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kunleweb:
I've been banned from.dating in my church. Too many aroundme,almost caused a family.rift between some.chicks. damn men of quality are the real.deal.these days

SERIOUS?

Monogamy:
Honestly I cant really say I am into her at the moment but she is @ least I am 60% sure.
Am I prepared to date a single mum( not even sure if she is married or single) but I dont think that's a problem only if she is matured enough.
She is not local I am only referring to not like dating anyone from my hood.
What do I want out of this? Probably nothing at the moment. I just want to be prepared whenever she makes the move. Sometimes over sabi kills

Oga why wait for her to continue showing greenlight? I wld prefer you walk up to her and ask her what she wants from you.. I believe you understand what I mean by that.Just listen with heart and head and from her response I bet you ll know what next to do.. Why the unnecessary suspense?

Unaa dey trouble una self too much.. I m a female and I prefer direct talks. I don't even mind helping out a shy guy if I notice he is too shy to express himself

kriss27:
God bless you

Very wrong dear..depends on individual

Onyemadonald:
The Corporate Affairs Commission (CAC) has disclosed that it registered over 69,000 business entities in two months. This was coming after the launch of its Business Incentive Strategy (BIS).

The acting Registrar-General of CAC, Lady Azuka Azinge, who said this during a media roundtable in Abuja recently explained that before now, the number of business registration they had in three months of the same period was about 50,000 and in two months, the number grew to over 69,000.

She also said they are still expecting to have a very large number of businesses registrations before the end of December.

According to her, the main aim of crashing the cost of business registration in Nigeria from N10,000 to N5,000 for a period of three months (1st October to 31st December 2018), was to enable massive registration of small businesses in the country.

“People are already asking for extension and we have just written to the minister of Finance to extend it for another three months. The initiative is being commended by most state governments are asking and several associations saying that we should please give more time to enable them register.”

She said the initiative was in line with the major thrust of the president Muhammadu Buhari's administration which centred on revamping and diversification of the economy through constantly supporting MSMEs. The CAC boss said the Commission has also provided a user-friendly Company Registration Portal (CRP) via its website which gives customers real-time access to the services of the Commission from their offices or homes.

SOURCE: https://www.trendingaccounting.com/2018/12/cac-registers-69000-companies-in-2.html

DO NOT BE DECEIVED.. FOLLOW UP ON RECENT HAPPENINGS IN THE BANKING SECTOR TO KNOW THE REAL STATE OF THE ECONOMY..ALSO CHECK THE STOCK MARKET TOO

THERE ARE NO BUSINESSES FOR NOW IN NIGERIA..EOD

kayjay69:
Exactly, case in point I registered 3 companies this year but it doesn't translate to employing anyone because I haven't gotten to that level yet, I'm still sourcing for funds. I think whoever posted this story is trying to have us believe there's a link between number of companies registered by CAC and successful companies employing people and making a profit. They are two very separate things.

THANK YOU

helinues:
Imagine how many people this 69k companies will hire.

Job lost and also job regained under this government

No be when business dey for the companies to do you go see money employ and pay staff?

My dear don't be deceived, you judge the economy based on happenings in the banking sector.. If there are businesses banks won't be having issues as we see and know..

THERE ARE NO BUSINESSES.. DON'T BE DECEIVED

marvin906:
My experience has made me to believe that and I wish am proved wrong someday

I understand your perspective.. I ll advise you take your time to sieve your friends(both male and female)now that you seem 'broke'.. Cos that condition won't be permanent and this is the best time to do that. I know SUCCESS has so many friends.. But we know that there is something like fake friends..

I speak from experience and I still believe in true and real love cos they exist.

Eaugusta:
No sweetheart, real men prefer ladies with brain and character

My dear are you sure?

Go check again

koyyes:
Jay z is married to Beyonce while kanye is married to Kim.

Study these men you have mentioned. They all have something in common.

You are welcome.

