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There is an unspoken truth about this Black Tax and that is, it is designed for the Principal to continuously slave away for others. No one will admit it, many won't speak about it but it is there. Reason why family will be codedly annoyed with you if you by that car, go on that vacation just to take a break from long years of billing to cool off, build that sweet fine house etc. To them, why will the slave do that when there are so many family members still poor and need help. Is he that blind? Can't he see Jide his cousin is out of school, uncle wale has been evicted from his apartment because he couldn't pay his rent, mum segun is in hospital and needs money etc Of all the things on ground, it is that kind of car he went to go and buy when he could have gotten something small so that he can clear all these bills on ground. Why is he so heartless. I have been grumbling for months in his ears about how to roof my house and these are the things he is doing? So many things to pour out honestly. The Black tax is designed for you to live a life of penury at the expense of pulling others up because some people have decided to live a reckless and unplanned life with the hope a family member will cover their flanks |
Traveller2025:It is that statement "what have you achieved? Others earning lesser are doing better than you OR what did you even do for us?" Humans are generally ungrateful. They will drain the last juice out of your soul and when they are finished with you, they will spit you out. I am the first born and the breadwinner of the family too and constantly supporting the family for years has really dragged me down. It got to a point, despite me earning well, my apartment just looked shaby like a teacher's house when those in civil service have better furnished rooms and houses than mine. Clothes I no get, nice apartment I no get, drinking/clubbing/fornicating I wasn't doing, oya eat good food... Mbah despite earning well all because of family pressure. The most painful part is even that those you have sacrificed so much for still didn't break even nor still able to stand fully on their own thereby wasting your efforts for years and making it look as if you never supported the family since your effort didn't yield any benefits. It is very obvious that to push some people to properly stand on their own, you will need millions and millions of naira to really push them to that height of which by that time, you sef don gas up, broke and back to ground. This African policy in a bid to raise more financially stable Africans has produced far more poor people sef |
shoodboi2:Honestly bro, it seems the country is broke and looking for loopholes not to pay many things. We have been saying it that the western world has been living in bubbles for years. Spending money they don't have nor living the life they can't afford to live. The best solution is to attack and dissolve all perceived strong enemies like china, Russia so that any hanky panky laws or rules they bring out to hoodwink other countries won't be challenged thereby allowing them to continue this system unchallenged. If it will require me to work till 73 years before I access my pension, then it is as good as just giving me that money each month I work make I dey chop am make I know say na me dey chop am, I no save. Another implication is that unemployment already at all time high will increase because people who needs to leave the job for younger ones would be forced to sit and work for more 10 years. Extra 10 years of no space to takeover and work. Also, the whole pension of a thing is best when you retire at 50 or 55 most so that you will still be in good health to enjoy the benefit f your labor. You can travel occasionally to meet family and friends etc What is there to do again in 70plus? When you are washed up |
WriterrNg:This is daylight scam and robbery. How many of the workers would be alive to eat the savings they have been making in the pension right from the day they started working if age is raised to 73. Over 60% of the workers would have died by then and the remaining 40% may likely just live 10 years more just to take 10 years savings from a possible 40/45 years work and savings. So invariably, they have worked, laboured for years for free for politicians/thieves to eat their labor. Over the years of working, you eat their tax and now stylishly eating their pensions join. Armed Robbers |
ZUBY77:Yes, the timing is bad especially for x-mas/new year festive period. I am also going after new year. |
ZUBY77:Oga Zubby, i dey follow you bumpa to bumpa for morocco this time around ooo. I hope we will meet there. I have my visa and flight ticket already |
drkay:@ the first bolded ..... is this really true? they system as returned more helpers into poverty than it has raised out of poverty. We have so many stories of regrets of helpers who were so pre-occupied with trying to lift others up while they finally drown in the sea of poverty themselves. |
