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Police should investigate well, it is possible the husband side chic sent them.


Unfaithful men will kill you before your time .

Madam relax, and enjoy your new baby he will come back when miss Kelly is also preganant, most Nigerian men run away from responsibility and stress, they can not stand the changes that comes with pregnancy, it is normal for you as a woman to nag, change mood and feel down during pregnancy, unfortunately most of these useless men lack the attitude of caring for their pregnant wife, most end up going out to look for a girl not pregnant, you should not regret losing such men, because when the other lady is pregnant too, such men will run.


many men are not trained to be men but babies that always want to be fed and taken care of.

Relax madam focus on your baby to avoid post partrum depression

We will connect you to NGO that will support you on this send me email please .

She is wrong on everyside please , socially she is wrong, physically she is wrong , psychologically she is wrong .

Madam go get a job and start making money first or start a business ,that man will start irritating you,

How can you call a man that beat you good?

Because he is giving you food? This is too low

Domestic violence is a dead trap.no man that loves his wife cheat on her or beat her .

And marriage is not about you loving the man alone it is about the man loving you back in return, all I see here is that you love him, but he does not love you or place values on you.

You do not need such a man.

Have some sense please

Poverty is making you think a terrible man is a good man,
Because he takes care of you and the kids does not make him a good man, he is doing his responsibility.

A man that cheat on you, beat you and take drugs is a danger to you your kids and the society, if you have talked to him and he refused to change then leave , your life and that of your kids are in danger and you are here shouting he is a good man.


Continue with your good man.

Rubbish.

The love is not there , and you are not sexually attracted to her .



This is the problem of your marriage .


You do not love her and you are not sexually attracted to her, so let her go.

Indeed you are a wicked man.













quote author=BlindAngel post=131022640]


This is what I intend doing, thanks for your advise, I will do as you advised as it's the absolutely best thing to do right now. Although I have already given in on letting her pastor officiate the naming because of her CS operation, for her cry not to affect her.

But after everything, she won't go to that church again and I swear to God that if she refused she will pack her load and go, after all the love isn't there and I'm not sexually attracted to her. Same tears she used in manipulating me in getting married to her is same tears she's still using in getting her way after every little misunderstanding. I will stop her from going to that church, I have had enough already.[/quote]

Lol

You are about to make the biggest mistake of your life , you brought your marital issues to a platform full of damaged men, calling themselves Alpha male and you think they are in best positions to advice you?


You will regreat this trust me ,I am not your wife but I am telling you that you will regreat your actions .

Most of the people advicing you do not have a wife at home, some are in their 5th marriage, some are single

Some are even doing better or tolerating more from their wives .
But are here dishing advice and you want to take it?

Calm down

It took me 8years to change my husband name , because most documents have my surname it was not easy.

Your marriage is new, take things one after the other .

Before you regreat.

Look for a counselor outside this place after your naming .

Let her pastor be part, it gives women joy and honour in their church, besides more pastors can attend .

Let your parent come with their own pastors ,and let her pastor be there also

You can bring I million pastors to naming no problem

Hope you are not planning to go do it in your parent house ?

It should be done in your house please be a man and stop allowing your parent have say in your marriage .

My dear you are the problem in your home, what is your family decision still doing in your home?

You keep saying your family ,your family this is wrong, your new family is you and your wife, the two of you should start attending one church, different from that of your family, so that all things can be done there .


Your family do not have right to decide where naming is done and where Thanksgiving should be done .


Will your child start going to your family church?

Please put your home in order, and focus on your new family .

Get a Bible believing church, close to your house where you can attend with your family daily .

Some churches have branches everywhere, even if you want to continue with your family church, look for a branch close to you and your wife, that is different from the branch your parents are going and start attending


Put your house inorder .

Concerning the naming, party belongs to women, she might pick her church because she want all her church members to be there that is women for you.

Reason the two of you should start attending one church it is very important .

Leave your mother and father church, start your own with your wife.















quote author=BlindAngel post=131021173]


That's the church she was attending before we got married, so I don't want to stop her in order for it not to seems like I'm wicked and for her not to call me names.

Yesterday she reminded me that after our marriage my family forced her to do thanks giving at our church. She has been saying this for long, but stopped, until yesterday.

I told her that doing thanks giving at our church is now a bad thing or something that's forceful?

She cried a lot yesterday because of our argument of this naming.

Same tears she used in forcing me into getting married to her when I wasn't in anyway ready.[/quote]

Ignore this mad mad damaged man advice if you want a home.














quote author=EndRape2 post=131041839]I am sure you are single , so you know nothing, you are just typing trash.

