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Ninethmare:
Someone should help a brother here please

My foodstuffs have dried up

Those of us in Lagos know how it's going

Biko be your brother's keeper

we shall survive this trying times together without losing a love one.


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A friend in need is a friend indeed

Seh u think say na only u dey house? With Ur begging on nairaland. U no even choose better period na now? Sorry na Ur middle name

Nigerian leaders il politisize everything. So only those with LASSRA r the only inhabitants of Lagos. Haha haha. I laugh in Swahili. This people r d true virus Nigeria is suffering from.

ImaIma1:
Not every lady will suffer with a man from scratch. It doesn't make them bad people. Each person has what they can and cannot take.

And the already made guy, when he might have financial issues, the lady il find another already made man. What does that make the lady? Parasite? Or what?

SweetCunt97:
ooooin! How much did he spend? So u wanna tell me he spent upto 100k on her? What kinda person does that?

Ah! U n I were not there o! But before a woman il agree that a mam is caring? That man must ve spent a considerable amount of cash.

pennywys:
how will he have up to 30k in his savings since he had shower all his life earnings on you just to make u feel happy and here you are planning and making consultations on how to dump him.

I don't blame, I blame him he should have plan his life properly before trying to make a woman feel happy.


Young intellectual men are after themselves and wellbeing first.

U r on point jare!

Jewessgratitudd:
You might want to redirect this your comment; I'm not the OP

No I wanted u to read it so u know that the lady is also part of his problem.

saajus:
No be virtuous, na calcu. The lady saw he's ambitious and hardworking. She saw all his PhD dreams. She saw his will power.

Some women even see men with such traits n say, "seh na pali I go chop? " it takes a strong woman to support a man through thick n thin to get to a comfortable life. It is not easy.

blozzynonny:
This is just so factual. Some of these guys only have that love to offer and nothing more. Knowing we ladies, we can fall for that so helplessly not knowing that that's just a ploy to get you to be comfortable with their status. When you finally settle down with them and the financial stress weighs on them, they will blame you for being the cause of their misfortune

that is y I always blame guys that want to go out with all these slay queens. Slay them on the bed n go look for a down to earth girl n marry. All these ladies looking for the guy with d ride. At the end of the day when the ride is gone, they grow wings n fly.

babalonimi:
I have live in this type of house bfr, my fiance nw my wife didn't even bother herself when I was trying to hide my place bt the day I reluctantly brought her to my place, she encourage me But today we lived like king n queen in our place. So stay madam. No condition s permanent. Till today she encourage me on many things even when my PHD tire m

Ur wife is a virtuous woman which is a quality lacking in alot of ladies theses days. Many r becoming evening news papers. May God give them wisdom.

Jewessgratitudd:

Sincerely speaking, in this time and age, I wouldn't advise anyone to start a family in that condition. You'll end up regretting it.

As per his level, with not up to 30k to start with, OP, you might be wasting your time with such a guy except if you are ready to bear 90% of the cost.

Now, you didn't state the kind of job he does so I'll know if it holds any prospects for the future or you might need to exercise patience until he gets a better job.

If you truly love him and are ready to take the risk and damn the consequence, then go ahead with the relationship. Know that with your frequent sleeping over, belle go soon show. Hmm.. That is when you'll know the importance of comfortability.

My sister he is a broke ass nigger. U can't help him stay away so he can grow, part of the money, he is supposed to use for his improvement, he spends on u. And pls don't even think of going back when he is eventually comfortable Cus u might pull him down again Cus of him trying to be Mr nice guy to u.

Beckysexy:
Nah nah Not me If you treat me like trash, I'll also treat you like trash.That's my law Me wey no gbadun before

When u see that guy u like so much now u go turn mumu.

Perfecttouchade:
Egungun don carry Mama nkechi pant

Na wa for you o! Na pant d egungun see carry? No bra for there?

SciLab:
This is why most of these DISCOs hate prepaid meter. They'll keep frustrating prepaid meter distribution till they milk Nigerians to death with their crazy estimated billing methods.

That d 100 percent truth, the discos hate prepaid meters with passion cus it prevents their theiving opportunities with estimated billing. That estimate bills has to be outlawed in Nigeria. These discos r theives all of them. They don't want people to get the prepaid meters at all. They frustrate every avenue. Even to get u pay through ur nose n the tipping also before they il come n install n u ve to also tip during installation.

Shibaraba:
" Oh my God, this is preposterous, this behaviour must be reported, these animals must be protected, you guys are barbarians " , I screamed as one of these was brought to my ppa way back in 2010. They tied the poor crocodile, butchered it while I was videoing and ranting. They were just laughing at me

One hour later

" Man na so this meat sweet reach?, madam bring one crate of Goldberg make we take reason this meat, God is wonderful, this thing ugly for face but e sweet in the middle. Okey Abeg tie that nylon well. Na wetin we go take cook egusi this night be that"

One man's meat is another's poison. At my ppa Ogbeni their meat became my meat o.

Guy n d reasoning on top the meat come make sense abi?

nzeobi:
Oga forget those half truths from Sanusi, if such amount was missing why haven't the buhari administration found it.

It's always easy to criticise, have you heard that Sanusi who claimed to be a friend of the poor has built or renovated a school or contributed to anything that will uplift his environs

Abeg help me ask them. The same Sanusi was accused of embezzlement as he was sitting on the throne o! Them never finish sef some r still remaining that their commonpence is coming to them.

Subsequent govts ve ignored the potential of Eastern Nigeria, feeling if they give the Igbos a helping hand by creating the right atmosphere for industry to thrive there the Igbos might grow wealthier than other parts of Nigeria.

