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TkhGuy:
3 years ago after abstaining from going to relationship with girl for five years, in pesuit of a crazy career,

I have been swimming deeply in lonely lifestyle, I have never had any serious relationship with any girl that lasted longer than 2 months and I encountered tons of broken heart from different girls including the ones I had platonic relationships with,

Driving in the rainy season time in march 2015, I met this beautiful girl who is fair in complexion and very attractive, I asked her out on a date, she looked at me and told me she is just getting off from a broken relationship, that she can only be my friend, unfortunately for me I never knew the brainer behind a girl keeping a guy as friend,

It never came down on me that her intention was completely different from mine proposal, I danced along thinking it will grow to my target, but unlikely she has a different agenda that will not allow such growth to see another day, [b]quickly she started exploring and exploiting me, [/b]she lives in bwari and at the time of the parasitic kind of date, I was loosing my money my Time and buying her gift and I was getting nothing in return,

The first part of my terrible experience with her was at the peak of fuel scarcity that rocks, that day she finished from where she was working and there was no taxi going to bwari with lots of passengers waiting, I decided to drive her to bwari with a meal i bought for her for her dinner cos she previously told her she never had a chance of going to get a launch, I dropped her off but not even a kiss from her nor peck,

The most crushing part of my experience with her was the day I invited her, she never told me she is coming with another company, not until she told me I should come and pick her from a close location to my residence, I drove to that place only to discover there are two of them, I didn't get that disappointed after untrust at some point cos I have already cooked a meal which has lots cat fish inside wrestling.

I served them both with some refreshments after which we had conversation and at noon I prepared a delicious indomi noddle and after doing so, something strange was just going up while my so called scavenger friend was busy focusing on me her friend was busy giving me green light to take a step in, but I stupidly ignored it, at last she was bored when I was going drop her and her friends off, there is no car and she was thinking I would drive both of them to bwari, but didn't instead gave them TP.

The funny side of her visiting was that she was calling another guy while in my appointment asking him if she should come around but the guy, declined and asked her what for, and she replied is it a crime for me to come to your place?

I know I have to let her go but she is the only girl I have, and I was emotionally attached to her, but unfortunately for she treats rags better than she treated me, I remember I bought her sneakers and showed her, and told her I am gonna keep it until the day she changes her mind, but she couldn't wait or allow it and told me why must I compare the foot wear with her heart. After much talk I let go..

She no longer picks my call, I was really pissed on, I couldn't stop thinking about her for a second, she blocked me from reaching her on WhatsApp and don't reply my messages,

This is what it feels like when she say she can be your JF just friend, she will explore you and exploit you of every benefit you can possibly offer your girlfriend an keep harvestingf it. Just to keep draining you I the name of friends,

Pls asked her if she is your brother or a guy in girl clothings? Else why must you be friend...

If you must keep her as friend, have a better girl who can feed and satisfy your emotional feelings so you don't hope on her for that else when she gets to find out, she is through only one in your life, and she will get you teased and sucking you dry will be the next agenda...

But if you get another girl who feeds your emotions, you can handle her like as if shhe is a guy like you,

And exploiting you will be impossible so she will decide to quit, although jealously won't let her be if she discovered that you have another girl who supplies you what she wants to use as bait to swindle you of..

Happy hunting..

GUYS being loving is not stupidity... Be creative

Play her or Get played,

bro forget boys forming macho or alpha males here.alot of boys makes dat mistakes when dey r freshers or beginners in girls world.ls dis painful mistake dat teaches experience.from there u begin to learn d ropes .Move on n dnt dwell on it.This what makes life interesting.

Deprofessional:
This type of woman will never cheat on her husband, no matter the condition.

When you see a wife material you know.

Because she is nt wearing makeup she is a wife material abi ? No problem.continue.

Idrismusty97:
Nobody should come compare the French president with Buhari again, Buhari isn't married to a grandma 24 years older than him with a daughter about the same age as him. She really did caught him young, When she was having sèx Macron wasn't even born. Haba, Young fresh man like this stuck with winkle(He is even a "step-granddad" fa). Now that he is on top the world he must sample. An extramarital affair is loading... Whether they keep it secret for the sake of his political career or it leaks it's up to them, But me sha am 100% sure they would be or already is an extramarital affair.

His life,his choice.u v a problem with dat?

