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She is on her way to the second million naira.

While you are still there complaining about Nigeria.

Somebody is fooling somebody.

Pay back time just around the corner.

Tell the fulani militia that Nigerians will survive them no matter what, but will they survive Nigerians?

It will be difficult to forget this bandits loving government.

Sorry for this happening to your husband. I personally wish it never happened.

To thousands of young men out there starting life today. Life is a very long journey that you should attempt not to do it alone. Also avoid doing it without your parents and siblings if you have some. Don't allow shame and failure to distance you from people whom you know can be of help when you will need it.

A man should develop a short list of people that can help you financially, economically, socially and so on. Help is what we must need sometimes. Remember that the great Davido tested the waters of friendship recently by calling for help just to know if people will come around him. You too need help someday.

Another thing is, please learn to be of help to other people too despite your status. Everything is not monetary help. We all need some help somehow. Do you know that we often make money from helping others. Some people are willing to pay you for your helpful to them.

Continue seeking ways to provide help to people around you for whatever service at a very small price. That is all we people do everyday.

You will never walk alone.
Best regards

When writing about richness and profession, writers should understand that people will like to know how money is made from the particular profession concern and not family wealth gotten from various other sources.

Your writing is like a bully pulpit to bamboozled people to think known stars are no longer in their rightful positions on the professional leader board.

Your action in very fraudulent and editors should apply necessary sanctions. the world is a free place but there is definitely greater responsibility to the youth to receive proper and benrfitual education.

Great heart great tasks and responsibilities. Keep on moving to the highest height.

Great actions from a truthful Man.

Please release as quickly as possible.

I would like to meet small boy DAVID, live and grow together with him and continue by his side enjoying continuous presence of God Almighty in my life.

APC factionalisation is in the best interest of Nigeria. A gang of thieves without honour.

The APC has come and we have seen that they don't have stuffs to improve Nigerian situations.

Pray the rogue party goes into defunct.

The handover process has just begun. Bubu does not understand democracy so it is better that the Islamic terrorist organisations in Nigeria take over in 2022 before a kangaroo election is arranged.

Don't u understand? Nigeria will save a lot of billions of dollars and Naira by not conducting Shambhala elections. Nigeria will be in peace afterwards.

Good ideas. Welcome to bubu made Islamic Republic of Nigeria and West Africa controlled by Fulani supporter of APC militias.

Goodluck.

FreeStuffsNG:
This is a bank that has never paid dividend for over ten years yet sending a group of officials overseas with a wasteful all expense paid trip for the employees of the shareholders.

CBN and SEC need to rein in banks that cheat their shareholders like Wema Bank.

Sincerely,if they had sent one official and conserved the waste on the extra officials, that saved fund could be used to pay the shareholders Wema Bank officials and directors have cheated for over a decade.

Their shareholders should petition EFCC. This is daylight robbery of shareholders by board of directors, management and employees of Wema Bank.

You be original mumu when it comes to finance. OBO and the bank officials are doing the best business with this trip. Kindly call your university economic teacher and ask about the benefits from this trip.

This trip can cost 500000 Naira to the bank but the world wide advertisement that followed it is definitely costing more.

Good trip good thinking.

Happy birthday to you dearest president of Nigeria.

It is now, under a terrible individual, that Nigerians have seen the powers of government authority over their heads and wellbeing.

You made government systems work smoothly and easy such that charlatans became desirous to rule over Nigeria.

But you failed to check the excesses of your ministers and immediate subordinates as they went loose over state finances. Your ministers never protected you and your government as opposition party infiltrated your government to your detriment.

Despite, you and your government are light years ahead of the inept corrupted government of present day Nigeria.

Shine on in your blessed life. Greetings.

Mr Marconi is doing just fine. He is doing well, God Almighty continue watching over him. Keep up the good works.

tobechi20:
We turn a blind eye when husbands pressure their wives for sex, because how could a husband demanding sex from his wife possibly be harassment? His sex drive is considered natural. His pleasure a given.

It’s not harassment when it’s your husband, right? Isn’t a sexually demanding husband normal? Aren’t they just Hot husbands? Don’t they all do it?

This type of erroneous thinking lends itself to less obvious assaults, manipulation, and even in some cases, violence.

But because it can be done in a marriage, it’s even deemed normal and acceptable.

