₦airaland Forum

Y una come back? It is better to wait out d storm in better countries than Nigeria.

MannieA:
You have your own view and I have mine. I stand firm on my opinion that he's stupid and weak to go look for a father who didn't care about him. A man who didn't bother to check up on you as a kid...nah. Not knowing your father wouldn't stop you from becoming great or anything,so please it's not a big deal to me.

No one said it il stop a person from achieving what he or she desires in life. But pray that no issue comes up that needs that biological connection. Ur opinion ur life. Just intimating u of d other side, life is not a one way street.

MannieA:
If the man is ready to take care of his child and spend sometime with his child then the woman should let him do so but if he doesn't come looking for his kid at all and doesn't want to be part of the kid's life then I don't see why the child would grow up and start looking for his dad. A man that didn't give a f**k about him when he was a kid? That's just weakness and stupidity.

It is not weakness or stupidity, ok can d child change his DNA? He might not acknowledge d man as his father, but when biology comes into play he has no choice. That is y some men r so careless, Cus they know u can change d fact of them being d biological father of the man or lady n U must understand that in Africa that matters. Abi u want turn American, even those recognize d biological parents.

post=89308903:
who wan die nah?

Typical of u not to c an thing wrong here. Who gave them d transport money for d journey, ask urself this question then maybe u can tell urself d truth.

Stevecreativex:
Me if I remember I use to smile and swear for her with my smile
She's grace, fondly called Gracey, I met this werey when I was serving at Abuja 2014, But with the way we met seems like God wanted us together.

She works where I did my PPA, The first day we met I was working on some files and she was kinda asking her colleague who Steve is when she walked up to my desk, she called my name I looked up and she lost it like I could remember we both lost at each other for like 60 seconds before the lady sitting beside me called her name loud( that one don grab watin dey sup)

To cut the past lost story short.. we started talking we exchange contact and weeks later we started dating... Later she came over to the apartment where I rented, I could tell her reaction she does not like the place (it single room thou)

Months later our relationship became so close that people started noticing in the office, exactly August they paid salary and to my surprise, as we were going home together she gave me her August salary asked me to add some few bucks to it I should move out of the one-room apartment am staying saying she doesn't want me sharing toilet and bathroom...

Like I was wow. To be very honest that night I was so happy to the extent I had to cut all my spouse contact off and focus on only her... Like that night I vowed not to cheat on her ever...

So I finished my NYSC in Abuja and luckily my PDTF scholarship application was successful I was preparing to move over to Greece for my masters...

I and Gracey parted ways but we still dating, we call each other text each other... Months later I started sending money to grace for our building project, all the money I sent within 5 years was around €125,500+ (54,233,804.62 naira) reason why I didn't not send to my mum is I wanted to make it a surprise for my her (only child)..

During this process, grace sends me pictures of the land she brought and how the construction is going on.....

To round up this painful crab only for me to come back home to meet my wife, married with a kid...

I arrested her and all she could say was "she thought I was just joking with her" that she never thought I still love her... Out of 54m, she could only recover 2.5m...

I was hospitalized for two weeks then... I sort I almost died the shock and trauma almost killed me... But thank God later I just have to return to Greece and start all over again... But what she did then is still the reason why am single today...

The truth sef is I insult any Nigerian girls I see in Greece... Nigerian girls in Greece are all lonely so anyone of then that comes across Nigeria guys is always waiting to be loved but I can't stop hating them...

The trauma still lives..

Guy that girl wound u o! Chai!

badaru911:
It's likely to be ogogoro.... He's gonna drink some and pour some on people's hands

Even if na ogogoro d guy try jare!

Acidosis:
If we must compare and interprete these figures, let's do it with a great deal of caution.

I don't think the rate of infection in these countries is anywhere close to ours. Drugs don't prevent infection, right?

Our govt should reach out to Madagascar. This is how Nigerians we're shouting close d airports n boarder n our govt didn't till it was too late. Go n get d herbal Madagascar cure now they r proving stubborn on this issue also.

u11ae1013:
Pdp and IPOB will still claim it's photoshoped and that the picture was captured in chad
And later, they will show us a hole in buhari's neck
Mind you, I am a proud ewedu sipper

That is how people like don't want this country to move forward Cus u tribilize everything, every comment, every progress, every failure, u even eat n shit tribal sentiments. At d end of d day tribalistic shit il end u.

Liliantalks:
bottom line , is being good in bed right ? Noted

No necessarily bn good in bed but at least guys go test run, incase she turns out to be d type that doesn't like sex.

D father doesn't need to fret. After the police inquiry, the mother who recorded d video il take over his education expenses. As for the father he should rest, he has done his best. Let him not go for exams after the mother has spent money, then we il know how she il react. Nonsense

The thing is that d ladies who r in church all the time don't do relationships to d extent of having sex bf marriage. N most guys want to test run bf paying bride price n doing d whole wedding expenses. But d runs girls! Ah d guy go test run then she go hold d guy by keeping d sweet apple from him till he marries her. Guy go do d thing sharp sharp, even if he doesn't ve enough she il add money to make sure d marriage is done.

Theses tribal sentiments il not do nairaland any good.

I m not rejoicing over this man's death, Cus everyone il eventually die at their appointed time, but if he was all these, y wasn't the hospital in asu rock not equipped enough to treat him? He has bn chief of staff for more than four years n money was budgeted every year for asu rock. The hospital there was supposed to b top notch. But he was brought to Lagos for treatment. Pls explain this.

