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Alpha males not acceptable ..

Dear women know this and know peace, any man that tells you to swear or cross Juju to prove your faithfulness please do not ever do it, if you are faithful do not do it.

Most of these Jazz have repercussion even if you are innocent, i know of an aunt that was told to swear, she did because she is faithful. Years later negative things started happening to her until a pastor saw a vision that it was the Jazz she used to rub her head to prove her innocency.. even the husband she swore to prove her innocence for her marriage not to break still left her,

Do not joke with the Devil he has no free gift.

You think they will give their daughters t o damaged alpha males that knows nothing about love?

Is not over, you have to repeat it in three months time, hope you hear, so do not dance yet


If you like continue raw knacking. Sense you no get,






quote author=FarSide post=126897651]"Unprotected sex with 12 girls in 4 years, I'm afraid I might have HIV"

https://www.nairaland.com/7893353/im-afraid-might-hiv

Good evening fellas...
I made this post two weeks ago, I was so terrified, was going crazy but thank God for the words of encouragement from you guys. Your kind words and encouragement made me took the bold step
After thinking about my life, I decided to do the test; if I perish I perish. It is better than all the sleepless nights and nightmares.

For over a month now my Google searches is 99% related to HIV; the modes of transmission, early signs, late symptoms, prevalence rate in Nigeria, my state, general world stats.

To worsen the whole situation, last week when I was trying to hold myself together, my latest girl called that she's been feeling feverish, vomited 3x or so, she's lost weight and all... I froze. That's all what google fed me as early signs and it's barely 2 months we had sex...

So I woke up one day and fixed today, Friday 10th November for the test come rain come shine.
This morning, I woke up, promised myself it must be today. If I have it, I have it already. It's not like the test will put the virus in my system. Just a confirmation.

After all, I've joined some HIV support groups on Facebook and saw many were requesting for a match making. These would be my family at worst, they are humans too!

So I left very early for a mission hospital kilometers away from my house. I got to the place, sneaked in after watching to ensure the coast is clear from anyone that might know me.
I asked the gateman and he directed me to where I can get a compulsory patient's card. I got to the office and met no one on duty, so I had to wait. Just as I was waiting, a primary school classmate walked in with her husband, they a planning a wedding and the church directed them for same blood test.
"Whick kind wahala be this" I asked myself, I thought no one will see me here today. No wam, we waited together until the card lady entered, we got the card and proceeded to the electronic capturing center.

The woman at the electronic center was reluctant to attend to me that it must be couple that will come for the test, ahhh cou what?? Madam I'm single and I want to do a blood test to know if I'm health for a relationship or not... People come dey laff me.
Finally, I was attended to and was directed to financial department. I went and made my payment and was redirected to the electronic capturing center, when i got back, I called on the woman "ma, I'm asked to give u this receipt" she turned, "you?? Your case is different" she said. I was like has she confirmed I'm positive by mere look? How is my case different?

At long last she directed me upstairs, to the test office. Omo, I actually thought they would collect my blood sample and ask me to come back for the test result.
I had planned to go take some alcohol before I will come for the rest but no... Korokoro, the lad pricked my hand got and test strip and it was it.... Ma ma I stammered... Like are u seriously doing this now??
Just like when Kalistus ate the poisoned fish, I began to get weak.
She began asking me questions, but I was busy watching the test strip until a line began to form at the down side, it was a single line. I was a bit happy but it wasn't over as I heard it might take up to 20 minutes.
I burst prayer oo. Just then the lady at the opposite side called to ask my age and all that. Before I could turn back I say the test lady writing Negative. Omo, I jumped out, they called be back to come take my result sheet.
I rushed out dancing skelewu as I made my way to the exit gate.
My good people I'm Negative to HIV 1$2.[/quote]

Will you keep quite, if he is all this, working ,bringing money, and still doing domestic chores, just for you to rest, not like some idiots that will tell you are you the first person to give birth, and will.not appreciate you,

Madam go and worship the mother of this young guy, she deserves all the blessings and all the love.

She has done well in training him,
God bless your husband , God bless his mother.


Madam, create the fun part, why he is working and doing chores ,sing songs or play music, and ask him the two of you should dance, also on weekends tell him you guys should go out, maybe you invite your aunty to come hold baby so you can create the fun.

But do nit ever make the mistake if telling him to stop doing chores and focus on Fun.

You will regreat it, and you will cry tire.

Igno man are abusive , there women are also ranked no 1 in child abuse, most of their women tolerate abuse, thereby putting the anger on.their house help.

The lies that.made people married them.is not true, people belive igno men take care of their wife it is a big lie.



They are highly Abusive.

Story they will save a man, that treats them.well.

Many women have collected money from men they are benefiting from, and give to men treating them well.


