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Its 3 months to my wedding and I haven't been more scared about my relationship until recently.

I have dated my Fiancee Juddy for 2 years now before we both agreed to take the relationship to the next level. Everything has been going on smoothly until we commenced our marriage preparations. It has been one argument after the other. I feel like I'm not allowed to air my opinion or views on issues bothering on our marriage plans. For instance, I told her disbursement of funds for some statutory payments like cloths, etc will commence by the end of the month as I don't want payments done haphazardly and she agreed. All of a sudden she is telling me about this payment that should be made immediately or else, and these are payments that can wait. Whenever I make my opinion known strongly, I'm always taken out of context or my statement twisted upside down and met with cold shoulder. The worst is the emotional blackmail that follows. This I can't just stand because I sincerely luv this girl.

This is really giving me course for concern. Guys who are already married, did u pass through this kind of poo. Guys planning to, how will you handle such? Let's share our experiences pls if any as I'm already thinking towards the extreme. Hall has already been secured.

NwaAmaikpe:



I know her parents will be angry that the money they spent on her JAMB is wasted.

When they should feel opposite because they don't have to pay for her university education again.

God have mercy on you! Your thinking is warped! Geez!

PoliticalThuG:
Rubbish Talk

Take your frustrated life to the lagoon.

I'm going to be concise and straight as possible.

Now my Fiancee can be very loving, caring and humble. These traits i find very enticing and cool with , but i have come to discover that when ever she is angry, even for the smallest of offences, i could sense way too much disdain towards me (Yes, i expect some form of irritation when angry, but not to the extreme). After all apologies and appeasing, it still takes almost if not more than a day before she forgets and let go. When ever i point this out, she says it is because she loves me so much and find it difficult to take it whenever i hurt or offend her . Don't know how to reconcile both. Guys in relationships, do you experience such? ladies, is this extreme display of disdain normal?

Inputting NYSC number and it is not working out. can't even type out the entire number. somebody help

OyiboOyibo:
my no1 life n biggest mistake was voting 4 him in 2015....I hope God forgives me...

I pray he forgives me too

I am hereby officially giving up on Buhari's Government. The man is a total failure, an irredeemable bigot and nepotistic hegoat .

I totally concur with u bro. I'm regretting ever supporting this govt

Alanzazani:
Result of nepotism. If only people can see what Buhari's men are going in thier various positions. They are really betraying the man and feeding him tales just like Jonathan's men did. This country is just irredeemable

Slay King. Am very sure he is among the HIV positive people.

No matter how falsehood or lies fly, the truth will always catch up with it. God bless Rt. Hon. Rotimi Chibuike Amaechi!

The Integrity Group has declared that it relied on documents, which were forged, to send petitions to the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission and the Independent Corrupt Practices and other related offences Commission on alleged corrupt activities of a former governor of Rivers State, Mr. Rotimi Amaechi.

It said that its petition to the anti-corruption agencies, alleging corruption against Amaechi, the current Minister of Transportation, dated July 29, 2015, was based on forged documents.

The Executive Director of the Integrity Friends for Truth and Peace Initiative, a.k.a The Integrity Group, Mr. Livingstone Wechie, stated this at a press conference in Abuja on Monday.

The group’s petition to the anti-graft agencies was titled ‘Corruption, criminal breach of trust, unlawful enrichment and conversion of over N70bn state resources by former governor, Rotimi Amaechi, and other functionaries.’

The petitioners demanded the investigation and prosecution of Amaechi over what they then believed was the conversion of Rivers’ funds and proceeds of the purported sales of state assets, including power plants, a certain Karibi Whyte Hospital and the diversion of money from the Rivers State Internal Revenue Service.


The same petition was also addressed to the Senate President which was laid on the floor of the Senate on August 8, 2015.

Wechie, in his capacity as the Executive Director of the Integrity Group, appeared before the Senate Committee on Public Petitions, Ethics and Privileges on October 12, 2015.

But speaking at the press briefing on Monday, the activist admitted that he and his colleagues were misled, even though he maintained that they took the action in good faith.

He added, “It is important to note that although all matters touching on the allegations levelled against Rotimi Amaechi were part of our good governance and transparency projects done in good faith in line with our principles, unfortunately, the Nyesom Wike-led Rivers State Government cashed into it and mischievously furnished us with all politically-fabricated and forged documents, which we sincerely and honestly worked with in good faith, wrongly believing same to be genuine.

“May we state that our organisation, in all honesty, relying on those documents unknown to have been forged and fabricated by the Wike-led Rivers State Government, subsequently advised the Rivers State Government to set up a Panel of Inquiry to investigate these allegations among others accordingly as part of our quest to get justice for the good people of Rivers State.