Sayvick:@ the bolded .....while it is good, it is not sustainable nor good enough in today's economic climate. The question is, how much will family and friends be able to give you if you are out of job to sustain and float you back? most times not enough. Person wey give you 50k today, you don't expect to come back in 2/3 months time. If family gather money and send to your wife as medical bill to support maybe 200k when hospital says you should deposit 500k, don't expect any from them again because they all have bills to pay. You are old? how long do you expect them to keep feeding you? The best system still remains to have as low kids as you can, both husband and wife working, enrole in insurance and pension as a better safety net option. For example, i have a life insurance of 20k per month i am running. If something happens to me, they give my wife 12m. That is far far better than what family will give her as contribution, maybe 300k. You don't need to do that much. For a low income earner, a 5k life insurance will go alongway for them too, that should be about 3m. Education insurance? for your kids incase the principal dies. It own't keep them out of school nor put the burden on extended family who may not continue the education or put them in local govt. schools. A 5k eduinsurance will give your wife 250k yearly support for a kid and a lumpsum of 2.5m after 10 years to help run the child in govt uni in absence of principal. Health insurance ? 60k per year for a family of 5 is okay for NHIS but you have to use it in govt hospitals and health centers for the low income earners instead of burdening struggling extended family. Middle income earners can go for 230k for private HMOs like axa mansard and others that you can use for private hospitals. It is all about awareness, careful planning and dedication. Pension? a 20k per month pension between both partners over a 30 years period will give 70m naira if you start working in 30 and retires 60 years. For a low income earner, that is a huge money. Withdraw that 70m pension and lock in a bond at 20% per annum, that person will be getting 1.2m every blessed month. It is all about awareness bro. This system is far better than relying on family safety net that is not sustainable |
Datedoboy:Let us stop pushing the blames all the time down the road to government. No matter how we dress it, Parents have a sizeable role in Poverty continuation. If your earnings is 70k per month, then IF you are going to marry, you will have to marry a working woman. You shouldn't birth MORE than 1 kid....NO EXCUSES for this. Pull resources with your wife to have alternative source of income. Save and invest it over time and you are expected to be far better in future to were you started from. |
Again, the african culture encourages irresponsibility. We see this happen everytime and think it is normal but these are what leads to future black taxes. A man will buy cat/dog/chickens he can not afford to raise rather open them to the street to be eating up and down and fending for themselves (something similar to birthing kids you can't raise and allowing them to eat up and down the street), if you question him while he didn't cage and feed the animals he claimed to like raising aka i like pets, they will become aggressive and say who are you to tell them what to do with their own life. A man who doesn't care about raising his pets in a cage and feeding them is similar to those raising kids they can't afford to have. In the long run, the black tax will come up |
A man will give birth to many kids he can't afford to train by himself rather go give each to Oga Chinedu, Oga Ememka as sales boy/apprentice. The feeding, clothing etc of such child is not on the father again because someone else is picking up his slacks and covering his shames/irresponsibility while he hopes the child becomes rich and he can survive on him. The female children? they pray a man rich enough comes for her hand so that they can use her as their own life insurance and leverage. Black tax comes from the mentality that you are paying today for a tomorrow insurance just as someone paid yesterday for you. A man dies in your village/town and your mother called you to send money as a quota for your family because others contributed to take your father from lagos to village to bury, they contributed to his medical bills in hospital and his burial. E reach your turn to dey pay, you say you wan scatter the system. |
In the african setting, been irresponsible is accomodated and allowed reason while so many people who are not responsible could be able to marry and procreate without worrying about the blow-back. A man marry and has several kids without any plans for them. He doesn't care how they survive. He wakes up, drops whatever he can to the woman while she provides the food the way and manner. The kids go out in the morning and comes back in the evening playing around and eating from houses to houses and this is how they will live till they grow and miracoulously, 1 out of many will breakthrough and virtually all the village/area will be looking up to him for years of raising him as a payback. Iya biliki expecting handout from Bayo that just came back from spain who they had is now a footballer - Ohh, na me they give am afternoon food when him dey small they play ball around then. The neighbours, church, extended family, friends would all be expecting handouts of various sizes from Bayo due to one favour or the other they had done in his life during the growing phase. The question is, how many can Bayo really help? before runs out of gas himself |
The bitter truth is that on the average, only a handful of humans can survive INDEPENDENTLY without external support whether western culture or other culture. It is either the goverment (insurance/welfare etc) is cleaning up most people's mess or the family (black tax) is. A safety net template/model should be available else chaos will erupt. The problem with african template is that if a proper system is not put in place to checkmate alot of excesses, it encourages Laziness, everlasting oppressive dependance, entitlement, irresponsibility etc In african setting, it is more of i rub your back now so that you can rub my back tomorrow but then, the question is for how long and how many people will i rub their backs? |
