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Hmmm, seems you are an atheist

Saturn444:
God is not a man, yet he wants to impose his will on a man? Who authorized God to ordain marriage?

What is in the marriage for him then since he cant keep a wife yet he wants me to. I am asking for a friend.

God Ordained it, doesnt mean God must marry too..God is not a man..

Saturn444:
God ordained marriage? Is God married? I heard he got a son, no wife?

Stay off the opium called Religion. If you want a woman to raise children with, then get married. If its about sex, get a slay queen every other night.

Life is a temporal enjoyment field

Marriage is a beautiful institutions, even ordained by God but in reality , it will take more people to hell, and even hell fire.

Its Marriage that destroyed Adam, and took Adam to hell. Adam was a good man before God gave him eve. He was enjoying his life in the garden, until eve came into his life, and he experienced hell.

And in today's case, most spouses have turned their partners to people who hate, to people who are angry, to people who cheat, to people who are not happy, to people who are depressed and even to bully.
So can anyone serve God well with these behaviors.
I know many people that are good and with happy life- when they are single, but when they married they change for bad. Maybe because of more responsibilities, problems in marriage and depression sometimes.

Now i see marriage will take more people to hell fire if they die cos most people endure marriage for it to work mostly.

And when this Endurance gets to a level it brings hatred.
And Hatred is a sin to God.
And can people enjoy what they Endure?
Can people even serve God well, when they don't have happy homes.
Can God even stay in a home that people are just pretending,whereas all is not well?

SADLY, People must ENDURE in Marriage for marriage to work.
And can people ENJOY what they ENDURE?

No wonder 95% of marriage don't work, people just just pretend, and they just live together for various reasons.
Marriage don't really worth the hype

G

Correct

Favfables1:
% that don't work..............% that works
Belgium- 71%........... .........................29%
Portugal- 68%.....................................32%
Hungary- 67%.................................... 33%
Czech republic-66%........................... 34%
Spain - 63%........................................ 37%
Luxembourg- 60%............................ 40%
Estonia- 58%. ..................................... 42%
Cuba- 56%............................................44%
France- 55%......................................... 45%
USA- 53%. ..............................................47%

I believe the right part of the column above answers your question ..

The work is the stress, and no one enjoy work or stress too...

Double0h7:
Yes. If you are willing to put the work in because it requires work!

Do you live with your ancestors that you know it worked? Is it the era when husband had canes to beat wives ? But in their era, marriage seems to work than now...The more the work develop, the more divorce increase...But some marriages are not working but couples are still living together, so note this

donbachi:
Dat of my greatgrandfather worked and dat of his father's father also,my grandfather's own worked,my father's own also worked..mine is working and doing great.

And the Bank will be using this money to make more money since then, and they will never tell govt or owner that their money is with them.

Same way Billions of naira are in various bank too, that the owners have died and the family didn't know or claim.

The greater the LOVE, The Higher the HATE.

This is why lover before, become sworn enemy.

We are taking generally now, so how many are working around you, or people are just enduring ?

Opeyemiextra:
Marriages can and do work.

To most people , getting married is one of the greatest achievement of life. And everyone always want to make the wedding ceremony memorable and special. And millions are spend for these ceremonies.
But the reality now is that, most marriages don't practically work. Mostly, In the one that seems working, the partners are just enduring.
BUT CAN ANYONE ENJOY WHAT THEY ENDURE?
In Africa most people endure marriage because of their religions, some endure it because of stigma/what people will say-if they divorce, some endure it for the sake of the children. But with all these, the marriage don't work practically, couples are just living together.
I tell people who endure marriage because of what their religions or Holy Books say -that marriage will even take a lot of people to hell,because a place where husband and wife live and don't talk to each other, where they envy each other, where they hid secret from each other, where they fight , is not where God will want and their actions are sins.

