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How come no one has announced that Premier Paints Plc has returned back to the Stock Market after 4 years of being Suspended? |
Kobojunkie:That's smart |
Highly educated does not mean highly successful in the real world. Outside classrooms, most degree holders are lost, broke, confused, and waiting for instructions. Highly educated people are not usually successful in life. Traditional schools don’t teach m0ney. They teach obedience. They train you to be a good servant of the system, not a master of value. That is the dirty secret nobody tells you. Academia rewards compliance, memory, and patience. The real world rewards problem solving, risk, leverage, and execution. That is why many PhD holders are begging people with no degrees for jobs. One group mastered theory. The other mastered reality. Now look at the truth they hate to discuss. Most billionaires are not PhD holders. Many didn’t even finish school. Aliko Dangote studied business related courses and went straight into trade and manufacturing. Elon Musk dropped out of a PhD program because building companies paid more than writing papers. Jeff Bezos studied engineering but didn’t become rich by being an engineer. He became rich by building systems. Mark Zuckerberg dropped out to build a product that solved a problem at scale. Notice the pattern. Education was optional. Thinking was not. The secret is simple but pa!nful. School trains employees. Money rewards owners. School teaches you to wait for instructions. Business teaches you to give instructions. School grades effort. The market grades results. Nobody pays you for how hard your exam was. They pay you for value created. This is why highly educated men often struggle. They were trained to seek permission, certificates, and approval. The real world does not care. Customers don’t ask for your GPA. Investors don’t ask for your thesis. Money follows solutions, speed, courage, and execution. My brother, don’t misunderstand me. Education is useful. But if education is not combined with street sense, financial intelligence, and courage, it becomes a cage. Stop worshipping certificates. Start learning m0ney, sales, systems, and leverage. Read Rich Dad Poor Dad, The Millionaire Fastlane, Think and Grow Rich The Richest Man in Babylon. Then apply ruthlessly. If this offended you, good. Truth hurts before it frees. The point has been made. Class dismissed Till I come your way again. |
lukui:Amen ooo |
Panadee:Hahahahhaha. |
Today 21st January, 2026. This Thread has officially reached 10,000 pages. What a run!!! A thread that was started on 13th December, 2012. That is about 14 years ago.... Wow, wow, and wonderful. What are we going to use to Celebrate this thread at 10,000 pages? |
12 reasons why a woman may never text first, but still responds, when you do.. 👇 If a woman never texts first, but always responds when you do, it can be confusing and frustrating. These are 12 possible reasons why this happens: 1. SHE HAS MANY OPTIONS - Other guys are also texting her, so she gets a lot of attention and may not prioritize starting conversations with you. 2. SHE IS UNSURE ABOUT HER FEELINGS - She hasn't fully developed interest in you yet, so texting first feels like extra effort. 3. SHE'S HEALING FROM PAST RELATIONSHIP - Bad experiences have made her cautious about emotionally investing again. 4. SHE Doesn't LIKE TEXTING - She may prefer calls or face-to-face communication instead of messages. 5. SHE HAS OTHER PRIORITIES - Family, work, or personal issues may be taking most of her attention. 6. She's genuinely very busy - Her schedule may be packed, and texting isn't at the top of her list. 7. SHE PLAYS INACCESSIBLE ON PURPOSE Some women avoid appearing too available so they won't seem desperate. 8. SHE EXPECTS YOU TO ALWAYS TEXT FIRST-If you've always initiated, she's used to that pattern. 9. She's AFRAID OF COMMITMENT - Emotional closeness triggers fear because of her past. 10. She's NOT CONFIDENT IN TEXTING OR WRITING - Poor English, slow typing, or fear of making mistakes makes her avoid starting conversations. 11. SHE ONLY WANTS SOMETHING CASUAL - She'll reply politely but has no interest in anything serious. 12. SHE MAY NOT LIKE YOU OR She's INTROVERTED - Either she isn't interested romantically at all, or her quiet personality makes her unlikely to reach out first. The overall message is that not texting first doesn't always mean disinterest, but it could be a clear sign depending on the pattern. The advice is to observe her behavior, communicate directly if needed, and be willing to walk away if real interest and effort are not being shown. |