This topic is a very emotional one and a very dicey one at that. I will write a lengthy explanation on it and may break it into many commet section in other not to bore too much. Firstly, we need to study the african culture and tradition because if we don't know where we are coming from, we won't know why we do things as we do currently. Prior to now, the african tradition and culture was modelled on survival by watching each others back which stands as an INSURANCE for everyone involved. In the absence of government and a monachy system that doesn't cater for individual survival, the african traditional model becomes the template of survival. It is like pooling resources together to finance one person with the hope they suceed to pull someone up too and the chain reaction continues. |
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Gerrard59:It is the easiest and shortest route for Tinubu to become president. |
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Gerrard59:If have to get used to the fact that not everyone will marry in today's world even if they desire it. Everyone won't be rich Everyone won't use a car Everyone won't build a house and so many more. I know it is a bitter truth to swallow. If they are struggling to tame down a reasonable spouse, they should opt for getting pregnant and raising the kids themselves or else they die childless (a sizeable percentage will fall into this category too) Another option is to swallow their pride and date/marry down. There are many men poverty has humbled who are really hardworking. I know how hard going down to pick a spouse for ladies because going down looks as if they have failed and not getting who they really like or attractive but it is what it is. Life humbles us all at one point or another. They date down, raise a loan or get a cooperative for the man to start something so that he can be contributing a quota at home no matter what. Men date down all the time and heaven didn't fall. We set-up ladies, sponsor them to school, open businesses for them and heaven didn't fall. |
LordAdam16:There is nothing peaceful about him abeg. Someone who sponsors isreal genocide in Gaza, support in attacking Iran twice , Lebanon, Yemen, Ukraine etc should not even be close to that event |
Apcnewrecruit:But polygamy is very expensive. Infact, even monogamy is very expensive in today's atmosphere. Raising family goes beyond just knacking and having kids like rabbits, good education and other quality things are involved. |
spencekat:And this is just ONE CHURCH, ONE BRANCH out of THOUSANDS in Nigeria. By the time you factor in other churches and branches, you will an idea of the sheer number of ladies wasting away without any reasonable spouse in their lives. |
LordAdam16:That is one thing people don't know. They thought only isreal/mossad are good at spying. Only if they know the sheer number of spies roam isreal, infact isreal streets are smelling of spies. That is why Iran has been calm even with the pending attack from isreal. They have more than enough information to cause major harm on isreal |
casualobserver:Hmmmmmm Oro nla. You are only as good as the system that produced you. |
WriterrNg:Hmmmmmm Words of wisdom. The west just want a pyramidal society where they are on top and others accept whatever quota is given to them without complains. A very satanic plan |
aj8:Can you explain more about the debt calculation? |
essentialone:I agree. All they know how to do is eat free foods and get free money (tax, commissions and duties) from the laboring masses without adding anything back. They just sit back while adding more wives to the long list they have in palace |
Gerrard59:Will the nukes work if their are too many saboteurs? They will even be the ones to give the location of the nukes just like the did with the air defence systems blown off by isreal within iran. |
awesomeJ:EPS of #14 FY will be bomb. We may see it rise to around #140 per share all things been equal |
LordAdam16: ![]() 80% of nigerians would be willing to kill the president at first sight. Economic sanction is devilish. I can't just imagine that happening in Nigeria....it will be total disaster. Such government would be booted out quickly. Another problem with sanctions is that it renders the citizens soooo useless that, people would be falling on each other to be recruited as spies for foreign agents for as low as $20. The government won't have anywhere to hide because any top secret meting would be revealed instantly the meeting finishes by atleast 5 members in the meeting. This is why iran is not finding it easy with espionages and double/tripple agents within her rank. |
mikeapollo:I doubt you can have 2 TIN bearing same names. Even if it is possible, you won't be able to transfer your shares to another broker or CHN using different TIN. It is just like your stock trading account. You will only be able to with draw to an account number bearing your name with same BVN, not different |
WriteerNg:Just less than a year of Trump as president and we have had - Isreal/Lebanon, Isreal/Iran twice with an upcoming third one, isreal/Syria, isreal/Yemen, more arming of Ukraine against Russia, Venezuela invasion in progress, more arming of Taiwan etc but somehow, others are the problem and not US and isreal |
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