Why is it that good people end up being treated badly.. I still wonder sometimes why it happens that you’re a good person but at the end people tend to treat you bad and worthless why

Talking about relationship also, you spend on her, take care of her, show her love and affection yet she either cheats on you or dump you without even you doing anything

P:S don’t quote me because of my previous threads because I’ve experienced this in both male and female gender..

What can someone do just to be ready at all times for any heartbreaks also not to expect everyone to be good because you’re good to them

Truly life no balance

BronzeMajik:
I'm not understanding this op.. first of all you have been in the relationship for 3 years already... With no plans of settling down till 5years time..
3+5=8 years
And you're here complaining she's changed, why won't she?
You expect the young lady to continue to service your sexual needs for 8 years without any plans in sight?
Please borrow some conscience seems like you don't have any.

To those saying that I’m just using her for my sexual needs you got it all wrong

Ever since we dated in the 3 years we had sex not up to 7 times

So how am I using her for my needs then because we don’t really see each other and when we do it’s not everytime we have sex

pansophist:
Your relationship has ended long ago, you're only just suspecting the confirmation of it now. Also, she wants the future and perhaps, her conscience not to torment her, so she gave you conditions that would make you break the relationship yourself. If you break the relationship, then you played to her plan all along. It's what she want, and she has even suggested it to you, that you break up if her conditions does not suit you.

So bros, respect yourself and break up. I mean, the relationship doesn't exist anymore, so there is nothing to break, but by breaking up, it is about indifference. Just pack up mentally and leave. Chances are that she has met someone else. But I'll advice you one thing, if she comes back in the future, trying to sneak back into your life by saying you're the one thay broke up with her and playing the victim, ignore her totally. She is not trying to burn bridges, hence she wants you to break it off yourself.

Understand that she is coming back not because she suddenly realise her mistake and value you now, but it is always because the other option didn't work out. Refuse to be an option, back up plan, or the one a woman will settle for. I know you're in love, and high on emotions right now, but if you still sustain the relationship due to scarcity mentality, you'll have yourself to blame. The right decisions might be hard, but it is the right decision.

Thank you so much

Good morning everyone. Happy Sunday..I’ll be straight
I have a girlfriend of 3 years, we’re good,everything’s okay all of a sudden she changed.. she said no sex again till marriage and marriage we’re talking about is like in 5 years time not anytime close ..I was still arguing with her to give me genuine reasons she’s just saying it’s a sin, ok accepted what about romance and cuddling she said no again I asked again what about kissing each other she said no all of a sudden she said we should not see each other again that even if we want to see we’ll meet on the road or some public places.. I got so suprised that why the sudden change and decision she took without considering me.. she said if I’m not okay with that we should just end the relationship, she’s not feeling remoseful if we end this.. and it’s not that we’re seeing everytime, like we see once in two months because of distance ..I’m not someone that cheats and I told her that if she say no intimacy between us it will give us problem in our marriage because truth be told my mind would have gone away from it that I might not be sexually attracted to her again.. please elders what do you think I can do about this.. I told her I can’t go on with her decision that we have to plan it to favor each parties..
I’m thinking of telling her mother about her sudden change and this issue because I’m close to her mum and she likes me so much..

Should I just let her be and end the relationship or tell her mum about this.. cuz I’m confused

If you’re in my shoes what will you do ?

Please move to front page mods

Thanks everyone for your answers.. I really do appreciate

Good afternoon everyone.. I had a dream and I’ll brief it as possible
I dreamt that I was somewhere in the midst of ladies and they try having sex with me. The more I try to wake up from my dream, the more it gets difficult for me to open my eyes or move my body.. All my body is just stiff not until a lady said I’ll let you go but you must first cum.. I tried not to do it but eventually did it in my dream and immediately I woke up my boxers is full of sperm.. I felt so weak, sad and disgraced that I prayed immediately.. NB: ever since I’ve made a promise to God that I will stop masturbation and watching porn, I’ve been having wet dreams almost everyday even in the afternoon.. I’ve stopped since early June but something has been whispering in my mind that it won’t let me get free from masturbation that I’ll be in the bondage.. I don’t know what to do again. Anyone that can interpret this dream for me and tell me what I can do next and psalms I can pray with. I haven’t been really happy all through today ever since that dream

SmellySperm:
I said it. The heartbreak will reach everybody. You need the pill to stay strong

Xenry:
E don happen!

