Zayzay12:
Please who has been able to access the questions in the assessment center, lemme know if it’s only from my end

You're the only one experienced this. I hope you wrote them.

poshestmina:
A very valid reason ,I wouldn't date or marry a man that still lives with his parents ,regardless the living condition.

I love ,LOVE my privacy and space a lot ,some days you wake up and just want to be alone and want your thoughts coordinated.

You automatically become the family's Chef ,Advicer, emergency Gele tier ,Nanny to everyone and having someone else make decisions for you and hubby.

Even if it's a face me public compound ,let's contribute and rent . I no need see finish !

Inasmuch as I value my privacy, I lived with my MIL 1.5 years post wedding and I never cooked, advised...... I work and was always leaving at 5am to return 8pm.

I lived with her because hubby was in another state before I joined him.

With my MIL, my mum is envious of my relationship with her.

Women, please as we grow older, tell yourself that you'll love your DIL like your biological daughter and not treat her how you may have been treated.

ibechris:
Lies...I just bought one now and the price for 12.5kg here in Abuja at Nipco gas station kubwa is #13,250 against what I read on the news outlets last week.

N17,000 in Lagos since February.

What happens to the employees?

wizrose:


I PASS DOYIN EVERYDAY TO WORK I EVEN LIVE CLOSE TO THAT BUS STOP DOES HAUSAS YOU SAW TOO ARE JUST LOOKING FOR THEIR DAILY BREAD ON WHAT TO EAT MOST OF THEM EVEN CHASE AFTER BUS TO CARRY LOAD JUST TO SURVIVE THE HARDSHIP TOO NO BLOODY SOMETHING ANYWERE THE CONFIDENCE WAY THEN GET SMALL SELF DONE STEP DOWN WISH IS PRESIDENT BUAHRI THEM TOO THEY FIND MEANS OF SURVIVAL THEY HAVE WIFE AND KIDS AT VILLAGE DRUING HARVEST TIME MOST OF THE THEM GO BACK HOME TO FARM AND COME BACK AFTER FARMING

Ok o

I relocated back to Lagos in January and the Hausas I see daily at Orile busstop to Doyin is ALARMING. Prior to leaving in 2019, it was never like that. I'm worried that there'll be a clash one day and it will be bloody.

Dear OP, sorry about the experience. You should have been suspicious upon the ATM asking you to scan your debit card. The machine must have been tampered with.
If you go to an ATM stand, be at alert. Don't turn your eyes away from the screen. If you see guys lurking around the ATM terminal, terminate the transaction and leave or raise alarm that the security should ask them to move.

SSpeter:
I have kids too, my spouse was in banking hence, hers was 5am-10pm including traffic. During postpartum period, hormones can disrupt the flow, however, as a man you have to make yourself desirable...and it works a few friends that I shared this with experienced an uptick in initiation from their spouses almost immediately

Alright.

As a nursing mum and mum to another toddler working 9 to 5, he knows that if he follows your ideology, our .....will suffer as I rarely initiate it. Child bearing and nurturing affects our libido sometimes.
Even if I do, it'll never match his demand.
Married men should do what works for them.

Acidosis:


LOL. What aspect of my post is the most terrifying?

1. You're likely not going to have a greater marriage than your parent's

Acidosis:


My dear Relax.

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Acidosis:
FOUR BRUTAL truths no one will tell you, but I will list them anyway:

1. You're likely not going to have a greater marriage than your parent's.

Think about it, we all claim that marriages of the previous generations are better. Isn't? Most people believe in the law of exemption only when they're personally involved.

2. The marriage between two f00ls will last longer than the marriage between two equal and calculative love birds

3. If you spend too much on your wedding, that celebration and fun fair will likely be the happiest moment/day of your marriage. Everything else will begin to tank from that day Iffahear say you keep up ke 😅

4. Your in-laws have a majority stake in your marriage whether you believe it or not. The longer you grow in marriage, the lower their stake. Prior to your wedding, they hold about 90% stake, 10 years after and all things being equal, that stake should drop to 55%. But they're never going below 50%.

Stop scaring me.

Acidosis:
I honestly don't understand why anyone would try to change a baby. For what purpose? Apart from maybe gender and genotype, there's no reason for that. If you give a parent a gender or genotype that obviously doesn't match theirs, they would find out eventually. So why go through all that trouble just to get caught?

Only a weak, uneducated person would fall for such. I would have done way too many dating scans in 2, 3, and 4Ds to get f o o led by anyone. And, oh, if I find any "S" in my baby's genotype or any letter "A", "B" or "AB" in their blood group, olopa ma ko everybody in that hospital.

DNA or no DNA, there are way too many pointers to this thing.

Your blood is too 🔥

Caleb4show:
Good morning everyone, please I need your urgent advise
My wife is 6 months pregnant this is her first pregnancy,
Here is the issue, my wife prefer the private hospital and also belive everything will pounce out well, which I believe distance is the major reason, she doesn't want to go through the stress of going to the government hospital for antenatal which is likely every week and part of my area road is quiet bad which is not really good for her health, the question now is should we go with what my brother in law said or stick with the private hospital, i myself all i care is for my child and wife well being before and after the delivery, however she is 6 months gone already, don't even know if going there to register at this stage will look somehow at the government hospital, please your advise is needed am new to this system

Dear OP, I have never delivered in a public hospital. I always have low risk pregnancy. It's the nurses that guide me during delivery after doctor has given clearance to delivery ward in the private hospital I use.

