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Nairalandtwins:
Hello Nairalanders. Pls pardon typos and blunders incase of any because I am grossly angry right now.

My twin brother has been addicted to pornography and masturbation for some years now, although I started it since 2006 and stopped in 2016 since I noticed the terrible negative effects on every aspect of my life. All efforts to make him stop proved abortive.

In 2016 he had psychological issues and was admitted in the hospital for a month and he was fine and back to his normal self. At the hospital I read an article here on Nairaland that masturbation can cause brain issues then it dawned on me that that was the cause for his illness but I didn't disclose it to the doctor and my parents...

He promised and swore to me to never to masturbate again. I've been watching him closely and studying him and I am still noticing signs, he probably has stopped masturbating but he still watches porn which also has negative effects on his brain....

Fast forward to what happened this evening. Before I tell you what happened lemme tell you this too. He doesn't have any vision, no plans, no idea, he just sits at home and wait for his twin bro to bring money home or call mom and dad to help him with cash all these things irritates me so bad. Funnily enough he always talk about having a girlfriend, he tells me being single doesn't make sense and I react and tell him, which lady will stay with you when you have no vision and plans for yourself let alone for her..

Back to the matter, this evening I returned back home from hustle with some good profit... I can't remember when last I made such money in a day since this government took over... So I transferred 5k out of the money to his account to help me withdraw from the bank and pay some debts. After spending hours out there I decided to call him and he says "bro I went to see my babe" 30 mins later he calls back

Him: Hello bro, something happened o

Me: what happened

Him: I bought drinks 2k for me and my babe

Me: what the heck? My sweat? I'm very infuriated

Him: pls bro I am sorry bro pls..

Me: *calms down* I have heard you

Him: bro can I go and chill again and relax with another 2k

Me: I give up do whatever you like... *ends call*

How can I help him pls

Mods pls move this to the front page so people can see the negative effects of masturbation and porn and I also need help for him. Thank you

So this is your recommendations to stop addiction? That guy simply need a wife

BankeSmalls:
Chai!

See mental cleansing, I fell of the mango tree when I read about Osinbade serving under someone without any classroom experience

Hahahaa. Good day

deomelllo:
When you spewed the rubbish about the illiterates ahead of the ipob senator, you obviously forgot that the immediate person ahead of that crooked and corrupt clown is a medical doctor.


No, you should think before spewing ignorant and illiterate rubbish.


I don't even get the silly and illogical edo girls reference..

Hey am not mentally tormented and tribal bigot like your generation of misery mistakes and regrets.
I don't play Nigeria dead politics neither do I wallow in home of sycophants and ass lickers.
Maybe you have not been paid or you have been in non-academic university of cultism studying one useless course of 3yrs for 6yrs without anything to show unless nairaland insults.
I also know of law Professor Yemi Osinbanjo working under an illiterate.
For your information Nigerian politicians are
corrupt and that is why the system is dormant. I will never read ur bias trash again. Off to office. Fool

Wenger is not serious.

To favour them...the NEC

deomelllo:
Saraki his boss is a medical doctor.


You sound like the illiterate.

Think and look wider before commenting. That Edo girls are prostitutes doesn't mean all Edo girls are prostitutes. Is Buhari not his boss ?

Yet Nigeria appoints illiterates ahead of him because he is from the east. Not northerner. A failed state

bekpo:
At least to serve as deterrent to others who felt the federal government can't bite.

Yes they have been tried, found guilty and sentenced. What about boko haram? Does it mean that federal government and the military have been in negotiations with them?
I hate Nigeria

Pray2425:
please to be sincere, you don't know what you are talking or saying.

Ok.

Nelsizzy:
So his son had a bike worth over 30 million and his dad was getting a loan of 1million. Should I call you stupid or what?

The innate stupidity in you will not allow understand me. Am not supporting buhari. Besides he borrowed $1m before 2015; have you try to investigate the date the bike was purchased? The son may decide not to support his father's political interests. Even you that voted Buhari never knew he will win the election.

