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sorosoke101:
45 minutes

TheSourcerer:
couldn't get through ..

TheSourcerer:
hey hun , active on WhatsApp?

Richy4:
I am not an expert in reading body languages on pictures....
But his posture on that Picture doesn't look like he was bullying her... It's more like a caring person attending to his sick wife...

coputa:
All those saying that woman must work to support the family,forgets that when you leave the care of your kids to a stranger(house help) and they become something else,do you know that all your struggles to take care of them becomes vain.If the man can afford it,the woman should be at the home front,taking care of the kids.I have seen top professionals and career women resigns from top paying job to take care of their children.they are not fools.The family is all you have.

Headbanger:
Only me. that is why am worried o

Plus monthly allowance of 50K for Wify stuff

Headbanger:
Only me. that is why am worried o

Plus monthly allowance of 50K for Wify stuff

Headbanger:
Thank you very much, apart from feeding which is 25k weekly,
We have other budgets, such as fueling which is 30k monthly for the car
genetor we have 15k set aside, and PHCN is 20k
we also have emergency 50k which if we do not use, we carry over to the following month.
Then for the laundry, we have extra 12k for that, because sometimes we engage dry cleaners.

TheSourcerer:
Yes This is how Life Should be

Thoh:
The 3 highest kings in Oyo State died under Makinde first tenure.
Immediate two past Governors before Makinde died in his first tenure too.
And till today he is still in first tenure.

Demigod22:
Your brother is really a snitch. Even my [b][/b]little cousin sister that's a guy [b][/b]keeps all the secrets I shared with her. Whenever I run into problem I will confide in her, she will be the one to remind her mother to send me pocket money. I am older than her very well and then she is a girl and we still bond very well.

I have an elder brother that is older than me by far, we talk on phone every Sunday, he doesn't hide things away from me. I am the only one in the family that know him and his secrets. Even though I want to snitch on him and I remember all the benefits attached to this friendship, my mouth will shut.

OBALOLA55:
FIXED

Vinnie2000:
Ur post reminds me of my Uni roommate.
Dude does NOT eat anything Fish!. Sardines, Geisha, Crayfish, Fishroll,etc! I Tire for the Guy,really!

YoobaNesan:
Who send you work?
on ranu, abi ewa ale lo.

TheSourcerer:
TO WHO IT MAY CONCERN (All of US)


First off, I don't know if this is the right place to post at all. But this really clicked with me and made me change perspective on my depression problem and made me feel a lot better so I wanted to share it.

I've always felt like I was not in my place when I was happy, something was off. For some reason I felt better sad. There was something in me that didn't fully wanted to be happy. And I thought that it was a problem. It was probably from all that sad music I was listening to right? I must be some kind of little bitch emo poser edgy millennial kind of motherfucker and I just don't want to admit it to myself.

And then I randomly stumbled upon this Quora post, and it really changed the way I see things. It explained perfectly the things I was feeling without being able to put words on it.

So here you go:

Since sadness in my eyes has a lot of power I want to start by saying: I like being sad too … why? It’s an extremely powerful emotion!

When I got depressed for the first time I was surprised by how powerful it was, the sadness I felt. More powerful than any joy, or love, or anything else I had felt before. It took over every part of me and left me feeling empty and calm, something I rather enjoyed, since being happy and successful and so on so forth, felt overwhelming and more of an effort than a place I’d like to stay. Maybe all that is because of a hard childhood or difficult family, I don’t know. But sadness felt like truth and joy felt like the biggest lie on earth

I read through the answers and it took hard that almost every single person said that you only like it because you’re used to it and even though that MIGHT be true, I certainly don’t think that is the only reason to like sadness or any other negative emotion. I have tried liking joy and excitement and all that shit, but sadness and (emotional) pain really resonates with me.

To make it simple I see it like this: I’d rather be a sad person learning and always being pushed to the next place, than being a blindly happy person who always tries to keep it up.

I’ve had so much clarity from moments of despair, I have had some of my strongest feelings of freedom after a good long cry or panic. Without all the pain I have been through, I wouldn’t experience joy like I do today, my eyes wouldn’t water when there is beauty, love or just a glimpse of hope somewhere. Sadness has made me a more honest person and given me a life of contrast, which I wouldn’t give up, not even for a constant smile and a happy life.

I am not saying, go ahead and be sad all your life because it is great, all I want to point out is that pain and sadness isn’t the enemy, in a balanced life, it might be what gives you freedom, clarity and reason to keep going, not only when things are great!

Hope it helps!

TheSourcerer:
They are . usually called Aborigines , you see a black aboriginal man with Natural blonde and blue eyes.

TheSourcerer:
The Trophy Heads Of The Māori

Long before Europe colonizers arrived in New Zealand, the native Māori people were preserving the severed heads of the fallen. Known as mokomokai, the heads were chopped off, boiled, smoked, dried in the Sun, and dipped in shark oil before being displayed or paraded around like trophies.

But when the British moved in during the 1840s, they soon pillaged the mokomokai for themselves. Major General Horatio Gordon Robley (featured in this creepy old picture with his collection), who served in the British Army during the New Zealand Land Wars in the 1860s, was particularly fascinated by the Maori and stole at least 35 heads for himself.

Britishcoins:
The fencing foundation will start on Monday
Already bought gate 170k, don't know if they have cheated me

Maxymilliano:
Lol ... May be she has been singing the trending Christian song in her church and God decided to hear her prayers.

"Carry me dey go, Baba carry me dey go my husband house"

God decided to use the driver to carry her to her husband house

I'm proud of the driver

Wicked

TheSourcerer:
Random hello , don't forget to smile trust me it helps #hugs❤️�❤️❤️