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Poco has done well to improve his mum business standard. But i fear she might still wanna go back to do that or sometin similar... Passion is what drives... If someone doesn't come to buy a wine in a day... She no go dey alright, and she won't be able to exibit her cooking skill anymore....

Weldone poco

Abimbola29:
one cold origin for you!!!

Nice one homie

TonyeBarcanista:
Thank God you broke up but learn your lesson!

Your ex see you finish! She has ZERO regards for you and you were the last option for her! She would have married those guys if they were serious. She saw you like an insurance and retirement plan but THANK GOD YOU BECAME WISE and broke up!

Next time: Define your standard

Forgive not a cheat
Any girl that sees another man while dating you doesn't respect you
Any girl that compares you with other men has ZERO regards for you

What is expected of you is breakup without communicating with her!

Thanks bro... Lesson truly learnt....
You quite right, I lost that regard with keeping her back and reassuring her after I bursted the first cheat...

She was suppose to be the one reassuring, not me


Lesson ever learnt...

AussiePlayboy:
I don't think so.. Although not the best approach, but there's nothing really weak with how he ended it. Obviously his confidence and esteem would have been crushed at the beginning when he was still in it, if this helps him get over and get himself quicker, so be it. Although best way to end things like this, is to simply Ghost with no dramas.

@Erums

Thanks bro... I wanted to ghost... But love kept me weak and kept entertaining a come bk....

After I lost the love in me... It dawned

Katsuke:
Well whatever floats your boat, good luck with that

And what ever bike you choose to enter.. Alele

Katsuke:
Well in your bid to sound like a strong man, you actually came out as a weak one, sorry to say.
Beta Male for that fact, I'm not bashing, just stating the obvious

Well bro.. Im. Nt gonna argue with your opinion... There were times I was weak
.. As I said.. I lost confidence.... So your right... But I'm picking myself back... And that's strength

This year has taught me alot on relationship. I dated a lady since 8th Dec 2018, she cheated on me with numerous guys at different times, I was broken, really shattered...
I forgave her.. But trusting wasn't easy.

Now instead of her to help amend back the trust.

She now starts keeping tabs with male bestie
Having relations with her married ex
Even comparing me to new man she met and saying that he such a gentle man and knows how to care for a lady.

That is he wasn't AS by genotype she would have left me fr him..

Now that was when my eyes really cleared.. I have lost confidence because I was literally doing everything to convince her otherwise not to take dat step.

Well I braced up... Took control of the relationship, bleeped her like mad.... Break up, make up, break up, make up again like 5 times...

Now I'm done... Im. Leaving...


Lesson of this is ; don't hurt people dat truly love u, love is dangerous, if they get so hurt it can be miserable for u...

I just made her know dere is no future and she started making plans of how to get pregnant for me....

I let her know I'm. Done... Even if she get pregnant by any means me... I can't trust her

I broke up with her 9th Dec 2019....i year of good lessons to ever live with...


Let him go... Cos u done alot of damage.... Well u repentant... Fixing the trust back is gonna be difficult...

Butterscotch92:
Thank you all for your words. I have picked some lessons from them. But some of your opinions don't define me or my actions in the future. I have heard and I don't have a choice but to keep it moving. I already know all my actions are wrong, I only brought it here not to garner pity but to seek ways to alleviate the damage done and you have all told me the bitter truth.

Thanks to everyone that contributed.

How. Old re u pls?.. Be honest

JERRY1925:
Sometimes when a man genuinely love you.. He wants you just to himself. Your body becomes his pride.. Because in most cases that's the only thing a man values in a woman.. It's priceless knowing you have a girl or a wife no other man can touch.
It's priceless knowing u have a girl u can leave for weeks and she's intact.
But for women it's different, u don't really value our body that much.. U value our possessions, our future.. Our strength and if we fall short, u change course.

Well, to my answer.. If u truly love your man.. Stay away from your friend...stay so far away.
Give your man some month..prove to him you've stayed far. Prove to him it won't happen again..you can do this, by giving yourself time to heal and also giving him some space to miss u. He will come around. But give him time to think. And don't give him room for second thought.

