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sensegiver:
So fastestshipper is faster and smarter than Fastshipping? Abi na same somebody?

AlBaqir:
There is no skip. Shia consider wiping or rinsing of ears (inner and outer or inner alone) lobes a Bid'a that negate the sequencial order (tar'tib) of wudhu commanded in the Quran.

Some Sunni try to be smart by advancing that ears is part of head that's why after wiping of the heads backwards and forwards, you wipe the ears too without taking fresh water. They however forgot to mention a single hadith where Nabi is reported to have explained that way.

For verifications, Imam Bukhari and Muslim NEVER mentioned rinsing or wiping of ears in the documentations of their narrations which describe Nabi's wudhu.

lanrexlan:
That's an agbo faah. Na Kuuru

lexiconkabir:
he will tell you no....

Bnladan:
Afwan ya akhee, hal anta Sufiy?

RABIUSHILE04:
By allaah, I actually thought it was Empiree who replied me, dat was y I said d taslim...and I'm just coming online now, just seeing dat it was that 'albaqir'.. Sub-human or not, shias are worst people. Keep ur hail thee, or better still hail Nigeria!!!!!

MY ONE KOBO ADVICE:


I have been looking for a comfortable time to share my thoughts on the message passed to us by Dr. Abdulhadi Tiamiy at the finalists' getogether, University of Ibadan but that moment of total comfort may not come. There's nothing more that struck me in his lecture than his last important few words:

"If you do not marry when you're here (the university), you can NEVER find what you're looking for outside.


This man has all the experience. I heard he already had his HND when he came back for his medical school. He had his Nikkah the year he was to take his first medical exam and heaven didn't fall thereafter. When he was in the final year, he said he already had two boys, TWO BOYS.


So that I don't waste much lines saying the same thing we have always said, let me advise myself (first) and you on the few things we should note about marriage:


1. Except we find solace in deceiving ourselves, the society we find ourselves today does not permit that we delay marriage at all. See what we view with ours eyes daily; on TV, on the street, in our campuses, in fact everywhere we go. It always reminds us of what we should do when we become mature, the journey everyone who believes in the prophet and his message should embark upon; but we are too afraid to go into it yet. We are scared. We don't know what people will say if we marry at this early age. We are too scared to jump.


2. Allah has assured us in the Qur'an that He will assist, and His promises don't go unfulfilled. Matrimony is not about having millions of naira before one can have a wife. The Baaroka isn't assured in a flamboyant and colourful marriage Haven't you seen people living comfortably today run into bankruptcy tomorrow? If you know it has moved from the level of Mustahab for you to Waajib, find a way to marry, brother. And you who have money, help your brother to do the Sunnah of the Rosul. Reward abounds if you do.


3. Our parents should begin to understand that masters or PhD isn't the peak of success in life. Like I always say, as Standard Six, Form Five and other certificates have become of little or no importance today, PhD is coming to that level soon. And I tell people too, that when a lady studies and studies till he becomes of age, too ripe and old for marriage, then we have problem with who to marry her to. Our parents must start to support us who do not have means of surviving the marriage. They should bear some responsibilities for us. It's not until we bring a potruded stomach home and they have no choice but to help that they will extend their helping hands.


4. To the choosy brothers and sisters, let us retract our steps fast. If you're looking for the thin, the tall, the fair, the Haafedh or Haafedha, time is going faa. A friend recently told me that affection is not built in a day. You know it is possible that you love someone. And when you talk to them, you find that they don't hitherto reciprocate the feelings. What do you expect? You expect that it grows with time, isn't it? Let the same apply to you and do what needs to be done in time.


5. Brothers going to ask sisters out, see it as trying to pitch a job. Don't see it as "trying out how proficient you are in so doing. Like you're going for an interview, prepare well. Do it like you mean it. Don't let sisters come and ridicule the brothers and gloat at " weakness in speaking. If you're really ready for marriage, start by showing self-sufficiency. Don't call home each time you need money. Think of small business you can do and earn your money in short time. There's no point being shy about businesses. You're better than those who are still wholly dependent on home for survival. Dress well, perfume yourself and suit the taste of the sisters. Begin to learn how to care for the opposite sex. Don't argue and want to win all the time. These are preparatory steps showing your readiness for marriage.


6. It is wrong of anybody to intentionally stay 3 years dating. Don't say your level of Eeman covers it. That's like playing with the devil in the dark. The Prophet said what is best for two persons who love each other is to marry. Why then delay? May Allah assist us. If you're a sister or brother who's in need of a sister and at the same time afraid of marrying the wrong person, approach the Sunni brothers in your area or school and make your situation known. Don't be pushed to marry the wrong person. Marriage is a life contract. Making mistakes has a long lasting effect on our psychology and lifestyle.