EmpresFIDEL:
please friends i really need your advice. I have been dating him for 5yrs now, we love each other so much . but our genotype is giving us serious issue, we are both As and we don't consider brake up as an option. the pressure on my boyfriend from family and friends is making him want to dissolve the relationship when he still love me deep down and I love him too.. we are just too confuse. I don't want to lose him.

my dear dnt allow luv deceive u .when wahala start luv go clear for yr eyes.move on .dis is Nigeria where all medical expenses r taken care of by its citizens n is nt funny at all.

All hail KING POGBA!

This Chelsea Kante Na gud head o.any where he enter he must carry cup.Make we buy am Na

Unlimited22:
Martial o
E go curse Mou shaa

lol! heavy curse my bro

So our pogba will now b a word cup winner....hmmm

pocohantas:
I have never called you to tell you I am a feminist, even if I am...feminism didn't tell any woman not to love HARD. Maybe you should take some time to read about it, Sir.

OK ma.happy Sunday!

pocohantas:
Hardened and cold hearted ke? Tufiakwa!
You are wrong on the above, the other adjectives are kinda correct.
I cry, when I am angry. Especially when I am trying to explain myself and people are like "ehya...chai"

d only bad thing about people like u is when dey fall in love very hard when dey c a man dey like.forgot about d show of feminism.

pocohantas:
I can relate Reminds me of a gift from my ex, very simple and beautiful. The little things that matter *wipes tears*

u cry? No offense but I personally c u as a hardened,cold hearted,principle n no nonsense girl.l might b wrong tough

Produke:
May your love last forever.Amen.

Bro,amen for dem.

Hazard likes dribbling too much.he is playing a one man game here

generaliy:
The man is a baby in a man's body

The wife is terrible at crisis management, a man is angry you called him an animal, rather than apologize, you kept laughing like it's nothing, who raises these relationship misfits really?

The two "both of you" should gut GTFO with your nuisances, next topic please

I can't repeat dis enough on dis NL forum.if our women learn to control their tongues halves of problems in marriages will b solved.

BlackAfrican:
Hello NLs,
I'm too emotionally drained to make sound judgement so I need your contribution on this issue.

I found out recently that my gf has been living a secret life online. My findings suggest that she may be cheating on me... Why? She's been communicating with an ex that practically broke her heart in the past...

She's also frequently communicating with another guy on Facebook who has repeatedly called her my love, honey, sweetheart and other romantic pet names and she has reciprocated most times.... At a point, the guy said he was naked and waiting for her at home... And she said she's coming... I guess they took the conversation offline...

She's also been chatting with several other guys... the ones I saw on FB indicate they're either asking her out or she's outrightly flirting with them...

On WhatsApp, only God knows the content and direction of her chat with other guys...

The painful part is I found out she's been having this online/offline double life by accident... That's a story for another day...

When I confronted her with my findings, she's been claiming she has nothing with any of the guys and that I should forgive her for hiding her online life from me...

I feel betrayed... I doubt if she'll ever change... I just want to move on...

What should I do?

is she yr wife?is when u marry a girl u v control over her.u r courting .By d way r u a saint yrsef?

BlackAfrican:
Hello NLs,
I'm too emotionally drained to make sound judgement so I need your contribution on this issue.

I found out recently that my gf has been living a secret life online. My findings suggest that she may be cheating on me... Why? She's been communicating with an ex that practically broke her heart in the past...

She's also frequently communicating with another guy on Facebook who has repeatedly called her my love, honey, sweetheart and other romantic pet names and she has reciprocated most times.... At a point, the guy said he was naked and waiting for her at home... And she said she's coming... I guess they took the conversation offline...

She's also been chatting with several other guys... the ones I saw on FB indicate they're either asking her out or she's outrightly flirting with them...

On WhatsApp, only God knows the content and direction of her chat with other guys...

The painful part is I found out she's been having this online/offline double life by accident... That's a story for another day...

When I confronted her with my findings, she's been claiming she has nothing with any of the guys and that I should forgive her for hiding her online life from me...

I feel betrayed... I doubt if she'll ever change... I just want to move on...

