₦airaland Forum

pek:
With all due respect sir, you are been wicked and callous to your children if that statement is true. If your children can't enjoy from your wealth, who will? Your first responsibility is to your children. You fathered them.

Education and exposure provided are nt they enough to equip them? Every man his own method of training..Everyone must not act the way we or you expect..i ll do same for my kids

Atiku was right afterall... Waiting for February

Pumpido75:
Despite Apc shortcomings, it's still a better and viable option than Pdp. It's either a new political party wins the 2019 presidency or pmb continues. Things aren't as bad as haters often portrays it.

Are you sure?

Bizibi:
This is a new year,I'm not going to waste my time commenting on these idiots,let me just wait for the elections......

Lolzzz

THREE THINGS IN LIFE
Do not be hasty in these three: MARRIAGE, Business and Travel

Do not waste these three:
Time, Money and Energy

Like these three: Kindness, Sympathy and Cordiality

Hate these three: Injustice, Pride and Unfaithfulness

Love these three: Bravery, Gentility and Affection

Leave these three: Laziness, Too much talk and Hurried judgement

Value these three: Intelligence, Ability and Happiness

Control these three: Temper, Desire and Tongue

bantudra:
what the fvck is going on up north....??

Lolzzz..CONFUSION MY DEAR

truthsayer009:
Please educate me more on the type of consultancy that pays higher than Oil money. I am waiting.

Step up his game? You think anyone wants to be poor by choice?

Send me an email and i ll educate you

truthsayer009:
Both of you are not even serious at all. Do you think it is easy to just change Careers and start earning big bucks?Someone collecting oil money would still be richer than any type of consultancy whatsoever.


This marriage thing is just luck. You can marry a woman who earns lower at the beginning and all of a sudden, she gets a promotion and start earning Millions. What will you now do at that point?

She will now start misbehaving. No manner of logic can make one discover a woman who will misbehave with money except she already has more money when you met her.

God abeg favor me with good wife oo Biko.

So sorry your first paragraph about consultancy is very wrong..

As per the second paragraph, the man shld step up his game..

What i mean here is 'MATURITY IS KEY'

baralatie:
you matter small!
there is a neighbour whose salary is #75000 on Lagos state the wife is #1.5million oil money .how them won't to settle the place to stay is what brought fight.
last last the guy left the Lagos job and went into consultancy.see change of levels.the wife was now chasing the husband all over Lagos in the name of love

Correct guy

DONADAMS:
your woman collect 500% more than your salary..Oga you're in trouble if you don't get a better job

Thank you.. It takes serious maturity for a woman or wife to listen to her husband if she makes more than he does

luminouz:
Can u read what u posted up there and how mumuish it sounds??
Why most naija girls no dey get sense sef?

Pls read again to understand the wisdom in that. Obviously his wife isnt MATURED ENOUGH and fighting and talking over thaf salary isnt going to help issues.
So why shld he bother himself with that? Wisdom demands that he makes more money than his wife. That ll make him call the shots in his house..And trust me that rubbish ll stop

OR

As someone else suggested, he gives.his wife his own salary and makes sure she sends all including hers to her parents...

So what do you think?

Headlesschicken:
this is what happens when yuh village ppl finally succeed in using yuh destiny to play ludo,they say once a man marries a bad wife,even d devil leaves him alone... y would u borrow in d first place to get married?

To secure his investment.lolzz.. Cant you see that he even paid her school fees?

Vikky014:
i also did ,kidnapping of little kids of the alhajis and demanding for ransom is now d other of d day

Serious? Thank God poverty and hunger knows no tribe ..

post=74389226:
Lolzzz .
No more war!
We can see u dont av strenght for wahala.
Hehe.
So next time, don't just start it dearie.
Hugs

But you learn to be realistic... No reason person shld ve time for 'unnecessary' war. Dont you think so?

Vikky014:
i thought u wanted to counter it bt just found out it was sacastic bc i just returnd from a visit to a corper victim of arm robbery attack dt ws almost killed if not For Gods intervention happnd in katsina town

Thank God... Katsina used to be very peaceful and friendly. I served in Katsina town

DanDeeBoss:
Which are u talking about, "side guy" or "ex"??

Which one is 'side guy' and 'ex'? I m referring to having more than one guy at the same time.

post=74388958:
As e dey pain you, e dey sweet us.
Frustrated tin.

See as d tin don dey shed tears already!
Next time, you will know who to quote!

Lolzzzz....

musa234:
What kind of a human being are you? Always constituting nuisance here on nairaland.you are just too partisan when analysing issues that concerns politics. Let me ask you.Do you work for buhari or apc?

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DanDeeBoss:
Lol... Are you sure??

YES

post=74388749:
Lies from the pit of hell.
You can only deceive yourself!
Passed around the palace/streets kid!

Now, you've got the attention you seek so bad!

Just like every other female in your life have been passed around...�FRUSTRATED ASS

post=74388749:
Lies from the pit of hell.
You can only deceive yourself!

