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MiltonFine:
When the 27 year old fvck a 14 year old it's called child sexual abuse, when u keep slapping your 14yr old sister to impart sense it is called physical abuse. So if i understand you correctly, you are saying one has to prevent one abuse with another kind of abuse. I agree with the latter part of your advice though and i believe that is all she needs; more talk therapy. Slapping even once will make matters worse. It will make her hate you and that is dangerous. She will try to get over that bitterness of hate by looking for love elsewhere preferably in the arms of the 27year old pervert. I'm no parent but at least i have an idea how teens think owing to the fact that i've been teaching them for almost ten years now. Moreover i was a teen once and i know puberty can be a dicey thing.

27years to 14years is not the worst so far... If u have been following sexual abuse issues on crime watch , u would see more cases that are worst, and how police keep sweeping many under the carpents for money, it's a long story with many examples... But I said slap and not beat , in order not to abuse her, but to let her know that she is on the wrong part(trying to reset her thinking faculty from rubbish) , thereafter , draw her closer , to proof u love her more than the 27 year old idoit , give her her more time , show more love , spoil her with those things that those old idiots normally use to lure them in the name of up coming big girls...after which , talk to her, help her academically , talk sense into her and above all pray for her because some cases are spiritually driven.. I have done such for a case worst than this and it works , not even my sister...

tayor3:
I agree with you, best so far.

Thanks

DECLAN2015:
Is very difficult to stop or prevent a girl that has made up her mind to Bleep..she is innocent and the stupid guy want to take advantage of that.if she taste sex she wont stop again that will destroy her

It's not difficult , she only needs good companionship...talking therapy and cares is all she needs , when she is matured , she will know what's good for her.

Bebetter:
I like your plan, e make sense! The only part i'm not sure is leaving the 27 year old idiot... At 27 him suppose don get sense say na small baby girl be that na... At 14!!!! Haba! So meaning... Like say her brother no see the chat now, possibly that guy go just scatter that small baby girl life like that! It is very bad! Because... If you leave am now... He go go do the same thing to another small baby girl somewhere else! Is he not suppose to be thinking of marriage at his age? Dem need reset him brain sharp sharp, any which way, it must be done shaaa! Hope you get me.

You have a point , but presently if u are very current, u would have notice that today, older men are doing worst, 45years sleeps around with 13, 14years old... A prominent person in Nigeria got married to a 13years...as such, if u start such fight , u may lose because of the corrupt society we have today... With money , u can beat the laws.

THIS CAN'T BE TRUE




BUHARI

That person is jealous..


26 it's not bad...put ur head down , tho , their is no much jobs presently, but that excuse she gave u does'nt worth it....u r still fine, if u have interest in biz fine, a plus...

He caused alots of death



R I P.. Gen. Suleimani

Elect/Elect....5years

Comp. SC.....4years


Presently , jobs are generally limited in Nigeria, as such skills in your area of study matters slot , and in most varsities in Nigeria , studying comp science doesn't really mean u will really understand the main applicantions in various areas... U will need to go for many self sponsored training to groom yourself , else , u would only be seen as a graduate of comp science but computer science wouldn't be seen in u....


Elect/Elect is the only course in engineering in Nigeria today, that u will study and have a better knowledge of what u studied , unlike other engnring courses...there many option in elect/elect, which includes : Power, Electronics, TeleCom, CONTROL, .... And my advice for u , is that since u like the both courses, I will advice u to go for ELECT/ELECT , and option for control if the need be, so that u can be a guru in both Comp science and Elect/Elect, despite your uni knowledge on comp.science, after school maybe from during your NYSC, u can starts running various programmes in computer science, tho it's expensive as some may cost up to 500 - 600k , but with that , u would be more skilled than those who studied comp science in the varsity only and your fellows in Elect/Elect....sip it...u may not value this because it's free...

bolayei:
Why is that it's only Africans that judge people based on how they look? And if the whites say we look like baboons or refer to our big nose and lips then we drop the race card.

I don't get your points


But all I have for u is that , IF U CANT GIVE A LIFE , DONT DARE TAKE ONE ....we have many laws to check social media, but because the appropriate authority are not doing their job, they still want to create more laws to compound issues for their own selfish reasons and not really for the people because they are all selfish and corrupt and are power drunk and are afraid of constructive criticism...

jimyjames:
Which south Don't we have Yoruba Muslims majority in south west ?

Some you will just be in the east and be spilling rubbish, how is Southwest a Muslim dominated ??... Where we have Ondo and Ekiti dominated by Christian's...tho , the southwest has no issue with religion...most Muslims house in the southwest , u would always find christains which is not so in the north , be sure the Muslims forbid that and it's bad.

Lolssss.....



Make just try am abeg... Na SARS go welcome am, before police go call her olosho inside cell

smat101:
What I was scared of is finally happening...
I've a lot to say but let me try to be brief...
Its been 4years+ since I last went home to see my mum and siblings.
I really lovey kid sister so much even more than my mum.
there is a lot to say but to cut the long story short,
when I came back she had already developed breast but she is just 14years.
just today I talked to her about sex,boyfriends, pornography relationship,sex, everything in that area...recently she was using my phone for Facebook,then I asked her consent to read some of her messages which she agreed as I was reading through she dragged the phone from my hand when I wanted to click a particular chat. I became inquisitive but respected her privacy. I then asked her to log out when she is done...
just this night I wanted to login to my Facebook then I clicked the Facebook icon her account was still logged in...What I saw broke my heart, she was planning to send nudes to a guy and the guy was planning to have sex with her this weekend,she kept on telling him that she was afraid, but he kept on telling her he will use condom, that she should not be afraid...
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My problem is that she is a minor and this guy is 27...
So this is what I plan to do, Flog her thoroughly very early tomorrow, then later talk to her again...
Then that bastard beat him up in the evening with two other guys...
I really love this girl and Want the best for her pls parents preferably how should I handle this matter .

