[quote author=omonnakoda post=46333354]Maybe from an Oyinbo perspective I dunno. It is quite usual in Nigeria maybe you grew up in Ikoyi ..........[/quo
Lol. Funny u. Is not good to encourage such from a leader even tho we grew up in d ghetto.
He said 1. Instead of working to solve the Niger Delta Criminal act
In other words that he is not working to solve the problem. and that the activity he was engaged in interferes with such work. We do not know that he is not doing such work and at any rate the Northerner,as you call him, has characterized it as "criminal" which means it is the duty of the security services.He deliberately chose not to call it a political problem and so BMB is not the one with primary responsibility but Buhari and the Governors HE IS A LEGISLATOR. IS THE NIGER DELTA PROBLEM ARISING BECAUSE WE DONOT HAVE ENOUGH LAWS? 2. He is there acting candid movies He is not acting any movie he is living his life. To me it seems the northerner is irritated by a display which offends his cultural or religious sensibilities but that is HIS problem. Whether BMB chooses to kiss his wife is his business.
The so called criminal Niger Delta activities has not killed innocent people in the same way as Boko Haram or Fulani Herdsmen so if he wants to criticize that is what he should criticize
I co sign with all u said kind of but u forget to correct one thing. Bruce mentioning the guy's parent . that's not right for a person like bruce
Azin! Btw, I see his "nyansh" being opened in this manchester city job! No messi, No iniesta, No xavi and I doubt neymar or suarez will leave barcelona and come to man city. Also, EPL is not bundesliga that by december, bayern munich have won their league. Him go hear am!
Let's wait n see bcs I know that the English clubs are always having problem with technical and attacking football
ilovemylife: I met a guy of 31 through my elder sister, last year February. He started asking me out but because I just came out of a bad relationship, I told him that I am not yet ready to go into a relationship now but he hanged on until August, by then we had become good friends and we started dating.
But three months into the relationship I noticed that my boyfriend has a thing with a lady that stays in the same street with me, a lady I have known all my life cos we grew up together, I confronted him and he told me that it was just a Fling and nothing more, so I told him to please stop whatever he is doing with the girl because we know each other and he promised too. I trusted him to because I can't be going around checking up on a man old enough to take care of himself. So during his birthday this year, he told me the girl called him to wish him happy birthday and asked him hope she will be getting an invite for the party, so he asked me if he should invite her, I told him he can that I don't have a problem with that. So he invited her for the birthday party and she came for the party and my boyfriend introduced me to her as his girlfriend, in that same party my boyfriend gave me the surprise of my life when he asked me to marry him and I accepted.
We are now planning for our traditional wedding which is coming up July but I was shocked to find out that my husband to be is still sleeping with that same girl because I stumble on their whatsapp chat. I feel like my world is crashing before my very eyes, I am so confused, what should I do. I haven't confronted him yet and I am not ready to because I don't want another series of lies and deceit. This is man that has taken very good care of my financial but what of emotional and again it's not all about money for me because I am not going to be a poor wife. Should I walk out of this relationship and cancel the wedding plans? I am so confused now, because if he truly loves me as he claims, he should be able to respect me, another question I wanted to ask him is this, why that lady.
Please nairalanders, what should I do, confront him or what, I have even discussed this with any of my family member. And since this incident I have been very down, so many thought have been crossing my mind.
NB: will be 27 by August
What I want u to know is that he will still cheat on u after marriage but if you can stand it and if that is the only problem with him, get married to him and continue praying to God that he should change. But if u know u can't stand it, better don't marry him cus u won't enjoy Ur married life. Just my own oppionion
U said the window was closed, how did it get there then? Probably it wouldn't have been tru that window. Is better u make a proper investigation to prevent such from happening next time. Just imaging there was no light like u said. Prevention is better than cure. Thank God for Ur live
mizlolar: Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.
I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.
All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight
He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.
The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.
There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.
I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.
I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.
I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.
Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.
Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks
adesegun121: Peter Okoye aka Mr P, his new manager Olatunde Micheals(far right), his choreographer DonFlexx and others, this afternoon flew out of Nigeria to Dubai for a performance he has in Dubai billed for April 7th and 8th.
EngrAbiola: After laying low for a while, Iyanya glides into our hearts with his first official video of 2016. The video titled “Type Of Woman” brings out the R&B side of Iyanya we don’t get to see all the time, the lovey-dovey side. The video shot by Megaboi is just a helluva way to kickstart the second quarter of this year and Iyanya just raised the bar a notch higher. Watch below
yomz1e: Laffing my a$$ off!.. a lot wrong with it, 1st you were broke, the last money you have could have been used to feed yourself extra day, 2ndly: if the girl truly feels you, then you being broke shouldn't be a problem, 3. you took coke which is high in sugar posing health risk, 4: the gF must be ' i never chop type' cos Fried/chicken is not a special dish' and all this eateries fried rice tastes like magi+curry . 5, you saw nothing wrong cos you were broke, denying the truth is a problem and how long will you keep up the charade to hold this gF down? i bet you not even with her anymore! 6. So you wasted your time and spend energy taking her to the eatery paying for transport or walking there.... so you see alot wrong with it. finally you denied yourself good nutrients, who is more evil b/w you and the GF?
