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Guy why did you call the girls dirty?
if you really want a girl to stay with you considering your nature,
I advise that if you get a girl you are sure you like, sit her down, tell her
your kind of person and give her time to learn to adjust.

They are alot of very neat girls out there, may be you are yet to
meet your girl.

I wish you the best in life

Guy, you have no option, your reasons are not good enough; you just have to marry that girl.
Dont you have a past? I mean what has her past got to dowith your marrying her? you saw her, invited
her down, slept with her and you even have the guts to mention the number of times you did that. You are
here talking about her past.

I dont blame you.

well, since you wish to know;
3yrs+ without sex and am plaining to break up.

Isnt it interesting!

Its obvious that you are not a serious minded person. How can you do such a thing?
What advice are you seeking for at 40yrs.

Tell her you are married and repent.

My dear this is a difficult one.
I heard of a girl who was returning from a church convention
in a night bus, armed robers attacked them. She refused to be
raped and died instead.

Its a difficult one
God forbid

Please exhibitionism is a sexual disorder; tell the guy in this pix to go
see a Psychologist/Clinician.
Or may be a Psychiatrist

lol

Congratulations!!!

Atleast you will bid farewell to bachelor hood,
settle down and stop cheating on your wife.
If you do, another woman will be pregnant for you.
Keep that stuff in between your legs in its place.

My advice: Marry her!

Ok!
thanks

Well I really appreciate tall, chocolate and well build guys.

White skin is a no go area for me.


But the truth is that these are not and should not the basic things to look out for.

Am waiting for a normal man who sincerly loves me without asking for SEX.

I will go any lenght for him because thats how a relationship should be (my opinion)

ZIP UP

A guy once told me that marriage is bondage, but he does not mind geting married because he has to raise children.
I think most men see it as too much a responsibility to deal with.

May you can by hiting your sisters first, thats if you have any.
Check out thier reactions before you think of hiting your woman.

I dont even blame you, the woman that will follow you!

Just give sometime before you ask her again.
sit her down and find out if she is really interested in dating you.

All the best

I simply love quiet guys, my Guy is a very quiet one but very assertive.

May be you are talkin about timidity and I tell you ladies would take such guys for a ride.
If you are quiet, let it be a trait not that you are doing it to please a lady; thats foolishness.

I dont read all the post, but I saw one "is it right to date a fat or slim lady"
what was this all about?

Hey! what's up Shawty?
The day a guy told me this, I felt very embarassed.

He has another reason for leaving her; certainly not the one he gave.
Tell your cousin to move on with life

My guy farts and am indifferent about it because it doesn't smell

You did the right thing, but you shouldnt have collected the ring in the first place since you didnt feel anything for him.
Whatever it is i cant blame you for taking that decision but here is a summary of an old Chinese movie:

A certain guy was asking a girl out and she told him no from the very first day.
This guy kept talking to her with the hope that one day she will accept him
and this went on for a very long time; one day this girl told the guy that she
does not have any emotional feelings for him not to talk of love thinking that
this will put him off.
This guy, with excitement told her that the love he has for her is enough cover for the two of them,
and she need not love him to be his friend,

I understand what it is like when you are with someone you dont have any feelings for
I wish you all the best in life.

Many girls have been through the same or similar issues, they tried all the means you ve used so far to get your man to respond but things went from bad to worse. This is not an easy experience to deal with, emotionally and mentally I know exactly what you are going through because I have been there before.

Take this advise if you wish and watch how smooth things will be for you.

Stop calling him
Stop sending him SMS
Stop sending people to beg him
Stop reporting him to people
Try to get rid of him from your heart and move on with your life. you have just one life
and they are millions of men out there. Be sure God made you for one of them.
Keep yourself busy, if you are employed; focus more on your job if not try to get one.
Do all your complainig to God.
Life is such a beautiful thing.

Oh
am happily SINGLE


Thanks

Gal go ahead wt ur wedding.
He wont do nothing, leave all these guys alone. you tried double dating n it worked out for you.

Dont let anybody trouble u wt d "good girl stuff" most often, is d good girl dt end up wt nothng
nt dt I support double datin, accordin to ur story, if d 1st guy played his game well wt u, am very sure u wud hav stayed wt him.

Take k of urself n prepare well towards ur weddin, I wish u good success!

Ehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
see me see trouble o!
You want to snatch someone's guy & you are seeking for advice.
Gal I fear U.

You better go and look for your own, even when you find one, someone will snatch him from you for ever having such thoughts.
Na your type de cause all d wahala wer girls d face!

Dearie,
cant realy say some thing tangible cos I dont know wat he did.
But the truth is dt if u hear other pple's stories, may b u will feel
u ve nt gone tru anythn at all. Wat eva d case may b, u will get ova it.
Just try n b urself.

Dearie,
cant realy say some thing tangible cos I dont know wat he did.
But the truth is dt if u hear other pple's stories, may b u will feel
u ve nt gone tru anythn at all. Wat eva d case may b, u will get ova it.
Just try n b urself.

She is free to talk the guy into it or better still look for a way to get the guy to ask her out
She can become unnecessary close n nice to the guy depending on who d guy is. there s no crime in that.
Is left for the guy to decide

its digusting; I mean in our society its a terrible thing to do

Guy na wao o
D picture na im I no understand; showing the face that was slapped or , ?

Leave the girl, d man n urself for God to judge, r we sure u r teling us d true story.


Stop goin afta people's girlfrnd o o o

No, its not very much ok especially for the ladies.

@frank3.16 & Dr Kitaun,
you guys should sit down n do a rethink. Stop reacting as if you are in an utopic society where such a thing is not obtainable. Men and women are committing attrocities in the name of love. Stop attacking this girl and deal with the issue she brought up.

Dont you know that if everyone here sums up courage to air thier experiences, you would probably change your perception about life n d world generally.