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Nice thread.

lillyveezy: ppl cheat because they seek to fill a void in their inner being,which they tot sex will fill.as long as this void is there,the desire/need & justification for cheating abounds.

Perfect Answer!

Noted!

women of this generation. wanting to eat their cake and have it all. smiling.......

funny thread

funny

He needs it oh.

Lwkmd mhen young children learn from his case o. E.g E. uduw...

I had to wait all tru the time 4 my phone to turn iphone 6. But nothin happen. Mhen me don tire 4 my country rumour. D next 1 will be dont fancy a ladies a$$.

Nice 1

How does this change the price of tin tomatoes in the market?

Op thanks alo t.

Keepin this thread on d loop.

Nice Jazebel story

My issue here is why cant nairaland have an email system so we could communicate with 1 anoda freely with no error random prob.

Smh.

This is the most funny thread i have ever came across. lwkmd

And this made it to 3 pages. Moderators are no were to be found.

If Nokia 3310 is so rugged& the best mobile phone ever made;why then was Nokia 808 made. #just asking.

Funny thread

why does this teju baby has same taste of woman like i do. were we twin in our former life?

denying it like he is now the baby whc he earlier called Dbanj. Well its true let him accept that fact cos i watch closely recently he has been tweeting $hit and within seconds he deletes them. Dey all do it The last report about Kanye west tweeting a ladies backsides and later denied also saying it wasnt Kim's behind. All the stars do this issue so Dbanj Forget like you told Jazzy Forget. lol

What is a Cougar Relationship
A 30+ sexually aggressive woman who seeks the company of young men. She is predatory in nature and is not interested in commitment.
My fellow brethren share your experience o.

Op how come ur first post on NL made the front page?

I have discovered a stark contrast between what each sex thinks the opposite sex wants from them, and what the opposite sex really does want.

What women think men want from them causes women to have resentment and anger toward men, and feel hopeless about ever developing a wonderful, warm, romantic partnership. What men think women want from them causes them much of the same feelings and frustration.

The sad part is that it does not have to be this way, if only we would realize that both men and women are human beings first and pretty much want the same thing. But, you don’t have to take my word for this.

I asked a number of men and women who are actively involved in personal growth and development what they want from a partner in order to build a great relationship. You will find their answers unexpected. Discover what men said they want from women as contrasted with what women think men want. You’ll also find tips for women to give men what they want, attract a great man, and create a wonderful relationship.

Honest communication is top priority for men. They want a woman who answers questions honestly, and perhaps even volunteers information. They want a woman who confidently asks for her wants and needs to be met. They want a woman who can see the truth and tell it like it is while communicating with kindness. Men want a woman who can communicate without being too critical, who cares about preserving his and her dignity.

Women think men want them to be superficial, to keep quiet about their needs or wants, and never to ask for anything. Women think men believe them to be too needy and too sensitive, and that men simply want women to get over it. Some women believe they do not have the permission to tell it like it is, that they will be rejected for speaking up.

A tip for women
Great men want and need straightforward, courageous communication without anger or criticism. One way to attract a great man and build a satisfying relationship is to learn how to communicate your truth and needs effectively.

2. Men want self-sufficient, secure, confident women.

Men want a woman to choose them out of want rather than out of desperation — either materially or emotionally. Men need to be wanted and needed by their partners, but they want their partners to have a separate identity. Men want a woman to be active and independent, to have her own friends and interests.
On the other hand, men treasure time spent with a loving partner.

Women think men don’t want women to need them. Women think men do not need or appreciate time spent together as a couple. Women believe that showing a man he is needed will turn him off and
possibly make him run away.

A tip for women
Men want what women want — a whole partner. One powerful way to attract a great man and build a vibrant relationship is to create a full, rewarding life for your own fulfillment.

3. Men want a manipulation-free relationship.

Men want no manipulation of any kind. They do not want to read their partner’s mind or try to interpret signals. They do not want to be forced to move faster in a relationship than they are ready. They do not want to be manipulated into taking all the blame for things gone wrong. They do not want to be on the receiving end of game playing.

Women think men want little or no communication, and the only way to get needs met is through manipulation. Women think men either need or want to be reminded that the relationship needs to move forward. Women think men don’t want or value praise and acknowledgment, and so tend to only verbalize criticism.

A tip for women
Men will not tolerate manipulation of any kind for any significant length of time. To attract a great man and build a wonderful relationship learn to ask without hesitation for what you want and need in every area of your life. Learn to be aware of his timing and his time-line. Learn how to acknowledge and bestow praise.

4. Men want growth, personal responsibility, and ownership.

Men want a partner who can laugh at herself and who has courage and strength. They want a woman who can see her part in relationship dynamics and own it. She has to be emotionally stable. Men want a woman who is developing herself personally, and who takes responsibility for her emotional experience.

Women think men only want to have a good time. Women think men have no interest in developing and growing a relationship or developing and growing themselves. Women think men want women who are super models, and that they never consider whether a
woman is emotionally mature, kind, supportive, or loving.

A tip for women
Men want women who are emotionally mature. Maturity does not mean lack of emotions. It does mean the ability to handle emotions responsibly. To attract a great man and build a long-term relationship, learn to take responsibility for your emotional experience and expression.

5. Men want fidelity and a commitment to the relationship.

Fidelity is an absolute must. In fact, men want a woman who does not have a “roaming eye” and who can wholeheartedly commit to the relationship. Many may define commitment as fidelity plus the willingness to work on the relationship — even when the going gets tough.

Women think that all men want is sex, and that men will leave a relationship for the next prettier face. Women think men cannot be trusted to be faithful. Women believe men do not want to work on a relationship; that when the going gets tough, they run.

A tip for women
Here is great news for those women who are resigned to the myth that all men cheat: infidelity and “a roaming eye” are as distasteful to men as they are to women. Great men know how to build a wonderful relationship, and they know fidelity is the main ingredient.

6. Men want women who know how men need to be treated.

Many women treat men in ways that diminish their egos, making them feel inadequate. Men would rather have more praise, more acknowledgment of what they do right, more acknowledgment that they are great guys who are loved and appreciated.

Women think men do not need them, do not value their opinion, their support, their praise. Women also think men do not care about many things important to women, which is why they criticize. Criticism is a way to verbalize resentment.

A tip for women
Most men want acknowledgment and appreciation from women. Learning to acknowledge instead of making your partner wrong is one of the most powerful relationship survival tools available to you.



Source http://powertochange.com/sex-love/menwant/

2buff: function seriousConversation()
{
Male you;
Female girl;

#ASSERT several_conversations_have_happened_about_the_subject

you.speak("O girl, you've said some things that have made me think, and frankly I would prefer to put aside all bullshit and sort it out now so we are both clear on each other's stance..." );
you.speak("Do you want to continue being with me or would you prefer we break it off? there is no point in any of this if at the end of the day, our union is not something YOU want." );





















if(her.answer()=="yes" )
{
soHowCanWeFixThis();
}
else if(her.answer()=="no" )
{
System.exit(-1);
}
}
//Comments
/*If someone is ready to leave you and the reason cannot be put coherently & honestlyinto words, it doesn't matter if you transform into a prince in shining armor. They've already made up their mind.
Only sink energy into fixing pre-marital relationship if the other person is willing to work on it. */

Please whats ur twitter handle.