Very simple , leave that idiot 27 years old fool, it's more important to work on your own sister, if u beat the both of them , u would regret it, u will just only poison the mind of both mostly the stupid 27 year old..


Now , your sister is learning fast, all u need to do , reset her mind set with enough slap, don't flog her pls, just be give her hot slaps on her face... There after seat her down talk to her , counsel her with good examples , ask what she wants to be and how she is planning to achieve it , talk to her very well, thereafter , try by all means possible , take her out to a cinema and buy ice cream , CHK, spoil her with anything she want make her happy and during this period be telling her how much u like her and only trying to protect her from evil guys who want to destroy her future and dump her , if u have any close bad example I've it to her , also help her by setting a time that I would love to see her with a reasonable guy , maybe after university of possible.... She needs more talk therapy than beating ..sip it.

Poor people




Empty store self burn...lolssss



May God help us all

SarakiBukola:


I wouldn't be disappointed.

Some youths would come here to defend Saraki.

Defending their oppressors while wailing about how bad things are.

I know the place.... I in fact had a close friend there. Frankly, it's very close to the land of the Civil Service Clinic. I wouldn't be surprised if it was "appropriated " by the Sarakis.

Let the Court decide!

Let us be Frank to ourself, I don't do politics ,but as long as Nigeria leadership is concern people allocates govt things to themselves... The Govt himself is not left out , He was into oil and gas together with the present Ogun gov. who still owns HEYden oil, for those of us that are in that sector we know how they acquire things and licensing from the govt, and they all knows themselves , they are all thieves , the gov Rasak has also allocated some govt prop to himself , this is just a witch Hunt , I pray he has a lot to show for the great otege movement crusaders by 2023... Go to Ikoyi and see how
Generals allocated land and houses to themselves... Baba Tinubu also did thesame in Bourdillon , but there many things more important to do for lagosians than unnecessary witch Hunt....the govt was just too harsh on the Saraki's...we saw what happened to Yinka Ayefele in Oyo by Fmr gov Ajimobi, even tho Ajimobi had a valid point , he was largely criticized for rude action , I see thesame thing playing out in Kwara because the gov hands are not clean from what he was accusing a former late Senate leader who then had the opportunity to allocate to himself what is more than the ILE ARUGBO, go to VI , Abuja, Ikoyi and see what people allocated to themselves , Gov AA is just fooling himself with pety ILE ARUGBO.

WAR IN NIGERIA.

Na them them





Yahoo Yahoo

With this. We don't need Social.media bill again




Let them use existing ones ...DSS do ur job , welcome for this

habsydiamond:
my question is.. will trump be there for ever I guess not.. which means there is hope all Africans out there.

Why are u so bothered about President Trump and not our African leaders



Other countries will still follow suit , because africans are trooping out to Europe for greener pastures , even some are going to even india

Nigerians mallam Aboki go soon start to fight their own in Nigeria...



Southerners wake up o, weda Muslims or Christian's ..

Correct ....




Weldone

habsydiamond:
Nigerians should what!!! You must be kidding with that statement. Please if they come what are they coming to do with the hardship facing everyone in this country. Make I just stop cos if I continue I won't finish writing in the next 24hours

They should remain there and be slave to President Trump....who hate Africans because of our corrupt leaders...Trump is love by many mostly the US Jews and real citizens of US ...mark my moniker , he will get re-election because he has done well the US economy and people... That's y Democrat what to come via impeachment

Gov Abdurazak just gave Sen Saraki ONE LIFE



When everything politics has been written off about him...

IRAN and NOISE ...5 &5



Gen Suleiman made noise yestiday , today he was killed and the noise continue...noise makers

Wizzy , that Lil bro they flex Pres wife






He must nack the daughter ...that one sure.

habsydiamond:
if not why did the house or rep voted for his impeachment Abi na illegal immigrants and terrorists full the house abi

His he still the president Yes or No ??



Maybe u don't know that there are foreigners who are now citizens in the house...is Obama from the US ??... Trump is love by the real citizens of USA ...audio impeachment by the Democrats with the numbers in the house...let the speaker send it to the Senate , where we have large number of republicans see , Trump will still be reelected , he has change the US and it's economy for the better , tho his immigration laws are not favourable to foreigners, but I like it , Nigerians should come back let's make our nation great...

sleekbae:
Like your mother?

My mum cannot say what u said ...pls if u don't mind I have a biz for u let's meet in an hotel , doesn't matter even if u are married

AwkaetitiBabe:
I won't join issues with illiterates this 2020 unfortunately

Lolss... Educated .shiiii... How biz ??

AwkaetitiBabe:
Probably a business meeting. Just saying

Baby come let's have a biz meeting in a five star hotel ...Dem go back... U join them , ashi

Jodha:
Do yhu know what she went to do with this other man in the hotel?....

Biko no go spoil person marriage based on misconception...

Na she be this


Ashiii

Weldone President OluwaOghene Trump.




We all.die.here !!!!