SadiqBabaSani:
Dunno know, Just Give her some time and tlk to somone to talk to her

That’s what I’m thinking of doing

Hello everyone
My girl just cut off our relationship of 2 years. We had a misunderstanding which resulted to this, tho I’m at fault in some aspects.. I called to beg her but to no avail.. she said she has had enough of me.. I just need help on what I can do. I can’t afford that to loose, she’s one of the best soul I ever came across.. we’re not living in the same place, the distance is far and I can’t go and see her for now.. everyone I need advice on what I can do please

Mods please front page

Empiree:
holy spirit is scam in christiandom. I will give you example. If every Christian had "holy spirit", how come your ways of worship differ?. Yet you all claimed to have holy spirit. There is nothing like holy spirit. Pastors used the phrase to scam members.

Holy spirit is Islam is Angel Jibril (Gabriel) and he didn't start inside anyone. He only delivered messages to prophets and messangers of God in the past. And he has hundreds of wings.. How's that inside a christian?

You don’t understand anything about Christianity.. Just keep mute... Be fine and be well in life

Empiree:
you don't need to abuse me. Empty vessel abuses other. You only need to refute me with reference that I'm wrong.

By abusing me shows you are not "christlike" as you people claimed

Lol.. what you said earlier really got me.. sorry about that.. if you don’t understand and read through the Bible without the Holy Spirit discernment don’t just post anything you know nothing about

Wallade:


So where did this statement of yours come from?


"..... Palestines forcefully removed it.. so won’t the police react back..

Where did you see the Jews attacking the police if not the hamas..
Abeg go back to Google to read"

Again, get your facts right, Israeli police attacked people in the mosque during Salah, desecrated the mosque, destroyed parts of the mosque and shot rubber bullets at people in the mosque.

It was long before sallah that the hamas has been fighting the police not just yesterday or whenever they did salah

I’ll say again go back to read

Wallade:


So where did this statement of yours come from?


..... Palestines forcefully removed it.. so won’t the police react back..

Where did you see the Jews attacking the police if not the hamas..
Abeg go back to Google to read

And you can’t understand that simple statement
Let me bring it down for you
I said
It was only the hamas attacking the police not the Jews attacking the police

You get that

Krismas:
What am I reading thru Palestine is a UN recognized observer state since 2012! The only official disputes are from Israel and the United States! Ok u show me Gaza on Israel’s map! U won’t find it, so wot are they doing there? Nigeria has no Bakassi on her map yet was claiming d place. It’s d same thing with Israel. Let dem get out

I get what you’re trying to say.. I’m only telling one person over there that Palestine was never a country but only called a sovereign state

Empiree:
But you have been UNABLE to provide biblical evidence to back yourself, nor were you able to come up with rational argument. Do you want to hear?.

There is no Jesus Christ in the bible. There are five to seven jesuses mentioned in the bible but Jesus Christ is not one of them. I will not give you references because you are ignorant person. Yes, I will teach you Bible and your religion because you know nothing.

These are number of jesuses mentioned in your Bible.

1. Jesus Barabbas
2. Joshua
3. Jesus, son of Eliezer
4. Jesus Justus
5. Jesus, the son of Sirach

So there is nothing like 'Jesus Christ'. Jesus Christ was invented by White people from Europe and imposed on you to worship them. There is nothing, I mean there is no power in Jesus name. This is scam.

Are you learning?

Please which bible did you read.. is it the one your father wrote.. Nonsense ignorant fool

Wallade:


Your thinking is ridiculous, who mentioned Jews attacking police. You are just so rigid in your thinking that you have determined it was the Jews or Hamas that were in the mosque.

Gaza is not under Israel, please get your facts right. I wonder where you get your speculations.

And did I mention Jew attacking police.. see me see wahala.. You no fit read again ni.. Maybe I’ll break it down to your low iq so you can understand

In simple words hamas attacked the police and the police reacted back. Hamas first launched missiles into isreal and isreal gave them back to back.. And Gaza or Palestine is still recognized under isreal.. Palestine is just a du jure sovereign state.. Go back to read

Krismas:
Then, u can see how little u know! The state of Palestine �� is a country recognized by UN since 1988. Its administrative centers are West bank and GAZA STRIP. Gaza is another country, so let Israel stay clear.

