₦airaland Forum

She has done well.

Nature calls of someone should not be treated as criminal activities.

The psalmist asked that if the good Lord count sins who will stand before Him? Let us not rushed to judge her.

I will advise her to grow up as a public figure and she should be aware that human beings enemies are not people that are far off but people she is sleeping and waking up daily.

Nobody needs to tell her that every action of man has a motive. Everyone around her needs money by all means.

She should not allow a repeat.

I am grateful to God Almighty for life and goodness of life. The good Lord has been wonderful to me and family. God's blessings upon the tread.

What a man sow, that is what he will reap.

A child today become a man tomorrow and he will surely be responsible for his actions to the government and his maker.

There is very little one man can do to help another person, though you are a child of big pastor and decided to go your own way of life different from your parents, it is a choice and you will reap the results first before you share the results with your family members.

The Bible says you can take a horse to the river to drink but you can not force the horse to drink water.

A wise son looks up to his father for example irrespective. A good son should pick the good qualities of his father irrespective.

But the will of God reigns supreme.

When Jonathan lost the election in 2014 he did not go to court nor seek any relief from the Nigerian court. he has lost out.
Now, if Atiku should be declared winners by the court as the presidential candidate with the highest votes in 2019 he will be sworn in as the president of the country.

May the good Lord delivered Nigeria from the clueless individual in ASO rock by His powers.

APC is a den of thieves of the Nigerian patrimony.

Do PDP need another man from Katsina state that badly?



Please let there be no trouble in Nigeria ooooh. If the political class cannot arrange themselves well and provide good quality individuals from the arrays of people in Nigeria except the fulani people and their millitias then Boko haram will continue to hide around the corner of powers in Nigeria.

I am very sure that there are hundreds of qualified professional from plateau, Benue taraba states of northern Nigeria that can help bring the country out of the Fulani militia enclaves.

The fulani people should also be willing to help serve Nigeria from other aspects of life. Their focus on Nigeria political power is getting too much and it has not benefitial to the Nigerian landscape.

Madam good day. Your observations and complaints are seen today as almost normal.

Life has changed and sometimes we have to adapt to still retain relevance.
Your son has finished school to university level and come out fine. He still has a good future ahead. He has moved too quickly to the next level without authorisation this is the problem.

Your son may not carry all the blame alone, the Nigerian society is down due to politicians failures in the management of the economy. So, madam don't take this problem personal, it is your son's life that you are worried about but he is the one to live it.

What to do are , apart from the girl dress sense check if she has good education and she only hamstrung by the same Nigerian government problems. Check if she can eventually be a good wife material to your son with some adjustments to satisfy your requirements. You are a woman and I am sure you know better.

Call your son and discuss the implications of this girl coming to sleep with him every day. Find out if he is aware of what he is doing and if he is ready for the responsibilities of such association. Discuss with your husband of the necessary actions that is required to contain the situation. let you and your husband agree on a way forward for the eventuality of these happenings.

God be with you and your family.

[quote author=chinasaekpere post=106529310]Trust me, I have tried.
My parents have the mentality that they have tried their best and I should take up some responsibilities from here. We have had serious rifts on this issue. [/quokte]

You are doing just fine brother. Please don't be ashamed or alarmed about what is happening to you and your family.

For the advice sought, you don't need to abandon or cast away your extended family for these life challenges. If you abandon your father to these challenges you will be surprised to see later that God Almighty will raise up someone else to fill in your present role in the family.

Way forward is as follows.
You are very new to life and responsibilities of life, i will score you very high so far based on what you have written above. You need to change your strategies of engagement with your family and friends at large.

Have you heard of the rich man in Babylon. He gave us a secret formula to getting rich and comfortable in life. The monthly salary is not your own alone because it is your reward for a month labour. The Babylonian Richman taught us to divide the salary into three as follows

1. One third to be saved.
2. second third to be our feedings.
3. The third is our socials.

For a very new young man.
First third to be saved is your savings that cannot be touched under whatever conditions. It will be touched much later for personal development further studies, business startup etc . It is better you joined a cooperative society nearby to enable savings account interest and support for future growth.

