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IronPants:
What is all these subtle talk about worth and class? This obviously carries an undertone of materialism. The concept of class is birthed from materialism which is exactly what you are pushing subtly with all your comments.
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Are you saying some girls are bigger than water and doughnut on a date which is going to last an hour at max?
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For christ's sake I am going on a date with you and not dinner with you. The whole essence of a date is stomach pleasure from the angle of the average Nigerian girl. You have gone a long way to prove that point.
Date simply means to meet. To someone. From the definition, did you see "to meet someone and eat shawarma or pizza"?



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In reference to your last mention, I can bet my left balls that I am older than you.

Don't even bother. The end of all this talk is materialism which ends up in class. That I have said in the first thread. It isn't compulsory to continue with the guy after the first date if she feels he isn't her class .

IT'S ALL ABOUT CLASS HERE

Laurene:
pls tell them ooo....date is not a money spending spree..

My dear, materialism has really done alot of harm

ImaIma1:
You don't know the person well and don't know what she would want. It's a time to know if you will proceed further

It's okay. We may all continue and flow with our different opinions of life. Cheers

ImaIma1:
A date, especially a first one is a time to know a person and if you will see the person again depending on how it plays out.

Secondly, 2k cannot even buy something basic to eat for two people. And the 2k included 500naira for her transport and 100naira for his.

Forget spending recklessly or being prudent, would YOU invite a girl you like on a date and go with just 1,400 to spend? Please answer sincerely

And what is so special about a first date?

IronPants:
See, personally, I don't live my life to impress any one or any girl. I will even tell the girl my budget before stepping out on the said date. No single shame.
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It's not by force, neither is it an avenue for money to be spent recklessly (guy's money).
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Seriously, if not for guys, some girls will never taste things like pizza in their entire lifetime. This goes a long way to show how gluttony and materialism is wrecking the ladies of this generation.
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He is smart and that's why he set a cap to what would be spent on a date.

SO ON POINT..

IronPants:
I do not know why you are trying hard to justify the path you have chosen to these folks here. Most of them have never gone on a date before.
Baby come my house na, baby come my house na is all they do.
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So they prefer you take a girl out and spend 30k on her in the name of "date"? Some of these girls have nothing meaningful to contribute to your life, these same girls would go home and start telling their friends about a maga they met once you start spending recklessly on them.
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You don't owe anybody anything, not even an explanation. What a world, filled with materialistic people and bunch of people with unhealthy sense of entitlement.
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You are smart and you should be proud.

Thank you. I was just wondering why he has to keep justifying his actions. Well he can continue responding to all comments for as long as he desires

Andrew3:
Whenever I happen to go out with my ethiopian babe and she know am broke, she would codedly slip some amount into my pocket to make the payment. I dont know why but she does it. She says it makes her feel better I am the 'MAN'

@Imama and @kunleweb.. This is exactly what I mean when I said there are other means of paying those bills without rubbing it off the guy's face

ImaIma1:
But with age comes wisdom.

2k for a date is totally unreasonable.

If you say so

kunleweb:
That's not arrogance o sister

Oga as I said earlier she could have made those payments without rubbing it off his face. Plz note that I pay bills on outings too. Moreover she mustn't accept the next outing if he proposes any if she feels the guy isnt her class or level based on her initial experience with him

ImaIma1:
The op gaspardd is conveniently responding to only people who cheer him on and support his actions. He cannot handle the truth and criticism.

And i don't know if evercurious is actually serious with her comment or just trying to get likes from the guys.

I m dead serious about my comments.. Too old to impress anyone

Jidibia:
Just listen to yourself, the girl ordered for what she wanted because she knew she had the money to pay. Did she say the guy must pay the bills? Which another day? If that guy wasn't put in his place, he will still repeat same shit in subsequent dates.

How and what do you mean by putting the guy in his place?

YesNo:
That was 25 furrrrrrrrking years ago and thats what we are holding on to as one of the biggest football nations in Africa.

I get am before no be property

My dear naa property ooh e no like say den never born you by that time. If not you for nay dry talk like this

Gaspardd:
I should have gone with 10k or my ATM?

Pls dont listen to such trash. Gone with ATM for what? First outing? Abeg rest.

prettysassygirl:
Stingy pig

But how is he stingy? My dear he isn't

Gaspardd:
She could have done it in a cool way, y'kno.. carry me along and shìt

You are right. There are so many ways she cld have done all that. But no she chose to be ARROGANT.
Guy you did the right thing by staying within yojr limit. Never feel bad for that

Lagbaja01:
You had a date with "miss independent"

I disagree. Not miss independent but I ll say she is ARROGANT. If the guy says he isn't with extra cash, why go ahead with the chops? After all there ll always be another day. And there are ways to buy such bills without rubbing it off on the guys face.

THAT WAS JUST RUDE

ogbonti:
Exactly. .... Afonjaaaaaaa

Oya, tribalists, make una come attack me, lol

Fyi, I am not Iyamiri Igbo..... lol

PLS STOP THIS CHILDISH PLAY

Sanchez01:
Abiola's source was never questionable. He was a business tycoon with chains of businesses.

He set up Abiola Farms, Abiola Bookshops, Radio Communications Nigeria, Wonder Bakeries, Concord Press, Concord Airlines, Summit Oil International Ltd, Africa Ocean Lines, Habib Bank, Decca W.A. Ltd, and Abiola football club.