Palestine is not a country but a de jure sovereign state.. Is that one now called country.. Don’t you know what a country means... Research well and read through

Empiree:
Baptism is English word. Every religion has their way of baptizing new converts. In Islam, "baptistism" is SHAHADA or testimony of faith in i:e to testify to the Oneness of God, and believe in all His prophets and messangers including Abraham, Moses, Jesus and Muhammad and not discriminate them.

Example of baptistism in Islam is:

"I testify that, there is no deities except Allah and I testify that Muhammad is His messanger".


all prophets and messangers of God were Muslims. None of them practiced any religion other than Islam. We do not dispute with the Jews about Abraham, Moses, Jacob etc as they fondly proclaimed. You noticed they don't mention Jesus anytime they recited the phrase right?. That is because they discriminate God's prophets and messangers which Islam warns us against (ref ch. 2 v 285)

We also detest Jews and Christians historical lies about these prophets and messangers of God. For instance they lied about and blasphemed against Jacob. Bible says Jacob was drunk and slept with his daughters Genesis 19:30-38


Bible also said Jacob fought and defeated God(may God protect me from such outrageous creed). Gen. 32:22-32

But in the Quran, Islam honors all the prophets and messangers of God as righteous and obedient people who submit to God's Will. As for son of God taking sin of the world, this kind of narrative is false. No humans take over another man's sin. Everyone to his own.

Our believe in Islam is, we believe in God. We believe in Angels. We believe in His Books. We believe in his messangers. We believe in what has been revealed to us (Quran). We believe in what was revealed to Abraham, Ismail (Ishmael), Isiak(Isaac), Jacob, and their offsprings. We believe in what was revealed to Moses (Tawra) and Jesus(Injeel not Bible) and believe in other prophets from their Lord and we submit to Allāh (God) in Islam. Quran 3:84. That's, we do not say 'we believe in xyz prophets and reject xyz prophets like Jews and Christians do. Anyone who rejects any of the prophet of God is not Muslim. Such person becomes disbeliever.

Just so you know, those people lied to ignorant people to deceive them and take them away from the truth that Islam brought. If they truly believe in the Lord of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, then they should be Muslim instead of using those prophet names to deceive the masses.

I can’t even read it to the end.. what lies and cooked up story is this
Bible never mentioned or stated Jacob fought with God.. how is that possible.. Don’t you think before you write or don’t you do research.. spits

Wallade:


Oga, it was the Israeli police that marched into Gaza to give protection to the mob that intends to grab Palestinians lands in Gaza. They were bold enough to come close to the mosque and that was provocative especially during Salah.

What was the Israeli police thinking? They worsened the case by attacking people in the mosque with rubber bullets and other dangerous weapons. They desecrated the mosque on the excuse that the worshippers were throwing stones and bottles at them.

It is obvious you know little about the development that resulted to this situation in Gaza. Google is your friend, please read about it.

Please oooo where did you read it on Google so I should read mine too?
At first the Palestine don’t want to share the site with the Jews and as a result of that the police had to be there and besides Gaza is still under isreal so the police have every right to be wherever to ensure peace and then the Palestine always clash with the Jews because of the holy ground wanting to chase them away and the police came mounting barricades and the Palestines forcefully removed it.. so won’t the police react back..

Where did you see the Jews attacking the police if not the hamas..
Abeg go back to Google to read

Krismas:
Gaza has always been d headquarters of the PHILISTINES who today are called Palestinians. Gaza was NEVER part of d promised land. Wot therefore concern Israel wit Gaza in d first place? Why police another mans country?

Please oo is Gaza recognize as a country because I haven’t heard of that.. Nonsense and ingredients

Wallade:


Just imagine that you were born a Palestinian who coincidentally recides in Gaza with your family and resources. Would you hold the same opinion?

I have never supported fulanis forcefully taking over people's land and renaming it in the middlebelt. So I will not support Israelis grabbing the lands of Palestinians in Gaza and claiming that God gave Israelis the land.

I remember Y. Arafat asking Ariel Sharon to show the burial ground of his father in Israel. Arafat reiterated that he would show the world his father, grandfather and great grandfathers burial grounds in Israel. Does that mean anything to you?

Palestinians are the aborigines of the land. They are not dead, they didn't relocate, they are here majorly in Gaza. Israel should not force herself on another nation.

