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Romance / Re: The Ooni Of Ife, Oba Enitan Ogunwusi, Has Married A New Wife, Mariam. (video /pi by Esthered: 12:13pm On Sep 07, 2022
What'll will happen if the Ooni stays without a wife to become a better person and then remarry much later.
He's too quick to move on. If it were to be my gender, they'll flood this thread.
He even went for an 'evening newspaper' as fondly called here, who they assume not to be desirable but in reality the reverse is the case.

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Family / Re: I'm Depressed, Can I Still Get My Life Back On Track? by Esthered: 8:31pm On Sep 06, 2022
emmaodet:


True.

I avoid Facebook and other social media like a plague.
Feel more comfortable here on nairaland because everything seems sane. I guess due to it been anonymous and people can’t really upload status and videos so nairaland is a bit quiet than other social apps.

Same here.

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Travel / Re: Vacation: My Tour Around The Washington Monument, Washington D.C. by Esthered: 3:16pm On Sep 06, 2022
VeryWickedMan:
I don't like the way this OP is always enjoying life. angry

What'll you do about it.....lol
Family / Re: I'm Depressed, Can I Still Get My Life Back On Track? by Esthered: 12:12pm On Sep 06, 2022
Acidosis:
I don't know your full story but, please, if you need to delete certain apps from your phone like LinkedIn and co, please do (if you honestly do not need them). You need to get your act together and don't allow social media mess you up.

I don't think getting a new degree will solve anything to be honest as it is not the main source of your worry. Lets say you get a B.Sc. from NOUN or UNILAG at 34, few minutes on LinkedIn will make you feeling like your degree is worthless and useless. By the time you see 19-year-old girls with 2 first class degrees from Wales and Oxford on LinkedIn, won't your worries return?!

You need to address the source of your worry, which is FINDING fulfilment in what you do. That is the most important step! It is not always about doing what you love as what you love is never stable. It is about loving what you do by being intentional. Ultimately, the goal is not to impress anyone.

I deleted LinkedIn from my phone in 2018 when I almost suffered depression because I thought everyone had left me behind.
I saw my fellow colleague in my former company who was an account officer claim account manager on his profile on LinkedIn.
Since then till date, I don't do Instagram, Twitter..... I log into Facebook once in a month. Too many lies that can make a hardworking person feel inferior.

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Family / Re: I Need Help Before Making A Mistake To Buy This Pot by Esthered: 12:07pm On Sep 06, 2022
fineboynl:
gas and electric. I need a pot with think bottom that will not expend. And also stylish. Yes they are non stick pot.
I was gifted this brand in the picture. I noticed from day one that the cover doesn't fit the pot well.
Please go for a better brand.
Computers / Re: TECNO Unveils Megabook T1 10th Generation Laptop by Esthered: 7:17pm On Sep 05, 2022
Acidosis:


Good evening, dear. My apologies for the late response.
No problem sir. Seen.

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Computers / Re: TECNO Unveils Megabook T1 10th Generation Laptop by Esthered: 6:21pm On Sep 05, 2022
Acidosis:


The battery life is the most outstanding feature in my view. Kudos to Tecno.
Good evening egbon, I mailed you earlier today.
Business / Re: How Bank Staff-Assisted Frauds Affect Bank Customers’ Deposits by Esthered: 1:15pm On Sep 04, 2022
I think NIBSS should be first checked. Upon some prospective customers being enrolled for BVN without an account being opened, they receive calls from unscrupulous elements masquerading as bank officials asking if they have opened an account.....
If NIBSS is monitored and not treated as a mere government agency, the fraud via phone calls will be at it's barest minimum. Banks should aggressively sensitize their customers as some gullible.

