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jasent:
I am married .everything is toasting according to you.

married? Like sey married people no dey toast. Abeg make I hear word jo

folake4u:
[s]And you're an everlasting fool, one without redemption[/s]

supersonic trash

fokoke4prick

AfroKnight:
Like I said, there’s encouragement and there’s nagging. You don’t seem to know the difference. The way you wrote this story actually makes me believe the young man is better off without you in his life.

God bless you jare. The tone of her story shows the way she always put her advice towards the guy. Like sey she dey fight am. Nagging girlfriend pretending to by nice mtcheeeeeeew

folake4u:
[s]I'm like this Op, goal oriented and very very ambitious, the way I show love is to make sure the people I love or are close to me can progress in their lives by sending them vital information, books, scholarship applications and general word of advice and encouragement. I was taught this hard way by my parents and I can't even be with a guy that isn't ambitious or goal oriented as I am, I don't like it when I'm always giving energy vibes of 80-90% and the person is giving me 20-30% energy, I will be very frustrated!!!!!!


Reading through some comments especially the first page and I'm here shaking my head profusely at the distasteful comments some guys are reeking, how can you call what Op is doing "NAGGING" . Even if you say it's nagging, isn't it for the betterment of the Op's boyfriend?
What this Op is doing is borne out of pure love, even me sef salute her.
How can a first son be this lazy that he's even been pushed up and down by his girlfriend and his late father to achieve things in life? Even going as far as renting 600k apartment ontop 90k salary!!!! Talmabout living above your means, you come still borrow the 600k to pay rent. O ga oh!!!!!!!!


Infact, I'm angry!! Op, please talk to him and make him see reasons with you, and if he doesn't, please leave him ALONE. Promise me you'd cry over him for just 2-3days tops .

Na wa oh, Una see girl wey dey push you to move forward in life, una go complain, Una see girl wey be Instagram slayer and ambitionless or NFA, Una go run meet slaymama, she go chop una money, clean mouth and Una go run come NL and say "Girls are whores, fish brains" and other gibberish.
Nonsense and Corona virus!!!!!!

Lastly, Op you deserve everything you want and it is my prayer that you should be happy, don't let any man hush you down. Keep being YOU

What do Nigerian men really want?[/s]

supersonic trash

jasent:
You are a blessing to him and I hope he realize it before it becomes late.How I wish I had a girl like you years back..

bros stop this your indirect toasting jo. Ko le werk.

Vickyrotex abi o ri nkan?

adegeye38:
First of all if u are not a Christian, accept Jesus as your Lord and saviour,
Then a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship is a relationship that is baseless, either u are single, engaged or married.

Now to know if this guy is for you, u have to pray and know Gods will.

Now lets talk abt marriage, marriage is God's idea, and so he has guidelines on how it should be done.

A woman is an helper for d man, you are to fit into his vision and help him accomplish dem, and in doing dat ur own visions and aspirations too will be fulfilled.

Anyman u are going to get engaged to, apart from d fact dat he must be a Christian, you ask him what is vision his, and you ask yourself ifu can actually fit into dat vision and if its d same with your own potential.

Dey are so much to talk abt, u can send me an email, i will give u my number

na so una dey take snatch person wife. Kontinue you hear?

yinksman1:
[s]It’s obvious you are directing him to the right direction that will favor him and help him in life to achieve something good ASAP but his not listening to you which is very bad, I see him as someone that doesn’t want to listen to your advice as in any advice from you is doesn’t make any sense to him and again that’s a very bad attitude because when the bad side of it happens you will both suffer for it and it will be too late to correct it. Imagine him going for an apartment of 600k and he Can’t boast of extra 500k in his account (believe me his not thinking like a mature guy, in this hard country that everybody is looking for up to 6 different income so they can beat poverty) ..I will suggest you look for His relative that he always listen to or a close friend of him that will talk to him on your behalf so everything can be fine for you not to regret marrying him at the en[/s]d

supersonic trash

I know your type, always trying to act like one's mother, giving instructions. Give the guy a breathing space, he is not your baby (even though that's what you call him). He is your boyfriend and not your husband. Mtcheeeèeeeèew

tunary:
So if you cut the ladies Toto them go discover before them bury them?

we no dey cut am like meat now

Nickymezor:
Get sense for once oga

na now you come dey answer me after you don come. Your moaning na him wake me up o

tunary:
Them say dead body spirit dey attack people for there na true? and una fit dey cut ladies Toto and nipple for money ritual?

na lie. Once you die you don die be that jare moreover the prick dey sweet dem too

To God be the glory. Na this kind news dey sweet my belle

Our pastor's neck don dey long

Hypekolo:
i be christain oh

Christian prick no dey rice up?