Just learnt from. You.. Your advice so on point... Thanks

dairykidd:
Well, 2004, 300 level, 2nd simester exams.. War, I had exams to write. My niggaz follow me enter campus na so we dey observe nbm's everywhere because dem collect seriously the past days so they're looking to even scores. Me being a friend of my enemies still greet some from afar pass dey go exam hall but at the back of my mind i know say if i no waka well na history i go be so soon. All through the exams na those guys when pose for strategic positions i just dey reason. Luckily for me my young ju friend came to look for me. With sad news of the death of a close friend gunned down at his girls house. Cold sweat broke out omor the thing done near me be that oo. There and then i sent him home to collect my small emergency bag that's always ready with emergency movement items.. I observe my environment those idiots done loose guard so i follow bush path come out campus. Lo and behold a group of nbm's again but these ones are my friends the grooving click. One of them dey grad and insisted i must follow them... see me see wahala devil leave me for waist biko ahh.. I saw my young friend he delivered and looked at me like ( bros u sure say u get sense so) i told him i will be fine but codedly text my right hand to come intercept me at the spot. These nbm's no bold touch me but dem bold sell me na war & na their way. They brought out a crate of chilled beer just for me.. i laugh for my mind.. una dey learn work. Meanwhile my mind was racing calculating my exit plan before u know one black bra babe i have always wanted to fcck was there and telling me how she had always wanted to fcck me too but her guy dey monitor her and she wanted us to use this opportunity to do the do.. another of her friend join the convo they promised a mind blowing party.. foolish me was considering it after some green bottles and weed. Then my right man appeared the scene and pinched me then whispered.. shebi u know say 2 of ur guys when drop na women matter map them.. omor my eyes clear. Meanwhile i overheard those black idiots laughing in a corner saying " no mind am no be him? he go soon drop that small bag na". I just got up like i was going to pee na so my right man follow me i drop am raba take hold him side then cross, luckily one bus loading shouting last chance. Na so i siddon straight to Benin. Unknown to me dem don make control for my head. Hit squad dey come. I dey move. When i take pass school gate dem no know. I done reach Iruekpen my phone wan burst. I no pick until my kid bro called that nbm's are doing stop and search on the road by the scool gate.. I laughed...people for bus dey look me like fool but only me know say assuming i no move when i move baba.. those fools for use my enemy count scores. Some months later after everything died down i saw the babe and called her she denied knowing me.. wanted to give her a lift cos we were driving to school from Benin and we were just two guys. This babe say she wan use bus

That's one of my near death experience... Thank God for life but the carryover no be here sha.

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ambivert27:
Maybe both of them are too stubborn. Two captains can't be in a ship

You said it all... Who will calm down now.. Cos two can't calm down either at the same time

philsbaba:
the gold digger Wan reap where she no sow...... Rubbish

Funny.... Take it easy bro

hayzed1090:
you can't be more correct. those features she listed actually are not blessing to a man in the long run. she probably did not list others I guess

Those she listed where the top notch ones... So that's really her.. Others are passive

Harlequeen:
Yes i am. I am feminine, soft, good company, intelligent, just starting out my career, well read and so much more. The man who i end up with will be truly blessed.

Im postive you got good features, but this doesn't bless a man.... Be mindful

zed7:
It never ends well. I once dabbled into one but thankfully she was a temporary staff and finally left after a year. It was a miserable year for me. It always starts as fun and adventurous, stealing kisses and if you're daring enough, doing quickies.
However, it quickly gets tiring, drama creeps in and you regret the relationship. Going to work every day becomes a chore. Terrible moment in my life then. Avoid dating anyone you will see every day except marriage of course.

Bro.. U just said the fact... Same experiences bro.... I can relate big time... We broke up as drama. Was so much.. I can't even talk to another lady or another lady visiting my office... Choking bro

KingWarri:
Currently in one.... But I will save this thread

Careful bro.. Jyst got out of one

LOWLIFER:
Sometimes you feel all the figures these celebrities put out is a joke taken too far. But for Davido you might not just be sure.

Boys are balling hard and I am here homeless and living as a destitute.

What an unfair Life.

Ask your dad... Where was he wen adeleke... U know de rest

kolladey:
I will quote you when it is out.
PTDF Scholarship is very competitive but you can get it, you don't need to know anyone before you get it.
I got it this year, through the Grace of God.

I will be grateful.. Yea I believe I can get it too... Weldone sir

kolladey:
Hopefully by Dec.

Ok, I'm actually just getting to know abt this... Would have tried it out earlier

Guys please when is the next application coming up?

Idonweak:
Yeah, I am concerned about my friends irrespective of gender. She's my best friend.

Best friend.... I hear yu

dollytino4real:
am just say wat someone said if dey don't like u to give a job

Can't comprehend

sylvez:
You are actually stupid my guy...
I was once this stupid...
I experienced exactly the same thing you are experiencing now....
When i confronted her about one of the guys, she said how will i be asking her weda she is seeing a married man, that the man is a married man na!!!

To cut long story short, i love my woman but sometimes love is not just enough...

We didn't break up, three weeks ago she told me she will travel for a cousin's wedding...i didn't know she traveled for her traditional wedding....she sent me the pictures today and informed me that her white wedding is next weekend.

We never broke up!!!

All the while i was dating myself...It's so painful but you just have to let go....

She did all these to me when i needed her support for my professional exam coming up next tomorrow.

I loved her but see my life now

Bro, you're not been serious.. Are you?