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mozona:
Is fornication not a sin, how can he preach against that to his congregation sometimes I wonder how you think. If am in that church and I witness this scandal I will leave. People follow him for a reason, so he should live by example.

Who will know you left? Nobody cares if you leave or stay.

Mention all the jobs you hate to see a Lady doing

Mention all the jobs you hate to see a Guy doing.

Diamond098454:
no no no please ooooo my name is not good here at all.......

Tell me why you think so. Whatever is the issue, you and I can solve it together.

Diamond098454:
thank you and God bless you for saying the truth.

Am I right?

Diamond098454:
Ada George

Three bed room duplex in a self compound

If you are closed to that place or around that place

Please tell us how much it cost because it won't come out of my mouth

My name doesn't sound good in NL

3 bedroom duplex in a self compound at Ada George area of PH should range between 2.5m to 2.7m for each Year. But I believe the total package for the initial years should be around 3.5m or thereabout.

Diamond098454:
Ada George

Three bed room duplex in a self compound

If you are closed to that place or around that place

Please tell us how much it cost because it won't come out of my mouth

My name doesn't sound good in NL

Who says your name doesnt sound well on Nairaland? It does ooo. You are actually now the most Popular one on Nairaland. Right?

ExudeLoveToAll:
Most of you think pastors are different from same persons you meet everyday in life if you think like this you are very naive and need a lot of growing up. He just acted like the normal people do in Nigeria so there is no big deal. I would have seen it as one if every other person behaved differently.

I like you. You speak the Truth like me.

JuanDeDios:
A house? She's homeless or something? Well, I guess he can assist her with rent if he can't give her a house outright.

Some Ladies don't ask only once. You either don't give at all, or you get ready to give forever.

jaxxy:
u will be shocked she was sleeping with other men while dating this pastor and has had other relationships after they broke up but wants to destroy his marriage cos she is still unmarried.

You are the best.

Zocalite:
Lolzzzzz 🤣

You mean a person who says he's a pastor should be s3xing around?

Then marry you one

Lolzzzzz 🤣

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Zocalite:
You are wrong

If a secondary school boy is befriending a secondary gal, it's not big deal

But a teacher in the same school must not try that to a secondary school gal

Let me take you back a little. Alcohol and Cigarettes is said to be bad for those below 18 years.

Question: Does it now mean that Alcohol and Cigarettes is very healthy and beneficial for Adults?

AllBlack:
Keep playing yourself.

Hahahahhahahaha

Diamond098454:
married woman can have feelings for another man the same way you men have feelings for other women

Seems like you have started to see the light of the Truth. Hahahhahaha


Humans are humans. Let us stop expecting too much from people. That's all I have been saying.

Choiceone1:
Then he should stop being a pastor and start enjoy sexual immorality legalised by u

He does not need to stop being a Pastor just because he wants to have sex with any willing Lady.

The only time I will criticize such a man is if I hear that he raped a lady. In fact I will take it personally to deal with such a man. But so long as she is not raped, ladies deserve everything they get. Both the good, the bad, and the ugly things that they get.

Diamond098454:
smile smile smile the truth is my ln law is a great guy
His feelings towards me has been there for long before his dad and my dad introduced him to my cousin sis

Which my family and his family has been a close family friends. I knew him through my parents and we are just friends with no feelings attached.

But are you aware that he wants to have sex with you? Have you told him that you know he wants to have sex with you? Omo, una dey slow ooo. Make una try and find out why I am Essential. Because I will tell you the Essential Truth, Face to Face, even if the whole world does not know how to tell you about it .

thinkmoney:
That’s not how the Bible put it. The Bible says the best person with the strongest moral is the one that should take up the position

Just dey play with your and your Bible. Ok go and tell that your Pastor what your Bible says.

Can you all just have some sense?

Diamond098454:
I can say no to other relatives but not this one. I'm free from my parents bondage in the name of protecting me is her

I'm schooling in ph today is her
I can't say no to her

Okay I get the picture now. You feel kinda indebted to her.

More reason to put a stop to things that you are not comfortable with. If not, one day she will tell you, AFTER ALL I HAVE DONE FOR YOU, YOU CHOOSE TO BETRAY ME. She will never agree that she was the Cause of it all. She will shift all blame to you. She won't even blame her husband ooo. I have seen it all.

Chibuezem:
A man of God having sex is just seen as norms

Kai God may I not be used to water down your holiness

This one is still living in 1960. Get lost ooo.

joseph1832:
So pastors are now supposed to have sex, is that the question you're asking?

Isn't premarital sex suppose to be a sin, according to christian doctrine? And to those who say they're christians?

The hypocrisy surrounding many christians nowadays is something else.

Welcome. I guess you just joined. Go through the Comments to understand my points better.

HaneefahRN:
Your headache, you came to my mention. I like that you called it a business sha. Men of God isonu

You don't know me yet if you think I am supporting una Pastor. All Church is a Business to me. All Church. All Pastor is a normal business man to me. All Pastor even Pope.

Diamond098454:
yes but before you said anything

I didn't sleep in the same roof with him.


I lodged in a hotel

I like you a lot. Of course you already know that.

But your level of Indulgence is too high and uncomfortable. As in like you indulge people to do things even when you are not comfortable with it. That is not kindness or humility but naivety.

