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1.) Never go into a relationship cuz you're just curious about relationships. Don't play with ppl's feelings.

2.) As a lady, never do anything sexual with anyone until you're sure he will marry you. But if you can, abstain completely till marriage.

3.) If you find the one person you want to settle down with early in life, never let them go because you don't want to just date only one person in life. They won't wait for you and even if you get them back, the person might have transformed entirely into someone you no longer know, and thus, become incompatible with you.

Cuz, she might have felt sorry for losing it to the wrong man.

Thekillingjoke:
Apologies for my earlier response

It's fine, Thanks for caring.

Bioles1187:
this babe is really funny dough...what on earth will make me commit suicide Absolutely nothing will mk me kill myself

I hope you never get to the stage in life where you have no will to live and have no will to die. A lot of ppl who ended their lives had died mentally a long time ago. They were just only living physically. They couldn't keep up with the pretence anymore, so, they decided to just die fully, so that they can finally find peace in death.

Thekillingjoke:
Sorry dear, how r u keeping up

Just breathing, sleeping and waking up. Taking one day at a time. Nothing about life interests me anymore. But I know suicide is never the answer. What if happier days are ahead?

Thekillingjoke:
This babe is a sick attention seeker, seeking attention from thread to thread, now u r depressed and suicidal, wow

Lmaooo....ha ha ha ......Someone is fiesty!! Lol, don't tell me I'm going to receive insults here too. Losing weight everyday, couldn't eat, still can't eat. Took drugs. Talking to 2 therapists after drinking harpic and hypo last year. Maybe if i had died, you wouldn't have to listen to my rantings today. Be nice to ppl. You dunno what we are all going through in reality and in our heads. I'm sorry for expressing my depression.

The mistakes i made in life, led me to a state of uttermost depression, i struggle with regrets, disappointments and fears. I feel stuck in this world. I wanna end my life, but i don't know what awaits me in the realm of the dead and i know once i leave, i can't come back. Hopefully, one day I'll be happy.

dingbang:
thats good. So where in lag do you base

Ikeja

dingbang:
you are welcome. How's Lagos life treating you? I guess you grew up there

Fine thks! Everyone is just struggling to survive, yeah, was born and bred here.

I'm not a v cuz, a long time ago, my younger curious dumb self lightly attempted to give oral twice. (Never again tho, except maybe in marriage). I'm a v cuz I've never been penetrated. I guess I'm a virgin and non-virgin at thesame time. Been very confused about my identity this days. ...Am i welcome on this group or not?

sparkle7:
Dont Babe.
If we keep thinking about the Past we wont have enough energy to beat the Present and conquer the Future.
We need you here.
I need you here.
Lady gats move on and never look back.
No matter how things are just know that their are Many people who Care about you, dont let them down.

But i feel like I've failed already, i don't have a good report anymore. My present is a reflection of my past, and my future no longer excites me. I want to move on, but i have nothing to move on to, so, i feel defeated. Even if i didn't let anyone down, I let myself down. Nowadays I'm just lifeless.

sparkle7:
Wasnt your fault bae.
Its xvideos fault and social media and internet too!
You gats move on.

Sigh. You are very right friend!. I'm learning to own my mistakes but if there wasn't social media, i might not have made such stupid mistakes. I had to delete all my social media accounts, especially Twitter, cuz they are all bad influences. Now I'm only on Nairaland and Whatsapp. Which i will soon delete too!!

moorevic:
We all do have our regrets but it now depends how we fashion it towards our present day living. There are events when i remember them, i feel so ashamed of myself but the deed has been done and no way am repeating such ever again.

I try to forget my past, but it's not that easy. My past lives with me, ppl say forget the past and move on, how do you forget something inside your head I don't think i can ever recover from the mental consequences of my mistakes, i can't erase my bad memories, so I'm stuck with them in my head at least until i die. It's like everytime you remember your mistakes, you keep wishing you were wiser. You keep wishing someone had stopped you. Sometimes I'm suicidal, but i know once i go, I'm not coming back. So, that restricts me. But i know I've never been in a state of mind worse than this before. The worst part is having to pretend to everyone that you are doing fine so you don't look like an attention seeker. If i knew what i knew now, wouldn't have dared to make the mistakes i made. I wish i had someone to guide me.

moorevic:
We all do have our regrets but it now depends how we fashion it towards our present day living. There are events when i remember them, i feel so ashamed of myself but the deed has been done and no way am repeating such ever again.

I try to forget my past, but it's not that easy. My past lives with me, i don't think i can ever recover from the mental consequences of my mistakes, i can't erase my bad memories, so I'm stuck with them in my head at least until i die. It's like everytime you remember your mistakes, you keep wishing you were wiser. You keep wishing someone had stopped you. Sometimes I'm suicidal, but i know once i go, I'm not coming back. So, that restricts me. But i know I've never been in a state of mind worse than this before. The worst part is having to pretend to everyone that you are doing fine so you don't look like an attention seeker.

moorevic:
Our bad choices makes us a better person. Don't regret just learn

I don't see how i was made a better person. I've learnt my lesson, but i fear my regrets in my head till till i die. I keep wishing i could go back in time to undo my errors. My choices has led me to a state of regret about the past, disappointment about the present and anxiety about the future. It takes just one mistake to ruin your happiness.

Which one do you care about more, your peace of mind or getting married? The one you care about more will determine whether you disclose or not. If you eventually get to disclose, pls use your discretion.

mhizbel:
There is healing and a second chance in Christ Jesus.
Also, any form of sexual intimacy as a Christian is not advisable. Kill the triggers. Kissing, cuddling, etc will only help to stir up feelings... And you know what's next.

I agree with you. I will do my best to abstain from any form of sexual intimacy until marriage, not by my strength, but by his grace. Yes, to a holy life. No to unholiness and sexual impurity. Amen.

I definitely wouldn't have tried to satisfy my foolish curiosity.