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Education / Re: Nigerian Slay Queen Arrives Her Graduation In Expensive Convoy, Wows Colleagues by Esthered: 5:57am On Sep 02, 2022
She reminds me of my then school mate who comes with military escorts on resumption days. Rumor had it that her family were not wealthy but it was one of her patrons official fleet.
It may her customer's escort....
Food / Re: Twitter User Cries Out Over “Fake” Bama Mayonnaise by Esthered: 11:47am On Aug 31, 2022
pocohantas:


Because it is the fake jar. I am beginning to think I have bought this nonsense once. cheesy
Wow, I never thought of it as fake but rather I asked that it be preserved at room temperature instead and it doesn't change from the original state after opening.

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Food / Re: Twitter User Cries Out Over “Fake” Bama Mayonnaise by Esthered: 11:30am On Aug 31, 2022
I even noted that if I preserve it in the fridge upon opening, it changes from the original state and becomes oil and something else. It's the glass jar I am talking about.

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Family / Re: Marriage In This Economy by Esthered: 2:45pm On Aug 30, 2022
Acidosis:


You mean this online business on your profile?


Investment / Re: Risevest CEO, Eke Urum, Forced To Step Down by Esthered: 11:51am On Aug 30, 2022
Cutehector:
nope. Former Fbn holdings GMD. GMD is different from DMD
Okay. Thank you for the clarity.
Investment / Re: Risevest CEO, Eke Urum, Forced To Step Down by Esthered: 8:47am On Aug 30, 2022
Cutehector:
I know his father. Rich kids cannot just manage anything. First it was diamond bank's ceo's son who mismanaged diamond bank and brought it down to ruins.

When it comes to business, allow competency to precede over family.
Is it FirstBank former DMD's son as the name sounds alike
Romance / Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Esthered: 5:18pm On Aug 21, 2022
The lady in question must be working and attained a level of comfort for herself before considering a relationship.
Is the man going to be feeding and clothing her when she isn't married to him?
I'll groom my son not to marry a woman who wouldn't add value to their relationship.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: 2016 Firstbank Graduate Trainee Programme by Esthered: 8:05pm On Aug 14, 2022
Princeadebayo11:
Please can someone that get firstbank job through the graduate trainee let us know

I have in my circle of friends, do you have questions?
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Esthered: 3:58pm On Jul 09, 2022
Good evening Mamas and happy weekend. Please for a mother in a corporate environment, how soon should she embark on the journey if she wants it sharp sharp?

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Family / Re: What Was Your First Apartment As A New Couple. by Esthered: 9:53pm On Jul 03, 2022
It was a distant marriage initially and hubby lived in what is called face me I face you in Lagos but passage house in Benin. I moved in with him after 18 months of marriage and I was 3 months gone with our son.
We started house hunting in August and through his colleague we got a 3 bedroom apartment in the same GRA where we were living in a passage house.
We moved in on a Sunday in December and I delivered on the following Tuesday.
My answer to the OP is 4 rooms passage house. People familiar with Benin environs will understand.

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Family / Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by Esthered: 4:17pm On May 26, 2022
Dear OP, why not attach a maid to your in law to ease the stress. The maid will be under the supervision of your MIL and wife. Your wife may be going PPD.
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Esthered: 4:49pm On May 16, 2022
Omakraid:
B.A

To God be the glory, great things He hath done.. We Welcomed our cute angel this midnight at around 2 am (so I heard) via CS. B.S will be updated as soon as I'm well enough by God's grace

Thanks to everyone for checking on me, I can't start mentioning your monikers now but I'm so grateful..

I pray for safe delivery for all waddling mums and may God bless the womb of GTC moms with the fruit of the womb sooner than they expect. Amen



Congrats Ma. This is gooood news. May the joy that has come to your home by virtue of her addition never cease.
Wishing all TTCs the awakening of their womb to do that it was mandated to do from creation.
Wishing all those yet to offload and easy peasy journey till the end.