7. Pray. Supplicate for assistance from Allah Azzawajal. Cry before Allah . Be serious about it. Tell Allah you don't want to do Zina. And with your sincerity, Allah will surely elevate you. He will assist you. We have had enough cases of divorce and this is one of this generations' travails. Let us try to be calm, patient and enduring. I will always say to sisters, first, then brothers that we should not think divorce as the first solution to every matrimonial disagreement. Some of our mothers would make us know that "they would have left them (our fathers) since but for us (their children)." If there's no other reason to stay than this, it is enough! Let us also be contented with what we have and avoid asking for too much than our spouses can afford. The brothers also should be really very careful with how they handle Polygamy and related issues. I'm sure you won't like another man sharing your wife with you so respect them when you're bringing another woman under your roof. Some sisters now see Polygamy as what brothers engage in when they have "small change". That's why they remind you of the days you've both spent in penury. It is not compulsory to have more than one wife. And I don't think anybody will be punished for not doing it. So don't make polygamy compulsory on yourself or use it to destroy your home.



Let us not delay marriage again. Don't be so addicted to western education or plan your life completely obeying the rules of the West. Don't expose yourself to the many means of Zina available today. May Allah guide and protect us. May He continue to keep us firm on this path of al-Islam and resurrect us as Muslims on the day of Qiyaamah. Amin....
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Newnas:
You are too far from pristine Islamic creed.

AlBaqir:
# Irrelevant to keep going back to them? So, what's the essence of Quran telling us the stories of people of the past - good, bad and ugly?

# For Allah's sake, if going back to them is irrelevant, then we need to remove high percentage of hadiths, athars reported by these same people that revealed their handiworks.

# Explain to us how exactly does Quran 3: 103 abrogate the hadith? I bet you don't know the command of the ayah and the choice that man has. Only one out of that 73 sects fits the description of the Quran. The hadith and the ayah are in perfect harmony.

# When you accuse and label me of being sectarian, I gave you brief account of sectarianism of your beloved sahabah who you will die for and emulate! Is there a crime here? Why did you people like hypocrisy?

Can you show me a verse in the Quran to support that - that only Him can curse the evil ones and no one else?

# So much is your "Obey Allah and His Messenger", "if you love Allah, then follow me"


# Leave what for Allah when Allah and His Messenger have decided that whoever curse Ali has cursed Nabi?!

# Even Imam Ali himself prayed against Mu'awiyah and his baghi group.

# Your concept of al-walaa wal baraa (loving whom Allah loves and hating who He hates)?!

# I doubt you ever believe in several ayah of the Quran, "Indeed Allah does not love the transgressors," "Indeed Allah does not love the oppressors", "Indeed Allah does not love the unjusts" etc etc.

AlBaqir:
# For the record, I was born a Sunni, studied a Sunni, grew in religion a Sunni, preached a Sunni. So, I know the house well and if I don't know, I do my home work thoroughly.

lexiconkabir:
don't you think you are being hypocritical and biased because of hatred towards saudi shuyuk?

AlBaqir:
Sahabah themselves laid the foundation of sectarianism. It is no news, except you are being hypocritical, that Aishah, Talha, Zubair

AlBaqir:
# Sahabah themselves laid the foundation of sectarianism. It is no news, except you are being hypocritical, that Aishah, Talha, Zubair and Mu'awiyyah engineered the first and second civil war among the Muslims. Hundreds if not thousands died. So what you see today, be it theological or political was their creation. And like it or not, the hadith of Muslims dividing into "73" sects stands.

# I believe so much in unity and I (as many Shi'i Ulama and Talabes) do call for it. But its only useful when others are ready to embrace others. Besides, pretending and hiding our core differences can never unite Muslims. We only need to mature to respect our differences, avoid what can bring about attacks and focus only on what connect us. Only then we can unite.

# I am totally disappointed with the second underlined statement. "Sahabah" sounds "ALL" of them!

* Allah himself cursed the hypocrites among the Sahabah and promised them double chastisements in His glorious book. How is it a crime that Shia curse these Munafiqun?

* Nabi himself cursed al-Hakam whom Sunni considered a Sahabi, and Nabi cursed his descendants. How is this a crime if Shia curse this "Sahabi"?

* Mu'awiyah ibn Abi Sufyan, a Sahabi not only continue to curse Imam Ali ibn Abi Talib till his death but also enjoined and mandate people to curse Imam Ali ibn Abi Talib whom Nabi, salallahu alayhi wa ahli says, "whoever cursed Ali has cursed me". Do you or can you or you dare accuse Mu'awiyah ibn Abi Sufyan and all his Tabi'in followers of this kufr? Why do you single out Shia for cursing?!

