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Aurielfinizu:
So u mean the looting didn't start today..

I tot he was a good man

Pls go and read up from history and not rubbish from people who were in nursery school during the time of Abiola. To them every wealthy man is a criminal as if people are the cause of the generational poverty in their lineage

jayson87:
MKO how come this guy is so celebrated despite the source of his wealth questionable

Source(s) of his wealth were not questionable. Pls check again. He grew his empire

chukzyfcbb:
Truth be told, you will may find a man o, but most likely he would be in his 60's.
An oldie who needs extra love around him and has no much use of his wealth at that age is whom you are likely to go down with

men in their 30's and 40's are looking at girls in early 20's....It won't be easy for you maam

Then leave her to her fate.. All these unsolicited advice

SillyMods:
You can keep masturbating on every sad occurrence, deep down in you you know that Nigeria's problems didn't start today.

So sorry for you

Sapphire86:
How are you sure it's her mother pushing her Maybe she is pushing herself because she's overly exposed

But her mum introduced her to the industry at a tender age

blinkz4real:
I don't no y u women always think any man DT date u must marry u! Just pray DT u meet his spec so DT he ll marry u not dis gurlfrend 2 marriage entitlement mentality tin u have in ur head. A man can date any woman he wants BT wen it comes 2 marriage he chooses which amongst dem he settles down with. #argue wit ur torchlight fon.

But he can continue sleeping and dating her till the day of his wedding right?

Holywizard:
The issue is that u aren't seeing the girl's flaws. Imagine 8 piercings and tattoos, she's not the cooking type, a party animal. What if the lady is a party escort (prostitute)

Guy, I saw all those 'flaws' which the guy also saw. But why stay with her till the day of his wedding? You can't tell me that the guy never knew he wasn't going to marry her all through his wedding preparations. Why didn't he end the relationship and moved on with the one he decided to marry? It's called deceit and nothing more

lefulefu:
my brother its wickedness.instead of wasting lady's time why not just go for ur spec.ok me for example i like gehls who are average in size so then will it make sense for me to go for a lady as large as Eniola Badmus and be forcing her to reduce her weight? it wont make sense nau .all i had just do is go for a gehl that is my spec.

Thank you my brother. Let them keep justifying wickedness and deceit.

I only blame the lady for trying to change for someone's sake. Guys marry prostitutes. Some marry virgins and some the semi type. Always be yourself and whoever loves you ll go for you.

I m not an advocate of wayward lifestyle cos I m not. Neither do I intend to. But my dear whoever and whatever you are,theres always someone that loves you the way you are. Adjust or change your lifestyle cos you need or want to. But not because someone thinks otherwise. And when it's time for you to make any form of change or adjustment, you ll definitely know and plz don't fail to flow with the tide.

torqque7:
Deceive her How? Was there ever a place in her rant where she said the guy promised to marry her?he never promised her marriage so nothing like deceit here madam. It's NOT every one you date that you marry so get real.

Yes he didn't promise to marry her but promised to continue dating her till the day of his wedding.? Thank you. You Don try

Holywizard:
Dating mustn't lead to marriage. Reason like a human being

Yes it mustn't lead to marriage. But he could still continue with the dating till the day of his wedding? Wicked souls

Joshmodest:
Sometimes I don't pity poor people crying out that they need one help or the other , cos the moment they get the money , they'll also snub everyone who would need thier help... they'll even do worse..... Kiss Daniel started from the dumps he was a very poor upcoming artist , somebody that was so glad at the offer of 50k per month offered to him , now God has given him a good space , and kiss Daniel is just ignoring every upcoming artist and even cheating the one under him ......
Like I said before , sometimes don't pity the oppressed , for any slight change they'll become the oppressor....

Right on point. Sincerely I avoid them as a plague due to past experiences.. Any assistance from me is always from the safest distance

iammo:



Buhari and Ameachi are big bullies, they showed wike hell my guy Don slim down.

My dear no be say you lie. Sincerely he saw HELL. But good enough for him ,the people were on his side and very much ready to take bullets for him. Truth be told,the voice of the people is the voice of the gods

grandstar:
Deception is an attitude the True God hates.

He'll feel like the don and be hailed by many as a great player.

He'll hurt this lady he's married to as he has no integrity and principle.

King Solomon said something like, when you take something through deception, it first tastes sweet but afterwards, it will leave a bitter taste.

What if tomorrow this lady marries and she has a happy home, blessed with kids? Her husband is well to do and they are financially alright? How will that sadist feel?

And what if he's own marriage is plagued with problems? I've seen things and I know it won't end well with this guy. We should all be careful and fear God and listen to our conscience.

In the end, her being dished will be one of the best things that happened to her!

Thank you

NaijaRoyalty:
Olosho wants a decent husband after she don destroy herself finish with tattoo and piercing .

She's mad

No pity at all

How decent is the guy that was dating 'the olosho'?
Decent indeed

crackhouse:
I bet u this kind of person can do all that but that does not mean she have changed. Marry her and see her go back to the same lifestyle. The guy made a right decision. Marriage and friendship are two different things....

Then why deceive her all along? Excuses for all the lies?

Holywizard:
From her personal description...she's a wayward and a loose dog. Imagine piercings and tattoos. What if the guy is from a strong Christian background?

Then why date her? Has he been blind all along?Christian background filled with the Spirit of lies

DavSagacity:
This is the First time ever that a sensible advise will be coming from the miyetti allah group as a means to solve the incessant farmers/herdsmen crises.

