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Pastor Chris Okafor wedding IV.

The wedding was done yesterday.

No more House and GWagon for Doris Gala.

nairalanda1:
Again, you miss the point.

There is something in life called self control, and it can only be exercised by controlling oneself in the face of temptation be it man or woman. If you can do that till your wedding night, chances are that your marriage would go easy because you now have mastered an important habit, and no useless one kobo girl go come and wreck am

Also, if your comment was right , every married man and woman won't be commiting adultery at all at all. As you know, that is not true.

Finally, better not treat people as animals. We are not wild animals that do things anyhow.

You are an Idealist. I am a Realist. On that basis, we may argue from now till next year without agreeing.

His new wife that is finer than Doris Gala

Pastor Chris Okafor did his wedding yesterday. End of Discussion.

Diamond098454:
my cousin called me yesterday in the afternoon that her husband will be in ph that yesterday evening.

She said I should go to Airport by 7pm ( yesterday) and pick him up, that she don't want him to stay in hotel hmmmm she said her husband should sleep in my house.

Your response came too late

That yesterday i needed some advice from you on how to handle it .
Well, he's already here in my house.

Same your cousin in Abuja?

mozona:
Pastor wey dey commit fornication..

Every pastor is a normal human being. Nothing special about them. How did you guys even grow up at all?

saphiere:
God punissh u more and more. u didn't see where he fforced her out of her marriage? u didnt see where he was circulating her nuddes? |God puniish u sons of Adam

Your present life condition is an evidence that God punishes.

Meanwhile, I am not emotional. I look at the issues. She got what exactly she deserved. Greed, Greed, Greed. Once I notice it in anyone, be it male or female, then they got exactly what they deserve. Was she not previously married?

saphiere:
God puniiishe u. u didn't read that part he duped her of her N45m.

Serves her right.

What if it was she who collected 45m from the man, would you still have called it Dupe?

A Pastor is just a Position in a Religious Business Company RBC. Nothing more than that.

thinkmoney:
If they can’t control their urges, they have no business being a pastor

A Pastor is just a Position in a Religious Business Company RBC. Nothing more than that.

Diamond098454:
nawa oooooo it's very bad. .................
Essential ,I sent something to you check it and get back to me
Am at Airport already

I didnt get it. Resend.

thinkmoney:
See, pastors are people that assume a particular position and stance. A pastor is expected to be a role model.
They are not supposed to have sex before marriage
They are not supposed to encourage a girl to leave her marriage so she can come and be warming their bed
They are not supposed to kill by committing abortion
They are not supposed to fornicate with several women on Saturday and mount the pulpit on Sunday without fear of God
Most importantly, they are supposed to openly confess a sin that’s has put a stain on Gods name. They are to step down ATLEAST for sometime

People mock God these days. These men have made Christianity unappealing.
This kind of scandalous sun was what they used to stone people for in those days. Even God directly strikes people that did similar things.

So they are no longer humans with sexual urges? Just dey play.

Diamond098454:
is the fault of the pastor. As a spiritual leader and a man of God he shouldn't have give in to the temptation of the flesh

Just dey play. Hahahahhahahaha

Diamond098454:
Her husband knew the man already as his wife lover and that was why he was furious on seeing the man .

The lady should have been smart enough If I where her , I would have pretend as if i didn't see the man and his gift

The groom should have turned a blind eye
Men should learn how to talk with their eyes it helps a lot in a relationship. Imagine how a man is exchanging words with his wife in the public.

Should ladies not also learn how to talk with their eyes in a relationship? Why not the ladies?

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Diamond098454:
the pastor was sleeping with her knowing fully well she has a husband ooohhhhh my goodness

A pastor making up with a married woman

It happens everyday. It even happened again today. Pastors sleep everyday with married ladies. So long as she was not raped, there is no big deal about it.

spencekat:
Or when it is verbally and directly said to the opposite sex.

Those words if not recorded on Video or Written down on paper by the Promisor, is of no evidential merit.

You promise me marriage is the language of a promiscuous lady.