Not full option. No fulklamp

Nelsizzy:
You went to a country that has a lower corruption level than your own country. Instead of offering economic support or something close, you promised to help fight corruption. Have you fought the one in you own circle? 2015 Buhari claimed to have borrowed money to buy presidential form of about a million naira. Fast forward 2 years later, his soon has a bike worth over 30 million. This does not include landed properties and the likes. BMC will continue fooling themselves. I weep for this country

His son not him

And Buhari is celebrating Ghana 61st bullshit independence. Nonsense

Show of decency

Jh0wsef:
APC NA VERY LOVED POLITICAL PARTY, NA BUHARI SPOIL AM.

Remove Buhari rebuild APC

ND2 ..almost in High School. Concentrate in your studies. I think should be your priority. Thinking about marriage at this stage is distraction.

Being Nigerian. Nigerians

Whose gonna vote for you or APC ?

aujile:
Left for me anything from this man and his administration should just be allowed to die as it's coming out from their mouth...see how backward we have come as a nation and he keeps talking about yesterday instead of tomorrow. Anyways it takes only the young to dream, the old talk about yesterday...Nigerians asked for this, in one way or the other. You have 2019 to right your wrongs (not Bubu)

Who voted him into aso rock? You?

This is joke. I pity my people. 2019 remain relevant. Congratulations to Nigeria people

braine:
Tribe is not an issue these days. It depends on how educated your parents are, though.

What have graduate and educated parents got to do with marriage? Are you in love fulls-stop.

Sirjamo:
One security agent to 50 persons, that's the UN security councils recommendations. Now, it's one to 500 in Nigeria; if we are to meet the UN recommendation, we would need half of our budget spent on security alone, it seems we don't know the limit of our capability, Nigeria can never be effectively secured, who ever is the President; you can take that the bank, we are just too poor

Nigeria is not poor rather mismanaged. If Nigeria is too big for federal government to be secured then restructuring is inevitable

Ratello:
You just sat down in one corner of your room to type what you don't know about Atiku and his future. You want to know how many times Abraham Lincoln tried contesting for political posts and yet keep losing to the extent that he was branded a serial loser? I am sure you are aware that he eventually became one of Ameruca'a best President ever. In Nigeria here, Buhari had been contesting for the past 12 years only for him to be voted into power by you lots in his 16th year of contesting which happens to be his 4th attempt sp alagba you don't know what you are saying about Atiku's destiny. I suggest you go and read that book you recommended yourself!

Don't mind the biased mind

UbanmeUdie:





A very commendable speech from a political destitute.


Many years ago, i read one of Mike Murdock's books titled, The Power of Recognition.


I think Atiku Abubakar needs a copy of it because, he clearly hasn't recognized that becoming Nigeria's president is not his destiny.


It is foolishness for a man to be chasing the wind.


I pity him & those cheering him to further humiliation are his enemies.


Atiku Abubakar, I am your friend...... mind your investments and kindly accept your death certificate as one who has died from the Nigerian political world.

No Atiku is not your friend.

Sirjamo:
Are you worried about his re election or the girls abduction?

Both Mr. . Can't you see that lives and properties are not save? Killings every nook and corners in the federation. From Adamawa to Benue, Rivers to imo, from Delta to ogun. His reelection is more worrisome than the missing girls because boys will soon be missing.

funsho79:
Hmmm.....Lie lie!!

Meeting conveners, where not present believed to come from the north and names withheld. Venue withheld. Intention of the Buhari to run for second time withheld.
Instead of hunting for news journalist will be seen at "agbo" spot drinking concoction, after hours everything will be withheld.
Bunch of lazy fools.

emmykendo:
Bifran why una too bad
anyhow rest in peace
@gonetoosoon

Leave Biafra alone and respect the dead. This is not worse than daily occurrence in ogun state

Throwback:
Every Igbo child exits the womb already feeling marginalized and entitled to loyalty.

Anyone who loves himself more than he loves his Igbo neighbour is an enemy of the Igbo and is propagating Igbophobia.

Foolishness sighted . Igbos are self reliant.

Throwback:
Every Igbo child exits the womb already feeling marginalized and entitled to loyalty.

Anyone who loves himself more than he loves his Igbo neighbour is an enemy of the Igbo and is propagating Igbophobia.

Foolishness sighted

gidado14:
mumu at your age he was a military head of state

That's not our problem know. Most of us where not born when he was overthrown . No computer no Abuja. Analogue president. This is digital era.

Kyase:
go and force him not to run na.

Outline valid reasons and points why Buhari should be re-elected. Do not forget to add on going projects and programs. Waiting.