And i always say this, Most people enjoy their single life, than marriage life. And have seen so many people that are full of life when they are single but when they marry they turn miserable.
And interestingly, nobody knows what can make any marriage work, because even money( that can make most things) can not make happy marriages- and that is why BILL GATE, BEZOS, ELON MUSK, DANGOTE, ETC are not into marriage again.
In fact, marriage has brought bondage to people, and I see people enjoy this life when they get some freedom- freedom that marriage don't mostly bring.
I laugh, when I see singles envisaging how they will be enjoying sex when they marry everyday, but in reality, so many husbands or wives are sex starved. And a lot of people are cheating too cos of this. And a lot has depression from this, if they cant get satisfaction.

Sadly, just a cheat, or one evidence of cheating can destroy a marriage of years. Does it even make sense?

Divorce is now on high rate everywhere in the world , and these are the 10 countries with highest divorce rate
Belgium- 71%
Portugal- 68%
Hungary- 67%
Czech republic-66%
Spain - 63%
Luxembourg- 60%
Estonia- 58%
Cuba- 56%
France- 55%
USA- 53%


SO GENERALLY, DOES MARRIGE WORK?

IF MARRIAGE WORK- CLICK LIKE
IF MARRIAGE DONT WORK - CLICK SHARE.

In 2027 same thing will be said
In 2031 same thing will be said
In 2035 same thing will be said
In 2039 same thing will be said
In 2043 same thing will be said
In infinity same thing will be said

COS NIGERIA won't still be better cos the Nigeria system now can't work.

And Unless Nigeria restructure or Break, people living in geographical place of present Nigeria , won't enjoy democracy or government, they will only hope for good goverment till they die.

And sadly, same set of people are warming up again

Misterone:
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Massive and colossal disgrace

everythinggirly:
A thick disgrace.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9sHPZm2T7E0

Yesterday interview has been generating a lot of heat, but the one that got me thinking the most, is this economy question, where data are read and how Buhari answered it.
He didn't even believe the national data.
Its sad, Nigeria has a president who answer question like this.
Its a disgrace to us as the biggest black country.
Just see what he said afterwards- talking about farming, when statistical question is asked.

is Farming the solution to all problems?
In a saner climes, our president may not become a ward counsellor.

SEUN OKINBALOYE of Channels TV:
Mr President, Our DEBT RATIO in 2015 was about N12 TRILLION, NOW it's about N32 TRILLION.

INFLATION RATE was about 9% in 2015, Now, it's sitting at about $15%. UNEMPLOYMENT RATE was about 8.19%, but Now, it's about 33.2%.

EXCHANGE RATE was about N197 to a Dollar k, but NOW, it's Way OVER N400 Naira (Government-Regulated Rate).
So, Nigerians will Look • back Economically & Say - BEFORE you took office in 2015, most of these INDICES were FAIR, but NOW, the INDICES & FIGURES are NOT Friendly AT ALL.
PRESIDENT MUHAMMADU BUHARI - Well, I am NOT sure How correct the Calculations are, but All I know is that We have to Allow People to get Access to the FARMS, We just have to go back to the FARMS.

I am not sure how correct your calculations are- President Buhari responds after he was told that the dollar, unemployment rates, and others have increased after he took over office in 2015

�: @channelstelevision

https://www.instagram.com/tv/CYYZF6SBLuu/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

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But BUHARI CAN NEVER SUPRISE ME AGAIN ON DISAPPOINTED.
We have seen his worse

Most of these preachers listed here deserve a bed at the psychiatry Hospital.
But this is Nigeria, most people trend by craziness.
Just like :
Bobrisky
Esabod
Oba Solomon
Mandy
Yinka TNT
Bisi alimi

Hope HOPE on Nigeria won't later kill you.
Before u are born Nigeria is not good, you have reached the mid age of your life and your still foolishly hoping.
Anyway, reason well this 2022.[quote author= post=109033179]Slow and steady we will get to the land flowing with milk and honey.

Nigeria will be great in our lifetime.

Nigeria will succeed.