The second third is your upkeep money for the new month, simplicita and small enjoyments.

The third of the third is your care for the society and your contributions to the society. This also includes your responsibilities to church, your immediate family members and what we do to beneficial to people around you
Your girlfriend and other social is from this third

The Babylonian Richman principles enable you to focus on your job and also seek improvement to your earnings.

Of note is the discipline and seriousness required to establish the Babylonian Richman principles. You must endeavour to ensure that the money does not cross the boundaries of the 3 categories. What you can not accomplish this month will be rolled over to the following month.

Also support the above with a list of to do with costs attached.

Note. Please establish this money management practices at least two years before marriage to a woman.

I hope you will be able to make use of this idea.

Buhari as a president has woken up the sleeping giants in the Nigerian native landscape against the iterant fulani cattle rearers, militias and the fulani people in general.

The fulani future in the various domains going forward is not.

Let the rigging activities continue.

I doubt if Nigeria can ever witnessed good and fair elections under APC people.

One advice.

If you go further with that evil woman, you are on your own.

Please desist. Stop. Don't go further anymore. Free yourself from evil bondages.


To many young people, this story could be true as it happens very regularly. Many men are into marriages very similar to this story and are bounded by powers beyond their redemption. There are powers and they are just around your corner, not very far.

Nigerian women we hail ooooh.


So many innocent men have been led astray by easy and cheap sex companion. Don't go for easy sex partners they will surely be very expensive later in your life. Shine your eyes.

Good matters and sex are fairly costly and better be ready to pay than to fall for some STRANGE WOMAN.

Strange women are women you don't know any members of their families, men are warned by the proverb writer in the Bible not to go after strange woman. Women turned to strange woman when they go rogue. Women do go rogue, indeed.

If someone has to stay alive and protest, chiwetela Agu has done that.

There is what is called public speaking.

There is what is called wisdom when talking.

There is what is called common sense, sometimes not common anyway.

There is what is called when you visit me at home and you did not meet me but you have to leave a message behind.

Chiwetela Agu did leave a message for those with eyes.

It was reported by the good book that whenever our Lord Jesus Christ spoke in the public he teaches by parables and only interprete to his desciples in the evenings when they have retired home.

Yoruba people say Maja masa la nfi mo akinkanju logun.

Nay sayers are always around us.

Aganju849:
No victory for him here, he was roundly humiliated and made to deny his beliefs. I guess you count it as a victory simply because he wasn't physicaly hurt (or even murdered) but for him the stakes were higher. A regular Joe would have been murdered and branded a terrorist, but Agu is an international star, Nigeria Army knew they couldn't get away with killing him, so they did the next-best thing, they tarnished his brand instead, they de-legitimised his ability to lend his brand-value in support of Biafra.

Notice how the army got him to deny the link between his shirt and the Biafran cause, before setting him free...that means he cannot use his celebrity value to promote Biafra in future, else people would simply laugh at him. He should've professed Biafra and gone to jail (detention) for a long period, guess he couldn't afford that so he simply ate his words instead.

As things stand he is anything but a hero.

I know you are a government agent. You and your employer are continually demonstrating inability to think through your actions and the Nigerian public is punishing you public forays heavily. I personally believe you can be smarter in your interactions with the public by making the Nigerian police and military less reliant on shear force and brute strength of power usage.

The Nigerian security officers should learn to respect new observations and development. It was lack of knowledge of what to do when they encountered a set up of the old man on the upper iweka bridge at Onitsha.

Even if we admit that your foot soldiers lack knowledge of what to do what about the senior officers that first got the man in the military office, he should have switched to social mode immediately he became aware of the person brought before him. He should have alerted his superiors of the person under accusations.

When your officers can not respond appropriately to public events without creating rancor and hatred from the Nigerian public, you are definitely acting against public interest.

Chiwetela Agu set himself up for attention and he has got it full to the brim. Only theatre artist can do it this way. Remember Smollett case in los Angeles California USA. Black men provoking imaginary police department brutality upon themselves. If the policeman on site had been dumb like some fellas it was to bring the police department to ridicule when in reality nothing was happening.

The world today is slightly different from the other day and everyone has to keep up with the pace.