But we all know the truth is that most men do not go for brains.... They prefer the bitches

Ismaxtr3:
Bro leave them jawe, the girl kuku have nothing to offer than the breast, the pussy that has been bleeped by many d*cks , and the ass she doesn't even have.... I trust my real guys, they have been rejecting her that she had to voice out..
to the babe, work on your career, your body is not enticing to men, it will only entice us till we f*ck u out... YES... That's what you are for

Are you sure? Cos I see that you guys end up with them...

Let's just stop the pretence already

franchasng:
Men deceiving women since 16BC, brain ni, skull ko

So when you see a girl from afar, the first thing that attracts you or impress you physically about her is her brain that you are not seeing right Kontinu o, kontinu

Jay Z married Kim K for brain yes we know!

Adams Oshiomhole married Lara for brains too, we know!!

Buhari married little Aisha because of brains oh yeah!

Femi Fani Kayode married Precious because of her brains too, wow

Donald Trump married Melania because of her brains too

Anyway I love guys, we know how to make women feel good, so I am solidly behind you, brain and skull all the way

THANKS FOR BEING TRUTHFUL....

wasak:
I don't have a previous relationship. I still keep all the girls I've dated. Quite well, I've learnt never to go beyond your comfort zone for any girl at all, it's not worth it, I'm talking about Nigerian girls here, I don't know if Indians are d same.
Never ever close ur options always leave them open, the moment she sees a better person, you become a disadvantaged option, although she'll always try to cover it up.
Lastly, guys should understand that most women are emotionally selfish, even if they extend a favor to u, just know it's because they are comfortable doing that.
Lemme stop here... Currently I have around 4 girlfriends, so I'm not even bothered about anyone messing up. Don't ever put your whole heart in the basket of one girl. It's d worst mistake any guy can make.

I really don't blame you.. But the girls that re still there hoping to win a 'trophy' that might never come cos more competitors wld be added

chigoizie7:
That no girl can date just one man.

VERY WRONG

MariaLavina:
Oya let the lies roll in



Even those that follow slay queens up and down will start forming responsible

Thank you

marvin906:
long story..
buh the lesson from it is this love without money is bullshi.t..
second never give yourself to someone who doesn't contribute anything to your life

'Love without money is bullshit'... Kaiiii!!!! That's just too wrong

Estringx:
I do not blame anyone for the reasons why it is kinda difficult to find true love in Nigeria. But the truth be told, if you are lucky enough to get that person who is ready to sacrifice every thing just to be with you in Nigeria, do every thing in your power to take care of them. The economy we find ourselves have changed virtually everything about us including our adaptivity and survival. People no longer get married to the ones they love because of a limitation which is money precisely. Some girls tend to deny whom they love just to live a comfortable life with that rich man. It is not at all a funny matter, may be I haven't been to places. But as for Nigeria that I am presently in is alarmingly surprising that most girls, ladies or women want to marry for money. Everyone wants to live a comfortable life, the purpose of marriage doesn't matter anymore. I attended a church and the pastor said "marriage is not marrying someone you love but someone with the same dream". Up till date I hardly find people who marry for the sake of same dream thing. Survival has become the determinant in our world today. But where is true love? does this term still exist? At times, I don't even know the real definition of true love. Everything has almost become a mixed up. If I will live the rest of my life marrying someone for the sake of money, what about continuity, endurance and management after marriage? Will I be able to love and care for this person after math? The fact that we all want to live fine has overcome the way we want to really live. Everybody wants to be wealthy. I will never advise you to marry for money. True love requires sacrifice; you will not find that easily. You might not find someone who is ready to struggle with you. Most ladies want all ready made product, they do not want to know about the processes.







THE QUESTION IS HOW DO I FIND MY TRUE LOVE HERE IN NIGERIA?



#1 – FORGET ABOUT BEAUTY

Men are always the cause, when you set a target you don't get outside your target. A man that wants true love will not set a beauty contest target or an eight shape or curvy competition. All he thinks about is a Love that is true and rare. You will find one when you think like this.



