitive factors that stand in the way undecided
Religion
Tribe
Romance / Re: I Have A Girl I Can Marry But These sensitive factors Stand Between Our Marriage by Elitecool: 3:34am On Aug 23, 2020
CallMeGrace:
You jus have to let go...

Thanks! Just imagining how it will be for both of us for whatever decision we choose.
Romance / Re: I Have A Girl I Can Marry But These sensitive factors Stand Between Our Marriage by Elitecool: 3:09pm On Aug 22, 2020
ZinoFasisi:
Honestly it's best ya'll move on.

1. Her parents won't agree no matter the pressure, probably same as yours
2. Aside that She is won't convert, and u won't too. Are u ready to watch her go to church every sunday, vigil, revival etc. to serve her God? And is she ready to watch u recites ur dua, go for ur 5 daily prayers? For the rest of ur lives
3. If you guys get married, religion is going to be a big issue both from ur end and parents' end too.
A. Who gets to decide Children's religion
B. Type of wedding u'll have, Muslim or Christian
C. Who names/dedicates the child pastor or imam.
Thanks!
Romance / Re: I Have A Girl I Can Marry But These sensitive factors Stand Between Our Marriage by Elitecool: 1:58pm On Aug 22, 2020
abbertee:
If your mother oppose your marriage just move on and find another girl, only whitch knows whitch

Isn't that uncivil way of thinking? Be civil pls.
Romance / Re: I Have A Girl I Can Marry But These sensitive factors Stand Between Our Marriage by Elitecool: 1:52pm On Aug 22, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


SO WITHOUT THEIR PRAYERS A MARRIAGE IS INVALID?

YOU DON'T NEED YOUR PARENTS BLESSINGS AND PRAYERS FOR ANYTHING. IT'S A FACT THAT MANY TROUBLESOME AND FAILED MARRIAGES WERE BLESSED AND SUPPORTED BY PARENT


I've trusted and loved my parents from time being. Just left for my own rented apartment a year ago. I can't joke with their advice.

I also thought of possible division amongst our children, if we eventually got married.
Romance / Re: I Have A Girl I Can Marry But These sensitive factors Stand Between Our Marriage by Elitecool: 1:35pm On Aug 22, 2020
SIRRITE:

Hers is likely to let her go since she is woman, u know africa parents mentality consining a female child nah
This thrills me a lot.
Also, note that, she's born in southwest and speaks Yoruba even more than I do.
Romance / Re: I Have A Girl I Can Marry But These sensitive factors Stand Between Our Marriage by Elitecool: 1:27pm On Aug 22, 2020
SIRRITE:
Hmmm, though u need ur parents blessings and support in ur marriage, without their prayers especially u guys are not yet married.
Abiooo! Even If my parents give a green light, what of hers?

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Romance / Re: I Have A Girl I Can Marry But These sensitive factors Stand Between Our Marriage by Elitecool: 1:21pm On Aug 22, 2020
Meekha:


Eyah. Have loved a Muslim girl too and we couldn't pull through cos of religion. I know it'll meet the bricks already. Not my wish though but the society's wish. Love relationships like this seldom lead to marriage. If you're in the North, save yourselves from unnecessary time wastage. If you're in the West, then it may be possible
North central, Yoruba. Why did u say that?
Romance / Re: I Have A Girl I Can Marry But These sensitive factors Stand Between Our Marriage by Elitecool: 1:18pm On Aug 22, 2020
Croccityboi123:
Be a man
If you could be a bit elaborate
Romance / Re: I Have A Girl I Can Marry But These sensitive factors Stand Between Our Marriage by Elitecool: 12:48pm On Aug 22, 2020
OGWILLS123:
Which religion does she belong to and which one do you belong to too
so that I will know how to give the advice
I'm a muslim
Romance / I Have A Girl I Can Marry But These sensitive factors Stand Between Our Marriage by Elitecool: 12:34pm On Aug 22, 2020
Good day mates here present!
Hope you do keep the COVID safety guidelines there. Of course, I do here.

Now, Over to what currently bothers me that I hope I get fair responses here in the end.

Having graduated about 4yrs ago, I got a job within a year, after my NYSC. There's this babe whom I met in my place of work that we started dating till this moment. She's 23, I'm 30 - she lives with me in my 2- bedroom flat in my home town. We love each other so much.

To cut it short, few sensitive things could deny us settling down together as we're neither of the same tribe nor religion - her mother is a deaconess while her father is a pastor.

Right from the onset, we both knew we can't get married but you too know this invisible thing we call LOVE - I had many times tested her love towards me and found her worth having my heart - at a point, i told her: 'Can you convert to my religion but replied no' though, We trust and love each other so much.

Last month, I talked my mother in to how I love this girl and will marry her - though, she's always loved to see me marry a good wife one day. My mum was happy, but replied, she's gonna pray over it. After 3wks, she summoned me to tell me that 'the babe is not good for me that I can't marry her - this weighs me down so much that I didn't know what to do.