# Please answer faithfully the question posed to you by your co-debater who alleged that Shia curses the "Khulafau rashidun". I'd like you to ask on my behalf who these Khulafau who were Rashidin and Mahdiyyin were. Does it include Ali ibn Abi Talib? If yes, then do Shia curse him also?

* Lastly, I'd like to see Shi'a sihah hadith(s) or athar that says sahabah or Khulafau rashidun are or should be cursed. If you (or your co-debater) however judge by the doings of a fraction Shi'a, then I have no choice than judging the whole Sunni by the actions of Boko Haram, Isis, Isil etc.

lexiconkabir:
@Underlined, so you know this, yet you said this earlier on;



don't you think you are being hypocritical and biased because of hatred towards saudi shuyuk?

And about Hakimiyyah, these scholars didnt oppose it because of the term itself, but because of the motive behind that term, when the khawaarij a.k.a Al-muhajiroon and Faisal groupies started their nonsense, they were only being political and hell-bent on establishing an islamic caliphate through violence, it was the salafis that tried to put pressure on them so they put their focus on tawheed and forget about the nonsense they were doing, so due to constant pressure that the salafis placed on the muhajiroon regarding the importance of calling to tawheed in the 1990s, this ultimately caused them to succumb to the primary obligation of calling to tawheed. However, still hell-bent on maintaining their political objectives, they adopted an innovated concept of tawheed and its categories, which opposed the classical defintion. thus in their rhetoric related tawheed it can be observed that in most cases they give reference to "Hakimiyyah"(rulership and sovereignty), which in itself is not a category, rather a facet of one of the main categories. This should provoke the question: why the need to extract a part of tawheed which is found in one of its main categories and then promote it as one of its main categories? their lectures proves their aim clearly, seeing the opportunity which lies within the force of tawheed, they cunningly recognized the political potential this term has and it is very powerful IN RADICALIZING THE YOUTHS, this is why they are hell-bent on making Hakimiyyah a category on its own.

shaykh ibn uthaymeen said; 'What does 'al-Haakimiyyah' mean?' It does not mean except their saying that judgement/decree is for Allaah alone ' and that is Tawheedur-Ruboobiyyah. So Allaah, He is the Lord, the Creator, the Sovereign Owner, the One in control of the affairs.

and that perfectly make sense, so apart from their evil motives, extracting Haakimiyyah from Ruboobiyyah makes Ruboobiyyah itself empty, because Rulership and sovereignty is an integral part of Allaah's LORDSHIP(ruboobiyyah).

shaykh Albanee has already made it clear he opposed the idea because of their political motive behind it, i hope you read that too.

now Empire.e if you dont have a dodgy motive, you should see the sense in what i'm saying, and i give you the benefit of doubt.

lexiconkabir:
If Faisal's ideology was what you practiced thinking you did salafiyyah, then sorry you did rubbish, and you saying that faisal is still fine with his extremism speak volumes on the ideology you practiced thinking its salafiyyah.

Can you remember underwear bomber? Farooq Abdulmuttalab that Nigerian guy that trained in Yemen al Qaeda, that wanted to blow up a US plane but he made a mistake and he was caught? Who radicalized him? Isnt it Faisal and Anwar Al Awlaki? Remember Micheal adebalajo and Michael adebowale, how bout the British Muslims that beheaded a soldier in UK in broad daylight? Remember 7/7 London bombers? They also had connections with Faisal! So keep saying Faisal is fine.

AlBaqir:
@underline, you sound apologetic for Shi'a. Wallahi my head is boiling here. Please avoid that though I understand your good intentions.

Bnladan:
What's ur take on cursing, abusing and saying ill things about d khulafa arraashideen

Newnas:
I think I have explained enough for the seeker of truth, I won't let you drag me into your time wasting cycle of merry-go-rounding.

Oklander:
Salamu alaikum Albaqr, I do not really like secterianism at all but I must say that I am more inclined to sunni if I am to be classified, however I am one of your followers who do follow some of your discussions here silently as I termed them interesting in most cases. But in this, I must say that I am really dissappointed(not that it should matter to you anyway) in how you claimed ignorance on sunni's ablution, in case you truely do not know, then washing is done 3 times and 2 times minimum, not 1 or 2 or 3 as you said here. This is just too simple for you not to know hence my irk that you intentional wrote those 1 or 2 or 3 up there!

Bnladan:
ajabta an haaza wa Lima tawallaita an amr shi'a? Hal ma qultuhu anhum iftiraa?

lexiconkabir:
^^ So I wonder who denied Allaah being THE LAW GIVER, what these scholars are saying is, hakimiyyah cant be separate, it falls under Uloohiyyah or Ruboobiyyah.

RABIUSHILE04:
Walaykumu salaam.