Women always want to be celebrated among their peers ,doing it in her church will make most of the women in her church to attend which is a plus to her ,

She has nothing to gain in her husband
family church if naming is done there .since she is not attending that church.

If her naming is not done in her church, she will feel left out, since other women are doing theirs

I am married so I can proudly tell you this .


All of you that are senseless and insensitive to women plight should stop giving Mumu advice to destroy homes .




















post=131020962]First of all, do you mean she wants her pastor to CHOOSE the name of your baby or OFFICIATE the naming ceremony?

Secondly, do a DNA test to confirm rhat you'll not be raising the bastard son of her pastor. This woman obviously WORSHIPS her pastor. It's not UNIMAGINABLE that she's tendered her pussy as offering one or two times.

Next you need to face the fact that a SCAMMER (the pastor) and a STRANGE man (still the pastor) exerts more INFLUENCE in your marriage than you do. And ask yourself whether you still want to be in that marriage.

A strange man holds the remote control to your relationship. Your marriage subsists by his will. Are you okay with that?

NEXT, she is blatantly MANIPULATING you without remorse. You are NOT responsible for the complications that led to the C-Section. Even if it's because the baby is too big because you are a big man, it's still NOT your fault.

Her eyes were wild open when she CHOSE to marry you and have your child. If it's yours, that is.

STOP letting her use child birth as an ammo for manipulating you. Because if you capitulate today, you best belive she'll NEVER stop. Next she'll weaponise the child.

Then her next pregnancy would be a NUCLEAR weapon. Everything you previously disagreed on would be tabled again UNTIL she has her way. Maybe she'll demand you DONATE your house to her pastor and rent a room and parlour for yourself.

Put your foot down and DON'T even compromise. Don't allow her pastor to be involved in ANYWAY when it comes to naming the child unless DNA proves the child is his.[/quote]

I am sure you are single , so you know nothing, you are just typing trash.

Women always want to be celebrated among their peers ,doing it in her church will make most of the women in her church to attend which is a plus to her ,

She has nothing to gain in her husband
family church if naming is done there .since she is not attending that church.

If her naming is not done in her church, she will feel left out, since other women are doing theirs

I am married so I can proudly tell you this .


All of you that are senseless and insensitive to women plight should stop giving Mumu advice to destroy homes .




















post=131020962]First of all, do you mean she wants her pastor to CHOOSE the name of your baby or OFFICIATE the naming ceremony?

Secondly, do a DNA test to confirm rhat you'll not be raising the bastard son of her pastor. This woman obviously WORSHIPS her pastor. It's not UNIMAGINABLE that she's tendered her pussy as offering one or two times.

Next you need to face the fact that a SCAMMER (the pastor) and a STRANGE man (still the pastor) exerts more INFLUENCE in your marriage than you do. And ask yourself whether you still want to be in that marriage.

A strange man holds the remote control to your relationship. Your marriage subsists by his will. Are you okay with that?

NEXT, she is blatantly MANIPULATING you without remorse. You are NOT responsible for the complications that led to the C-Section. Even if it's because the baby is too big because you are a big man, it's still NOT your fault.

Her eyes were wild open when she CHOSE to marry you and have your child. If it's yours, that is.

STOP letting her use child birth as an ammo for manipulating you. Because if you capitulate today, you best belive she'll NEVER stop. Next she'll weaponise the child.

Then her next pregnancy would be a NUCLEAR weapon. Everything you previously disagreed on would be tabled again UNTIL she has her way. Maybe she'll demand you DONATE your house to her pastor and rent a room and parlour for yourself.

Put your foot down and DON'T even compromise. Don't allow her pastor to be involved in ANYWAY when it comes to naming the child unless DNA proves the child is his.[/quote]

Local man feeling Funky, it is content, before you start thinking man is the price .


It is content or they are psychologically unstable .

So Rest and look for job.

Thanks for your response . 32 weeks is still ok.

God bless you

Thought is in Lagos , a friend need a good hospital in Lagos .

Thanks for your response . 32 weeks is still ok.

God bless you

[Idiot.


Fool

The painful part is that when you contact Aids now , innocent girls will be affected .



Big fool , that lack self control.