Mismatched libidos among couples can be frustrating. I get it. But it’s also very normal and prevalent. So many factors can contribute to sex drive — external stressors in one’s environment, diet, sleep, medical issues, etc.

Postpartum women are given the green light to bone at six weeks after birthing a baby. Never mind the fact that pregnancy literally tears a woman’s body from limb to limb, molecule by molecule for nine solid months. Bah! You’re fine. Get back on the horse!

Never mind that a new mother may have had full abdominal surgery, in the form of a C-section. That doesn’t take immense healing or anything. Never mind episiotomies. Seriously? Are you looking for a pity party, postpartum women? We all know it’s super easy to heal when your vagina is ripped from front to back. If you don’t want sex after vaginal stitches, what’s wrong with you, women? 

Forget those postpartum haywire female hormones and sleep deprivation after giving birth. Those are just theories; that shit ain’t real!

Sarcasm aside, when a woman is out of the postpartum stage, her menstrual cycle returns. A period comes with its own set of hormone fluctuations that vary and change all month long.

If we all know a woman’s sex drive is largely impacted by biological elements beyond her control, why aren’t men more understanding? Why isn’t society more understanding?

Why are a man’s sexual needs the ones always tended to? What about what the women need? The mothers? What about the support they need to feel sexy?

Women are not only impacted by biology, but they are also sexually influenced by social and cultural factors in their environment. For example, married mothers tend to work the majority of the “second shift.” Second shift is the domestic work done at your shared home, after working your paid job all day.

Women are disproportionately scrubbing toilets. And we’re exhausted. Married moms are disproportionately handling matters related to childrearing. They are touched-out. How can a mom feel Hot when she’s doing most of the work? When she’s the one tending to the kids?

Instead of telling married mothers that they should do it anyway, even if they’re not in the mood, we should encourage men to do something that would contribute to a woman’s arousal.

For starters, men should respect a woman’s rejection. They should respect her body and her choices. They should respect consent. Consent still needs to be considered, even in a marriage.

A man’s actions, or inactions, in the household affect a woman’s arousal environment. We should expect married dads to pick up more of a woman’s second-shift duties. That means helping equally with parenting and domestic tasks.

From the outside, people who berate and belittle women for not satisfying the sexual needs of their husbands are bullies. They are unsupportive. Their unfair, and frankly, deeply flawed marital criticism is rooted in years of oppression against women.

No one, I repeat, no one should think it’s okay for a woman to have sex against her will. Not even with a spouse.

Excellent contributions.

This problem expressed by the lady is one of the reasons for having two wifes if you can comfortably afford it.

Women don't need to be pressed for sex particularly after child birth.

Young men may not immediately realise that he is talking to a new mother feeling happy with a new baby to take care of. Meanwhile, the young man need to satisfy his sexual desire too.

Solution is a second wife for legitimate business.

Great. Good addition to the great Yoruba people heritage.

It is about time that in Nigeria those who seek to be killing and maiming humans be separated from the cerebral blood.

Why is it that when southern Nigerian person travel abroad to attain success that good success comes their way.

The Fulani are hell bent on making Nigeria ungovernable unless they are kept at the top. Meanwhile, these Fulani people are not of Nigeria origin.

Divide Nigeria with river Niger and witnesses economic and political progress in Nigeria and Africa. What happens in Nigeria affect other African countries nearby.

It is slavery of a kind to keep keeping southern and northern Nigeria together as a country. It is not God's wish.

wordapostle:
I had that issue after my first child, after 8 years of 3 children I've learnt to live with that. I think it is just in mothers to behave that way. I just pray to God for grace to continually provide for family rather than start shouting of less attention, time, love or meat lol


What has really helped me to get loved as much as my children is helping my wife love the children in little things in the way she understands as love, like helping with assignments, play time, bathing them, feeding them, outing, shopping and going to bank, my children like going to bank maybe because from bank we usually branch shop rite or buy toys that will be lost or damaged the next day.

Husbands are babies to their wives until the real babies come you will know your real position. It may continue this way until your children are grown and leaves your house, then your wife can come back to you.


But some are not not this way. My wife loves and cares for me so much but she puts extra when it's the children maybe just maybe because because they are children

Your experience shared here is true and show men to be prepared for their old age properly so that all your labour in life is not ascribed to us properly too.