Please elaborate on my hypocrisy.

Isreal are not forcefully claiming anyone’s land here.. The hamas wants to chase the police away from the site which is not possible.. That’s what led to this

Please do your research well before ranting here.. Thank you

WaffenSS:


You'll either wake up from your manic delusions and live, or you'll be in your mental prison and die disappointed.

Thank you and it doesn’t affect you in any way

brightalo1010:


I asked a simple question shebi you said you do like christ answer me the christ you Claim you does like did he support killing for any reason? That question is something you will skip because you no longer does like christ on that aspect, so stop the hypocrisy since the question is hard for you to answer. What did Jesus said to Peter against those that terrorized him? Christ like indeed.

So In this case what should isreal do?

WaffenSS:


If that's how your god works, completely foolishly and yet you call it "mysterious", then you can have him.

Yes.. Thank you for your time. Remain blessed. Jesus loves you and you’re always welcome to the kingdom of God

Clergy20:



I like the strand of your argument, and the fact that you are seeking for peace. I also want to commend you for dishing out some facts about the ongoing conflict between Israel and Palestine. However, if you're truly a christian, like you claim to be, and read your Bible as much as you read to dig out facts about this conflict, you will understand that there's hardly going to be peaceful coexistence between these two, because what you see today is a fulfilment of Bible prophecy. They are both from the stock of Abraham, but were set out to be against each other until they fulfill the plan of God. Netanyahu might not be your ideal leader, but the truth is, you'll hardly find a leader from both sides who would coexist with the other side. I will encourage you to read the story of Abraham, Ishmael, Isaac, Esau and Jacob. And please, takenote of the prophecies God made concerning these people, then relate that to what you see today, and if you are a believer in the word of God, you will understand that no man can really make peace between the descendants of Ishmael and Isaac or Jacob and Esua. Ishmael is the elder, just as Esua is the elder but God had said the younger shall be greater than the elder and the elder shall serve the younger. Ishmael shall be against everyone and everyone shall be against him, and that is what you see today about the Arabs. It is not about commonsense, it is not about Netanyahu, it is about the word of God coming to pass.

Gbam!!!

WaffenSS:


Well i question your god because that's the dumbest plan ever, to have your chosen people persecute and murder your "only begotten son" and have them still deny him 2,000 years later and counting.

Tell me how that helps you christians.

I can never argue with an atheist like you. I pray God Almighty gives you vision to see all

WaffenSS:



Hahahahaha

Jews don't believe in your christian jesus.

They had him crucified as an impostor, and to this day jews are waiting for their real messiah.

Nigerian christians are such fools.



By the way it's Israel, not isreal.

It’s according to God’s plan that the Jews will persecute Jesus.. No one can change that because it’s God work and no one can question him.. so get that

brightalo1010:


You see the hypocrisy of naija Christians are second to none on earth. So there are no Christians in Palestine? I thought God is for everyone and he God condemned killing and revenge? Most Christians chooses what suits them whenever it favors them. I thought Jesus ended the eye for an eye laws? You want to do like Jesus christ. Tell me where Jesus supported revenge or killing of any kind.

But should Isreal just fold the their arms and be looking while the nation is being destroyed.. Remember it’s the hamas that first launched missile into isreal .. isreal also ordered the civilians in hamas to vacate the buildings before they blow it up

So please stop blaming isreal hamas started all this

AndyCole16:

And I don't see any good reason for this uncouth statement.

I can’t argue with someone like you.. I see how you think.. Be well and stay safe. May God give you understanding. Amen

barojana:
Isreal is a country with a nuclear arsenal of same size of those of France and China.

Even if you gang up and win Israel then it would fire 200 nukes as parting gift to the Arab world.

Btw Lebanon is looking for trouble. Nobody is going to pity Lebanon when Israel fighter jets carpet bombs the sh*t out of Beirut.

Isreal is not a christian nation that would be preaching peace o. They have Moses and David kind of thinking. The entire israel population can handle armor tank.

Lalasticlala

Thank you for this.. Let them reason

AndyCole16:

There is no where called holy Land again... Israelites have long been abandoned by God long ago because of their stiff necked and tendency towards evil.

These are still the same nation that killed Jesus tagging him blasphemer.

Why do people think like fish.. it has been layed down by God that the Jews will kill Jesus and that’s the only way Jesus could die and pay for our sins