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Family / Re: Dear New Mothers... by Esthered: 2:53pm On May 14, 2022
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Diapers - 5700 ×2= 11400 but I go with 12k to avoid stories that touch.
Food: We bought 16k the last time as against 15k a month ago.
Clothes: Nil as I last bought during his dedication period and prior to 3 months as well as gifts received that he wears, some are big which are reserved for when he grows.
Body care: Whatever you buy can last more than a month. Buy the soap in packet like 4 in 1.......
The cost driver is his food as I don't intend to buy 2 bags of diapers this month but 1 only. I decided not to wear him diapers for the place to breath today as he's wearing a pant and lying on a pilch.
To be on a safe side, I budget 30k monthly for him. If I have any savings, it's to carry forward to the next month and bring the budget down if I haven't used the money for other things like wipes, comfort liquid
...

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Family / Re: What Does This Mean Please? by Esthered: 6:50pm On May 12, 2022
@phargbemmy please mail me on hadediong@gmail.com as I can't access my NL mail I used to sign up. Good evening
Family / Re: Dear New Mothers... by Esthered: 6:38pm On May 12, 2022
Dear OP, it depends on your budget. I buy 2 diaper bags in the biggest size monthly as he was using 6 per day on average.
Clothing: I haven't spent much as my family gifted him clothes. I wear him till he outgrows them. Quality okrika.
Feeding: if your wife can do exclusive, let her go ahead as it's cost saving. I don't lactate well and now feed him with only one breast since he rejected the other since 2 months plus. He eats 1 tin of Nan1 for 5 days at most. We buy half carton at 16k monthly.
Body care: The things I bought before he was born, we're still using them and will last for couple of months.
Family / Re: Is My Wife Cheating? by Esthered: 1:15pm On May 07, 2022
Phargbemmy:


It okay Madam, I understand your pains. Have you brought your husbands people into this? Or look for someone whom you know he can listen to.


It can be very hurtful most times when you have done all possible best to make things work and yet you r still being played on it. May God give us directions

I'm yet to bring family into it. I don't know who can talk to him as I believe the lack of accountability is the reason for him not trying to severe ties.
Amen
Family / Re: Is My Wife Cheating? by Esthered: 12:17pm On May 07, 2022
OP, sorry about your experience. Do what is right for your sanity.

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Esthered: 8:48pm On May 02, 2022
He2nuholuwa:
Good morning waddling wonderful mamas....the lord that has started this good work will finish it.

I have come back to report myself...though phone hasn't been my thing since oo..no me be na condition..
By God's grace we will all share our BS soon
TO ALL TEAM PERFECTION GOD WILL DELIVER US SPEEDILY

PLEASE I NEED THE BOOK SUPERNATURAL CHILDBIRTH
itunnuoluwatope@gmail.com
Fellow mamas pleeeeeasee send to me
Good evening Ma,
Sent as requested.

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Religion / Re: Bridal Train Sent Out By A Pastor Over Indecent Dressing During Wedding In Edo by Esthered: 9:43pm On May 01, 2022
ednut1:
Christian ladies and dressing like prostitutes = 5 and 6
All of us?
Why not rephrase to some church going ladies.
Honestly I always complain to my hubby of the way ladies dress in his church. One of the usher's slit today ehn.... she's married. The skirt was short and the slit was up to her buttocks.
I have never heard the ministers admonish them. Make I stop before I write epistles.

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Culture / Re: - by Esthered: 6:10pm On May 01, 2022
This thread is funny. Uman AKS isongho
Travel / Re: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 16 by Esthered: 5:35pm On Apr 19, 2022
NigPatriot:


I'm not sure if someone has answered this. But i20 is the document that shows the SEVIS ID and student record which will be used to track the student by the Uscis, when she finally arrives in the states.
Let her request for the i20 from the international services of her school, this can be gotten via email (usually within days, depending on the workload and efficacy of the personnel). After she gets the i20, she should meticulously go through the documents (especially the financial aspect) to ensure there are no errors. She can proceed to pay for her sevis fee using the SEVIS id usually at the top of the i20. And also use it in applying for visa date on the cgi portal.
Thanks for this
Travel / Re: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 16 by Esthered: 5:11pm On Apr 18, 2022
Good evening, my younger sister just got assistantship for her MSC in the US. Please what does she need to know at this point as she said she's been hearing I-20 and doesn't understand it.

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