Today's world try to live monogamous life which is derived from men desiring to please their wife and maintain good peace in the family home.

Monogamy favour women in the long run and could effectively obliterate any contribution ever made by a father in the lifes of the children produced in a monogamous relationship.

Compare with a heterogeneous family settings. The lord of the house is known by any means of recognition. The only requirement is for the man of the house to be up and doing in order to maintain a good flow of money and welfare to the family members. The man in a multi wife settings will grow stronger and responsible to the society as he remained focused on family upkeep and deliverables.

A man in a single wife settings is not guaranteed a good future as he is in the wims and capricies of the woman life partner. Nowadays they often rebel as they grow older and get attached to children without appropriate responsibility and duty to the children resulting more like single parenting. Such children are never balanced in thinking and judgement of life issues and matters.

A man is advised to marry at two wife to be responsible and live together with the two in the same house. Let us go back to our African ways of yore. Single wife family is bringing too much confusion in to Africa.

From your report the younger animal was more intelligent than your brother. you and your brother are only interested in stomach infrastructure development, nothing more. Kill and chop.

Nigerians should learn to conserve these animals because nobody will do it for us. Very soon those animals will go into extinction just because somebody must eat bush meat.

Sorry oo former governor bafarawa.

The average northern Nigerian individual have been indoctrinated to believe in brotherliness and a good for me better for you as long as you are one of them. This thinking is very poor judgement and calamitous to the Nigerian national interest.

The northern Nigeria has produced many former Nigerian government president without any specific benefits to the region rather it has served to enlarge the pockets of the person in position to the detriment of the Nigerian nation and its abundant resources.

Governor bafarawa has spoken tooooo late in the day and for their silence and negligence the people living in the northern Nigeria today and tomorrow must suffer the damages.

Buhari has not shown any listening ability and lack knowledge and understanding of negotiation skills in political landscape of Nigeria. He has failed woefully beyond repair.

The Fulani people as a tribe lack knowledge and understanding experience to manage Nigeria political and economic situations of 20th century. Time and events have left the tribe.

Going forward, the northern Nigerian individual has to begin to broaden their horizons to accommodate modernity for the betterment of the people and the landscape outlook for 20 th century.

May the good Lord continue to bless and renew my governor wisdom and understanding.

The Nigerian army is currently eating dinner with three hands. Ask me how? They are receiving monthly salary, collecting location allowance from state government and thirdly collecting bribery and collision money from travellers on the Nigerian roads in the name of providing security for roads users. The Nigerian army personnel are all smilling to the bank.

Meanwhile, the so called military personnel are now weakened by distractions provided by unusual duty assignments. They are now competition with the Nigerian police on sundry duties because of lucre and comfort arising. The Fulani leadership of Nigeria is a curse because rational mind and instincts are no longer in use in the Nigerian government system. Looking for money by all means is the top issue overiding professional activities.

Governor Aketi should maintain focus on providing good governance and security for the people of Ondo State using local resources to the maximum and best practices. The south west is not for the taking of banditry leadership of Nigeria.

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In summary, MTN as a company is a thief of data.

Though Airtel and Etisalat are worse off on data pilfering from phone subscriptions. I have abandoned data subscribtion on those two for years now. My occasional subscribe just to check their performance shows that they are not letting.

MTN is still expecting Nigerians to be as ignorant as it was in 2000 when they came into Nigeria. We monitor usage today.

The telecom companies should adapt to the Nigerian economic situations otherwise.

Dear brother, I enjoined you plead with her and if she continues her way kindly run away from her with the speed of light.

Most men that are wandering about various churches started with this puzzle.

Satan comes in and strike in different styles. If she is truly loving you and she is thinking of your future together, the Roman Catholic church is perhaps the best church today.

Kindly find another more beautiful girl in the Catholic church for marriage to obtain a lasting peace and prosperity in your life. Satan is lurking around you for destruction through lure of a recalcitrant girl.

I am very sure she still has a thousand other requests to change your life before destroying it. RUN run run

OlogoJ:
Watch how he will avoid debating his opponents when it's close to the elections, because he has nothing upstairs. His best bet is to not say much till election day because each time he talks, he betrays his incompetence and demarkets his candidacy

APC youth wing members should change the topic on adeleke as governor for osun.