Thank you... Remain in your sphere

PUSSYHOE:
Do you want us to believe you haven't date more than one guy in your life? or cheat physically or emotionally on your man? why am I even asking Iike a lady will say the truth.

And YES I VE NOT. I ll advise you to renew your mindset cos everyone cant be like your past, present and i dont pray it remains your future.

Happy New Year

post=74387516:
Oh, From Fayose?!
Total rubbish...

Long jail time is still waiting for you this corrupt ponmo cutting man

WHY DONT YOU BE REALISTIC FOR ONCE? DONT YOU THINK YOUR ACTIONS NOW MAKE YOU LOOK LIKE A "PALACE JEST?

Nna17:
ffk, this statement is quite unfair.

It"s very fair

bamvik:
My advice - each time ur wife wants to sends all her salary to her people , add ur own salary so she can send it together . Make sure she sends all the money and thank me later .

WISE ADVICE

I ll advise you take your eyes off her salary for now and work on your own job search to get a better salary

PUSSYHOE:
They are all like that, hoes. No Nigerian girl is seeing only one man.

NOT TRUE

Skmoda360:
She-devil.....who go marry this one ?

Lolzzz.... Guess you didnt read up to know the comment i responded to

Lordtimothy66:
you are evil

But she is right on point. Cos thats what men want

royalamour:
Thank you for your contribution.

I will proudly say to you that I haven't cheat nor betray her trust in anyway.

She was in charge of my finances until 90,000 disappeared within 4 days unaccounted for.

I have always tried to show examples and even her dad, the elder brother are have asked me to thread carefully.

I am no saint but I tried to be a noble man.

Thank you.

YOU KNOW YOUR FAULT? YOU RE TOO NICE TO A FAULT... THATS YOUR WEAKNESS AND SHE KNOWS

royalamour:
Met in 2014 November.
Dated for 11 months. All these while she was so homely and accommodating.

She would call to let me know about her movements even when I did not ask for.

She would apologize at any slight opportunity.

It was all rosy.

The parents kept calling and advising me not to let other ladies win me over.

They would visit or call my parents at every given opportunity and I felt "this is it".

We got married almost a year later.

The first 2 weeks of the honeymoon was smooth until the 3rd week and bam! there was disagreement about money.

She stabbed me with a knife though the cut wasn't too deep. It took me months to catch up with reality as the lady I was dating was a total different person.

That was the journey of misery and then it was nagging, disrespect and stuffs until I caught her on the phone telling her ex that she misses him and sh1ts.

I was devastated. This lady refused to apologize. She won't even listen to me whenever I asked to have a heart to heart talk with her.

I had to involve her parents and it was by force before she apologized.

She got pregnant and 9 months later she was delivered of our first son.

2 weeks later, my attention was drawn to constant beeping on her phone and when I checked, my supposed wife was discussing with another of her ex about how tight and intact her vagina was cos she gave birth through CS. And the guy used to be jealous cos he enjoyed the sex they had as she was always tight and shits.

I was devastated. I drew her attention to it and she denied feigning ignorance. It was when I showed her screenshots that she accepted and asked me to forget about it, that what has happened has happened.

She would never say sorry. So called her elder brother and he begged me and begged her to apologize, still she won't.

I reported to the mother. This didn't help matters. The aunts numbering about 4 had to beg on her behalf.
I let it slide.

Things got worse and it came to a point where she would not cook. Even times when I return home from long journeys, I most times will have to go into the kitchen to sort myself.

Mum got sick and I asked that she come to us so that we can go to bigger hospital for proper check up and hell was let loose.

She stopped cooking and would only cook whenever she desires.

Time past and my life became almost miserable.

I would close from the office and won't be able to go home. I would stroll into a beer parlour and while away time till maybe 10pm and would sneak out very early even before she wakes up.

Earlier in 2016, I had empowered her with 1.2 million to start a business and one dime I didn't see as return on investment with her citing low patronage as the reason for the collapse of the business.

It was until the elder brother who was staying with us asked her for money and she refused that the dude disclosed that she made about 2.6 million from sales of items and services she rendered in the shop she denied making nothing from. She could not deny this fact but for my son I let it slide.

My wife would bring her female friend into the home and this lady even when she was engaged to a guy still go out to sleep with other guys.
I asked her to stop been friends with her and she blatantly refused. She would go ahead to invite the lady into my home and rain insults on me because I don't want them together.

This final one was the calls she was making with her ex most times when I was away in the office.
I noticed and she couldn't deny it. I later learnt that her cheat of a friend was the middle person that delivers messages to my wife whenever I was around.

I can't take it anymore.

I don't wanna die before my time.

I can't eat in my house anymore as she threatened to poison me and nothing will happen. This was let out in a heat of a moment while we were exchanging words.

What's the express way to divorce without complications?

NB: The dad has asked me to quit before I start to develop HBP.

IS THIS A JOKE?

fk001:
. Go to Afikpo and see for yourself


I had a classmate his name is Muhammad Eze his dad is a chieftain in the east

Dont bother counting them as igbos... They are roo mixed like the philistines in the bible