Let the Nigerian government and its Fulani military men use their brains for once.

This man is very widely well known in the world particularly wherever Nollywood movies are available. Just imagine that you are arresting such individual with rough handling and you labelled him ipob representative.

What do you think will happen afterwards? Ipob gains more popularity and many other Igbo men and women will be agitated and seek ways to play a role in ipob activities. The longer you use government powers to detain the man without court prosecution, the more many more people see the Fulani government as public nuisance and be hated.

Options for the government is to release the man on bail ASAP. commence courts proceedings against him for the government to gain some respect otherwise you are setting the Nigerian government for serious fight that will be lacking people support and empathy.

Nigeria we hail thee.

Everything is possible, the born again man eating dinner with chief satan in his palace.

Who will deliver this forsaken country?

Whoever will listen, break up Nigeria and break the coalition of the evil cartels. The good Lord will do it soonest, ijmn.

If there is no state of emergency could be declared in Anambra State as no such declaration has been made in northern Nigeria states with worse security situations.

The Buhari government should be aware that he is running a civil political space of Nigeria. Any attempt to fully militarise the Nigerian national political space.

It is a difficult challenge but men are made for occasions like this. All what is required is good thinking and good men and women coming together to profer solutions good enough for the society.

What is Buba Marwa is running the NDLEA outfit without recourse to the Nigerian national assembly.

This man has been invited to give account of his services in NDLEA to the Nigerian national assembly but till date he has refused.

About the drug usage in the Nigerian South West as a responsible person holding a responsible position he should provide more detail statistics on the usage before he is believed. This is no longer a military government settings and statistics is often required to establish a robust basis for discussion purposes.

Nigerians, most of the Arabs are terrorists inclined by religion or by birth.

Though we have to admit that about ten percent of arabs of the middle East origin have true and good intentions of life and are also true to their business. It is this few ones that could prove difficult to find.

The nasreddin group can therefore not be different.

Wailing wailers, there is another year around the corner when your best governors will emerge. This year let us celebrate these ones chosen.

Governor Akeredolu of ondo state is doing fantastic as well. But you can not nominate every person at the same time.

In political punditry it is good to have excellent information to prosper.

In Nigeria can we raise a body or team of professionals that can generate political polls on these speculations on people that are being thrown up for imaginary elections.

Someone will say Nigeria has enough universities today for we to have one university political science department generate a poll for 2023 state and federal elections. Or is it that university education has not been beneficial to the black man? Why do we, supposedly educated people using babalawo punditry tactics?

Real shame on western education in Nigeria. Lacking wisdom and persistence has robbed the black man the glory due his existence.

David or whatever your name.

Few questions. You said before marriage she kept herself. As what? A virgin? If she was not a virgin when you started sex with her then you need to become realistic with your situation.

If she was a virgin and you are the one that disvirgin her then be more tolerant and realised that the two of you are learning in the school of sex and marriage. It only implies you have a great young lady to manage to womanhood. This will take you roughly five to six years to get her love and sex the way you have seen in sex films and neighbourhood. Pamper her and relax yourself to enjoy more greater exploits in the nearest future.

If she was not a virgin at your first sex and she is behaving this way you have described above you will have to reassess the marriage going forward. Open your eyes because she is behaving awkwardly and could be inimical to the future of your young marriage. She must have something she is hiding from you and probably testing your resolve on a matter not known to you today but known to her and her friends. She is probably over evaluated by you and she is selling what she never had.
Going forward required you to watch your ways with her and be tactical whenever you are in her presence. You looking for a second woman at this stage is dangerous because you have a matter of your life to resolve properly and quickly. Please don't be distracted. your marriage is not secured yet. Now that you have a second thought about her and her sex life you need to pretend to be going along with her and try to use your brain to extract as much info on her past that were hitherto hidden from you. Use the new information with discussions with your family and friends not mentioning your particularity to determine your relationship with your wife.

What has happened to you is not strange to man it is your reaction to the marriage matter that will probably determine how far you go in life.