“The panel did its work and submitted it report to the governor, unknown to the world that it was all politics and documents tendered were fabricated and forged out of sheer desperation to indict Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi and paint him black at all costs for selfish reasons.

“This is one reason among others that the Wike-led River State Government, having mischievously achieved its aim of diminishing Amaechi, is still unable, two years after, to commence prosecutorial actions as of right against Rotimi Amaechi, knowing that the documents will be challenged having been forged.”

He claimed that Wike and his government rode on the wings of the “politically-fabricated corruption stigma on Amaechi to become governor and continues to rule with same antics of abusing Amaechi as state policy.”

Wichie accused Wike of violating and abusing almost all sections of the Public Procurement Law of Rivers State, including the budget, which he described as law and bible of fiscal administration.


He said, “For the records and fairly so, as it concerns fiscal policy, the Rotimi Amaechi administration, during its eight years in power, published its appropriation laws (budgets). Yet, days after the Wike government came on board, the state budget, which the Amaechi government left behind was pulled down from the state website and since then, the state budgets have remain the classified document privy to only the governor.

“May we state that just as we questioned the Amaechi government on major fiscal matters during the life of his administration through our various platforms, we shall also not spare the Wike administration, which has shown gross abuse of powers much more than the Rotimi Amaechi administration at an alarming degree,” the activist stated.

Wechie asked Nigerians and the anti-graft agencies to “disregard all documents tendered by our organisation indicting Rotimi Amaechi, including particularly the so-called Omereji Report and the subsequent White Paper by the Rivers State Government as all documents tendered were all politically-fabricated and forged.”

But the state chapter of the Peoples Democratic Party has called on the Senate to arrest Wechie, for allegedly lying on oath to the upper chamber in 2015.

The state Publicity Secretary of the PDP, Mr. Samuel Nwanosike, dismissed Wechie’s claims and recalled that the rights activist, had told the Senate on October 12, 2015 that the documents presented against the immediate past governor of the state were based on his personal findings.

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slawomir:
I see so many jews here. not their fault. humans hate what they don't understand
live to be rugged
born to be rugged and born to die
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to all my neo black. dodorima . we flock the Jews and drop the wrong men here in Benin City we don't fall even if we fall then we become like an Hydra when our head is cut off then expect another head instantly as an outgrowth from different part of the body

a life without ruggedity and an unexamined life is not worth living

I pity the entire family u came out from, that is even if u have one. I pity your poor mother and father. I guess they don't know they have an efulefu as a son. RIP in advance.

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If you see Nzekwe... Please tell him to return my 100k...

Make I no catch that guy for Nigeria,,,!! [/quote

Guy, u have finished me with laughter. Heavy Nzekwe! My belle o

The hidden motive of FANI FEMI KAYODE

Beware of your reconciled enemy for he may be coming to finish the part he can't finish during hostility ,says my old man " .

FFK may have become Saul that met Christ on his way to Damascus and became Paul , but of a Truth i have never heard that rainfall washed away the stripes of a Leopard.

No matter how tamed a Cobra is ,the fang will always itch for a bite and a bite she must give at the right time. Do not forget that the venom of the bite is never friendly.

Fani Femi Kayode has a very deep hatred that surpass that of Buhari against Ndigbo ,all the diatribe he has ever vomited against us as a race or against any Igbo Born Icon is on record the most vulgar.

He took it a notch higher when on the sick bed of our LEGEND IKEMBA , he said that he FANI KAYODE has been the Boyfriend of BIANCA just to cause havoc and disharmony in the family of Ojukwu and to force the man to go to the grave with pains and bitterness ....moving on

I was so surprise that Nnamdi KANU misjudged that man ,he may have sweet tongued him or may have used Talisman on Nnamdi but those who know Nnamdi one on one should tell him that " Friends that have history of how many of your Kin's they have maimed will not hesitate to add you to the list " ,Fani has never loved us nor cared to hide it .

He may have visited you in Prison but not for Solidarity but for a plot that will tarnish your Legend and as we speak he maybe plotting the acts that will be injurious to you and us.

If you doubt me ,read the history that predates the GENOCIDE of 1967 When General Ojukwu with same exuberance of youth entered into accord and understanding with Awolowo ,the result will be better from your findings .

Buhari hated us is no history after all in 1983 he sent Ekwueme who was the Vice President to Kirikiri and Shagari to DODAN BARRACK GUEST HOUSE ,and he has never shown otherwise and as a result we know where we are with him ,but Fani and most of his peers hated us with perfect hatred masked with poisoned Chalice .

Some will advise one to take what FFK said with pinch of Salt but i will say ,whatever Fani says to me ,i with do the opposite .
You may think that his stint with EFCC may have changes his perspective but do not be fooled, after all Awolowo was sentenced to life in prison at Calabar prison and if that did not change him ,I wonder why this will change FFK .