God bless Nigeria ��[/quote]

BUHARI is a failure in all sectors and Areas, not only military alone.
We can't wait to the next 17months that this incompetent govt will end. Cos no prayer can work on them again

PDP is not good too, but they are better alternative to this directionless and visionless APC party, that will forever destroy Nigeria, if given another chance.

Interestingly, most of this 362 criminals wont be missing the 5 daily prayers of Islams when they are doing these crimes.

I always wonder how we waste our time in serving God in Nigeria when we don't even know God and do what God wants.
No wonder evil everywhere.

Does God answer some prayers according to our location.

Someone who live in Nigeria, will be praying for something, and no answer for long . But same person will move out of this country and in few time, solution come .

For example, have been wondering how someone is looking for work for 5-10years, with prayer and faster, and no solutions.
But same person will travel out of Nigeria, and in few months, he will get a work with little or no prayer.
So does God answer prayer fast according to one location?

IN NIGERIA, Land Selling fraud has reached high heaven.
And all centred on corruption, wickedness Greed and worship of money.
We have seen a situation where a Genuine land owner will plan with someone, to sell his land.
And After selling it, they both share the money.
But this genuine owner will come one day again to claim his land, so it turns to legal Battle.
And at the end, the genuine owner win his case. And the buyer loss his hard earned money, Not knowing its a plan game to defraud him.
But all states government should find lasting solution to this, its not happening in developed nation.
The world has developed.
All land can be registered with government, so in the nearest future, two or more people can not lay claim to a land.

This EARTH has existed for over 4 BILLIONS YEARS AGO.
Christianity is just over 2000years.
Islam is just over 1500years.
But people living now, think they are the one serving real GOD, so people who lived since billions years ago don't serve God abi?
Religion is a problem in this world, but the way the fanatic Islamist behave, make this world so terrible and they are destroying this beautiful world too.
What they did during ancient era, when these ancient people founded these religions can not be done at this era again. Especially the evil things. Like killings.
Moreover, who can boldly say things in the holy books are directly from God?
Anyone can just say God say this, just to promote his religion then.
BUT CAN GOD TRULY SAY, KILL PEOPLE WHO BLASPHEMY ME?
AND SINCE GOD CAN DO ANYTHING, CANT GOD DEAL WITH ANYONE AS HE WANTS?
But If you think you have a GOD, and it is you that will be fighting for that GOD, you don't have a real GOD.
Killing of people for blasphemy, is even evil, and I even read how these Pakistani has killed a mad man too for blasphemy.
But Muslim clerics and leaders around the world must come out to condemn evil like this, else they are in support of it too.

ONLY IN BACKWARD COUNTRIES PROPHETS AND MEN OF GOD, WILL SEE FAKE PROPHESY ON POLITICIANS.
THEY WONT SEE PROPHESY ON HOW A COUNTRY WILL BE BETTER OR GREAT.

GLARINGLY, RELIGION IS BECOMING TO BE SCAM WITH THESE SO CALLED MEN OF GOD

This year Ballon D or has generated a lot of argument, and I also thought Lewandoski will win it. But to my surprised messi won it.
But my wondering ended when I see this stats.
Congratulations to Messi.
And No sane human being should compare him to any human being in football again- living or dead.
He is the GOAT forever.

Not about prayer. Nigeria only have option of picking between the Bad and the worse..
No matter your prayer, either apc or PDP will win in 2023...so which of them can deliver? Same evil

G

NIGERIANS are just hypocrite... The way they pretend to worship God is always unthinkable.
Most Nigerians are corrupt , into fraud, into yahoo, into kayamata , yet you will see them on Friday in mosque and Sunday in Church deceiving themselves. Shioor.
But God knows who serve him in truth and in spirit, not by governor lying down.

Your religion is according to your geographical place of origin or birth.
We have hundreds of different religions in the world. And are people in Nigeria, that are either Christian or Muslim, more fortunate that Japanese who are either Shintoism or taosim.
But also, have always seen so many self deceit from people, who think because they are in a particular religion, God love them more and they are the one going to heaven. But is that so ?