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Hmmmn..such a cutie. JAH bless him.

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Those soldiers don enter express oh. Na trailer remain to jam them. I am pitying them already. Court marshalled loading.

Bobrisky is trying to obtain and maintain relevance and he's actually getting what he wants.
Twale for those that know what they want in life and go after it.

So we should fry fufu or what

Ok. We are back. Blues for life.

Kante, if the hair will prevent you from contacting coro. Please make the hair bushy abeg. No time for nonsense this time.
Just make us proud.

Baba, all women are the same o. Their upbringing, the environment they find themselves and the company they keep make them grow to become an asset or a liability. The same is applicable to the men. My two cents

Don't generalize. Some men still stick to a woman.
It's like saying women stay glued to watching zeeworld for eternity but they don't stick to one man too.

Ok. Las las, everyone go dey alright at the end of the day. But please ensure the Madagascar herbal drug is the real cure for Corona Virus. I heard the drug is for malaria oh.

slyfox35:
Best friends or closest friends as some people term it is quite normal in the life of 80% of world population, I had one too.

We grew up as teens together, matured as adults together, he came to our house always and ate all his meals with us. My mom was really nice to him when she was alive. He wore my clothes and never returned them. I did not ask because my parents always provided for me although they were average citizens.

Then the worst thing in my life happened. I lost both my parents within the space of four years.
Things turned downhill for me (orphans do suffer a lot.. Too much suffering for you to believe there is even God in heaven who takes care of the fatherless and motherless).

My friend travelled to an African country. He kept telling me to come over there to work that things are better there. I kept declining but after a year of constant pressure, I decided to man up, packed my bags and travelled to meet him.

Guess what? I did not stay up to 5 days with him!!!

His attitude changed by the second day, he yells at me at every given opportunity, from his best friend, I turned to his boy, the heat he was given me was so bad that when he leaves the house and he comes back, I get scared just by hearing his footsteps. I virtually turned to a nonentity to him. I had no money on me because the little I had left, he collected it when I arrived. I knew no one, I felt so miserable and alone and I started regretting why I left Nigeria.

On the fifth day ,I woke up early in the morning and shook him up. I don’t know what got into me (but I am glad it did), I told him I can’t stay with him anymore and I want to leave. He did not even feel bad about this, he did not think of the fact that I know nothing and nowhere in this country. He let me go.

I packed my bag amid tears and went into the street. Mind you, I had no one to call back in Nigeria... It was tough on me but as a naija guy and as God will have it, I did not spend even a night on the streets. I was shocked that a total stranger took me in, clothed and fed me. He taught me everything he knows. I worked for 6 months and was able to make 2 million Naira. This was like a dream to me (If you get money ehn, to praise God Dey sweet o)

I came back to Nigeria, rented an apartment, furnished it and continued working from here.

This so called best friend of mine saw my posts and pictures on Facebook and video called me to check on me (I guess his eyes did not believe what he was seeing) he asked me if I am in a hotel, I said no, I am in my apartment. He was shocked (me I nor keep any grudge against you) he told me he was coming to Nigeria and that I should please forgive him and forget everything that happened. I told him I can forgive but can’t forget.

What surprised me most are this exact words he said “my guy, if I come, na your house I go relax first abeg”

Now my fellow Nairalanders, I am asking, how should I go about this?

I have forgiven him but should I allow him into my home?

Forgiveness is not foolishness o. You should be very careful of people who hurt you in the past, lest they hurt you again.

donbachi:
Every challange with him own.

That's right. You might be praying on a low key but as you are engrossed in the prayer, your tone goes higher and you become aggressive and violent at some points.
That said, scripture says we should be fervent in prayer. Show fervency in prayer at all times.

clevvermind:
The Nigerian army is a real virus worst than coronavirus.

I dey tell you,my brother. Shekau and his goons dey there, Dem never see them kill. Na one unarmed young boy, Dem go dey flex muscle on top. Just see how dis boy take die- a boy full of life. Too bad.