1. I expected you to inform your cousin before now that you will appreciate being close to his husband only when she is there. Tell her that it's not because anything happened but because you do not want anything to happen. She will say no I trust my husband, that he is not that kind of man. If she gives that line, don't argue with her. Just remind her that it is not her husband that you don't trust. Rather that is yourself that you don't trust. Be respectful in the way you say it but also be firm.

2. If she says she does not want her husband to lodge in a hotel, it means she does not trust her husband. If she does not trust her husband around ladies, then ask her if you are not a lady. She is now shifting the burden of Trust on you, and you are too delicate for that.

3. You cannot accommodate in your house a guest you are not comfortable staying with. How can a guest who is supposed to lodge in a hotel, come and sleep in my house, then I will now go and lodge in a hotel? That's absurd.

Diamond098454:
hahaha hahaha I showed him his room upstairs take him around the house should incase he needs anything . Make food available for him

My sis said i should give him samo and vegetable soup I make sure his comfortable

I didn't sleep in my house

Usain Bolt. Hahahahhaha.

HaneefahRN:
Stupid question. So you can't see your pastors as role models for living a righteous life, every olosho in town is their customer

No I don't see Pastors as role models. To me and every other wise person, Pastors are normal human beings who are Titular Leaders in a Religious Business Company.

Anything more than this is your own headache, not mine.

Diamond098454:
yes. It wasn't easy for me at Airport last night

You know I will always ask for permission and forgiveness from you before I hit the nail on the head. Can I say something you may not like?

nairalanda1:
Reality also says the christian faith got standards for its members, and if they no fit meet up, na sinners. At least christianity also offers something called repentance and asking for forgiveness...so that one does not sin again.(I even knew one guy whose body count before he became a christian was high. But after he became a christian, no more sleeping around, no more running after women, even when he got engaged, he no sleep with madam before marriage. E no easy, but he asked for god help.)

It is because many of you see the easy side of sexual immorality that you think it is okay.

Again, it is NOT BY FORCE TO BE CHRISTIAN.

This guy or lady is still speaking in terms of what supposed to be. In morality, I believe in Choice vs Consequences. Position is irrelevant to me. I have said this so many times. I see all as equal in terms of morality possibilities. Every has sexual urges including Pope. Everyone should have self control not just the Pastors. So if Pastor Chris is supposed to have self control, then Actress Doris Ogala is not supposed to have same, because she is not a Pastor? When I call someone a Pastor, I am referring to your title. I do not presume you to be of any higher moral standard at all just because you are a pastor. If you choose to be good, it is not because you are a Pastor, but because you have chosen to be good. Because there are also some other people who are not pastors but who are still good. And there are some who are pastors who are not good.

Diamond098454:
yes. It wasn't easy for me at Airport last night

Oh so sorry dear. Just don't give him any green light if you don't want him to do. Because, in the words of Angel in Selina movie, EVERY MAN, IS THAT KIND OF MAN.

Hahahahhahaha

nairalanda1:
lol...i no be this idealist you dey speak about. Just someone who in my line of work has had to clean up the mess that comes after sexual immorality.

Again, both the man and the woman have messed up. If they cannot do this christian thing, make them leave am , E no be by force. (I even know people that have left christianity self...even one whose papa na conc christian speaker. Heaven did not fall).

You are an Idealist. It means you focus on an Ideal way humans supposed to behave and supposed not to behave. Pastors supposed to be good. Christians supposed to be good. All of these are Idealist Sentiments.

I am a Realist. I see everyone as naturally bad but that can become good by personal effort. I don't care if you are Pope, Rev Father, Bishop, Pastor, President, Governor, even Monk. So long as you are a human being, I believe everyone of us is naturally bad. But overtime, based on your actions and attitudes, I can now say, okay this particular Pastor or Governor or Priest is a good PERSON..... Not good Pastor. But good Person. If you still don't understand, then go back to school.

nairalanda1:
Teacher na normal human being...that is why they can prey on the ten year old girls in their class
Accountant na normal human being...that is why they can steal money from their company and hide it from their bosses
Even self, our leaders na normal human being, so let us excuse their stealing and bad leadership.


The bible is clear about how a pastor should live. If they no fit do am, make dey....RESIGN. If una no fit do this christianity of a thing...you can LEAVE THE FAITH. It is not by force to be pastor. Or to be a christian self. NO one go judge you.

And if he does not resign. What can you or anybody do about it? Nothing. That is why I focus on Reality. Avoid what you can avoid. And don't complain later. For example my girlfriend's cousin sister wants my girlfriend to accommodate her own husband in her house. That's being naive. Of course, nothing will happen, because she is decent and intentional. But what if something happens, who is to be blamed? The Cousin!

Now you see why I say I am a Realist?

Pastor Chris Okafor wedding IV.

The wedding was done yesterday.

No more House and GWagon for Doris Gala.

nairalanda1:
Again, you miss the point.

There is something in life called self control, and it can only be exercised by controlling oneself in the face of temptation be it man or woman. If you can do that till your wedding night, chances are that your marriage would go easy because you now have mastered an important habit, and no useless one kobo girl go come and wreck am

Also, if your comment was right , every married man and woman won't be commiting adultery at all at all. As you know, that is not true.

Finally, better not treat people as animals. We are not wild animals that do things anyhow.

You are an Idealist. I am a Realist. On that basis, we may argue from now till next year without agreeing.