[congratulations please at how many weeks did your wife give birth? And please which hospital did she use that have good incubator,thanks . .



quote author=lacedup post=125603368]My brother no be only you d tin happen for…I know say it’s a lot for a young guy wey Dey do him best to provide for his young family in Nigeria…just try and be calm my G. My own case was very similar…my wife drop 2 boys (twins) na still d same CS but they were premature I parted with 1.5M unplanned for the delivery, tests, incubator, personal nurse care, I Dey even buy diesel for the hospital as per se na my first fruits and na 2 rugged soldiers wey she give me….not to talk of the expenses from omugwo for the 3 months mother’s from both sides Dey around…No insult or shege wey I no chop in that period, and nothing man pikin go do wey go Dey enough….na to just persevere so what you have to do as a man and if the insult and stress Dey too much during the period just take your time out in the evening and go and take some drinks with pals…eventually tinz go normalize[/quote]

Idiot ,so he can come out and rape your own daughter?

The stress of cooking is more than the incomplete money most of you drop for cooking the woman always add money to make the meal delicious .

Shut up and stop making mouth, you succeed Ed because he is a boy child, a boy child is safe with the father more , however she is a fool, and has no Family , no man born of a woman will collect my child from me ,when the child grows up he or she can look for the father ,but collect a minor child from me.

Them.never born you and your dirty money well.


I do not need your money to take care of the child, you are the one that will come and beg with your money just to have access to that child.


You guys like going for weak girls and call your self Alpha males .

I am sure she has no money reason she left the.child for you.

When will you have sense .

Hope you are not planning to Marry this type of person? Because this is madness .

Do not make the mistake of marrying such .
Social.media is.not only for posting but to do lot of things that will help your mental health.

Shut up , there are men out there that also seek favours from women and women render the favour without asking for penis , you people just see women as a tool to satisfy your sexual urge ,

There is hardly a day ,that a guy is not begging me money even when I am driving they stand where I pack and beg, and I give them freely, but if it were a guy, he will ask for number and ensure he sleeps with the girl, because his damaged soul has taught him that alpha males will not give any lady money for free.


This mindset is what made the groundnut seller to sleep with the young girl after giving her groundnut.

Are you mad? Did you read the girl is just 4 years old, you call a 4 years old smelly pussy, and Lso say she should go to prison for 2 years

Like are you mentally mad?
Are you stupidly mad

Thurder will strike you, and 20 gay men will gang rape you and scatter your anus, since you lack sense.

Most of you guys are trash , most of you have received heart break and your heart damaged

When you are dating a girl , you expect her to give you all her life and heart, you expect her to give you different sec style any time you want, you expect her to cook for.you and your friends , wash your cloths ,clean your house , some even visit your parents to help work, some even give you money, when in needs , you expect her to leave what she is doing and stand by you when you are sick in the hospital.


But when it comes to meeting her needs you call it entitlement ,mentality .


If she refused to do all you want you conclude she is not submissive or she does not love you.

But you want to give her a peanuts and expect heaven from her

You are all mad .

Mumu ask.your fire father's let them.tell.you the problem.attached to it.

You are a demon and a very Wicked child,
I hope the poster will not listen to this.

Where do we buy it now.

You are stupid , she gave you the best answer, she has had more than 500 exes ,now kill your self, you want to know her past, and she gave you answer


Jump into the river, most of you stupid guys feels you can ask.ladies stupid questions and keep your own.secreat








uote author=Goalnaldo post=124704281]Recently I fell in love for the first time with this 23 year old. It felt great. this was the first time someone is calling me baby and having sleepless nights because of me (before you people begin to ask how old I am, I was born in 1992).

About three days ago we were texting on WhatsApp and I asked her how many ex she had had and her reply was "I can't remember". I was shocked 😲 I asked her if there are too many that's why she can't remember and she said "yes".

I'm concerned.for a 23 year old to have dated many men means she has multiple body counts. Will this affect me in the long run? What advice do you people have for me?

PS; I'm not a virgin[/quote]

Oga go and rest, your wife discover you cheated on her, it is your councious that is disturbing you, because she caught you cheating and she was not bothered so you thought she is also cheating reason she is not bother .


Dey play mumu uncle.

Let me tell you, when a woman starts making money, two things that matters to her is her kids and that thing giving her money, she will not send you again, reason when you were cheating she was never concerned .

Your conscious is really catching you.
After cheating you think she also cheated

Go and do DNA nah,

A cheat always assumes others are cheat.


Nah only you cheat ,nah only you come back house dey complain.

Point of correction, women.hate men.that are cruel and authoritative , so let this stick into your brain, do not know where you got that ideology from about women liking men that are hard it is a big lie from the pit of hell,


This mindset has destroy many marriages than.expected.