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Family / Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by esmeralda1(f): 4:23am On Feb 16
Ilamina:


Yes Niger Delta

He asked where in Niger Delta
Family / Re: My Wife Is Pushing Me To The Wall To Start Hitting Her by esmeralda1(f): 12:22pm On Jun 16, 2017
eyinjuege:
Its a pity you feel the only way you can resolve conflict is by violence.

I would advice you to pray and break every generational curse.
If you want to get things done right, do it yourself. That's an old saying, that works.
If you feel she can't deliver your errands properly, then do them yourself.
Most arguments are avoidable. She asked for 300K. Simply say you don't have, and you're still trying to look for money for your rent. Afterward, just press the ignore button. Choose selective deafness.

The day you lay your hands upon your wife, that's the day your marriage in the true sense of the word will die. She will owe you no allegiance again.
One thing most men don't realise is, most women hardly ever truly forgive.
They may pretend to, they may even act all docile but are patiently waiting for the perfect time to strike back. The perfect time may not be 6months, some can even wait decades to pay back a 'debt'.

There is always a peaceful way to resolve issues most time.
As per the spicy food, people make and sell stews/soups on NL. All looking delicious. Go to the food section. Tell them your requirements about the pepper, and I'm sure they would oblige you.
Keep your own soup separate, and let your wife know this is how soup suitable for you should taste. Its not a fight or quarrel. In fact invite her to partake of the soup.
Just always have a backup in your freezer for days when the pepper gets too much. There are times when you don't get it perfectly right when cooking, it shouldn't really be a big deal. Its just food btw

This i agree with.
From everything you said there's not one single reason for you to hit her yet except you do not a tough skin to resist whatever she does.

@ bolded, now that you mentioned this, i think i can relate because my parents marriage has always been turbulent, my dad hitting my mum once in a while, begs her for forgiveness and you know she actually endured the marriage till we 4 girls got married, immediately the last girl left the house to her hubby's place my mum moved out permanently we (My Dad inclusive) are still begging her to go back but she refuses

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Family / Re: Wedding Night: House Or Hotel, Which Is Preferable? by esmeralda1(f): 11:54am On Jun 16, 2017
bukatyne:


@OP:

I believe the wedding night (virgin or not) is symbolic and the first legal sex you have in your marriage (again considering the fact that you both have never been sexually intimate and you are a virgin) is extremely important.

Several people might had sex on that same bed... yes, the sheets are fresh however sex is more spiritual than physical and I doubt you want to consumate your marriage (the final step of the joinning) in a public place.

Do home on the wedding night, and honeymoon after thanksgiving. Even if there are a lot of people in your home, they will give you both space.

@breakfast and cleaning.... I don't know the breakfast and cleaning you are doing on your wedding night oh! Get food from the wedding or buy fast food.

Happy married life in advance.

I agree with this 100%. Do it at home if not, a godly hotel will do for example

there are hotels in camps, try anyone.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Shell Nigeria Graduate Recruitment 2017 by esmeralda1(f): 11:12am On Jun 16, 2017
Is there anyone that has gotten a positive love letter in this particular advert before i declare this recruitment a SCAM

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Sports / Re: Nigeria Vs Germany: Predict & Win by esmeralda1(f): 7:37pm On Aug 17, 2016
Nigeria 2
Germany 1
Nairaland / General / Re: #freeese: 10 Things You Need To Know About Ese Oruru Saga by esmeralda1(f): 1:57am On Mar 02, 2016
There is more to this ese's story than meets mere eyes
Celebrities / Re: Your Husband Or Your Brother, Who Will You Like To Be Richer by esmeralda1(f): 8:18am On Feb 26, 2016
I wouldn't like to keep begging my broda to give me some funds to do stuffs every time I need money, but I don't mind doing it with my hubby.
Most preferred is that they are both rich, but to choose I would my hubby any day any time
Celebrities / Re: How Would You Rate This Chika Ike’s Sexy Denim Jumpsuit (see Photos) by esmeralda1(f): 8:12am On Feb 26, 2016
Ebayray:
undecided Op, where the pic na?
Celebrities / Re: Cossy Orjiakor At Funnybone's Untamed Show (photos) by esmeralda1(f): 8:36pm On Feb 25, 2016
Na wa shocked
Celebrities / Re: 10 Things Nigerians Should Know About Comedian AY by esmeralda1(f): 4:19pm On Feb 25, 2016
Educative but how does it relate with his breaking home

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Celebrities / Re: Funke Akindele To Remarry As JJC Proposes by esmeralda1(f): 1:55pm On Feb 25, 2016
This just confirms that this lady is dull as much as I like her I am just disappointed at her choice of spouse. Better be single than married to another mistake.
Must it be a Muslim, a man with 3 children from 3 diff women I mean is she mad?
Why do you think you will be different from others I'm too disappointed.
She just seem so dumb, that I like you won't stop me from telling you the truth funke.