Chuksyno:
It is not new or news. My first daughter is 11months older than my first son. Never make mistake of aborting or days of regret will follow suit. Since your first issue is 8months it means he will be 1 year and 5 months older than the one inside womb which is relatively ok. So don't make stupid abortion mistake in the name of covering shame

Did ur wife give birth through CS? all of u here saying he should keep the baby, I hope u all aware his wife gave birth through CS. she is not to get pregnant again till after 18 months

confibless:
My dear don't abort the baby,it happened to me too.my baby was 7months when my wife took in.Today the baby is 1yr plus 1 day and my ist is now 2yrs plus 3 months.God is your strength.

Did ur wife give birth by CS?

Doktajay5:
Except for the financial capacity to run his family, which he should go and figure out and double his hustle. The pregnancy can confortably be without any health challenge.

Her body has healed @ enough to go through it without killing her. Nothing will happen to her. She should just register for ANC. The only thing u both should plan for is a repeat CS cos she isn't qualified for a VBAC (vaginal birth after CS). Yes that's is.

Warn him oohh if it's not u shaa, He will put that woman at a bigger rist of losing everything if he tries an abortion cos that will be a more dangerous trauma to the womb.

So in his interest and in the interest of that woman, he should desist from thinking of such but should go an plan how to go about the financial expectations from him.

I feel for him anyway, I can advice him to quickly go and buy NHIS private health insurance for her immediately, it will be ready in 2 months. Its sold @ 15k ie the minimum plan. This could save him the high cost of repeat CS.

Then after this case, they both should get a good contraceptive plan to prevent another pregnancy while they enjoy sex, this will avail her the opportunity to heal much better.

Na God de give pikin so don't play smart around it or do what u will eventually regrete.

People take in @ 3 months, 6 months etc after delivery by any means.. So urs @ 8 months isn't bad @ all. So concern ur sef with money matters more Than health matters bro.

All the best...

Is it safe to get pregnant after just 6 to 8 months after a CS? I thought the time was at least 18 months after.

Alanzazani:
A friend of my shared his story with me.

He got married in October 2018, had a baby in July 2019. His wife had a fibroid in her uterus hence a ceasarian operation was carried out.

A few days ago they went for a scan to see what the fibroid looks like. To his amazement he was told his wife is 10 weeks pregnant.

The young man is devastated. He is struggling to take care of his baby and his family. Only to be shocked with this news of a 10-week-old pregnancy.

He is contemplating aborting the pregnancy. He doesn't know if 8 months is enough time for his wife's body to have healed. I strongly advised him against this. His wife is unwilling to abort the baby. Mature advice need. FP please

With a CS it is too early for her to get pregnant again o! The place the wound is has not healed properly and il cus complications when the pregnancy starts growing. The medical advice is to wait for at least 18 months before the woman can get pregnant again,take ur wife to see a qualified doctor so he can enlighten her on the dangers she is facing.

Is it that these people are looking for ways to get Nigerians infected with this virus? A man coughing excessively n he was allowed to travel from China or where ever his flight originated from?

So there r no other eligiable people in Bayelsa that it il only be a formal governor that the youths il support to go for senate. Other states that did the same mistake il be regreting it by now.

AmazingELixir:
What do you mean by innocent consumers.....your likes that carry cutlass to chase away the disco technicians when they come to disconnect you for default.

I have made my point...the discos should be left alone to make their profits the way they deem fit...if you don't like it switch to renewable energy or gaan buy yourself a lister.

U work for one of these discos n u r part of the crew that collect money from consumers when u disconnect their power.

OK good

post=86967227:
Some weak ass men are so fond of these kinda gutter and foul languages on their better halves.

But how can you be calling a woman you vowed to love till the end of life,
A woman you paid her bride price for her to leave her family just to be with you such derogatory words?

You see some of them on Nairaland also,
Any successful woman to them must be an 'olosho' or must be on 'hooking up' on coded runs!

Lazy tins everywhere!


Welcome dearie....

Must u mention that some people on Nairaland, y do u always ve to controversial in ur statements. Which kind human beans be this? Abi na to grind u take do moimoi abi cook u take chop bread.

Get KY jelly. It is a lubricant for sex. It il help a lot.

WilliamsTheGrea:
Yes she doesn't. She doesn't even have friends, she is always at home most times, only goes out when I tell her we should go out or except she goes to her trainee work as an auxiliary nurse but she is done with that...

She is quiet cus she knows that there is a slim. Chance of her getting married being a single mother. Man u ve to man up n tell her u can't raise another man's child cus at the end of the day that boy will go back to the father. Let her choose if she wants to to continue with you or end the relationship. Unless u r ready to do charity work on the boy.

signature2012:
Deputy President
What about the condolences VP?

I cant wait for 2023 to reach,alot would be expose.

Two types of people supporting this administration are ;

1.Those making money from it.

2.Those who are generationally gullible.

Quite right. Those r the 2 categories of people supporting this administration. I cry for Nigeria n for the situation that we find ourselves in at this point in time.

XhosaNostra:
I'll pass

U sure? Well when u feel like it Nigeria is another experience entirely. The good, the bad, n the ugly.

XhosaNostra:
No, there isn't. I like everyone. There're Kenyans & Ghanaians on this forum, I'm on good terms with them as well. It doesn't mean I fancy them though lol.

Never knew we had other Africans on this forum. They y r we not getting a lot of news n gists from their own side of Africa.

XhosaNostra:
No, that's why we're all here.

Wow! Small wonder u like Nigerians. Come 9ja then come look around. Make one 9ja guy treat u.