2# – HIDE YOUR WEALTH

Most of time you don't find true love showing off. You end up packing all sorts when you are showing off your wealth. You hardly find yourself around the real ones, only fake ones who wants to spend your money will move close. Money doesn't entice her easily, she just want to be happy with her better half. Keep your money please but it doesn't mean you shouldn't buy her things



3# – LET HER SPEND FOR YOU

She will buy you gift unexpectedly to show you how much you mean to her; she will invest so much in this gift. She just want to choose the best for you to know she loves you so much. Don't go for a careless lady – she doesn't fear you. The lady who is in love with you won't want to make mistake easily when you are around because she just want you to love her more. But that doesn't mean she is perfect.



4# – SHE WILL CARE SO MUCH

She doesn't joke with your issues. She is up in the night to think through your problems. She cares a lot like she is on fire. She wants you to be happy just like she's fixing herself up too.



6# – SHE WILL BE RARE

She will be so different from those spenders you call slay queens. She will be their boss because she doesn't act stupid. She is born to be rare. All she wants to do is make sure she doesn't act careless or flown around men. "You can keep your money" is her best quote.



7# – SHE WON'T HIDE A THING

When she begins to trust you, she won't hide anything from you. She tells you all her past, she get to find a way to make you meet her relatives, friends and families. She visits your mother and take care of her. She is married to everyone linked to you especially your siblings if you have one.



Be very careful, marriage is a lifetime thing. We do not support #DIVORCE.

Source : https://www.mindmingers.com

But it's unfortunate that she cld still be taken for granted at the end of the day

Most guys come saying that they want an intelligent, homely and every good character you can think of..But they end up with the opposite of their focus...

In fact so sad to say that being a good girl doesn't pay anymore here in Nigeria....Cos the guys wild still settle for their 'Sluts'... Reasons best known to them

Epositive:
Little wonder for the desperation and vulnerability.
I think every person is obliged(or must learn) to enjoy his or her own solitude. This will not only protect you from external factor(person) but also give you a clear definition of who you are and what you need.
Also, identify the qualities you want in a man and stick strictly to it. This will guide you not to settle for less.(don't manage o)



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LadyBeee:
yes I fear being single and lonely

That's it... Pls learn to love and enjoy yourself ..
The rest ll follow

LadyBeee:
Admin please approve my post. I'm seriously troubled these days because all I'm meeting are broke guys asking for my hand in marriage. I don't really know what gives them the impression that I have money. I met one who told me bluntly that I should take care of him and if I want us to get married today, I should go ahead and do the necessary things that he knows I'm very capable. I met another one who started showing me his account balance on our first date and what he had was just 7k in his account, So I asked him why he was showing me , then he said he just wanted to let me know his financial status. I didn't have a problem with that because I'm not after his money until I caught him going through my account statements on my phone, that was the day I ended the relationship. I met another guy who said he works with FAAN, I was so glad that my misery has come to an end. At least, this one has a good job and would be buoyant, but it wasn't for long as not up to 3 weeks, the guy asked me to borrow him 50k that he wanted to pay his school fees. I was confused and I asked him to explain things to me. He said he isn't a graduate and he's just working as a driver with FAAN and studying part time. I said it's fine but I don't have any money to borrow him. He changed his attitude towards me. What could be wrong? I'm really troubled

Lolzzzz.. Is this meant to be a joke?

Celebrityblog:
See all her sexy braless and cleavage photos HERE

Joblessness everywhere.

Lexusgs430:
You have a friend that is into fraudulent activities, he approaches you to open an account or series of accounts at your address...... Would you allow him?

But the guy said that he never knew his friend was into such... Guy shit happens

Lexusgs430:
Or are you saying he does not know his friend was a fraudster?

The friend got no job, but spending money like water........ Was it blood money or his father is a magician?

And what makes you feel that all fraudsters spend money recklessly?

My dear some are very very smart not to follow the usual lifestyle of fraudsters.... Moreover what happens to victim of circumstance?

Pope22:
Yes sir

Pls mind the advice you take.. Why ll money attract a good girl?