The poster is not well educated. |
UniLag is shining! 🎓 1,211 students are set to bag first-class and distinction degrees at the 56th Convocation Ceremony. The standout students are: - *Umeozor Chukwuzubelu Benedict*: Best Overall Graduating Student with a perfect 5.00 CGPA in Business Administration - *Oloton Deborah Isiuwa*: Best Graduating Student in Sciences with 4.91 CGPA in Architecture *Graduation Stats:* - 617 First-Class Honours, 92 Distinctions (Bachelor's) - 502 Distinctions (Postgraduate) - 4,543 Second-Class Upper, 3,910 Second-Class Lower - 1,023 Third-Class, 69 Pass, 330 Unclassified *Postgraduate Stats:* - 479 PGD, 41 Distinctions - 5,148 Master's, 429 Distinctions - 119 Ph.D. graduates Kudos to these high achievers! 🎉 |
50% of widows know why their husband kpaid, e shock you abi? Yes a lot of widows are widows by choice, they know what happened. If you doubt me consult your village deity and host event to reward widows, when they come forward ask them to take oat they have no hand in their husband's death — you'll understand. Not every widows is a widow by circumstance, alot of them are widows by choice, they planned it and executed it, they got rid of the innocent man to enjoy his wealth or to continue their bed to bed life and ashawoism. Many of them kpaid their husband so that they will enjoy total freedom, they want to become sheep without herder, they want to enjoy uncountable number of preeqs on the streets. Any village or community you see alot of widows check very well there is high rate of promiscuous w00men in that community, w0men that wants to control innocent men badly and if they fail they will swing into action to kpai the innocent man. Some will start p0isoning him gradually while some will hire hit men to do the dirty job for them, some are very diabolical they know all the babalawo houses in that community. This is why you have to be very careful as a man and should vet her properly before giving your commitment. Not every widows deserves your one naira, some just need — "eh ya, so sorry ma, it's well, God will help you" and you will move. While some just need your holy heavenly ordained preeq to thoroughly vaaannddalize them and disappear like nollyw00d ghost. One may asked, what do you have to justify your claim. Bro, do you know that in Igbo culture and some part of Africans — once a married w00man started having affairs with another man while her husband is still alive. The moment she start collecting m0ney from her secret lover and use it to cook for her husband and he eat knowingly or unknowingly — there's 80℅ chance that the husband will kpai, and mostly by sickness. So how can you defend that the w00man is innocent? The l!ife of a man is already hard, don't make yours harder by marrying a bad wife. Learn or perish. Class dismissed. Till I come your way again. Keep following for more. |
Stockpromoter:The Rate at which Chams Plc is going, it may likely hit a new 52-weeks Highest Price before the end of this week, and that means a new ATH. |
SonofElElyonRet:Before the coming of Zichis Plc, let us list some stocks that lost steam and gas since after they were recently listed in the Nigerian stock market. Cases of Much Ado About Nothing. 1. Aradel 2. Geregu 3. Haldane McCall 4. Legend Internet 5. VFD Group Will Zichis Plc likely be their Number 6? |
Bro stop wasting your energy and resources on one sided relationships. Stop being the one who always makes efforts. Stop being emotional about your relationship with her. Stop allowing your desire for lust control you. Stop over texting and calling. Relax and let the ship sink. It is not your duty to always start the conversation. It is not your duty to always text first. Don’t settle for anything one sided, you’re not a slave. Remember there was a time you don't know her and you're fine, so why is it difficult to understand she's not into you, and let her go. Never get too attached to any w00man unless she also feel the same towards you, because one sided expectations can mentally destr0y you. When a w00man truly loves you — She will cook for you. She will clean for you. She will give you kids. She will do a whole lot you ask her to. She will obey almost every command. She will support you in everything. She will sleep with you. Don’t settle for any less than this. If she is toxic —let her go. If she is not submissive — let her go. If she is disrespectful — let her go. If she doesn’t spend on you — let her go. If she's really into you. You will not need to send airtime or data before he can call or text you. If she’s not reciprocating your energy, let her go. If you are the one who always makes efforts and texts first, leave her alone and focus on your life. You can't continue like this bro. Class dismissed. Till I come your way again. Keep following for more. |