Last weekend, we chatted on phone because she's now travelled back to her state - she's a student who will soon graduate. Lovely conversations we had, but only to see her mad at me the moment I stylishly talked around the likely impossibility of we marrying - she got sick for 3days. Since I'm aware of the girl I date - I knew of how damaging it could end up being. So, I've called to tell her I love her. Amidst conversations, she's even planning with me how it could be possible.
Pls, kindly put yourself in my shoes; what would you do??

Thanks for anticipating!

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Romance / Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by Elitecool: 11:15am On Aug 22, 2020
davedy:

we started dating after a period of time, she told me about herself, after all in the place of her work, she has dated about three different persons that she had sex with them. People in the office do gossip about her because of how waryward life. They do call her prositute. With all that, I still love her.

Before I came on board, she told me about her neighbour and all what they've done like touching and kissing was the highest they have done and I said ok.

Nothing wrong in telling you about her past before you started dating.

post=93076086:


We started dating and working towards marriage. At a time, we got intimate. I never knew that she was still seen her neighbor. She do go to his room to charge her phone. I never knew that they were having sex and she was having sex with me. she always claim that I'm the only person she is having sex with but I have this kind of feeling that she is cheating on me. I do always argue and challenged her faithfulness and at the end, she will put up a defensive mode accusing me that I didn't trust her.

Some days ago, when i challenged her with evidence of cheating. She confessed to me about how she and her neighbour been having sex and I was heartbroken, that night, I slept in a house I couldn't get it, I never knew that I love her so much, that was a period I knew that I was deeply in love with her. I feel like dying, I feel like everything is over. I love her so much, I want to marry her. Few days ago, I travelled to meet with my parents and discussed my marriage issues with them, I told my girl about it but she didn't blive. With all these, she didn't feel remorseful. I wish I had never met her. I am in pain.. What should I do? I am a confused man now.

She's unfaithful and a dog this moment, if she could still do this. I also understand that you're like pressured to marry but you need to accept that it's dangerous getting down with this most shameless of a girl. It's just sad!
Romance / Re: Should I Marry Albino? by Elitecool: 8:47am On Aug 20, 2020
Everybody is against me, they told me how can I introduce albinism to my lineage.. [/quote]
Genetically, it might turn out not to be so - you may get four kids with the following genotypes: albino, carrier. Which means there's tendency of having kids with phynotypically good skin.
Health / Re: 410 New COVID-19 Cases, 217 Discharged And 4 Deaths On August 18 - (8135 Tested) by Elitecool: 4:53am On Aug 19, 2020
Fabricated figures.
Evil agenda!
Mtcheeewww!
Investment / Shocking Response After Money Deductions Complaint To My Bank by Elitecool: 5:16pm On Jun 09, 2020
It's either you're insensitive or careless, when you're suppose to respond to abnormalities towards you especially by an organization like bank, and you let go.

It happened that, I recently discovered too many charges of #50 called "stamp duty charges" in my account. This caused me contacting with the bank to complain the anormalies, however, I was told "it's the new CBN financial bill recently passed that all banks must charge #50 for every ten thousand naira(#10k) and above inflow to customers' accounts"

And this is applied to all accounts of any kind.
Pls, share your experience.
Politics / Re: Governor Ganduje Seeks N15b Support From FG To Fight COVID-19 In Kano by Elitecool: 11:40am On Apr 23, 2020
And small small, they will drain all these cash donations finish and nothing will remain to transfer to the less privilege. Chai, Chai, there's Godooo���
Phones / Re: GLO Network In A Total Shutdown. by Elitecool: 4:42am On Dec 26, 2019
GuestLog:
Change your data APN or check your data balance.
I didn't touch the browsing settings.
Phones / Re: GLO Network In A Total Shutdown. by Elitecool: 4:41am On Dec 26, 2019
Ayetobi92:
I observed it has been terrible too since yesterday
grin
Phones / Re: GLO Network In A Total Shutdown. by Elitecool: 4:40am On Dec 26, 2019
tumababa:


Up till now? Where exactly is your location? Mine is blazing here
No calls nothing.
Phones / Re: GLO Network In A Total Shutdown. by Elitecool: 4:37am On Dec 26, 2019
Millichamp:
Quickly change your phone to a 4G phone and enjoy Glo 4G speed. The speed is the fastest I've seen in Nigeria.

Glo H+ Network is dead and doesn't work
I run on 4G- enabled phone. Though, it's not a 4G SIM. The problem is no network bars.
Phones / Re: GLO Network In A Total Shutdown. by Elitecool: 6:03pm On Dec 25, 2019
I dont think that would be necessary since didn't before hand touch the browsing settings.
Phones / Re: GLO Network In A Total Shutdown. by Elitecool: 4:33pm On Dec 25, 2019
Let me know your location pls. Mine is Offa, Kwara state.
Phones / GLO Network In A Total Shutdown. by Elitecool: 3:59pm On Dec 25, 2019
I dont know what on earth has been happening to Globacom company of Nigeria since yesterday . whether it's me alone that has been experiencing this or not, i damn don't know.
Please, do you (GLO User) also experience this ?

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