Third leg of this supposition is if she was not a virgin at your first sex and yet she doesn't like sex like your wife. This could be true particularly if she was circumcised at birth. This is usually a tribal challenge most common to Edo and Urobho girls in the south. Such women are wonderful wife because they are not easily succumbing to sexual escapades. You will have to decide your going forward based on life aspirations.

Women just like men are different by circumstances, birth, education, religion etc. Once you make a choice of wife it is best to stick to it.

Education is very beneficial, western education is a liberation mantra from poverty and evil spirits desires.

Rearing of cows by humans is an old practice and it is obtainable in several countries in very many ways and means. Open grazing of landed area was banned in Europe since the 11th century and therefore everybody rearing cows do so by some arrangements that ensures the cows don't enter other people land area. I am very sure several African countries don't allow open grazing as well.

Nigeria should not be different.

If you want improved yield on your cow meat and milk browse the web and check what other people of the world are doing to get it. Improved yield should not be rocket science for Fulani people.

Get good education.

AkalaJ:
Ojigbijigbijigbi. What now becomes of Atiku's ambition? We ibos are in a state of confusion over this sad news. We will not take this!! No, it is unacceptable for we ibos. We prefer a Northerner to run than anyone from South, including from SE. No, we will not take it.

Why are you crying more than the Igbos, the perennial VP candidates of Nigeria. There may not be such vacancy in 2023.

Let everyone struggle for the top position. Our mumu don don do. Chikena.

This governor is ahead of time. He is doing fantastic.

Wailing is allowed on nairaland. The APC governors are ruling from London and delivering heavy heavy projects in quarter of a century timeline. APC has the knack for big money projects without completing dates.

Seyi is spot on for Oyo state.

Just imagine if the SW states were under APC this buhari time.

Tell me which chinko device has worked to specifications and last the time set.

For this drones with exaggerated ratings will be plugged from the sky like a hunter picking his game. Let China scare itself to its destruction.

Procastination is from the pit of hell, don't partake in it.

To stop it, first, do a wish list of activities you know you can easily accomplished. Rank them based on your needs and importance to your progress in life and money in your pocket.

Start to doing and mark each completed task.

Learn to invite others if needed to accomplish a task.

On the list please include items irrespective of size and shape and. Ordinary phone call to a friend should be included. Tasks Listing are completed with dates of completion included.

Check it

How many people will be evicted today? I suspect that Angels will come back to the house

As long as we are together in a country that belongs to nobody where some feel that they are superior to other people in skin and nature there will be no equity.

It is best for the country Nigeria to be divided into at least three or four different countries containing people that want to be together peacefully.

Otherwise, i forsee war ahead of Nigeria. Though some people are thinking war is not possible in Nigeria they may be surprised that a very mild or bloody war is imminent in Nigeria.

The Nigerian people are gullible people, it is only that buhari government has worsened the gullibility to the level of idiocy.

Can Nigeria come out of the mess?

Iyaebe:
He's still very romantic at his age unlike some young people who don't even know what to do to a lady

You are yet to meet your match. Sort yourself out till you meet someone to coach and stick thereafter.

No knowledge from the womb, we came to know everything here on earth.

Very important information. Good for road users. Thanks.

Igbo men are always full of advantages and Igbo women like to use the advantages it only become painful when any other keen observer snatch the advantages to their own use. Thinking through seems a big challenge.

Now, an Igbo woman has laid a request for women in Nigeria to be given sole representative of 112 seats in Nigeria national assembly. When Nigeria want to share out the seats for implementation and they gave 50 seats to Fulani, 30 to Yoruba, 15 to South South, 15 to middle belters and 10 to South East that is when the Igbo woman will start making noise of marginalisation.
Many Nigerians are sleep walking. Some are eating while talking.

Education to degree level does not confer wisdom to to holders it only open more doors to knowledge and understanding. Understanding is with sublimation and humility. Lack of humility in thinking of individual only expound more evils on the society.

The proposed law on gender based representation looks good on paper but its implementation will be fraught with deceit. The resulting effect on the house decisions and the Nigerian society will be catastrophic in dimensions not imagine.

The bill should be withdrawn or killed and thrown into rubbish bins.

For representation of women, let the women lobby and canvass more in their various states and localities.