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Crime / Re: Are Military Officials Above The Law? by esmeralda1(f): 7:37am On Feb 25, 2016
No I believe they are not above the law, but some just choose to be bad
Business / Re: Dollar = N197 by esmeralda1(f): 10:06pm On Feb 24, 2016
Thank you for explaining in simple understandable terms

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Celebrities / Re: Fans Accuse IcePrince Of Bleaching After Flashing His Knuckles (photo) by esmeralda1(f): 10:18am On Feb 24, 2016
Its undeniable, I mean see charcoal knuckles and you tell me it's natural are you for real

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Celebrities / Re: Eniola Badmus Shows Off Her Makeup Skills (photo) by esmeralda1(f): 9:24pm On Feb 23, 2016
seangy4konji:
Fine girl Orobo mulato.

I go still knack you.
Knack ke for all Mata wey dey ground na knack dey ur own Mind. Konji master

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Politics / Re: Time To Beg Okonjo-iweala To Come Back - Femi Aribisala by esmeralda1(f): 5:10pm On Feb 23, 2016
StarMogul:
People like you,I weep for..Nigeria's education system is at fault somewhere.
WEEP for yourself joblessness at its peak
Celebrities / Re: American Ginuwin Accuses Nigerians Of Scamming With His Name,Nigerians Blast Him by esmeralda1(f): 10:45am On Feb 23, 2016
When our president has dragged us in the mud in their presence how won't they call us thrash. Nonsense!

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Celebrities / Re: "Boring Asshole" - Fan To Jlim Iyke, Jim Went Hard On A Fan by esmeralda1(f): 10:41am On Feb 23, 2016
Every tribe claims they are respectful yet insults flies everywhere at every corner pls where is the respect and FYI respect is reciprocal.

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Politics / Re: Time To Beg Okonjo-iweala To Come Back - Femi Aribisala by esmeralda1(f): 10:36am On Feb 23, 2016
Op summary would have been better, the post is just too long.

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Phones / Re: Why I Hate GLO Data Service With A Passion: What Of You? by esmeralda1(f): 9:59am On Feb 23, 2016
Ok
Crime / Re: Police Inspector Shoots Motorcyclist Over N500 Bribe by esmeralda1(f): 4:00am On Feb 23, 2016
It's a serious prayer not to have any business with Nigeria Police.
Meanwhile Police is your Friend.
Crime / Re: Boss Damages 13-year-old Apprentice’s Scrotum In Lagos by esmeralda1(f): 3:56am On Feb 23, 2016
So for una mind una don put pixture abi. May God grant him speedy recovery IJN

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Culture / Re: Most Beautiful Flag In Africa by esmeralda1(f): 3:50am On Feb 23, 2016
amtaken:
My green white green is the best.
I concur this flag just be like Chelsea Jersey

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Romance / Re: Could My Neighbors Be Ignoring Me Based On My Looks? by esmeralda1(f): 3:47am On Feb 23, 2016
What happen to your looks?
Crime / Re: Valentine Day Turned Bloody At Oworoshoki, Lagos by esmeralda1(f): 12:42pm On Feb 15, 2016
So pple actually organise parties for valentine?

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Education / Re: FG Sacks 13 University Vice-Chancellors by esmeralda1(f): 9:50pm On Feb 13, 2016
OK
Celebrities / Re: Olajumoke Orisaguana And Husband Eating Eba And Ogbono Soup (Photo) by esmeralda1(f): 8:33pm On Feb 12, 2016
Ok
Celebrities / Re: Kate Henshaw, Beverly Naya Rock ''natural Hair' To Surulere Movie Premiere(pics) by esmeralda1(f): 8:06pm On Feb 12, 2016
Beverly Nayas rocked the hair but Kate's cloth is off the hook

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Celebrities / Re: Chidinma, Tiwa Savage, And Dr Sid Strike A Cute Pose Together (photo) by esmeralda1(f): 3:22am On Feb 11, 2016
Topman0001:
Tall, taller; tallest

And it may not be intentional

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Fashion / Re: WOW! Have You Seen Mark Zuckerberg's Wardrobe? by esmeralda1(f): 3:16am On Feb 11, 2016
Pls what's the difference in all the hanged clothes.
Na wa see the life of a billionaire.
If he was a Nigerian as he changes cars, so he will change clothes, women, he will always be on frontpage on NL

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Health / Re: A Nairalander Just Lost his Best Friend by esmeralda1(f): 9:21pm On Feb 06, 2016
Andremani:
Mods, i think you should move dis post to where it belongs(front page) it wnt take anything frm you, jst one last favour for the dead. Tnks in advance.

Is it the op dt died that you said its a last favour for the dead or the dead asked for front page before he died?


RIP to the dead.

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