Rejecting someone but staying close to monitor who else accepts them is a clear sign of witchcraft you don't even know you're practicing. It is wickedness to reject a man or w00man, and still be the one hovering around to see who’s getting close to them next. You said you don’t want them. You said they’re not your type. You made it clear you’re not interested. Why are you still watching like a hawk?. Why are you suddenly triggered when someone else shows interest? This is not concern. It is not love. It is witchcraft. It’s the kind that creeps in slowly, the one you practice without even knowing it. How else do you explain the habit of keeping tabs on someone you rejected, just to ensure they don’t move on too fast? This is not about protecting them from harm. It’s about feeding your ego. It’s not about checking if they’re okay. It’s about making sure they don’t get happier without you. That’s not a caring spirit. That’s a controlling one. And the worst part is that it looks harmless, but it’s dangerous. If this is you, then you need deliverance. And not from a pastor alone, from yourself. Because a heart that says no, but still manipulates the aftermath, is a heart that’s already dancing around witchcraft. You can’t break a person and then cage their healing. You can’t leave and then block the door for others. This is a generation where people don’t want you but don’t want anyone else to want you either. That’s not just tox!c. It’s demon!c. Let people go. Let them breathe. Let them find joy beyond you. Stop monitoring. Stop hovering. Stop manipulating. A man or w00man you don’t love is not your responsibility to the police. Reject them and stay out of the way. Anything short of that is wickedness. You’re not being protective. You’re being oppressive. And if the thought of them moving on and being happy without you makes you restless, then it’s your soul that needs healing, not theirs. Witchcraft doesn’t always look like candles and spells. Sometimes, it looks like rejection dressed in control. Sometimes, it looks like silence covered in stalking. Sometimes, it looks like your no still clinging like a curse. Let people go. Completely. If you’ve said no, your energy should not remain where your interest does not. If you’re stuck in this mindset, don’t just confess it, seek deliverance. This generation needs to heal from emotional manipulation dressed as loyalty. Say what you mean. Let go when you must. And grow beyond the need to monitor what you’ve already thrown away. You cannot say “I don’t want you” and still be angry that someone else does. It’s not just t0xic behavior. It’s witchcraft, and you need to be delivered. You need to change Class dismissed. Till I come your way again. Keep following for more. |
Bro before you settled for her. Before you choose any w00man, you must consider these five things, if you miss any of it, you will pay dearly; 👇 Physical appearance — You must consider her Physical appearance, if you are not physically attracted to her, bro don't go for her or don't marry her. You need to end up with a w00man that her physical appearance triggers your jamtomos. Don't marry someone you will wake up in the morning beside and feel like running. Be wise and careful. Organic desire — You have to end up with someone you are strongly emotionally connected too, if you are not emotionally invested in any w00man, you can never build anything with her. Unless you desire her naturally, you are not forced or coerced to end up with her, you will never find peace with her. Share values — She must be someone that you know her value systems and know that you can live with her. Her beliefs about life, religion, music, tribes, language etc. It matters, her view of life in general is key, she has to be someone you understand and you know you can accommodate bro. Not promiscuous — A w00man who is promiscuous will destr0y your life, she will make your life miserable, her past will be your d00m. No matter how beautiful she is, bro avoid marrying such a w00man. No selfish w00men — A selfless, kind and considerate w00man should be your goal bro, don't joke with this one. Don't end up with a w00man that always want to make everything about herself, benefits and gain. You will suffer. Learn or perish. Class dismissed. Till I come your way again. Keep following for more. |
