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Ojumo kan, wahala kan, ogun kan

Congrats papa. I'd like to be like you when I grow old

If I may understand your story very well, your dad violently attacked your mum, the act which i strongly detest and condemn. No responsible man lays his hands on a women. Irrespective of race and ethnicity women are wired uniformly and nagging is in their blood. He shouldn't have done that. Whitemen do the same to their wives. Theirs is even worse cos I had lived among them way back in America in Buffalo.,NY

While the separation lasted, I'm not sure he was allowed by your mum to touch her in bed, which was one of the reasons he had to consider another woman, while he was begging her to take him back. This is quite understandable. It was obviously after the separation(about 2 yrs later) that he began having an affair with the african lady. To be alone without a woman in the west is very challenging and this also affects women who had no husband living with them. During winter, they act as if they're running mad cos the weather would call for it.

Please give your dad the love and care he deserves, I mean all of you. Had he not been separated, this wouldn't have happened, though he caused it by beating your mum,which is a highly condemnable act. Someone said African men are polygamous in nature, maybe he was referring to members of his family and himself. We're responsible people. Had there not be separation according to your story, that boy wouldn't have been added to you. Its also possible he didn't like the boy as he had said.

Some things happen by mistake and you later get to regret it. The african woman was making effort to marry your dad but he's not giving in,meaning he still loves your mum, regardless. Please take him back. There's a man I know, he's very close to Davido's family, through antie dupe, gov adeleke's sister. He made a similar mistake and he hates that boy with passion cos he loved the family. He doesn't even pay his school fees but family and friends are begging him to show love to him so, don't feel disappointed that he didn't like the boy, he meant it.

Encourage your mum and siblings to take him back and live together as one family again. I don't want to ask how your mum has been coping without a man too, for so long. Its not necessary. Concerning marriage, please you're free to marry from any race or ethnicity of your choice, provided you are you're you're gonna find peace and happiness there. That's the koko.

Wahala no dey end for yemen

Arkmanbuddy:
What exactly is her ailment?

She looks like a yahoo girl sef. Are you sure one of the victims whose head is strong hasn't cursed her?

Lol. I dropped a post a few minutes ago under the section where a lady said she aborted for a pastor, several times and mentioned something like this. Wetin dey worry una sef? Genzs will continue to fall prey of fake pastors, fake imams or aafas, babalawos, etc.as long as the refuse to patiently wait on God, be holy and see God sorting them out wonderfully. The main problem this generation is having is, dem no dey hear word. They think they know everything.

Many of them even think God doesn't exist, a reason many of them die like chickens. Quick money or riches is traceable to the devil. A man once approached me on Facebook and said I should come and do arab money for a token,.that money will not be my problem anymore and I'd bee seeing money inside my wardrobe anyhow. I asked him, but why don't you do this for yourself and be rich? Why ask me to pay for the service when you can always do the rituals yourself and be independent with money? He never contacted me again .

They tell you ritual money exists that you should pay a small amount for the service and cos you're lazy, impatient and lacking God's fear, you patronised him and truly money began to drop inside your wardrobe, he later called you and said you'd need to renew the ritual pledge with a goat, from there, a cow from there a human being and you say you no dey do again...you no dey do wetin? Eventually you take your own life cos there's no girl to lure in and kill to renew your pledge anymore or you're caught in the act and jailed. I wish this generation would return to God and all will be well.

Pray4meJC:
What 99% GenZ pastors are scared of saying is what you spilled out here.

This God we are talking about is too sweet abeg.

People are just suffering themselves over nothing instead of submitting to God and enjoy Him forever. Enjoyment go tire you because satisfaction comes from Him alone.

People no dey fear God because they don't know Him.

See the way lazy pastors just dey use people dey play kalo kalo because the people themselves are spiritually lazy. People perish for their lack of knowledge and because they're are foolish.

Ignorance is not an excuse in the eyes of God. Nigerians should keep wasting their souls in the hands of fake pastors. I don't blame those pastors at all.

You've said it all. As you dey see me so, I'm an example of God's favour. His rules are simple but hard to abide by, if you operate in the flesh. To the glory of God, I've been in same hall with Barak Obama in America ,near the white house as the only black african invited. Only God can do this. Psalm 113 says he raises the poor out of the dust and lifted the needy out the dunghill, that He may set him with the princes,even with the princes of His people... So, like you said, God is so sweet.He will shock you with amazing things of life but be holy.

