Pettyprincess:
I just dnt understand how you will be in relationship with a girl nd expect her not to ask you for money, some guys will say "his he her father?" Bt actually this life is not hard as y'all make it seem, if you dnt wanna spend on any girl then its better you remain single!!! Because a far as i know girls will always demand money in relationship,take it or leave it!!!

you are right princess but to a point you are wrong so many ladies do take relationship as s profit making ground.I am not saying it wrong to spend on a lady but it should be on his own accord

MrBrownJay1:


the question you should have instead asked IS: why should a supposedly intelligent woman ask money to her BF?!

is he her father?
how was she living before she met him?
is dating the new scam for poverty alleviation?
who would even want to be with (or even trust) such broke aass begging woman?!

you should ask the ladies you know

Ikio:
never give her money...... Never ever... except you know that she truely needs it...

what if she lies to get it and u find out later what would you do.women can be smart and coniving but the can also be sweet and loving

Olami90:
The first question shows how valueless/worthless most ladies of this generation are.

If you are asking how long a lady should wait in a relationship (dating) before she can start asking a guy for money (like it is your right), it shows you are there just for the cash. Nothing more.

What happens to him giving you voluntarily?
You lots are seeing relationship as a lotto or a ponzi scheme.

Better still, you can move into an orphanage home.

Answer the questions below:
Is he your father?
Is he living for you?

believe me you are one of few men who respect relationship.like is money an entitlement to women it has to be given voluntarily like you said.I love you for what you said and I respect your answer.thank you olami

donbachi:
She should wait till christ come,because their reward is in heaven...ans to the last question;a woman dat has d fear of GOD and must have a big heart.

you can u wait till christ come before having sex with a woman

RedCreme21:
I'll answer for the guys.

big boobies
big booties

seriously

I hope everyone is having a beautiful day just like me well I wanted to ask some questions.I hope everyone gets interactive

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WowSweetGuy:
Please Help Me Judge. Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?!

Excuse my grammatical blunders. I just feel like sharing this experience i had with my fiancee to be....

Yesterday being sunday, I decided to fix a movie and fun outing with my girl. I ordered a taxi from my base to her base to pick her up. She came looking fine and sweet to enjoy the sunday with...To cut the long story short to the main reason i'm posting this....

I came out of the taxi from the FRONT SEAT gave her a hug and opened the back door for her then closed the door to go back to my normal position, She gave me a bad look from nowhere, i asked her what's wrong, she told me to come to the back, the driver could hear us clearly, i playfully told her baby don't worry we have all day together u are even gonna spend the night at my crib, i sat at d front and told the taxi to go to the cinema. During the trip to the cinema i had a little conversation with the taxi guy, from nowhere again my lady told the taxi guy in a rude voice 'please oga face your driving and stop shaking me driving into potholes anyhow abeg'...later on again she told the taxi man to totally put off the low radio station that was playing in the car, the last time he had a call and received it on Bluetooth o,she shouted then very rude telling the man please just drop that call. That's when i cautioned her to take it easy na.

We arrived at the cinema, she told me i should give her transport to go back home that she doesn't feel like staying out again...I tried to pet her,she just abandoned me took a taxi and went home. She has refused picking my calls since yesterday. Im busy at work weekdays,i dont really have time to go to her house.

Ladies/Gentlemen please where did i really go wrong

you are not wrong in any way way.and yes your gf lacks manners but I'm sure you already know this considering that you are dating her and you love her,and you clearly stated that the day was for two of u I( mean the couples)so I believe you should have stayed with her behind considering you hired the taxi even if you wanted to chat with the driver.I feel you should have stayed behind with her.if I was your gf I would feel bad,I would feel maybe you want to be distant in public,I would feel you don't want people to know we are together.just my thoughts tho

Let me be honest if it is my white bra,I only wear them once,but if it is yellow,brown,pink,or all those light colors it minimum of 2 maximum of 3 depending on how it turns out after 2 Days but as for my black bra I wear them 3 to 4 days straight up.my bra's are always clean no stench at all