What should I do?

is she yr wife?is when u marry a girl u v control over her.u r courting .By d r u a saint yrsef?

adisabarber:
In USA a man spent 30 years in prison even though he had witnesses to prove he was at a party in another state when the crime was committed.

dnt mind him.Dis type of thing happen all over d world

There is no doubt real honey is gud but getting d real ones is d issues . everybody these days claim dey v real honey.give me 2 gud reasons y I will believe u r selling real honey

I will really like to know what is going through Thierry Henry mind right now!

kay29000:
Best comment on this thread.

thank u bro.when u r advising young people dey think u r baise or u dnt know what u r saying.No problem.Experience will teach dem

Mpape is mad!chai!

pocohantas:
Alright, tell men to control their dicks too.
It is the cause of three-quarter of marital problems, that includes the running mouth. Goodnight.

goodnight ke? Am watching Belgium/France match!

pocohantas:
Exactly, that's how much I struggled to get your point.

summary of what I said is women should learn to control their tongues.u can express yr anger without being insultive.dat is d difference between a mature n immature lady.marriage is nt a competition where one person win.d reason y people shout n spill insultive words is to hurt n win d quarrel .

tartarus:
Nigerians are just sycophants! I'm sure no one here watched the video. She didn't hit him at all!! She only struck his phone cos she got mad he was recording and taunting her. Nairaland reduces IQ I swear!

v u heard of d word walk away.y can't she do dat.what is d big deal of being recorded?

pocohantas:
Men should learn to control their pehnis.
Most running mouth, severed pricks and dead husbands are as a result of wandering third legs.

How does that sound? Silly right?

actually dear I don't really understand what r saying

[quote author=pocohantas post=69254645]LOL. The irony. Women are the most dangerous beings when angered, yet we have more men committing 'crime of passion' [/quote.words dat comes out of a woman mouth when angered can make some men do d unthinkable (tough am nt supporting it).is nt all men dat v self discipline.when women learns to control their tongues half of problems In marriages r solved .am nt saying their r no bad husbands but from experience in counselling couples most problems r caused by women bad mouth.

Xisnin:
Someone can't be dangerous and at the same easy to murder.
I doubt if you have marriage experience.

my bro am 13yrs in my marriage now n 45yrs.i don Waka for dis world.am marriage counselor n a civil engineer.pray n I repeat pray not to b on wrong side of yr Woman whether here or abroad.d person dat can easily finish a man is his wife.There r bad men we know but brother if u dnt play yr cards well in wisdom n maturity dats same wife can b yr undoing.women dnt luk back when dey are angry.Men deos.d solution.... dnt allow d issue in yr marriage get to boiling point before looking for way to settle.pray together constantly.dnt carry issues over.

Xisnin:
I am not fooled by this "video", yes it is a video. But this is the age of technology
where you can make your opponent look guilty by releasing only the part that paints
them in bad light.
Nowhere in that video did she beat him(I wonder where the "beating" headline come from,
he only posted the parts where she lost her cool to make her look guilty.

What kind of a man take back a cheating and angry wife?
He even had evidence and he overlooked them because?

The husband is either a foolish sissy for begging a wife who allegedly have numerous boyfriends
to come back after she left of her own accord or he isn't telling the whole story.

my brother I don't know how old u r or whether u v been married for a long time.listen women r d most dangerous beings when angered..is with maturity n wisdom u follow dem in marriage.otherwise u will commit murder.

dotdauda:
If u don't get IT in Nigeria,
U can't get ur surprise anywhere else in d world.

Issa all women "crazy daring" team tinz

Well stop over for some roasted corn pls

it can only happen in Naija.3 gbosa! for dat brave woman! Tough very risky

achidisucre:
Please doctors and health experts in the house help! Where can I buy this drug? My dad is having high blood pressure and the drug below was prescribed by the doctor after diagnosis. It tried in containing the pressure but now it has finished and he went back to that hospital to collect another one but was told that it is unavailable. Instead, they gave him another one that looks like this one but not exactly the same.

However, the later has not being as active and powerful as the former. As in, if his pressure increases and he takes the recent drug, it takes time, most often, a day or two for the pressure to comeback to normal.

We reside in Aba, Abia state.

how old is yr dad n what is d name of d drug?

I don't even know what to type.as for surviving mother only God can say whether she is willing to remain alive. only God!

D only team dat can give d winner of Belgium/france headache is Croatia.england has just been lucky in meeting weaker team.very boring football.i pity dem if dey get to final.d real final is between Belgium n france