My dear it ll simply attract very fake people around you...I ll advise you pray that God brings a good girl your way now while you are still hussling... Cos when that money comes getting a good girl wldnt be that easy cos it ll take only God to save you from fake ladies forming good girls

SmellySperm:
Go and hustle my friend, ur money will attract dem

So sorry you are wrong...it ll still attract the fake ones

Pope22:
Bro, God will provide

GOD ALREADY PROVIDED BUT YOU TOOK THEM FOR GRANTED.. SO WAIT FOR THE NEXT AVAILABLE ONE WHENEVER SHE APPEARS

famouscargo4u:
I HAD TO GO BACK TO A GIRL I LEFT IN THE UNIVERSITY. ALL THESE SLAY QUEENS ARE JUST GOOD FOR GIRLFRIENDS.

And she accepted?

revolt:
She Wil never respect u. Simple

Not true

Saffi:
The reason why it works for him is because he is stinkingly rich, the submission will always be there. This can’t work for the average joe, just saying.

Not correct

haladadon:
it's better to marry a woman who's closer to menopause so that she won't be able to have children for you and watch her desperate to please you while you keep going for younger girls.

YOU SHALL BE SURPRISED

MGab25:
Being in the friend zone means you've screwed up, probably right from the beginning or just along the line. It really hurts and might go the extra mile to give you sleepless nights that you wonder why exactly you've gone wrong — while still going wrong.

In the friend zone, she’s feeling absolutely no attraction for you and she’s thinking of you only as a friend and NOTHING MORE.
It's widely believed that once you get yourself in that hell hole called friend zone, you're forever in the friend zone and that nothing you do can get you away from there.

This sucks but I know where you’re at and how you’re feeling about it; I'm here not just to prove you wrong but to also help you get yourself out of there.

Trying to talk your way out of the friend zone, attempting to convince her of what a great guy you are, why you’re better than that “jerk” she likes, and what a big mistake she’s making by not seeing how “good” of a guy you are is something that won’t work and won’t get you anywhere closer to dating her.

The phrase “actions speak louder than words” comes into play big time when you’re trapped in the friend zone because your ACTIONS are what put you in the friend zone in the first place.

This part one of the ways to get the hell out of that shit hole called "friend zone", seem to have in common (behaviorally speaking) how you can change your behaviour towards that girl so as to leave that dark and lonely room.

1. Accept That You’re In the Friend Zone – Don’t Lie To Yourself

– Accept the reality of the situation.
– Accept that YOUR ACTIONS put you there.
– Accept that you won’t EVER escape the friend zone unless you change your thinking, actions, and habits.
– Accept that, for one reason or another, she doesn’t want the type of guy you’re being and something about it doesn’t make her “feel” attraction for you.
– Accept that the only way you’ll ever escape the friend zone is to change your thoughts, behavior, and habits around her and all other women.
– The problem isn’t women and that they don’t appreciate a “great” guy like you.
– The problem isn’t the other guys who are “jerks” and “bad boys"
– The problem isn’t that the world doesn’t work the way it’s “supposed to”.

In any situation, acceptance is the first step to overcoming that situation.

2. Stop feeling sorry for yourself.
She doesn’t want a guy who has a “poor me” attitude and she’s definitely not going to let you out of the friend zone because she feels sorry for you.

– Don’t feel sorry for yourself.
– Don’t be mad at yourself.
– Don’t feel like you’re a loser.
– Don’t feel like women will never like you as more than a friend.

You’ll only make your mental state worse and getting out of the friend zone will become that much harder.
So when you accept where you’re at, just tell yourself, “Ok it’s cool. I’m not upset and I’m not going to beat myself up. I got myself into this and I’ll get myself out of it.”


3. Stop obsessing over her
If she’s on your mind the second you wake up, every minute of every hour of every day, and you’re constantly staring at her pictures on Facebook, it’s too much.
It’s kind of creepy and, over time, not healthy.

– Get a life and become so busy that the last thing you have time for is to think about her.
– Get rid of her photos from the “downloads” section of your phone that you stole off of Facebook.
– Stop stalking her on Facebook to see what she’s doing, where she’s at, what she’s posted, or who she’s talking to.
– Stop talking about her and asking about her when you’re around mutual friends.


