I dont seem to understand what all the friction is about, the op just decided to say his mind but unfortunately for some women it seemed to have hit a wrong side in them, someone else may open a thread tomorrow directing the advice to the men so y not just read, take whatever u can from it and if u gained nothing therefrom move ahead.
I read thru it and just tot of it concerning my man im i doing these things? Do i need to get better in some of them or im just good with how i am ?
thanks op ur points are noted.

mayblossom: congrats Anjy on your baby. she has enough yams for a lifetime. And hummingbird, sorry abt the boys, tot that's wot you wanted though
I´m 34wks gone and the scan shows my baby is breech. the doc suggested another cs if the baby doesn´t turn by week 39, he said trying to turn the baby via ecv is risky because of my previous cs 2years ago. has anyone been in this situation before or does anyone know what I could do to help my baby flip. I really want to avoid another cs because I have nobody to help with my very energetic 2year old while i heal,hubby goes to work. I´m really anxious.

Sorry ma, you can pray about it as there's nothing God can not do we will also put you in our prayers, the baby will turn to the right position and come out strong and healthy in Jesus name.
Iyabeta it is well, i didnt av a scan until after 3months plus, so my throwin up had reduced a great deal before then God will take Control e pele.

@idnoble better leave mr frosbel he is an ajeri and all he does is argue let him be

The poor will always be with us, give them today they will come for more tomorrow, but y not quickly do that of God,
what you all r debating about d muslims do not av such opportunity they take offerings to churches to be blessed and u who av d opportunity to give u r here raisin unnecessary noise.
I was suprised when a muslim friend of mine told me categorically that she knows christains are richer than muslims i av never tot of it before but after she said it i realised it was true and its no other reason than because we give. It is the most natural law in the bible.
Some pple were talkin of Tb joshua, Dangote u know of them because they call media when they want to give, what happened to God's word that says when u give dont let ur left hand know of it.
Moreover the so-called Adeniran thats into 'what was it again' corrupt leadership smthing, how many politician has he investigated, hungry journalist wey dey struggle for lime light, i mean i av never heard of him before.
Oh God my father pls Bless me to give to Your work Amen.

Honey86, tjski n all thanks for ur reply, i think i'll jst stick to my folic acid n vitamin B co then.

anjyskye: morin all join me in prasing God, i've been delivered of a baby girl. Mcfemad, humming bird tsjkii oyaaa make una begin bring yammmmmmsssss oooo

Congratulations o Anjy, Olorun a wo Olorun a dasi,Welcome new born baby.

tjskii: Anjy congrats ooo ,so happy for u,I don send d yams na,usman never reach ur side ni

Good Morning.

Good morning all, thanks hummingbird for that info, iyabeta u r highly welcome the lord is indeed is worthy of praise,
@joilin pls reduce ur salt intake o, my legs av started swelling n I was told it d salt I take that's much.
@ all pls my leg is swelling n someone suggested I start taking pregnacare as iit helps to reduce it pls hw true is this. Btw I'm 20wks old

@op the situation is not abot ur job, infact u maintaining ur job will go a long resolving this challenge. I believe u know him well n he cared for u when all was good wit him, it mite be frustratn or low self worth, he mite want to be d man again.
My advice is that u shuld now operate a joint acct, give him all access to d acct, he may want refuse but assure him that's how u want d family to be I.e him being in charge n u could even go d extent of taking permission from him before u take money from the acct though its ur money.
My dear wit all these he will be assured of being d man again n pls Pray about it.
Don't worry about giving him all ur right. The Bible says "A wise woman builds her house but d foolish tears it down with her hands." Be wise dear peace at home is more to be treasured than material things.

One thing God gave to man forever is his will, i mean will to make woteva decision he likes, that is why he will judge everyone individually.
Muslims in the house you av heard it at different times what christains preach and what they are about but its up to u to decide on what to do about it.
All i will say is that y dont u ask God Himself for the truth whether Islam is the way to Him or not, ask in truth and let Him show u the way. It is well with u.
My fellow Christains it is no time to argue or abuse people for whom Christ died pray God shines His light on them.

this is quite funny o, make them sofri keep everything for the girls they'll av in d future.

ehiblessing: Am 7weeks gone and am new on NL my first months has been stressfull, i had pains all over my bossoms as if i was carring a bag of cement on my bra but recently has been totally diff, every evening is hell 4 me am always running temperature, crious cold,and am always hungry, last night i woke up with a very sharp pain on my stomach i was feeling it up to my back for staright 15 minutes b4 it came down pls what can i do 4 d cold cos dats d most crious problem nw, n wht could ve been d pain i experienced last night cos it was so painfull. Pls i need answers

Sorry about d cold n temperature, I experienced crious cold n catarrh smtime ago which also caused headache but all I used was to lick vitamin C for about 3 days n I was good even b4 d third day. It is well dear.

Weldone doc, im 19wks preg and for 3 days now i av been feeling a sharp pain on the right side of my abdomen (lower part), when i want to poo or pee it aches even more, i av not complained to my doc as it just started n my next appointment is still 3wks away. Pls is there a cause for alarm cos i know there's the normal once-in-a-while pain in d lower abdomen before but this one is more than the usual pain i feel before.

Thanks everybody, i slept quite early yesterday so i couldnt reply to my birthday messages, ese o and Amen
@Hummingbird ur boy (Adedoyin)has alot of money to pay o,since he's now sharing name with us

honey86: congratulations. one of your babies is my name sake, Adedoyin. olorun a wo won o. Enjoy.