Remember that you people promoted a certificate less Buhari to president, what argument again do you have against a well educated man by osun state standards. The average osun Man is not a PhD holder. The average osun Man has hnd bsc and school certificate education.


Please help think of something else or otherwise help APC full of profs to arrange state and federal congresses. Always appearing reasonable but never realistic.

People living in glass houses don't throw stones but your chop and clean mouth methods allow you to throw rockets.

Shameless people. Get off this thread.

Happy birthday to you lala 2. Still growing to God's blessings.

[quote author=Kobojunkie post=107200068]Scripture is not meant to be used as source of incantations to help ward away whatever ill-luck you wish. Instead, Scripture is meant to help fill you with knowledge of God and His Truth so that through obedience of His Will, you can partake of His benefits. [/qluote]


Every spirit of division in the household of Christ die ijmn. Amen.

Some people are very good in reverse thinking that they don't even know when they are recanting again.

The household of Christ is one. Some words are sounds like incantation are still word's anyway. And Jesus Christ is the spoken word and it is alive and true.

dapadawee:
You better watch it. Your wife must not be angry with you in any area of your actions. Find a way to get her approval in anything you do. Important and don't take any advice from this forum that says otherwise. Read books on marriage. The reason why your wife is not happy is not really because u send money but your approach wise up. And make sure her emotions is not hurt.

Your reaction is ideal but not practicable with women. Let us assume this guy was not telling the wife but has been sending money as stated. The wife would surely had assumed he was doing it without her knowledge and she would have taken some negative action in her mind, negative to the man.

Women are full of plots all the time, plots that are hardly helpful to the marriage.

Selfish spirit has gained the heart of women from time immemorial.

officialmario:
Dear Nairalanders

There is this issue that is bothering my mind, I have promise to be faithful to my wife and always let her know whatever comes in for me.
But the problem is that I always tell her how money is spent, and whenever I present list for whatever we buy and all other expenses, but each time she sees anything like I sent 10k to my mother, she always pick up fight with me, and I have not been biased, I send money to her mother too.

I don't know why she is acting like this, and It doesn't make me a happy man at home.
Please I need your advice on what I can do, I don't want to hide anything from my wife.

Do you really need to tell her everything?

There is love indeed but should not be at the expense of individual independent needs and actions. There are responsibilities that you have to bear alone and some shared. She is acting the way most women do out of jealousy and exertion of control over husband.

I know you would not like to lose your independence and freedom to love without restraint.

Please plan for your future.

Please allow the elderly young man to have access to other people apart from your mother.

Living a life is very important to everyone and old age does not imply seclusion from other people in the neighborhood
. It is not sex that your old father is looking for but keeping company with living people. I am sure that you don't want him to die very quickly.

If I check well your mother travel a lot and most times leave the man alone. Young people need to broaden your view on life.


Life is in phases. What you do when at 29 years is definitely different from what you do at 29, 39 , 49 years of age. Therefore whenever you see someone doing something somehow please put on your thinking caps. You can not learn everything in a classroom or church sermons.

Signing CR7 brought Manchester United onto another level that OLE gunner soljer can not manage. Best to go.

CR7 is@ another level

[quote author=obembet post=106965485]Still wonder how Malami get SAN[/quote

Why wonder? There are SANs from oluwole that specialises in writing up fictitious allegations against whomever you perceived as your supposed enemies. And be aware that they are well paid.

Please consult oluwole for genuine fake allegations with proper documentations. You don't need to travel outside Nigeria for that.

There may not be the year 2022 in Nigeria talkless of 2023.

We are now in full blown Bandit government.

To thy tent oh Nigerians?

Which of these charges against Kanu are not bailable?

The Nigerian AG is going overboard by not taking people to court for prosecution. Nobody is afraid of court proceedings and true legal services.

What will be charges against chief Sunday igboho?

APC operatives on the prowl looking for who to devour. APC has many states with terrible economic and financial outlook.

You have fooled Oyo State people before, you can not fool them again.

Lagos State has the highest monthly revenue return and the highest debtor state in the country.

APC is down and out.

Say or publish another story.

Headlines looks suspicious because I have not seen such headlines for Buhari federal government after several borrowings from several shadow organisation.

Oyo State is not complaining.

Seyi is also doing well.