Do you agree to this? hahahhahahah

Praying for a Husband, when you do not yet have a serious Boyfriend, is a waste of prayer point.

tanigororo:
Did all the Girls that had sex with me married me.

Weyreey ni. Hahahahhahahahhah

Theama:
The genitals serve other purposes aside reproduction.

God is Omnipotent. If He wanted to prevent sex outside marriage, He can make you to urinate from your BumBum.

zoghys:
As a woman why must you spread your legs for every man that came calling.

Beautiful question

Diamond098454:
no. Not to lead him into temptation

When i told you about my in-law every one was bashing me even when I'm innocent.

I know you are innocent. You didn't want to raise his hopes and dash it to the ground. So you left.

Why must you have sex when you are not yet married? Hahahhahahahhahaha

Diamond098454:
nothing but going close to a pastor will be too dangerous

Nigeria and religion

E no favour some of us

So you are Dangerous?

Diamond098454:
I don't go close to all this pastors I don't want anyone to accuse me of trying to seduce a pastor. My physical look is not too good and i may not be able to defend myself

People normally judge according to how you look even if you tie wrapper that physical look will still be there. I dare not go close to pastors or brothers in the church

So tell me about this your physical look.

Diamond098454:
you are right but some of them may choose to propose with Bible

Hahahhahahahahhahaha hahaha. This is the funniest comment I have seen in more than 4 years.

Bro, once you ask a w00man out and she rejects you, the next thing that will happen is that she will lose her respect for you. This happened for most w00men.

The moment a w00man rejects you, she starts seeing herself as your equal or as superior.

Understand that w00men boost their ego through rejection.
The most f00lish thing you can ever do in that situation is to keep begging her, f0rcing her or trying so hard to convince her so she can accept you.

There is something you need to know about female attraction.

The moment a w00man say NO to you, know that she means it and there is nothing you can do to change her mind for the real w00men.

But if you go ahead and start seeking for validation, sending data, airtime and gifts to win her over — most of them will pretend to love you because of the benefits and that's all fake.

If a w00man does not see you worthy of a relationship, she will never accept you. In this situation — don't go ahead trying to prove yourself.

Talk to the next w00man — she's not special.

If and only if she will accept you is base on the two conditions:👇

If she can not find another man:
That point where she has being piped, used and dumped by the men she want who doesn't want her and then due to the lack of men and age passing her, she will fall back to you as her available option.

Next one is — She will accept you out of pity : this is the worst position a man can ever be, the truth is any w00man who accept you out of pity will always have a void in her heart painting to be filled by the man she genuinely loves.
She accepted you out of pity base on what you have spent and invested.

And it's the truth she will always be in a look for better man.

So when you ask a w00man out and she declines, walk away and never look back. Talk to the next w00man. Don't walk out of anger or pain but walk out of self respect and value.

The moment you do that, she will by herself respect you more, she will even feel you did her a favour for asking her out. Out of fear she'll be thinking if she didn't make a mistake by rejecting you
She will be monitoring your progress to know if she actually made a wrong decision by rejecting you. She will be comparing you with the man she accepted.
That is why you have to focus on your grind and become better person.

But if you keep trying hard to get her, you just avail yourself for more disrespect.
Must of them will take advantage of that and accept you knowing you can provide their needs.
But believe me bro — she will pun!sh you financially, and still cheat on you with the man she's into.

So bro, if she said no to you or you discovered she's not into you, next her — she's not special.

Control your emotions bro.

Class dismissed.
Till I come your way again.
Keep following for more.f

Marriage is only promised when there is an evidence such as an Engagement Ring. Until then, everything is just a Fling.

Diamond098454:
who knows promise or proposed all na the same naaa.

Marriage is only promised when there is an evidence such as an Engagement Ring. Until then, everything is just a Fling.

Diamond098454:
it's really disgusting hearing things like this about spiritual fathers

You are still referring to them as Spiritual Fathers. No no no. They are Leaders of Religious Organizations just like Managing Directors of Companies and stuffs like that. Doesnt make them any better than others. It is just a position that they occupy. Pay no more attention to it than that.