@honey86 i guessed as much.

Good morning to all, How was ur nite? Today is my birthday o n i crave some sugary sweet things God help me, the pile i have is not yet gone n i no wan add join am.

@OP By 'your people' do u mean ur parents or your younger ones?
its good to give to ones family but are you married, so that if u begin to have more responsibilities they wont think its ur wife that turned ur back to them.
If its not just a family u send such amount to per year its ok but if its d same family year in year out they may make more demands as time goes on thinking u r very rich.

My dear, it is better to be as open as can be in marriage no matter wot one has done in d past or has not done,
Ur fiance is a straightforward person he does not want hanky-panky thats why he tells u everything, it is a very good thing in marriage believe me u will be grateful to God that u both r open to eachother. nothing should seem odd for u to tell him.
i told my then fiance everything my parents said b4 our wedding both good n not too good, today they r very close they cant speak with me without talking with him as well.

The Lord that brought you this far will not leave you, Son hear the voice of the Lord 'you shall not die but live to declare the works of the Lord'. It is well with you in Jesus name.
madam, continue to confess Ps118:17 on him it is well ma.

double blessing: Pele hummingbird,pls try and rest o. I learnt pap and kunu helps breast milk flow;but pls watch your sugar intake(especially from beverages) cos of yourself and the great ones.

For me,it's like 1st trimester symptoms are back o(nausea and throwing up),though I'm an ulcer patient,I dunno what to do,it's so frustrating.

Also,I'll like to ask:pls which is better for newborn,boots products or Johnson's?


Do have a fruitful day people.

same thing with me about the throwing up thing o, this morning i could not stand the aroma of my hubby's meal though he forced me to eat but i threw up after about 30mins,i hope to eat soon but pray it goes. my sister it is well,make we just dey take one day at a time God go help us.

@udoka i use shea butter as well, though not from day one but i can say d marks came even before i went to test that i was pregnant,and my tummy is completely smooth but i dont understand this one.
@fnor im in my 18th week thereabout n i think i can feel the movement little by little its so funny hw it works i like it o
@honey86 dont worry about this episiotomy thing they've said the joy of havin ur LO in ur arms will clear d pain off ur mind moreover God will see us thru.

@esosa this thread is about 4 yrs old, so wot happened? wot did d coy do

What exactly r u suspecting,
Is it that he may be married b4 you without telling u,
If u want to search for info there must atleast be a specific thing on ur mind that u r looking for
I know what curiosity can do hweva, so my advice is whatever u r looking for dont let him find out u r digging some things until u've got enof evidences to proof u were right in ur gut feeling else he will think u dont trust him.

@OP, it was an issue between my then fiance(now my hubby) n i cos we are not from the same tribe but then he talked to me in a very gentle way making me see why i should take up only his surname n now i write it PROUDLY,enjoyin the questioning look on peoples faces when they see the tribal difference in the name.
Dont be surprised that a lady may want to but pls take it easy with them n talk sensibly on y it is better to respect their hubbies with his name.

I sure support the 'beat your own back' cliche but i dont support it if its my kid that started the fight,i hweva want to ask that some kids are quite bigger than some smaller ones is it still advisable to tell them to fight back as it may lead to a bigger fight?

Ladies in the house pls im noticing some stretch marks on my boobs n its giving me concern cos its not pretty at all, is it normal or wot can i use for it,i've not even been bold enof to tell d doctor.

Givers

harlos: Don't you know i sleep anytime i feel like at nights?but mostly around 12:30am, wake up anytime from 2:00am. Then back to sleep at 5:30 towards 6:00am and up again at between 8 and 9:00am... Isn't that a chicken sleep?

9am? u no dey go work?

Hummingbird: Thank you all for the good wishes..may we continue to celebrate more babies by God's grace..my birthing story is quite a long one n I will say the ones I can remember...wen I later got home on Sunday,I was throwing up,hubby gave me the ORT but it seems it wasn't working,I was feeling very uncomfortable,den I sneaked to d kitchen,took a very chilled lacasera n drank it,I felt relived,anytin I wnt to throw up,its d gas dat comes out,went insyd d bathroon,took a cold shower, came inside and slept(hubby was makin lots of cals,contactin pple),arnd 12, I woke up to pee n I saw water on d bed,hubby wasn't asleep yet I cald I'm,he smelled it,n he askd me to start dressin up dat my water jst broke..he had already contacted his collegues so I was to give birth in a private hospital,by d tym I got inside d car I cudnt move my leg again,my breathin was becomin faster,we got to d hospital in Agbara around 1am..by 2.3oam,I was 8cm dilated, den I was getting real tired,hubby was ncouragin me,den he said I asked him to sing my favourite song for me(if that's what it takes by Celine Dion),by 3am,I cudnt sit again,I was jst telling God to forgive me all my sins cos I tot dat was the end of the road

Honestly this is quite funny but i understand,thank u for this gist.
Mothers to be in the house na only God go help us.

God has really been good to us on this thread we need to sing praises infact I feel like dancing already,4boys in july glory to God.

Congrats to the new mummies tjski and hummingbird, e ku owo lomi o God will keep them o e pele mas. Waoh I'm quite thrilled with all this good news I'm jst seeing o. Ti wa na a de o Amin.

ask him to stop shouting SHUGAR everywhere he goes

Just because she said that doesn't mean she thinks u r a fool