Women can.enter fire for a man that treat them.well

Shut up, is not because of your children but because he is giving you money and taking care of you, which your father can not do, assuming your father is the billionaire why your husband is poor, you will see your father and allow the poor husband to die, because you know with your father your children and you will be taken care of.


So rest.


Women will always save that man, that treats them.well, father or not.

Reason he is still single @ 34, dear ladies run away from any man, that refused to grow up, i repeat run a way from men with big body, but small brain? If his daddy did not leave his mum, i am sure they will not give birth to him,

Marriage is for mature men. A man will leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife, anythibg short of this ,you will suffer all your life, why you enjoy the title big man's wife
Family house is the beggining of Family problem for your children.

You see Burna boy , and this tall Anthony's Joshual without Brain, avoid them.


Most guys attached to their parents are the sporitual husbands of such women.


Loving your mother is different from being attached to your mother .







ote author=Odewaleadesoye post=126858305]

DAILY POST[/quote]

When you are married to a useless man, this is how it ends , damaged men that feels cheating is their right , if you are not strong as a woman, do not marry Nigerian men, just use and dump them.

Shut up, take to corrections and get out.

Ode, why is it painning you, it is better to be with a lesbian than to be with a nincoompoop like you nah, don't you think so.





Abeg keep quiet. The girl is very correct![/quote]

How is this possible? 4 children , is he.saying he is not sleeping with the wife at all? there is more to it, Further test is require, in.another lab, also.Chimera test is.also.require. to be sure the man is not carrying his twice DNA.

Or he is not potent.


The best place to do DNA test is .not in Nigeria, a country where common malaria test lab will give you wrong results .

I am a married women, see finish is not the reason.for lack of sex, you people should stop talking rubbish.

Bad attitude from men is the reason for lack of sex,from any woman, women are moved by touch, When you touch their heart emotionally, they melt and open legs, you touch their pocket Financially they mealt and open legs , you touch and make them smiles with good words and character they melt and and open legs .


It is men that are move by sight, women only got moved by ovulation , and that is after period which is within seven days, What this means is that , a woman will only get Hot , 4 times in 31days, and that is during Ovalutiin , during Ovulation she can be Hot without touch. After Ovulation
for the remaining day, she must be touched ,before she will think of sex.and the easier to way to touch a woman is by treating her well.


Not like men who's manhood is moved by sight what they see..

So women do not stop sex because of see finish, women stop sex, because she is not treated well.

Why is it that when most guys meet a new girl, they do everything to touched her so she can give them.sex? They call often, they visit, take her shopping , even if it is local place, they make her smile and laugh? You will discover that when you do all these things the women get touched in her heart, she becomes weak to resist such a man, when he ask, for sex. Listen that lady is not cheap she is not cheap, that is how God created women..


Ask your mother this.

Allow them find happiness, you men are alpha males that sees women as trash, your wife is neglected and you go out there to beautify and focus on.your side chic, lol. You want the.wife to stay at home and die, of emotional pains ? Since in Nigeira it is not easy to cheat as a married woman, and it is not easy to be a divorcee, because fools on Nairaland will call women that divorced old news paper, allow them stay back , and also enjoy their life , incase you do not know, these ladies were heart broken and decided to find happiness in anything, if you want your partner not to do leasbianism treat her well, she will hate other women and men.

I have

jaephoenix:
See how lesbian break this one heart.
If Nigerians hate corruption, the way u hate lesbianism, we'd be top 10 nations. But guess what, y'all still are as corrupt as fuvk but still hate lesbians. Isn't that odd?

clique of Friends and none is a lesbian, I repeat none is a lesbian, so she is not 100 percent correct, when making a statement it is wrong to conclude , it is wrong to say everybody .

I have clique of Friends and none is a lesbian, I repeat none is a lesbian, so she is not 100 percent correct, when making a statement it is wrong to conclude , it is wrong to say everybody .

When you are doing somthing, you conclude people are doing it too. A theft assumes others are thieft.

Married women cheat because most of them are starved of attention, care and love from their spouse, men with Ego, will offend their wife ,instead of apologizing they will still be forming boss, neglect her and visit side chic, some why forming boss, will not even give her food money until she comes to back, for offence she did not commit, can you imagine nonsense

They give attention ro side chic, and neglect their wife, many married women are going through hell, and emotional abandonment, this is wrong.

If you love her go ahead, many married women are suffering in the hands of their husband's, why a man will marry them and dump them at home, no show of love, no show of care. No show of emotional attachment, they will be busy with side chic, giving side chic, attention love and care and their wife will be home dying of BP, there is nothing wrong, you have not sin, let her return the bride price , if the man is not treating her well,

Women deserve happiness too. they should be loved and cared for too, please go ahead.

You did not add women who's partner are cheating on, and forming alpha male on top, they should leave Nigeria now, Now , Now .

