42neforivan:

I'd have to start from the very beginning.
My parents have been separated since I was six! Both are still unmarried.

My mom took care of her younger sister before she (my aunt) got married. Now that she's married and well to do, my mum expects her to do the same (take care of me).

My aunt's husband on the other hand, has been advising my mum to reconcile with my dad, but my mum does not buy the idea for personal reasons I can't share here. (Pardon me)

Prior to my admission into the university, my mum pleaded with my aunt's husband to help in sponsoring me in the University, to which he complied. I started staying with them about this time too. In her own words, she (my mum) 'wanted me to learn' from my aunt, who happens to be a house wife, as she also didn't want me to be alone (my siblings were in a Bording school).

While I was still in School, I needed money and asked my mum, but she referred me to my aunt's husband, to whom I sent a message (I always feel weird asking relatives for money or favors).

The content of the message(s) was alright, because I spelt out what I intended to use the money for.

While I was expecting a response from my uncle as regards the message I sent him, I began to hear that I was meant to send the messages to "uncle" and it doesn't necessarily have to have his name on it.

I apologized for that but still didn't get the money. Around the beginning of this year, my mum sent a' happy new year' message to him and his reply was "thank you and wish you same pls."

When my mum told me about it, I laughed at her and told myself that 'when you don't want to succumb to his advice, what do you expect?'

I was also happy he didn't reply me that way, but just today sighs! My mom said, send happy Easter message. To make her feel happy (or to avert quarrel), I said ok and sent it o!

His reply was, 'thank you Fortune and wish you same please.'

Guys, please what do you think I did wrong this time?
My heart dey beat laidis


I made all the above "corrections" to aid readability. Don't come at me.

To Fortune, don't attach too much meaning to his reply... Focus rather on his actions and body language...

Las las you go dey alright.

jonbat:



I want to join the ielts group

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Zammy123:


What were the red flags? Are u comfortable talking about them here? If not. You should try and meet up with him and have a proper discussion with him.
Ps - Be ready to change the things he saw as red flags if you really still want him, afterwards it's left for him to decide if he still wants future with u or nay
Cc elitefosa

VladimirPutiin:


With the you reply comments on this your thread. I can boldly say this said lady is you.

Johnny147147:


Any relationship doesn't mean its built on love. What I'm trying to say is by all means get what u desires

BigRocky:


Lol,u know everyone can't be a nuisance or tribal bigot on the forum.

That's is why I hate it, when this upcoming feminist generalises men when pushing their Selfish agenda.

All of us aren't stupid.

SoapQueen:



Omo, I really wish I can go and beg someone who "dumped" me. Choi! I admire such ladies for their tenacity. Me and my craziness wey go delete your numbers and photos, unfriend you everywhere, and lock up in less than 2 market days. I don't block, just delete reminders and lick my wounds. As emotional, sweet-natured or sensitive I can be, I've got pride. Na man dey beg me, no be the other way round.

No matter how hurting or heartbroken you may be, never beg anyone to take you back. Somethings are meant to break if they ain't strong enough.

MadamOk:
Well winning him back is not the problem

Is she sure he is the right one for her
If she is sure he the right one
She should keep praying to God to touch his heart and show him the love she has for him of good, peace, joy and everlasting end

Unzerious:
Poor Thing, You see those RED Flags He pointed out, get rid of them. See him (Sam) as a Dress Rehearsal before the main Filming.

Preciousomakiye:

MrBrownJay1:

it is very easy to love someone but not being right for them/you.... you see, nobody shows their true self at the beginning of r/ship, you always hide your negative/bad/failed side and/or character. it takes a while for people to be relaxed enough in a r/ship to now show their true nature.
many people, when they realize the true nature of their partner's characters and ways, they stick to them because of love, but there are also few people who cant and just prefer to let go, simply because these negative/bad character traits are completely against their own ways of thinking.



love is a feeling brought by both the heart and the mind... and as much as you can love someone, its pretty easy to let go of that person, if they ever do something wrong and/or turn into someone you are against. you just need to surpress your heart's desire and use solely your brains to judge the issue.
here is a clue: it doesnt matter how much i love someone, if that person is disrespectful/unfaithful or physically abusive, i will leave her with never ever looking back!

BigRocky:
First of all,she have to make the decision to heal.
She have to understand that a relationship is not worth dieing for.

Then everything that brings in memory of the guy should be erase I.e delete his number (very important)his cloths in her possession, pictures they both in etc.

She should be going out,to offload and reload her mind.talk to friends and try out new things

She will be fine eventually.

okoroemeka:
what the damsel must understand is that it is not a must for us to get whatever we want, sometimes we have to let go

MrBrownJay1:
A) why would anyone want to be taken back by someone who doesnt want you?
B) why would anyone want to be taken back out of pity?
C) as much as you dont have to let go, you have to accept that this person does NOT want you because you are wrong for them.
D) the above is probably part of the red flags that had him run away from you

Johnny147147:

All is Fair in War and Love... Even Olamide say "U fit Kanyamata u fit use Juju"...

BigRocky:


Maybe the guy never loved her and just
used whatsoever he called red flags to get away from her.

She should move on..
Others guys might be in a dieing need of her.

PeaceJoyLove:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Zdu5gIr_vQ


I wish ... I wish ...

We're almost hopeless in Nigeria
Garri, the latest gold in town?
5 Igbo states are on red
Boko Haram still piercing our upper region hearts
Bandits spilling blood of ocean

Blood crying out for vengeance from the darkest part
Legions released on the land

No more Rest In Peace
But Labour in death
Hustling from grave for the wickeds' wealth
Oh! Red all over the land

What about the trends in the land?
Looting 101
Scamming 201
Palliatives diversion 301
Wire Wire 401
Hmmmmm!

Hopelessness seems the last bus stop
Hope is hopeless

But FAITH is the substance of things hoped for ...
My FAITH looks up to Thee
I see light at the end of the tunnel

I wish you can see the new hope
I wish you understand it

And then, you'll stand with me
Choosing to integrity and honesty
Instead of "fast fast" bloody wealth

One love, one blood
One life, you've got to do what you should
One life, with each other
Sisters, brothers
One love, but we're not the same
We got to carry each other, Carry each other
Oh, Oh, Oh, Oh, Oh

BigRocky:
Simp of a woman

*Spits*

Mk una Sha no use juju kill the young man o

SilentQueen:
Yes Sam ended the relationship peacefully, but the stupid lady will not let go until she is embarrassed

Let go of sam and move on too!!!

anthonyuncle:
in this fasting?

Johnny147147:
Go do juju

MARKone:
It's every where. Importers are not finding it funny now, commercially imported goods would soon be out of the reach of Nigerians with the new increase in import duties, the Naira is weak, almost useless. Diesel is almost 800 Naira per litre, no light. Buhari is in UK cruising, his wife in Dubai shopping.