Mandyvicky:
I know am not supposed to bring my relationship issues here but I can't help it��
I stay with him at school cuz am having issues with my admission didn't want to go home cuz I will keep reminding my parents of the huge amount of money they wasted. I love this guy very much I don't joke with him and am a very good cook so I love cooking for people to eat, he cooks too so he is this kind of person that likes bragging about what he can do, so at times I ignore him. But what he did today is really painful. He was sick so I decided to make moi moi for us(with his sister) was washing d beans then he came to the kitchen, started telling me how I should have washed d beans(Wai I shud select d shafts first before pouring water) I was like it's still d same thing then I complained to the sister and she had to tell him (oga na dsame thing) I continued 4rm where I stopped (I was already provoked) but I didn't shout later I trekked to the market to grind the beans came back (mixed the stuff, started cooking) he was like it will take 40 minutes to cook I didn't talk.
I went to sit waiting for the moi moi to get ready within a while he came oooh (my name) it's ready ooo so I stood up didn't want to argue with him went straight to the kitchen brought the stuff down, removed them from the hot pot. Guess what the moi moi didn't cook well, he said is because I didn't put them well. (note) it's not my first time of cooking moi moi in the house ooo, so I got angry I swear the thing pained me then I told him to stop telling me what to do in d kitchen that I don't like it (it's annoying) pls stop he was like he will slap me we exchanged words. Right now am pained cuz it's not the first time he doing this he does strange things that I can't even say. His cousin came last time he was telling her how cooks very well Wai have she tasted his food before a guy for that matter, which one is dragging with ur girlfriend who cooks better than the other

Pls nairalanders help me I don't know what to do
Ur advice is need
Pls don't mind my write up
Thanks

People that drive down the self esteem of others almost always do it because they are insecure.am just saying

Skmoda360:
Mehn!!! You are in trouble.....she ain't done with you....she want you to come and beg in person....have you slept with her before? If yes, I think you need to fvck her for like 1hr so that she can get factory resetting of her brain...she still love you oooo but insecurity is a disease in her body so deal with it bro.....I think you always act like sissy to her that's why she is trying to control you.....

Be a man and please if you are gonna break up with her, stay clear of her cuz she ain't done with you.

you are very correct I really think she has a lot of insecurities it could be because your behavior has changed a bit towards her.women always notice change some ladies overlook it while some want to get to the root of the problem,maybe she has seen you doing something wrong or she has picked strange numbers calling you and heard something.I mean anything can happen

24kmagic:


Why she go say make you pursue the guy comot? Where she want make the guy go?

Where the guy want see free toto de drill?

wow.thanks by the way

Colb461:
Try giving him sometime to get his head straight nd try to support him in everyway u can..bt dont overdo it..best of luck..

thanks

Colb461:
Try giving him sometime to get his head straight nd try to support him in everyway u can..bt don't overdo it..best of luck..

thanks

AfroKnight:
Girls be looking for reasons to breakup with broke guys and still retain their “good girl” reputation. They don’t want people to know that money is the factor that drives their decisions.

Break up with him with your full chest. No fear.

She say money is not a problem Comedy Half hour.

wow this days mentality can be so belittling

24kmagic:


No spoil show for person abeg.
Focus on the topic.
Leave that guy out of this please!

which show guy

Inthemoment:


Stay!!! Pay his bills, take his abuse, las las he will find a woman who respects herself and he will leave you. But, you stay and enjoy whatever he's offering you.

I'm not paying bills,He's not abusing me,I don't care if he leaves me all I care about is his welfare.relationship or not he was a very good friend before we started dating maybe we are just not meant to be.

