tjskii:

Private clinics are convenient and fast,but thyre not as thorough as govt clinics,I use a private clinic but I tell u,most of dem doctors can be very incompetent,I'm d one always insistin on certain things(urine test,pcv,scans etc)wich is smthn I shud av at evry appointmnt. Wen my baby threatened to come early,I askd my clinic if they had incubators for premature babies and they said no(this is sposd to be among d best private clinics u can get in ibadan!smh),and this is not peculiar to my hospital alone,so wat was sposd to happen if my baby had come early,they wud av transfered us to a govt clinic. I wud advise u use a govt clinic esp,if this is ur 1st baby,but not just any govt clinic,try to go to d major ones(lik uch in ibadan or luth in lagos d equivalent of these that u av in d state u reside),if not for d fact that I had certain issues wth this pregncy,I wudnt ave realized ow incompetent most private clinics are,bottomline is that whichever clinic u choose to go,put urself and ur baby into Godz hand,cos hez d only one that guides and protects 100%

Thanks so much I was jst concerned dt I av not even done anything like scan or taken drugs.

Hi everyone i stumbled on this thread sm days ago n i've really been enjoyin it.
I'm 14wks preg n tryin to start antenatal at a govt hospital though we av a private one but everyone has advised i go to govt hospital even my sister a nurse in a private one. Since i've been tryin to register (since it takes days) i've not seen a doctor do you think i should go back to d private or just wait for d govt one. Thank u

Imagine the wife still thinking of going there, animals dt has tasted human blood must be killed immediately, their fate should be to be killed (all who ate of his flesh even the cubs). Yeah

It is well, i understand hw u must feel now cos some years ago i experienced something of sort but Glory to God, today its a testimony. So,the God that brought back my sister will bring her back safe and sound and you will testify in Jesus name.

Yuck all are disgusting but i hate d ice-cream with poo d most God help me to eat tonight without thinking about it.

Thank you both i can do that aspect of dancing indoors on weekends cos i work in an office where i may not even get up throughout the day and wen i eventually get home im usually so tired to even go for a walk but i'll see to the dancing thanks.

Hi, this is my first pregnancy i dont know if i can do some exercises as am now gaining more weight than i would like, i dont do exercises before i got pregnant and my pregnancy is 14weeks.
if i can, pls what types can i do and can i start now.
Thanks.

greatgod2012: @op, how old is this your BIL, does he not have work?. The guy doesnt even have anything to do in your bedroom at all, the bedrom where you and your hubby usually do the do, abeg, i cant take it, let me be honest with you, apart from my kids when they started coming, no one has ever entered our bedroom, that is our private room for goodness sake, tell him you dont want him in your bedroom anylonger and when his brother(your hubby) comes back from work, tell them together that you dont want him in your room anylonger, if he wants to take something there, he should tell you and you will go and bring it for him, tell them straight to their faces that, that is where me and your brother have to ourselves to perform our conjugal duties, so, he should respect that, unless he want to be a party to it..... Period.
Sincerely, as far as im concerned, you are too lenient with both of them,(your hubby and BIL). Im very tolerant, but i dont give a damn when it comes to continous nonsesnse. Abeg, talk sense into his brain, not with a loud voice or when angry, for example, when fighting for remote control, just tell him, "na wa o, how many wives does this man have in this house, or bro so-so, you funny o, you are here fighting for remote control with me and your mates are in their workplaces, o ga o."etc.


And as for your husband, tell him how exactly it is with you, no need to fear, he is your husband, tell him you dont like the way he shares his clothes with his brother, that, its a disrespect to you as his wife, he can dash him the clothes and get other sets of clothes, and he should at least respect you, if he cant respect himself.
Also, as for your private things like your purse or your bag, tell the two of them at the same time, that you want your private things to remain private and that you dont want anybody except your hubby to touch such things in the house again, say it to their faces, so that, it wont be like, you are an hypocrite or you dont like him(BIL). Also, tell your hubby that dating time is different from marriage, that there are some things you could overlook while dating but with marriage, you cant....etc.
Remember, if you are not firm with this issue, both of them will continue to treat you like baby of the house, so, you have to stand up and fight for your right in your house.
Infact, sorry about this question, how old is your hubby sef, he should understand that this is marriage now.
chei, how i wish some women are like me, chai, tani je gbena woju ekun

i dey gbadun u joo
but seriously se d brother no get another place wey im go live, abi kini gan.

Infact its ur husband that has a whole lot to do in this matter n thats if he sees things wrong in wot his brother is doing, like that joke ur husband was there he could av said ehn wot do u mean by that i dont like it o #jokingly too#.

Respect Sir.

Mr Aboki:


Jesus is still nursing injuries from his last visit..

He now realises that the heart of Man is truly wicked.. Of we could drown new babies in wells, then imagine what we would do to his grown arsss..

U be Aboki indeed,wot has this got to do wit wot serious minded pple r discussing.Mtchewwwwwww

engr j(m)
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this is so funny

@op, the link is not openin, but i hope they all r well prosecuted

He had his chance wit genevieve but threw it away,n i tot i heard his mother wants a 'sister' for him.

From where I come from,its the woman's duty to take care of her husband nd home.does ur husband not take care of ur needs nd that of ur baby?I'm not saying its good to be dirty but this is were u come in as the wife.how can u even say he didn't wash his toilet nd bithroom for 3months?while he is out there struggling for money to take care of the home,u shld be taking care of the ones he can't do.nd as for the boxers,anytime u see him repeating his boxers,tell him(baby,ok ok its time to take the boxers off)nd make sure there are clean ones for him to wear,wash the dirty ones nd u will see him changing boxers every day.if u keep nagging him abt those things,he will be forced to get someone who will be doing those things without having to complian.what is there is u comb ur husbands hair if u feel he is unkept.call him(baby,dirty man)any time he messes up the toilet or the house but still clean it cos its ur duty,yes it is cos if u force him out of the marriage,u will be the one to cry later.goodluck.

The op neva said she wasnt working or makin money in any way, so in ur place the women sit at home 24/7 doing nothin but house chores n wait for dear hubby to com put another baby as them be the factory,mtcheeeeew. @op i can just advise u pray about it n talk to him lovingly let him see reason as to y u need him to be neat for the children's sake if he cant do it for himself, but first put it in God's hands as there's nothing God cannot do.

this is like the best thread i av read in a long long time. thanks for coming up with a thread as this. though not yet married (soon to be) i believe i'll soon be married to God's Best Man for me

@ffo u are quite funny

of late i've noticed that the devil is really waging war against the body of Christ with the weapon of masturbtion. it is in our churches pls let us fight against it. God is helping us.

You be MUMU, she dey BOBO u life

u talk my mind but its beta to wait o u know pre marital sex is a silent killer

And i am sure catholics get stories that all those who are non-catholics will also perish in hell. That is about everybody perishing in hell, don't you think?

well i dont think so, im just particular about catholics pls help me i need responses

don't you think so?? no are u a christain

Yes
are you a christain

Nowadays i get more stories of the fact that all catholics will perish in HELL but i do not want to believe.This pple say we worship Mary and that is idolatry but we do believe Jesus is the son of God pls enlighten me.



JESUS WILL SOON COME O HELP

ok

Recently from a sermon i deduced that being born again is different from being a christain. that it takes a born again to become a christain ie christ like------ being christ like in terms of how jesus did while on earth in terms of prayer, compassion, giving and other attributes of jesus.

Is this deduction right or they are the same

is there a difference between a christain and a born again.

thank u lord for a good day its nighttime and we are assured of your divine protection.Thank you lord.