Go for d pilot course, u get a good paying job. Business is not easy. But with ur certificate as a pilot u make good money n u can go for ur MSC later sef.

mamaafrik:
I had a guy in school then,he was sooo rough, he is not book neither did he know anything,he will only start reading for exam,whether calculation or reading one a day to exam,but he can grasp so fast and unbelievingly accurate and will pass more than una wey done dey read from the beginning of the semester.
He was the among the last 7 in academics things in class but is amongst the top 5 out of a class of 57 or so.

D guy dey read at a time other people il not know

Walahi this one na lie. Her contacts if traced where did she come in contact with the virus? Now is d virus causing sepsis or infection. Hmm! I smell a rat! Is this negligence that caused d infection, now they want to attach covid 19 so they can bury her without d family asking any questions.

ImaIma1:
Oh so you are noticing the fact that I called you a name but didn't notice that you have been throwing shades and insulting me and I didn't respond to them.

We cannot both agree because we are seeing things from different perspectives based on our relationships with people or upbringing. So let's realize that and move on

Lol! When life wants to happen it doesn't care about ur upbringing or relationship with people or status! Let dat b my parting shot to u bye.

ImaIma1:
That's why I said being broke has levels. But obviously, you have been reading to attack rather than reading to understand.

If not your "experienced" brain and eyes would have seen that. Mr experience.

Now u r calling me names. I not replying u to attack, but it seems u don't want to b realistic or d realism of d matter we r talking about, ur imagination has not grasped. Being broke having levels is from a persons perception. Go n tell an average man on d streets of Nigeria that there r levels of being broke n he il tell u that that rich guy is not broke yet. When he is he il know.

ImaIma1:
Sorry I don't align with your mindset. Still, it's not everyone that will face a financial challenge that will make him/her broke. Sad truth for you.

Like I said bf ur comments show how shallow ur experience is. Financial challenge means what? Lack of money, means that person doesn't ve enough of money like he used to. Haven't u seen rich men who say they r broke at a point in time? Then u see them keep away from their girlfriends till they get some cash.

Sixfeetbelle:
Then get ready to marry and divorce all your life as long as you continue to be an insensitive prick.

U don't ve to b harsh. Just explain to d guy that to satisfy his woman on bed is a thing that satisfys d man also. And let him know that that doesn't have anything to do with the size of his d***k.

One of my best musician, love his songs, like "if there any justice was in d world ". And also him retaining his Nigerian surname really makes me happy.

ImaIma1:
Whether I am being fed or making my own money ain't none of your business.

Is it everyone who loses his job or falls into financial problems? Don't you know anyone that hasn't been in that situation. Or you only know made guys who ran into difficulties.

Is that the dream, consolation and prayer of every struggling guy? That the already made guys will lose their job, business, become broke? So that it will justify their being broke? Wake up!

Lol! R u piqued that I just had to say it? Cus from d way u talk, I don't think u r someone with a certain level of experience. It is not necessary for one to be in d predicament himself, but must ve seen one who had such, therefore guards against such occurrence in his life. N I think one of such moves is to keep away from women like u, who r only in for the better n not for d worse.

zexy2030:
ok

Ok na!

What was she doing at home since? If she just came back from a black listed country or she came in contact with someone that just came back from a black listed country, shouldn't she self isolate n call the NCDC?

zexy2030:
substandard goods is what u call business? its wickedness not business.

U make me laugh! 10 or 15 yes ago this same China was producing substandard goods, but today they r d industrial capital of d world. Don't look inwards n support Ur own o! Cus of Ur tribal sentiments u ve refused that Ur country should one day compete in d international industrial market.

zexy2030:
actually so many Nigerians are selfish and profit oriented, they don't care about the implications. to the consumers. Mostly igbos don't know how to care for the masses but care about profit.

So the business men in Ur region don't make profit. I can see u r not into commerce at all. So just keep quiet when things u don't understand come up

ifykris22:
Imagine making a. Mask without wearing hand gloves... The difference is clear... See difference

Cus u were sent that pic online, do u know whow they r made without photo graphs been taken. More over that is what is wrong with Nigerians they never appreciate their own. But if it was China now them no mind. Appreciate Ur own first then improve.

LadyBeee:
fool. Kids , hiding behind their keyboards

Looks like the guy got Ur situation, spot on. Some ladies stay with Friends n r maybe 5 to 7 in a room, but them go come nairaland dey form.

Ozugbo:
Is well.A wife I married with my hard earned money left me because am sharing a flat with another couple n as soon as she left,things started improving for me.

Maybe she was part of the problem with her demands in the first place.

ImaIma1:
Why is that always the argument? That he must have financial issues later. It's becoming a cliche.

Must every lady marry a struggling guy?

Are already made men supposed to remain single? Is it only the struggling guy that deserves to be married?

Is it every already made guy that will have financial issues that will make him broke? Financial issues have levels.

Let's be open minded and stop portraying struggling guys as the best option for marriage.

From what I said above, when such happens to an already made man, what do u do? U support him or u run away to another guy who is not experiencing difficulties at that time?

ImaIma1:
Why is that always the argument? That he must have financial issues later. It's becoming a cliche.

Must every lady marry a struggling guy?

Are already made men supposed to remain single? Is it only the struggling guy that deserves to be married?

Is it every already made guy that will have financial issues that will make him broke? Financial issues have levels.

Let's be open minded and stop portraying struggling guys as the best option for marriage.

What u refuse to wrap u imagination around is the fact that, men r in a constant struggle to stay aflot, financially. Maybe u don't work or do business, u r still bn feed, so u don't know or understand that a person might loose his job, or a business might ve difficulties n when such happens adjustments need to be done to keep the business aflot. In case of a working person, he or she has to also make financial adjustments till another job is gotten.

Hope uzodinma. Should answer some serious questions concerning this matter. He can't endenger people of IMO state because of his foolishness or political advantage.