Recently I was meditating on how God chose Joseph's family of all families to birth Jesus cos the family wasn't the most perfect/the richest, neither was Mary the only Virgin in the land. Having reflected further, a thought came through my mind as a question....when a newly we'd couple are done with their wedding what happens next? I answered, honeymoon, of course and you already know the purpose of the honeymoon my friend . But Joseph didn't still touch this woman. God may have been looking for a virgin who was already married in order to formalise Jesus' birth, which is rare to find in any generation cos, except the man is impotent,the night of the wedding must be hęlęlę, but after the wedding, Joseph had not done anything with her.

Though bible didn't record how long they've been married but I'm sure it won't be before , or immediately after her wedding that she became pregnant with jesus via the holy spirit. What am I driving at? Only those who sanctify themselves will enjoy God's grace to the fullest and without any blemish. Shalom!

Hope he's remembering his parents back home before his dad would hit the social media again, begging for money. Most of these celebs are irresponsible. They only live fake life. He really disappointed me and not even only him doing this. You're living large meanwhile your father is wallowing in penury back home, dying of high blood pressure.

One of the fake pastors defaming Christianity. i blame those opening their legs for them. Be careful people. Pastors are human beings first, before that title. Some of them are devil in disguise. If you are sinless and you keep His commandments and can pray to God, He will answer you. What makes many people to fall prey to such men is because they are impatient. They can't wait for God's time. They want fast miracles and money and they end up worsening their own problems. God isn't a magician. Some are destined to marry or make it early while some are to be married late and in line with God's plans.

Some years back, I faced a huge challenge over my business. No house, no meaningful progress. I went into fasting and prayers for 7 days. On the 7th day, I was in abuja to see a client. I fell asleep and I heard God saying to me audibly that, son I've answered your prayers and the response is in the book of habakuk, chapt 2:v3 and the voice ceased. I quickly woke up and penned it down cos I might forget later. When I read it, I was like, God, you're great. That very month, the responses started coming, I achieved all I asked for, in one year, including my beautiful house.

The genz generation will continue to fall victims of babalawo, ritualists, eze nwanyi, fake pastors because they're impatient. Their lives are also riddled with sin, sexual sin means nothing to them. When they pray but nothing happens, they join rotimi daniels saying God doesn't exist. Your body is the temple of God so, you cant be defiling it and think God will visit or answer you, never !

02Kebreal:
People from that Senatorial district do not really have sense the way you think o,
Watch them vote for Bello overwhelmingly

Read the comments of one of them above he's popular on nairaland. Bello just wan dash people money from his loot. Was he not in power when natasha defeated his anointed candidate? He doesn't even have the power of incumbency anymore so, his influence is at stake

Toothless bulldog. Have you forgotten that Fubara's tribe is the majority in rivers ? They'd teach you a lesson of a lifetime

Terrorists dey vex right now. You know what? Your end has come. The sambisa surveillance was just concluded by the US. I don't see them leaving anytime soon, until they accomplish their mission here. I hope the founders of boko haram in borno are warning up already for their own dose cos they will be picked.

In the,west, those guys would not die. Everybody has the knowledge of a CPR. Nigeria is a joke, riddled with sycophants

OriOko88:
Egbon teach us how to perform CPR on accident victims

I think it's even now free online. I'll share the link with you once I lay my hands on one

SisterAnn:
Still 2k in my area.

It's 1,500 at gricery bazaar. Try and locate one of their outlets nearest to you. Na for there we see am for 1,500. Most stores are likely to still be keeping old stocks

Last week. My wife packed it at a mall after seeing 1,500 naira price tag on it. There was a time it was sold for over 2000 and a time it was not available at all.

One man would have died last weekend, had i not arrived on time at the scene of the accident. He was riding a bike on the express in ogun state and was hit. We met him lifeless. We were coming from a ceremony in abeokuta so I stopped and quickly rushed to the scene. Everybody was taking pictures while some others were seen recording a video of his lifeless body. Some women were wailing.

On arriving the place, I chased all of them away, lifted his head a bit and applied a CPR on him. About 10 minutes later, he came back. He had a severe head injury. After resuscitating him, I called on a keke to take him to a nearby hospital. I removed his phone from his pocket and handed it over to him. I ensured he regained his full consciousness before I left the scene.

I'm so sure, had someone experienced in a CPR arrived that scene, those guys accompanying AJ would have been brought back. Nigeria is full of useless leaders and useless followers. This is a disgrace to our emergency response system as a nation, despite having the best hands all over the world. Tinubu is busy receiving treatment as we speak in france but he deceived his followers he was going to Europe on vacation. The country in Europe wasn't mentioned. Na which kain country be dis sef?

No be ordinary. Ogun and weirdo na 5 and 6

Collect everything. I hope part of the funds hasn't been linked to boko haram gun purchase yet.