Hope you see common sense now! and please buy mouthwash or toothbrush for your smellymouth, if you have halitosis,see medical advice
To me, u all wrong with those point but right when u look at it from a broke nigga hangle. I have a car and I always hold nothing less than 20k when I'm on date n still have my ATM but still yet, I don't eat but only take yorgut
I don't usually eat when I take a lady out. What d guy did is wat I use to do also n most of the time, d lady always force me to take some of the turkey. See nothing wrong in d pic, is even a lovely pic n don't know y posting it here. Is like d op as no job doing when takin d pic
Smooyis: Thanks for your reflective response. Generally many pple on nairaland are zombies and wailers combined. They lack power of independent thinking and respond to issues rashly.
I believe all the teachers in that school can't be that mad as to single that girl out for such punishment. We all know that the teachers seemed to have overreacted but we as parents also sometimes behave alike when we face an unyielding or a child who is not ready to change.
We should be sensible in our comments. Our borrowed attitude to issues of discipline is gradually dipping our future leaders in serious danger. Cane is synonymous with teachers and Wether we like it or not, there are children in schools and at home that will never sit up to correction until they are given a dose of it.
All that is needed is when doing the needful be it the use of Cane or counselling, it should be done with love, and not out of anger or provocation.
The cane thing was common in our leaders generation and even those getting involve in cultism now generation but still yet our leaders still keep embezzling our money n Nigeria still experiencing bad leadership. Now tell me, the western word that don't use cane like we do, are they not better than us when it comes to love and good leadership?
authority2006: At this point, we are talking about assault and battery, the reason for slapping and slapping back doesn't matter anymore. Because judge won't even want to concern him/herself with what caused the battery.
We both saying the same thing, I've just said that for those that are in support of the teachers and the head girl that slapped the girl that has been assaulted
Junior66: wich ur time? ur indomie generation time u mean. the argument goin on here is mainly between the indomie generation and the oldies. canes was very acceptable back then but it is not acceptable any longer by the indomie peeps like u. lols
See, I'm of the 80s and I can tell u that even as wild as most of my school teachers were then, I've never seen them beat a student to dis extence before despite that we all boys
Liam86: oh, so you admit the slap could have been over a trivial issue? for me I don't care what made her slap, kids of that age are also known to abuse the little power given to them.
The question is, why would d head girl slap her at the first place?
Brigadier7: FOR HER To have returned a slap to her senior prefect shows how rude she is!!! She should even be expelled from the school!! Am against the Mal treated but this teachers you are talking about they are mothers and Parents too!! They cant just wake up one mrng and decide to descend on only her!! She must have been rude to them when she was invited to the staff room!! Op tell us the full story and stop being sentimental!! That's you people aid and abet bad children and when they get to the universities, they bcome secret cult members and runs girls and Problems to the society!! Shame on the NPF for wanting to arrest the management without proper investigation!! That what's how I read the other day how a secondary school cultist kiLled his Ex- Headmistress who is a grandmother in Benin, the headmistressed must have been dealing with him in school those days, now that he is a cultist, he decided to pay her back!! @Op your are biased in your account! OP I CHALLENGE YOU AND AM ASKING YOU TO QUESTION THE CHILD AGAIN TO TELL YOU WHAT SHE DID OR SAID TO THE TEACHERS THAT WARRANTED THE TREATED!!! If you decide to go to court remember they can still afford to get lawyers too. And there will be witnesses but student witnesses and Teacher witnesses that will come and testify THE TRUTH! So you better look before you leap!! I have seen a situation exactly like dis, the parent when to court and they ended up Apologizing to the school management and the Child was expelled too!
What they did to the girl is totally wrong. Have u heard of d word suspention or expeltion? Even before taking it to that level, d girl parent are there to talk to first before using those words on her. No matter how rude Ur child may be, u won't be happy seeing her like dis
sexymoma: Why are you still with him cos he s cute, presentable or what? or for pple to see both of you and feels you are lucky to have him? he slapped you once? nor be there e dey start? my sister no how wey u go cover sh1t wey nor go still smell oo
Codedrock: Some mumu here dey shout say Davido spoil Humblesmith song with the remix and actually he just made the song blow.. Now everybody is playing the first version even than the remix.. Go and check iTunes Osinachi is is the most bought at the moment... Some ode people even dey talk say Davido pay Hummblesmith to feature on the song... Seriously?? How can any sensible person think like that??
I have never come across the remix n I love the song. Don't know if the remix will be as good n cool as d original song it self
If he did not resign, una go talk. Now that he has resign jeje, una still talk. Watin man go do for dis Nigeria wey una no go talk self. Na only God go help us for dis country