Because it's now affecting them... Isnt this the exact solution to security issues that has been talked about all year long?

Sirjamo:
This is a public forum. I have the right to express my opinion and I owe no one explanation, including you!

Pls keep your dumb reasoning to yourself lest you get us all infected with zombie bites

Sirjamo:
I don't know what the fuss is all about, we where importing toothpicks and pencils during the PDP years, those people left this country in ruins and its going to be years before anyone can clean up the mess.

Pls stop sounding like a broken record. Do you think we are all that dumb?

johnmartus:
Is that not igbo guy? But how igbo guy was elected to political office in rivers state.

I think he is from Etche lga and they share boundary with ngor okpala in IMO state

extremelygolden:
Go about it in a playful manner. In the middle of a conversation when he says something that thrills you, just chip in a sentence like, O!Jay I love you more each passing day. You make me happy always by your perception about life. If you were around now I would have said, what have you given me to eat? I am just loving you too much these days. Then you quickly change the topic.

You will see that after some time he will call to confirm if what you said about loving him is true? That's when you will tell him Yes in a bold letter.

Best of luck, dear.

Ooh dear!!!! This is beautiful.. I just love it.

Op, pls go for this.

She shouldn't have an idea that you lol be taking her back to her parents. If she does, she might abscond before the due date. Trust her numerous bfs to take her to unknown destinations

JudgeOGBUNABALI:
Jeeeesuuu!
See small girl sef! Na only God know where all this dem ogbongidi dey enter for power.

It's not a matter of been small or big but desperation. Simply. Any of them came desperate

ecstasy357:
Her dream is not to be an educator. I love educators. According to her, she's just managing it for the main until a better offer comes.

She doesn't know what she wants to do for the long term. For now she wants to learn how to bake.

We are still talking though... I need her to just show me a little drive

You really have a good heart. As I said earlier keep watching her. She ll adjust but it depends on time. And how much time do you have to spare if you have got any ?

jackals:
The thing is You became angry over a small issue.. Don't you know you're supposed to be petting her...woman are fragile creature...At that time you were calling her, she might be going through a lot...I suggest you call her and work thungs out

Did you just say that what transpired was a small issue? My dear HELL NO. that is someone's future and he has decided to be SERIOUS ABOUT and WITH IT

MissRaine69:
If there is anything that would frustrate me is going out on a limb for someone and being let down. I have no patience for people who procrastinate, who are afraid to look at the bigger picture and focus on the here and now rather than the future as well.
4 weeks is not a relationship, it’s a situation pair yourself with someone who also wants the best for themselves as well as both of you.
It has to be onwards and upwards from here on in your case. Sometimes some people need a heavy dose of a reality check.

On point

ecstasy357:
She doesn't depend on me for her survival.

She wasn't supporting the person but rather...she doesn't know how the person will take it.

I'm guessing you've never been in the labour market. You don't know the joy that comes when you get invited for a job test. This is not the point.

The question is..am I wrong for ending it because I feel she doesn't have the drive to grow?

NO YOU WERE NT WRONG. BUT I LL ADVISE YOU KEEP MONITORING HER FROM A DISTANCE. GOOD ENOUGH BOTH OF YOU ARE STILL FRIENDS.. TRUST ME, SHE LL ADJUST AND THANK YOU LATER IN FUTURE FOR TAKING SUCH STEP IF TRUELY SHE IS HUMBLE.

I HAVE HAD SUCH EXPERIENCE

ecstasy357:
I reject d bolded portion.

Understanding said I shouldn't stay away from her but quench every thought of partnership

Abeg reject it. You did nothing wrong.. How do you expect one to remain in a relationship where his/her partner has got no drive, isn't challenging nor challenged?Thats just the beginning and end of deterioration and not even stagnancy

austyn0:
Sorry I had to book this space with a "Hmm". Something came up while I was reading..

So.... You called it quit for that reason and that was all she could respond with?? The lady in question is not serious, I am afraid.

From your explanation, you aspire building a great family with a wonderful woman and she doesn't appear like someone willing to go through the stress. There is also a possibility she has been contemplating on the breakup even before your move, probably because she felt you are too demanding, a nuisance and as well, stingy. I don't wanna add the possibility of her eyeing another dude already..

I feel you made a good decision by calling it off man, a man has gotta be a man in cases like this, make the difficult decision that has to do with your future.

Good analysis

anochuko01:
This OP would be a proud human being.
out of all the issues at hand, it was your deflated ego that pained you...

I think you are wrong. I understand his point perfectly well. He simply knows what he wants and she is not keeping up to that pace. My dear there's no time to slack..
All I believe is that he should have been patient to explained his thoughts to her at least and then watch her reaction.
But Op abet no dull yourself. She can't be complaining of money when and if she had an opportunity to change her situation.

SHE SHOULD GROW UP

coolzeal:
I still don't get it.. why is there so much pressure from the society on people to get married? For instance, the expectations on females are significantly overwhelming and they become more desperate in their 30's leading to unguided choices. Lets forget this fairytale a bit and enjoy what life has got to offer. Live your life and don't make it too complicated. Marriage is overrated.

thank you my brother. They have used unnecessary pressure of marriage to frustrate women that do not know themselves. Well I trust myself.. I enjoy every moment of my life. But I make sure I don't live a complicated life

BruncleZuma:
So, he's being bribed...?

Yes my dear. Obviously no case against him