But my fear is, Tinubu's administration will still loot everything. Ole gbee, ole gbaa. That's the nickname of the apc

udeh3:
Just drove pass the scene cos it happened in front of me. It was so scary

Two white guys died instantly while AJ was at the back of the car unscratched

Haaaa. Tor

Wetin this guy set find for ogun so frequently ? He needs to be very careful fa. This isnt UK or West, where he can flex as he likes. EOP plenti for here oo.

DeepSight:
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What if he actually runs in the primaries for president and loses and accepts to be running mate? You "the obidients" will still reject that?

We will reject that.

ALTERNATEID:
He is lying. He has agreed to be Atiku's running mate. He should stop deceiving his followers.

Because you're in that meeting where he declared it

Good. I hope Atiku can support you at the primaries, same way the apc stalwarts supported buhari back then,otherwise, we'll vote tinubu, a southerner and the devil we already know. We the Obidients in lagos have been receiving series of unconfirmed news reports that you'd be a running mate to atiku but good you're setting the record straight. This is the moment we've been waiting for. As we promised to deliver lagos for you in 2023, same state is in the bag, come 2027 non-lagosians, please keep off and support any candidate you like in 2027 in your states. You don't have any idea what's happening here. A better Nigeria is POssible

HonNL:
Tinubu to spend end-of-year break in Europe

Europe is a continent. The country no get name ni? I think we deserve this kind of treatment as a nation. Any country where falsehood prevails will never get things right. Tell us you're going for medical treatment in france and we'd understand better.

Mrchippychappy:
Watch as their supporters on Nairaland no go talk for this matter. But if Trump drop bomb now, dem go dey shout "sovereignty" up and down.

. They're evil. They pretend to love Nigeria. Sultan, who always keeps quiet on hearing such news is their mentor.

givedemwotowoto:
Peter Obi to ADC. +6

Kwankwaso to APC +2

====================
Atiku + Peter Obi = 6.9 + 6.1 = 13 million votes ✔️
(winner)

Tinubu + Kwankwaso = 8.7 + 2.2 = 11 million votes 🚫
(second place)


Note: I decided not to add or subtract vote from anyone despite the following:

Tinubu failed woefully on economy and security so the “Lagos builder” rhetoric has expired, people have seen him for who he is. 70% of Tinubu’s votes in 2023 came from Buhari. With Buhari’s passing, those 5.5 million votes are expected to be split between mostly Kwankwaso, Atiku, and Tinubu.

Peter Obi on the other hand has gained respect from many. Despite the result of the 2023 election, he didn’t retire to tha background waiting for the next election, he engaged in philanthropy and went about building bridges across the country.

Atiku has managed to stay under the radar, preferring to do groundwork politics behind the scenes.

Kwankwaso has maintained his lane and stronghold.

Shettima has been somewhat missing in action.

If Atiku refuses to support Obi to fly the flag, same way the party members supported buhari back then, I'd vote tinubu, a fellow southerner. I'll feel betrayed by obi. South must complete 8 years shangiliti

blackmantis:
Writing off debt that has been embezzled. The guy that sent his children to school in Switzerland and resigned when Dangote exposed him has not yet been prosecuted. Yet more taxes are needed from the populace.

I just pity the masses in this country, especially those wasting their energy on defending them

Dogalmighty17:
How do you write off such massive debt when the same organisation hasn't still accounted for over 200 trillion naira? How it spent over 7 billion dollars in fixing refineries that aren't still functional?

These guys are just taking Nigerians for a ride. If you like, shout from now till tomorrow, nothing will change. The best we can do to have a working nation is to chase them out of power in 2027. We know they'd want to fight even dirtier than they did in 2023 in order to remain there but if the masses are truly ready, they'd prevail.

Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa. Shame on those supporting these thieves

sonofsteven:
I hate it when supposed literate people talk like this

How can you convert to naira when

A...American dey use dollar, you dey convert to naira to determine if it's cheaper or expensive

Americans are working and earning in dollars

Nigerians are working and earning in naira

Americans are using below 600 dollars, which means an average/ poor American can easily fly to another country or state because it's a 2weeks wages using minimum wage of 5$ per hour

When it comes to comparing prices y'all come up with conversion rates forgetting both are not earning in same currencies

Same person, but different monikers, its ok. Read my response and apply sense, if you will. Flight isn't for poor people like you ok? Flight in Nigeria is so cheap by the time you convert it to USD and it was based on the same reason you quoted for overseas flights earning in dollars. Everyone will abandon air travel locally if overseas rate is applied

Go to any park every season and find out how much road transport is, if you'd reason at all. USD conversion or not, it's same sky every flight flies regardless of countries, they go through same maintenance and spend same amount on parts with their counterparts elsewhere still, airfare here is cheaper, on/off season comparatively. Common sense that you mentioned seems far from you from, your analogy.