We should be wary of always been used to achieved some political balance and discarded at the end ,it will serve best If we seat this one out with a Jar of NGWO or Nkwu enu and anu mkpo (Dry meat) ,and with silence of the lamb watch the wrestling of the gods.

Mazi Odera.

Person wey Chris Attoh don sample left, right and centre finish

I can connect with your first and second story. It was just as if you were relaying my story. But am very very happy now as i now have a soulmate

mespusinglez:
Here Are Mine
1. My ex was very good at preaching... She can kiss now and start crying in the next minute of offending God... It was such a dramatic relationship and it's very good that it ended.

2.I enjoy her Advice,hope n words of wisdom she did share wit me during d relationship so sad we didn't stay long but we still watch each others back as best Pals 4 Life.....No Gal like my Ex

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My Other EX

1.My ex wanted to use me as a mugu bcuz she thought my loyalty to her is enough reason why she can treate me the way she likes. I treated her like how every gentle man aught to treate a woman, she saw my gesture towards her as my weakness, she thought I was scared to lose her and that was my reason for treating her nicely. She cheated on me and was expecting I forgive her just like how I over looks most of her short comings anyway I love her very much both I have to accept the fact that she wasn't meant for me cuz those who love each other tried to avoid any means that will lead to hurting their significant other. She wanted me back bcuz her new partner beats her like silly and she finally realize no man have ever treated her well like me but she is gone forever cuz that was a decision I made as my new partner knows what it means to have a good man and am not ready to ruin the lovely moment between us bcuz of an ex that was so SELFISH....


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Jesus is lord!!! Moving Volcano, make they castrate this lunatic sharp sharp o

You will get unbridled attention and care. Don't know how to hide it except am not into u

Although i abhor violence against women, the truth is i won't even know when i will give her series of resounding slaps.

Na wa o, i can feel your pain bro. If you don't mind, you can share your experience.

dannio:
Pls continue with the action above that you have adopted l have experienced something similar to this and it has taught me a great lesson let me quote this GUARD YOUR HEART WITH ALL DILIGENCE FOR OUT OF IT FLOWS THE ISSUES OF LIFE and also l refined and added this GUARD YOUR HOUSE/HOME/LIFE FOR OUT OF IT FLOWS THE ISSUES OF THE HEART

Honestly there are people who will betray you,stab you in the back while really pretending to be your best friend with smiles on their face wanting to know what you are,where you are in life etc.Hmm my brother l am still in shock with my own experience because the person is related to my family and the others are family members

Wait i dey come

optional1:
you say u want advice ba come here

If there is one offence am brutal and unforgiving about, it is betrayal and disloyalty by a family member and close friends

I value friendship a lot and by my nature, i'm willing to go the extra mile for friendship sake. A friend of mine, after his NYSC was job hunting and requested to stay with me as he did not want to stay with his parents. Who no want freedom? As guy man, i said why not, my house na your house, feel free.

So the guy came in and all was going very well, he was using any of my belongings he wanted. At least my consolation was the fact that he cooks very well. The guy pass me wella for that level i admit. I don too eat indomie sotay indomie tire for me
There was this Benin babe i was seeing then, her wahala just too much and i called it quit, Benin and Warri girls, i no know which one wey their head dey hot pass

I didn't know that my guy was toasting the babe behind my back. Ok, that i could still tolerate to some level. But where the guy murdered sleep was when he began poisoning the girl's mind against me, advising her to do me 'strong thing' whatever that means, that will make me regret ever breaking up with her, and for her to date him, so she will show me what i threw away!

The dude didn’t know the babe was still loyal , as she sent me their chats. kai, i weak like dodo. I no sabi all these diplomacy sh*t, so I confronted him immediately. At first he tried to claim ignorance but when i showed him the evidence, he started stammering. Immediately, i asked him to leave my house and severed all ties with him before he connives with my enemies to poison me.

The guy has been apologising and some of my peeps have advised that i let go. Although i have forgiven, but that gap is still there. I no fit sleep well if me and the guy dey the same roof.
Any body with such experience? and did your friendship remain the same?

Disloyalty

If i tell you the amount of airtime wey i dey burn everyday for bae just to communicate with her since she dey a bit far away no regret though

This one is strong. Anyway, she should take her time, in fact all the time she wants in this world and weigh her options. If she allows herself to be stampeded, she might end up regretting it.

One minute silence for this motherfucker RIP in advance.

This must be a bishop administering the sacrament of confirmation. But this style of flogging, i never see am b4 o Ah!

Holy Moses! God have mercy!

Am sure your brain is sick

She lacks courtesy. The Lesbian is more reasonable than she is.[/quote]

LOBATAN! Our generation needs to apologise to Soddom and Gomorah! Chisos