Homeboiy:
Evening newspaper

U no even happy say one fresh bobo under 30 dey manage u

thanks

Easybela:
continue feeding and housing somebody's future husband,

thanks

Colb461:
Him being jobless might just be the real issue...expecially when he av younger one's looking up to him for financial assistance or him seeing his mate's doing well financially..try to understand him it nt easy for a responsible mature guy to be comfortable being jobless...in a nutshell try sit him down nd ask him to open up to u about what wrong..if i where in shoes i would be scared that u would leave me for someone better because of my financial stutus..sorry to say i don't mean to call u a slut or any other imaginary names bt that how i feel abt this issue....

i understand but i also wish he would

2buffagain:


How did you deduce this?

Nairalanders love drama so I pity whoever is bringing non-fake stories here.

not everyone is fake.I'm not a dramatic person,I don't need your pity

Easybela:
send him parking, that's not right

why would I do so

Easybela:
why won't he behave anyhow when you are already living with him ,if u go to a boutique,pick up a clothe without paying, go home and start wearing the clothe,will you have the urge to pay again ,if the owner disturbs u too much, u return the clothe,thats exactly what that young man will do to u soon.
Where una suppose get sense,una no dey get sense.
Better start looking for another option, he's tired of eating egusi soup.

he's living in my house

cooooooks:
*been
*live

Your bf should be open about close friends and not being open is a BIG red flag. I like your attitude, at least per your post, that marriage is not your only goal in life. I think you should confront him openly about the obvious cock and bull story. If he can't sufficiently explain himself then know that he indeed may have been cheating.

he was open but now he rarely talks to me he's always moody.I've tried confronting him but he says he's just bothered about He's joblessness that he's a man and so on he goes out almost everyday and comes back moody

Riele:
I don't understand.

What are you confused about?

He's sudden distance behavior,He's always complaining about money.everything

carzola:


Spits!!!!!

Yes women like money... His right. .

Sister we know ur not loyal and ur cheating and one day u will get tired of the fact he doesn't have money and move on.. The guy is only taking precautionary mejors to protect his fragile heart...

The two guys above me are really sick please let's pray fro them..

carzola I'm actually the victim here I have parents who can afford all my needs am not an ungrateful person I always help him in need.I could never cheat on him

ikh777:



BABE, kindly send me a PM, I want to be your friend that will do better and treat you better than this fake guy AND I can help your sis with school admission... am for real

to be CANDID, your boyfriend is cheating on you just like the guy above said...

cheating is NOT about SEX...it is about not being 100% equally committed as you are.... he just wants to use you and dump you so he is giving you reasons ahead o.

BE WISE and accept my offer- I am ready to wait for you, even if its just as a friend I know I can be your best pal and I mean it. kindly contact me.

I dont want you to get hurt at the end.

i just hope he's not,and about the friendship and not sure

blackpanthar:


My sister he is cheating on you technically BUT kind enough to give you warning signs that the relationship wont last, because he is BORED and TIRED of you... HE ALSO WILL KEEP GETTING ANGRY AND SOON BLAME YOU FOR HIS POVERTY.

pls be prayerful

i swear i will be prayerful.

Some men are just not normal

Good evening everyone,I really have to bring this up cause I am really confused.I have a man in my life whom I love and adore so much.my bf always complains that I don't respect him because he doesn't have money,but the case is different money is not my problem for now cause it will come.he speaks ill about women about how women can't love a man that we only love money,he says it in my presence it is as if I don't mean anything to him when I confront him he says he's just joking that he only speak out of experience.He's a hot tempered person which I understand,he keeps saying he will marry me,I know it not a guarantee i don't even care about marriage.He's being acting anyhow we leave together and he has never cheated on me,but only his calls makes me think he's cheating.I once called a number always disturbing him and it turned out to be a friend gf she said she only calls him to talk to her bf cause the are close and her bf has no phone.am confused.

iaamxavier:


She should try ebsu MLS the cut off is 210

They don't write post ume exam as well

So if she just score 220 at least next year then I guarantee that she will gain admission
Ebsu medical school is one of the top notch in all State University I mean their facilities is actually better than some fed university

thank you