Bro, understand that men don’t fall in l0ve with a w00man’s achievement. We don’t. Never have. Never will. She can be a CEO. A surgeon. A lawyer. A PhD holder. A boardroom assassin. A successful business w00man. It does nothing for how a man feels about her. Men don’t fall in love with titles. Men fall in love with peace. With femininity. With softness. With warmth. She can earn six figures, run meetings, lead teams, and dominate corporate spaces. That’s fine. Applause at work. But if she come home competitive, combative, loud, rigid, and masculine, she Is not a wife, she Is a coworker. And no man wants to clock into another job at home. We don’t want competition in our living room. We don’t want perf0rmance reviews in the bedroom. We don’t want power struggles at the dinner table. We want peace. If she can’t or won’t cook. If she despise cleaning. If she reject submission. If femininity offends her. Then her degree doesn’t make her attractive. It makes her irrelevant to serious men. This has nothing to do with ego. It’s biology and order. A man will choose a respectful waitress over a rude lawyer every single time if she treats him better. Because her promotion won’t nurture children. Her independence won’t build a family. Her résumé won’t give him peace after war. Men build outside, w00men soften the inside. That’s the balance. Break that balance and don’t be shocked when men opt out. Marriage is not a LinkedIn collaboration. It’s a home. And homes are built with warmth, not credentials. These are also the cause of most marriages. If this offends someone, it wasn’t meant to comfort. It was meant to clarify. Learn or perish. Class dismissed. Till I come your way again. Keep following for more. |
Today, let's talk to our sisters, daughters, wives and even friends. They told you div0rce is just part of life. Overweight is self love. No responsibility is freedom. Hookup culture is empowerment. Over exposing your body is self expression. And now they’re pushing the biggest lie of all — there is no right or wrong anymore. But that lie wasn’t designed to free w00men. It was designed to weaken them. To distract them. To scatter their minds. To drain their energy. Because a confused w00man is easier to manipulate, easier to influence, easier to control. And let’s be honest, it’s working. So many w00men today are depleted, emotionally numb, restless, angry, and empty. Not because they are br0ken by nature, but because they followed br0ken advice. They traded God for celebrities. They traded modesty for attention. They traded discipline for validation. And instead of calling it what it is — confusion, they renamed it empowerment. That’s how deception works. It gives p0ison a pretty name. But here’s the part they don’t tell you. You still have a choice. You can reject the noise. You can train your body. You can discipline your mind. You can strengthen your spirit. You don’t have to bow to trends. You don’t have to live for applause. You don’t have to follow a culture that is clearly collapsing. You don’t need to be perfect. But you must be powerful. Grounded. Rooted in truth. Clear headed. Strong enough to stand when everyone else is bending. Do this for your future. Do this for your children. Do this for your family. Do this for yourself. Because in a culture built on lies, anyone who chooses truth immediately stands out. Learn or perish. Class dismissed. Till I come your way again. Keep following for more. |
Bro don't chase s€x, food and entertainment. You will succumb to them and end up miserable and depressed. Understand that happiness and fun are a femicentric construct. They don't exist in the dictionary of men. Your life is ending one minute at a time. A man must live for a purpose, a man must d!e for a course, you are not here for fun. You are here for a mission. Accomplish it or d!e trying. Chase meaningful purpose not happiness and fun. There is no perfect time. Make a move now. Set the date. Set the bait. Win. At a certain age, you have to think long term. Focus on your career and goals, savings, find someone who you'll hustle and pray with. You can no longer afford to waste time. Focus on things that matter in the long run. Stability, loyalty and peace of mind. Opportunities cost age, take risks while you are young. One day you will go to bed a 21 year old and wake up at 29, then realize there are things you could have done while younger. You are lucky I'm telling you this now on this page, so think about it when you're less busy. It's easier to fail at 23 and restart at 25, than to attempt at 30. The older you grow, the less the support. You are on your own. As a man, nothing is ever going to be given to you, everything is going to be earned. If you don't go out there and put in the work, you definitely will be without nothing. Keep working, your day is