Nickymezor:
Did u HV to mention me oga? What happened to read n pass? Anyway I HV noticed ya so vamoose pls mk I see road ok

na now you come dey answer me after you don come. Your moaning na him wake me up o

Some human beans are very earthless

Nickymezor:
Hmmmm

See as you dey moan like sey something big don enter your this thing

Internet does not forget

visijo:
Their normal anthem

Na our national anthem you wan make she sing before?

Hypekolo:
see nyash

See as your prick dey rice up because of yansh

Yinmu. Part time olosho

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Op i disagree with number 6. Why should I not finish what my mother inlaw offered me. Vickyrotex abi o ma gbo nkan? Me I go finish am o and still ask for more. I am there sun inlaw to be now

If you no fit follow them steal you better stfu. Na people like you dem dey send hired killer to kill.

Fiisty:
Hmm

See as you dey moan like sey something big don enter your this thing

tyson99:
To even marry sef dey worry my soul

kill your sole so that you can marry

Rubbish! As she talk sey her monthly period don start manage am like that or enter her from the other side(yansh) and make sure she suck you well well and throwey the akamu for her mouth. When you finish tell her never to come your house again. I ate nonsense especially from girls.

Vickyrotex and ajepako I think una dey see wetin your landlord pikin do my friend?

Fabulouzjoseph:
DSS better pay that man his money.


That man went on to prove that you can get justice in Nigeria despite the high corruption.

you think DSS go pay the guy? I pity you and him. Una dey for long thing

Truthbites:
Always a curse to Nigeria. I have never seen one single good thing he's done. Nepotic guy. Always appointing incompetent bruhs,from his region

anything Aboki is a curse to Nigeria

Heading towards abi we don already enter am? Shiooooor.



Dominique biko do quick for school make we leaf their country for them o, make ajepako, vickyrotex, mynd44, Ishilove,funjosh, seunmohmoh, funkebabe,lalasticlala and class prefect seun continue to enjoy their next level

This is very emotional and many women are guilty of this emotional torture. Read slowly

MY DEAR WIFE,
I want to let you know how I feel about our sex life, and how it affects me negatively.

Most of the time you complain about me becoming angry too easily, what you don't know is that my anger most of the time is not about what got me angry, but about the way you are handling our sex life.

You always think you are doing me a favour be allowing me sleep with you.

The way you normally reject me, affect me, my ego, my manhood, my leadership and this is , because you reject me in an annoying way.

Before I got married to you, I had the dream of having an unfettered access to sex after wedding that is why I kept myself for you till our wedding night.

I enjoyed the best of you during our honeymoon and few months after, things fell apart and the center could not hold.

Now our bedroom life has become dry, drab and uninteresting. This is putting more pressure on me , with tension of lust, passion and immorality starring at me in the face .

I must confess to you, I now struggle daily to overcome sexual sins, something that was not happening to me even as a single.

During the last 3yrs, I have attempted to make love to you 600times and I succeeded only 62times, this is an average of once in 10 attempts.

These are the complaints you make that have been a road block on my way to a romantic living.

-We will wake out neighbors 64 times
-The children will hear 35 times
-The bed is making noise 29times
-Placing the baby on your chest 25 times
-It is too hot 30 times
-I don't want to be pregnant 22 times
-Pretending to be asleep 43 times
-Your mother will hear us 11 times
-Having new hair pains 37 times
-It is too late in the night 32 times
-I am too tired 85 times
-Am Menstrating 36 times
-Not in the mood 39 times
-Tomorrow is Sunday, I will be on duty in the church 12 times
-Sore tooth 5 times
-you are too heavy 23 times
-Have to go to the bathroom 15 times
-It is not food, at least you did one last week 10 times
-General Overseer (G.O) said we must fast next week 1 time
-Pastor said there will be holy communion tomorrow 5 times
-Tomorrow is Sunday, the day of the lord 5 times
-People are coming for house fellowship in our house 5 times.

The 62 times I did succeed, the result was not always satisfying because of your behavior.you will start by ordering me around :

-Switch off the light
-Close the window
-The door is not properly lock, close it
-Put fan in number 5
-Lay the bed very well
-Take your bath and use a perfume etc.

Are the orders you normally give, like a commander of the army, poor me!
I have to obey you, else no show for me, that night. Even when you agree I don't always enjoy myself because of the way you normally react.

-Do what you want to do let me sleep-15 times
-You just lay there as if you are not on bed with me-12 times
-Your face looks sad and gloomy like somebody mourning-11 times
-I have to wake you up to tell you I had finished-9 times
-You quickly got up from bed and rushed to the bathroom-10 times
-I thought I hurt you because you were just shouting and complaining throughout-7 times

For our marriage to be better, I think you need to improve and make me happy and remember that sex is one of your major duties as a wife , without which peace may find it difficult to reign in the home.

Thank you in advance for improving.

Yours in love,

Your hungry and neglected husband