4. Reduce the frequency at which you call her
If you want the level of attraction she feels for you to change drastically, you have to stop calling and texting so much.

You have to give her a break.
You have to chill out.
She’s not going anywhere.
You’re not going to die if you don’t talk to her for a while.
She’s not going to be worried sick that something happened to you.
You need to create what I’ve heard Frank Kern call a “pattern interrupt”.
If the pattern is that you call and text every damn day, you need to interrupt the pattern by not calling and texting her every day.
You need to interrupt the pattern of her only seeing you as a friend by disappearing and making her go, “Whoa. Where did he go? I haven’t heard a peep from him for a week.”

Not calling and texting so much will GET HER ATTENTION and interrupt that pattern she has of you in her mind.
When you catch her attention, she’s now paying attention to you more than she normally does.


5. Become More of A Challenge – Make Her Work For It
She’s automatically going to throw you in the friend zone when you’re WAY too easy.
She doesn’t want way too easy.
She doesn’t want you to lay down and say, “I’m all yours! Come and get it!”
It’s not worth her time if it’s not a challenge for her.


Have you ever noticed that she seems to be way more interested in the guys who talk to other women, have a girlfriend, or even a WIFE way more than a guy who’s throwing himself at her?
You ever notice she’s way more interested in the guy who has more female options and won’t settle for just any woman?

Well, that's because women are VERY competitive by nature.
They want the guy that all the other women want.
They want the guy who won’t just let her have him so easily.
You think women put on all that make-up and dress real sexy when they go out only for the guys?

They’re also doing it so no other “bitches” look better than them. Don’t believe me? Ask a very attractive woman who gets a lot of male attention. Women want to win and they don’t want other “bitches” getting what they can’t have.

So when you stop calling and texting so much, that’s your first step to becoming harder to get.
That’s showing her you’re no longer “in her back pocket” and you’re not so easy anymore.


6. Become more unpredictable
Telling her your life story IS NOT what makes her feel attraction for you.

– It’s not what makes her think you’re an amazing man.
– It’s not what makes her want to hop in bed with you.
– It’s not what makes her want you as “more than a friend”.

Telling her your life story takes all of the mystery, excitement, and wonder out of the equation and just leaves her with you – a guy who told her everything there is to know and now she’s bored.
Think about what makes someone so fun, exciting, and cool when you meet them and makes you want to hang out with them all of the time – it’s because you’re getting to know them!

If they told you everything there is to know within the first day of meeting them, you wouldn’t be as excited anymore to hang out with them and you probably wouldn’t have as much fun with them.

When you’re not mysterious, she’ll find you boring, dull, unexciting, she’ll have nothing left to “wonder” about, and she’ll automatically stick you in the friend zone.
SHE WANTS the fun and excitement of not knowing everything about you.
So stop opening your mouth about the details of your life.

Logical thinking convinces you that the less she knows about you, the less she’ll want to hang around you but the opposite is actually true.
The less she knows, the more “fun” she’ll have getting to know you.


7. Give a room to miss you
So when you disappear for a while and you quit calling and texting so much, you are giving her the opportunity to miss you, think about you, and wonder about you.
You’re interrupting the pattern in her mind and she’s feeling a void in her life because your behavior is changing.
Her mind switches from what she was doing to “What happened to...?”
And before you know it, she’s missing you and wants to talk to you to know how you’re doing, what you’re doing, and who you’re doing it with.
Women are very curious by nature and you must use her curiosity to your advantage in order to start pulling yourself out of that friend zone. You must stand out by being absent.


To be continued...


READ MORE HERE:https://www.yugo.com.ng/2018/10/calculated-ways-to-leave-friend-zone.html

Ladies could also be friend-zoned too

RTSC:
Have you ever noticed that ladies don't friend zone rich guys,.

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Some ladies do...

LordIsaac:
Hmmm...we shall have peace 20years after Obasanjo and his generation phases off. God will keep us till then.

'The gods' (God) cannot do for man what man can do for himself..


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