Acidosis:


What are your thoughts?

I don't know as the same children still turn out to be pain either through health related issues or deviance that culminates if not controlled to negative statistics.

Acidosis:


Ahaha... Esther ooo.

Okay, here is the thing. God obviously loves children since the Bible says that they are His heritage. What that verse means is that children are given to us to nurture, love, show care, and lead to eternal life since they know nothing about God or His kingdom. When we take out that "eternal life," "love," and "care" responsibilities out of the way, then the whole idea of birthing more children becomes meaningless to God. It probably just becomes a biological or social exercise, just like buying a piece of cake to feel good or a pension plan to escape poverty, depression, and loneliness in old age (like most Nigerians do anyway).

...But that's my interpretation of the scriptures. I don't know, but your MOGs may hold a different view.

This your view get as e be. Thanks for sharing.

Acidosis:

There are more important things God wants Christians to do, but "replenishing" the earth with potential candidates of hell isn't one.

Please expatiate.

Beautifulsenora:
Goodmorning Mamas, please I need your inputs. I am a few weeks pregnant and I feel very constipated to the degree that my lower abdomen is tight and swollen as I am unable to completely empty my bladder. I did try push and strained a little when I felt the urge and in the process may have hurt my anus ( apologies for the TMI) I have been taking a lot of water, going for walks and even took hot water this morning to no avail. I can't even sit properly due to the anal pain. Pls has anyone experienced this or have a solution to this issue? Thank you.

Why don't you visit the hospital while you improve on your diet.

bastien:
Good evening mothers n fathers here, pls I need help, my son is losing weight each passing day , he’s 1yr 5months old, he eats but not a lot, and he poos a lot and urinate too, we have done check up and all doctors even mother and care hospital said he’s okay but now he keeps losing weight and cries a lot, it’s making me sad and makes me cry whenever I sees him now his ribs are showing I’m fed up I had to come here , what good meal, food or cereal anything that will bring back his body to give him plsss

Is he taking multivitamins?

Acidosis:


What we call agreements in marriage are non binding. A woman may decide to be a stay at home home today for the sake of the kids and later on decide to pursue her career. Such non binding agreements can be subject to change as no one is getting hurt or battered in the process.

Personally, I don't even remember prioritising work or no-work discussions. An adult should be encouraged to work (or otherwise) when certain situations or events arise. In this case, the woman feels completely unfulfilled and considers work/career a potential motivation. Depression may set in later on if nothing is done.

Your point is valid.

Acidosis:


He's a wicked man. A very wicked man.

What makes him wicked?

I'm assuming they never agreed she'll work when they're all grown.

Annahh:
Pweeh, age is no longer on my side.

😭

Annahh:
Happy Sunday ma, how is work and FMAP, please I have some questions about FMAP.

1)Can I apply for FMAP with CIBN certificate
2)What is the Age limit?
3)Which professional certification did you use to apply?

Very fine by God's grace.

1. Yes you can.
2. 30
3. ACA (ICAN)

Tap0lane:
Where is the prove to this your lie ?!

Are you Igbo ?!

Go to an ATM terminal disbursing mint and check who signed the note.

Salubata:
Yes! Printing note and minting coin is part of their responsibility.

Though you're saying they printed excess, that's what you meant.

The question is,
You work with CBN?
You are an higher ranking CBN staff to have known this?

The signature on the notes withdrawn on ATM terminals yesterday has Cardoso's signature. It's already in circulation.
It has nothing to do with being a CBN staff.

The 1,000 note in ATMs today was signed by Cardoso, meaning CBN is on a printing spree.

Krystalluv:


Thanks for this. Did you lose mucus plug before the mild contractions? BCS I've not seen the show unlike my previous pregnancy where the show was d first thing I saw. The water leakage is my major fear. I use a general hospital and it's far from my house. The fear of those nurses sending me back home is my problem bcs I was sent home during my last pregnancy even with water leakage and contractions.

Please go to the hospital.
My water leaked and I failed to report till about after a week not knowing that my cervix was already opened and baby came 3 weeks to EDD.
I was told my child risked having chorioamnionitis and we were kept for observation post delivery.

Acidosis:


Haha... The dictionary meaning of a bachelor is typically a man who has never been married.

But I used the word in that context to mean a single man perfectly and financially suited to live independently in his own apartment or home.

I now understand your context.
I think some guys feel suited for marriage based on age which I believe the OP falls into.

Acidosis:


What were you trying to build? The basic thing for a marriage is an apartment and you never had one in your name.

Two available options here:

1. You guys need to separate for a while. You're clearly not ready for marriage. You're not even qualified to be a "bachelor" yet. You're still in your early phase, so if I were you, I will return to my parents home and build my savings. I'm not posting this to hurt your feelings. But that's the truth; a truth I would personally embrace.

2. Hang on and continue hoping for a breakthrough. This is the version you'll most likely hear across different religious setting, but have it in mind that 90% of the people who relied on hope ended up with generational poverty. Like the US lottery, nothing is guaranteed.

Please explain the bolded egbon.