coming. Consistency will take you to places, don't stop. Negative energy won't push you forward, it will only make you stagnant. Nobody believes before you begin. Nobody believes before you start. Nobody believes when you are coming up. Everybody believes in you when you make it. Stop needing other people to believe in you, you need to believe in yourself, they'll catch up. If you don't give up, you can't fail. Keep going. Never force anything like; 👇 Conversations, friendships, relationships, attention, or love. Anything forced is just not worth fighting for. If the w00man in your circle aren't wanting to grow, its okay to drop them. Value yourself. Don’t be like a headless chicken. Know your worth. Not asked = Don't give your opinion. Not invited = Don‘t go. Not told = Don‘t ask. Late invites = Decline. You were never part of the plan you‘ve suddenly become a convenience. Speak only when your words add value. Develop your critical thinking skills, unleash the potential within. Think more logically, and creatively. Master your mental abilities. Unlock the mysteries of your brain. Master your mind. Master your life. Go to where you are needed and don't try to force it. You should understand that if you are not called then there is no need to go. If you were prioritized then you would have been called. Don’t chase other people and don’t be anyone's second choice, know your worth and decline. I never understood people who invite themselves. I would feel awful doing that. Do it and regret. Respect your time but importantly yourself. This is for your heart, body and soul. Lear or perish. Class dismissed. Till I come your way again. Keep following for more. |
Freshtruth:Diamond098454, this is from Freshtruth |
TheBreastSucker:Diamond098454, this is from TheBreastSucker |
Ladies often get angry when a guy denies them money because many perceive financial provision as a core, traditional responsibility of a man in a relationship, often equating it directly with love, care, and commitment. While some, often referred to as "entitled" or "lazy" in some threads, may use relationships as a survival mechanism, others view it as a necessary,Two-way exchange (transactional) where they offer companionship, affection, and, in some cases, submission in return for financial support. Here are the primary reasons for this reaction: Financial Support = Love and Value: Many women believe that if a man truly loves her, he will provide for her needs voluntarily without being asked. A refusal to give money is interpreted as a lack of affection or a sign that he does not see a future with her. The "Provider" Expectation: In many Nigerian cultural contexts, men are seen as providers, even before marriage. A man who cannot provide is seen as failing in his primary role. Transactional Relationships: Some perspectives suggest that relationships are viewed by many as transactional, where a woman provides companionship and "takes care" of the man, and in turn, the man covers her expenses. When a guy does not provide, the "contract" is seen as broken, causing anger. Entitlement and Misplaced Priorities: Some discussions argue that a "culture of entitlement" exists, where some ladies believe they are owed financial support regardless of the man's financial state. Fear of Being "Used" (by the girl): A common sentiment among guys is that a girl who doesn't ask for money doesn't love the guy, because she is not relying on him, making the man feel unneeded. Conversely, a woman may feel "used" for sex if the man is unwilling to invest financially. Shame and Rejection: Some suggest that when a lady goes out of her way to ask (swallowing her pride) and is rejected, the anger is a defensive reaction to shame and rejection. Men should avoid "parasitic" relationships by being clear about expectations early and not feeling obliged to fund a lifestyle they cannot afford. |
Ladies often get angry when a guy denies them money because many perceive financial provision as a core, traditional responsibility of a man in a relationship, often equating it directly with love, care, and commitment. While some, often referred to as "entitled" or "lazy" in some threads, may use relationships as a survival mechanism, others view it as a necessary,Two-way exchange (transactional) where they offer companionship, affection, and, in some cases, submission in return for financial support. Here are the primary reasons for this reaction: Financial Support = Love and Value: Many women believe that if a man truly loves her, he will provide for her needs voluntarily without being asked. A refusal to give money is interpreted as a lack of affection or a sign