If you insult her, she will insult you back, 1 million times .

Mugu . Respect is reciprocal.



If you want your woman to respect and not insult you, respect and not insult her too.





uote author=cocoxs post=126740824]You sound just like my brother only they are not married and have 2 kids together, she had 3 kids before, so he is taking care of 5 kids. My brother has even sold 2 of our late fathers houses just to please this woman and its the same opening of boutique and stocking it. She sells and don't use the money to restock. You better get yourself out of that sort of relationship. Woman no fit insult me and i will live with her.[/quote]

Damaged soul, may God not give any woman this type of man.







uote author=Cruise777 post=126718078]



Na joke I dey joke ooo

Organize Boys and thugs to break into her shop at night and let them pack everything in her shop, so that her business can collapse

Sell it off without her knowledge , let her return penniless under your roof

Let's see how she will insult you while she feeds off you, and get common upkeep from you


.[/quote]

Mumu, you will worship my father feet if you see hiim pass, a well trained man, that trained his kids well, any body married to my family, do come back to worship my parent for a job weldone , but it is obvious the woman that married you is crying everyday of her life in pains .



Damaged soul.

It is not about women alone ,men inclusive, i know of men whose wife are not working they insult the woman, cheat on her, when she complains they insults her and even call her names, they buy propersties and hind it from her, even keep out late with other girls ,


This is what it does , it kills the live that was once there .

So my advice to this man, is to note the kind of wife he is married to, she is woman that has bad and wicked charcter .


Wisdom is profitable to direct, if you are married to such people ,that maltreats you because they earn more than you.













uote author=Tallesty1 post=126713034]I just watched a clip that inspired this post.

Imagine this scenario.......

You are married to a beautiful woman, and you have like three kids. It is a beautiful family, really.

You have a nice house, a good ride, beautiful children, always selfie-ready wife, and salary alerts keep coming. Then life happens, and you start losing things until nothing is left. No salary, no more savings, and you're officially wiped out by poverty.

Your wife has something she does for a living, makes her own money, and does whatever it is that women do with money. You never cared because you were doing okay, but now the tides have turned.

Naturally, you expect her to provide support while you work harder to regain your footing. But what you are getting from her is something you never knew she was capable of: insults upon insults, disrespect, and all. This lasts for a year or two.

Then, fortune smiles on you again and you get back on your feet. As usual, there is money now, and your wife is the woman you married at first. She is loving again, respectful, and caring.

I want to know, will you still go back to loving her like before, as if the past two years' experience never happened, or are you going to quit?[/quote]

Mumu, It is better to enter menopause than to date or marry a damged man like you.





uote author=maasoap post=126692574]
I'm guessing you are proposing seven years before he starts "crying". Walahi, cheats are easier to spot. Laughing.


She better run. I hope she just knows when to stop running, otherwise she might keep running until she hits menopause. Are you, yourself still running?


We know your type, always going off just to derail and make the genuine concerns look petty[/quote]

Nonsense You for seize the phone.nah, just seven months relationship, you are already crying she is chatting, meaning if you married her, you will zeise the phone.

I hope she run for her life, because this is a pointer that you are insecure .




Warey, she should not use phone, because she they date alpha male

You do not have mother nah.

Look at this damaged boy, trained on the street.

This is the nonsense we keep talking about, stupid Nairaland boys have made this one to become positive.


Idiots

When we call them.damaged boys they say they are wise, alsys advicing on multiple sex partners instead of faithfulness.




quote author=Adonis69 post=126659243]Earlier this year I met this guy and we became friends. He started visiting my apartment because him and his friends just moved into my compound. But I noticed that although he looks athletic, well built and physically fit but he's very sexually active, swinging both ways.
Yesterday I got an oral quick HIV test kit and told him it was for gonorrhea test because he's not that enlightened. So he accepted to the test. When the result came out, he's HIV positive. I wasn't so sure, so I contacted a HIV health worker and he confirmed that the owner of the test is positive.

Now, should I tell him or keep it to myself because he's already telling me that condom busted the last time he was having sex with a lady, which gave him gonorrhea. So he was taking drugs for it and was asking me how to prevent such from happening in future. I've advised him to double the condom, since he has a very huge and slightly curved dick, which is the cause of the tear during sex.

So pep, should I tell him he's positive or mind my business? He's been running temperature since yesterday and was complaining of cough and catarrh.[/quote]

Drop your contact.

Giftedhand47:
Baba nla doings

I fix iphone faulty panels
I fix face id issues
I swap iphones

A trial will convince you
Location is Ikeja

Mumu calling one small boy God, even using the capital G.





uote author=sunshineV post=126663330]Wizkid the God🙏❤️[/quote]

The person that has a back up plan, Will be misbehaving in the relationship because he/she is aware they have a back up plan.