He was also Chairman of the G15 business council, President of the Nigerian Stock Exchange, Patron of the Kwame Nkrumah Foundation, Patron of the WEB Du Bois foundation, trustee of the Martin Luther King Foundation, and director of the International Press Institute.

In 83, he teamed up with Shehu Musa Yar'Adua, Bamanga Tukur and Raymond Dokpesi to establish Africa Ocean Lines.

Not forgetting ITT... He was the model politician for me.

You dey mind that silly being?

Aurielfinizu:
So u mean the looting didn't start today..

I tot he was a good man

Pls go and read up from history and not rubbish from people who were in nursery school during the time of Abiola. To them every wealthy man is a criminal as if people are the cause of the generational poverty in their lineage

jayson87:
MKO how come this guy is so celebrated despite the source of his wealth questionable

Source(s) of his wealth were not questionable. Pls check again. He grew his empire

chukzyfcbb:
Truth be told, you will may find a man o, but most likely he would be in his 60's.
An oldie who needs extra love around him and has no much use of his wealth at that age is whom you are likely to go down with

men in their 30's and 40's are looking at girls in early 20's....It won't be easy for you maam

Then leave her to her fate.. All these unsolicited advice

SillyMods:
You can keep masturbating on every sad occurrence, deep down in you you know that Nigeria's problems didn't start today.

So sorry for you

Sapphire86:
How are you sure it's her mother pushing her Maybe she is pushing herself because she's overly exposed

But her mum introduced her to the industry at a tender age

blinkz4real:
I don't no y u women always think any man DT date u must marry u! Just pray DT u meet his spec so DT he ll marry u not dis gurlfrend 2 marriage entitlement mentality tin u have in ur head. A man can date any woman he wants BT wen it comes 2 marriage he chooses which amongst dem he settles down with. #argue wit ur torchlight fon.

But he can continue sleeping and dating her till the day of his wedding right?

Holywizard:
The issue is that u aren't seeing the girl's flaws. Imagine 8 piercings and tattoos, she's not the cooking type, a party animal. What if the lady is a party escort (prostitute)

Guy, I saw all those 'flaws' which the guy also saw. But why stay with her till the day of his wedding? You can't tell me that the guy never knew he wasn't going to marry her all through his wedding preparations. Why didn't he end the relationship and moved on with the one he decided to marry? It's called deceit and nothing more

lefulefu:
my brother its wickedness.instead of wasting lady's time why not just go for ur spec.ok me for example i like gehls who are average in size so then will it make sense for me to go for a lady as large as Eniola Badmus and be forcing her to reduce her weight? it wont make sense nau .all i had just do is go for a gehl that is my spec.

Thank you my brother. Let them keep justifying wickedness and deceit.

I only blame the lady for trying to change for someone's sake. Guys marry prostitutes. Some marry virgins and some the semi type. Always be yourself and whoever loves you ll go for you.

I m not an advocate of wayward lifestyle cos I m not. Neither do I intend to. But my dear whoever and whatever you are,theres always someone that loves you the way you are. Adjust or change your lifestyle cos you need or want to. But not because someone thinks otherwise. And when it's time for you to make any form of change or adjustment, you ll definitely know and plz don't fail to flow with the tide.

torqque7:
Deceive her How? Was there ever a place in her rant where she said the guy promised to marry her?he never promised her marriage so nothing like deceit here madam. It's NOT every one you date that you marry so get real.

Yes he didn't promise to marry her but promised to continue dating her till the day of his wedding.? Thank you. You Don try

Holywizard:
Dating mustn't lead to marriage. Reason like a human being

Yes it mustn't lead to marriage. But he could still continue with the dating till the day of his wedding? Wicked souls

Joshmodest:
Sometimes I don't pity poor people crying out that they need one help or the other , cos the moment they get the money , they'll also snub everyone who would need thier help... they'll even do worse..... Kiss Daniel started from the dumps he was a very poor upcoming artist , somebody that was so glad at the offer of 50k per month offered to him , now God has given him a good space , and kiss Daniel is just ignoring every upcoming artist and even cheating the one under him ......
Like I said before , sometimes don't pity the oppressed , for any slight change they'll become the oppressor....

Right on point. Sincerely I avoid them as a plague due to past experiences.. Any assistance from me is always from the safest distance

iammo:



Buhari and Ameachi are big bullies, they showed wike hell my guy Don slim down.

My dear no be say you lie. Sincerely he saw HELL. But good enough for him ,the people were on his side and very much ready to take bullets for him. Truth be told,the voice of the people is the voice of the gods

grandstar:
Deception is an attitude the True God hates.

He'll feel like the don and be hailed by many as a great player.

He'll hurt this lady he's married to as he has no integrity and principle.

King Solomon said something like, when you take something through deception, it first tastes sweet but afterwards, it will leave a bitter taste.

What if tomorrow this lady marries and she has a happy home, blessed with kids? Her husband is well to do and they are financially alright? How will that sadist feel?

And what if he's own marriage is plagued with problems? I've seen things and I know it won't end well with this guy. We should all be careful and fear God and listen to our conscience.

In the end, her being dished will be one of the best things that happened to her!

Thank you

NaijaRoyalty:
Olosho wants a decent husband after she don destroy herself finish with tattoo and piercing .

She's mad

No pity at all

How decent is the guy that was dating 'the olosho'?
Decent indeed