that he does not see a future with her. The "Provider" Expectation: In many Nigerian cultural contexts, men are seen as providers, even before marriage. A man who cannot provide is seen as failing in his primary role. Transactional Relationships: Some perspectives suggest that relationships are viewed by many as transactional, where a woman provides companionship and "takes care" of the man, and in turn, the man covers her expenses. When a guy does not provide, the "contract" is seen as broken, causing anger. Entitlement and Misplaced Priorities: Some discussions argue that a "culture of entitlement" exists, where some ladies believe they are owed financial support regardless of the man's financial state. Fear of Being "Used" (by the girl): A common sentiment among guys is that a girl who doesn't ask for money doesn't love the guy, because she is not relying on him, making the man feel unneeded. Conversely, a woman may feel "used" for sex if the man is unwilling to invest financially. Shame and Rejection: Some suggest that when a lady goes out of her way to ask (swallowing her pride) and is rejected, the anger is a defensive reaction to shame and rejection. Men should avoid "parasitic" relationships by being clear about expectations early and not feeling obliged to fund a lifestyle they cannot afford. |
Bro, stop over investing into w00men who haven't earned it, or who you're not yet married. Rather learned how to invest into you. Stop over investing into w00men who are just paddling around you as friends, with little or no sense of commitment — you should know them when you meet with them. Bro there's this particular girl around you, who has friend-zoned you — no intimacy, no commitment but you keep spending on her. She don't crave or want commitment — but she bill you blue and black. She talk to you only when she need a thing from you. She quickly halt r0mantic talks whenever you try bring up any. Bro again — stop giving wife's energy to a girlfriend, she isn't one until she would be. She wants to be every where identified with you. She wants you to stand on top of the tallest roof and announce her to the whole world when it's not due. She's not wanting such because she wants you badly or loves you badly, she's only trying to secure a spot — because of how unsecured she feels as she ages. She shouldn't rush you. Stop assuming exclusivity without imperial evidence. Stop thinking what protects from betrayer is how much you've got to offer or how much you've offered. What truely protects you is discipline, being aware and your standard with the grace of God. You can't keep a w00man bro. Only a w00man who wanna be kept can be kept . Keep this at the back of your mind. Class dismissed. Till I come your way again. Keep following for more. |
2RightHands1Coc:I understand and respect that |
Brother listen up — there is no trophy for the man who slept with the most w00men — None. No medal. No statue. No respect waiting for you at the finish line. Just memories, diseases, emotional baggage, and wasted time. The world does not reward male lust. It exploits it. There is also no trophy for the man who claims he lasts ten hours in bed. First of all, that’s nonsense. Second, even if it were possible, so what? You don’t get richer. You don’t get stronger. You don’t get wiser. You don’t get power. All you get is applause from people who are also lost. Men are being distracted by n0nsense. While you’re chasing bodies, your youth is leaking away. While you’re trying to impress w00men with stamina, other men are building leverage. While you’re giving your best years to pleasure, smarter men are investing those same years into skills, m0ney, networks, discipline, and authority. S€x does not build empires. W00men do not hand out medals for access. Pleasure does not compound. Power does. Bro sop giving w00men your youth for free. Stop burning your energy on temporary validation. Stop acting like being desired is the same as being respected — it’s not. A man is respected for what he builds, controls, and leads. Not for how many beds he’s been in. Your twenties and thirties are not for flexing. They are for construction. Learning. Growing. Failing. Refining. Accumulating power quietly while everyone else is busy chasing fun. By the time the party is over, the disciplined man owns the room. The rest are just stories. If this woke you up, share it with a brother who still thinks pleasure is purpose. Learn or perish. Class dismissed. Till I come your way again. Keep following for more. |
Please why do pregnant women put pin in their head or stomach during pregnancy? |
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